MARITAL DISSATISFACTMN AND SHIFTS 1N BHiL'D REJECTION Thesis for the Degree of M. A. MICHIGAN STATE unwmsm‘ mum H. zmmmm LIBRARY Michigan State University 1 a; c 1:; an, ABSTRACT MARITAL DISSATISFACTION ARD SHIFTS IN CHILD REJECTION by Kenneth H. Zimmerman This study was suggested by two prior findings: (a) that marital satisfaction, measured by the Family Concept Inventory (FCI), was negatively related to child density (number of children divided by years married) among married housing residents at MSU (Hurley & Palonen, 1967); and (b) that parents of three or more children made greater increases than persons producing fewer children on the Manifest Rejection (MR) scale when readministered by mail six years after this scale had been initially taken.as undergraduates in MSU Child Psychology classes (Hurley & Hohn, 1971). The present study was designed to ascertain if increases in child rejection are related to marital dissatisfaction. This problem was approached through mailing the FCI and a supplementary questionnaire concerning demographic, sociological, and other variables considered relevant to changes in child-rearing attitudes to 93 former MSU students who had taken the MR scale both about six months previously (by mail) and also about 10-11 years earlier when they were MSU undergraduates. Twenty-one males and 42 females supplied usable returns. Their MR and FCI scores were closely comparable to those of similar samples. FCI scores correlated negatively (g = -.28, £51.05) with increments in MR, linking marital dissatisfaction with the increasing rejection of children. Written responses to the questionnaire item "Since undergraduate college days, how do you think you have changed, if at all, in your attitude toward the utility of strictness in disciplining children?”, after being reliably classified into categories of increase, decrease, and no change by two independent judges, correlated significantly (3,: .40, pg:.05) with MR changes. This finding supported the validity of MR as a measure of change in disciplinary strictness. Parents of three or more children showed an MR increase which contrasted with an overall MR decrease in the total sample. The Hurley and Hohn (1971) finding of a monotonic relationship between MR increases and number of children (0, 1, 2, and 3+) was also confirmed. However, the general MR increase found in that earlier study did not obtain in this one. Child density was unrelated to marital satis- faction for this sample, as Figley had found with a more broadly representative sample in a Pennsylvania university community. Apparently the high.child density, low marital satisfaction linkage is a special characteristic of student families with children who live in relatively cramped low income housing, since Tucker (1972) recently replicated, in another sample of MSU married housing families, the earlier findings of Hurley and Palonen (1967). An elementary factor analysis of 28 variables derived from the supplementary questionnaire plus MR and FCI scores, yielded three major clusters focusing on MR, number of children, and age at marriage. These and three minor clusters seemed to identify a conservative versus contem- porary orientation, the former facet being associated with greater religious attendance, earlier marriage, and larger families. Also, Catholics made greater MR decrements than Protestants, a difference associated with higher under- graduate MR scores among the Catholics. Further research in this area might well attend to the conservative-contemporary orientation variable and attempt to ascertain if a causal relationship obtains between marital satisfaction and MR changes. gZ/Mj Committee Chairman Approved Date: 10/13/72 Thesis Committee: John R. Hurley, Chairman Donald L. Grummon Mary Leichty MARITAL DISSATISFACTION ND SHIFTS IN CHILD REJECTION by Kenneth H. Zimmerman A THESIS Submitted to Michigan State University in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of MASTER OF ARTS Department of Psychology ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS I wish to express special thanks to Dr. John Hurley, my chairman, supervisor, and advisor, for his contributions to this thesis and to my graduate education. I would like to thank Drs. Donald R. Grummon and Mary Leichty for serving on my committee. I also wish to extend thanks to Grey Larison, a fellow graduate student who served as co-rater, and to my wife, Janet, whose typing skill has been so helpful. 11 TABLE OF CONTENTS LIST OF TABLESOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO LIST OF FIGURESOOOOOO00.00.000.000...00.000.00.000. anRODUCTIOI‘IOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOIOO.IOOOOOOOOOOOOOO0.00. I‘ETHODOOOQOOOOOOOOO00.000.00.000...OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO RESULTSOOOOCOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO0.0.0.0....0000000 Sample AttributeSOO0.0..OOOOOOOOOOCOOOOOOOOOOO hm ChangeSOOOOOO0...OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO0.. Religion-.00.00.00.00.0000IOOOOOOOOOOOCOOOOOOO. Subjective Questionnaire...................... Elementary Factor Analysis.................... Content Of Clusters.........................o. MR and FCI Means Compared with Other Samples.. DISCUSSIONOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO0.000000000000000000000 The Meaning of MR Changes..................... The Central Finding: Linkage between MR Change arid the FCIOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOI. The Issue of Child Density.................... Peripheral Findinssoooooo00000000000000.coo... Implications for Future Research.............. REFEquCESOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO0.0... APPENDICES A. Child Behavior Inventory.................. B. Research Feedback Eaterial................ C. Family Concept Inventory.................. D. General Information FormOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO E. Letter Accompanying Questionnaires........ F. Return Postcard........................... 111 Page iv 0-. n) .n-auma CD \D—q¢¢0u30“fl U1 k» '0 <3 NHDR)N #«NNHD h) 53 29 34 37 39 40 LIST OF TABLES TABLE Page 1. Means and Standard Deviations.................. 7 2. Intercorrelations among Selected Variables for Men and Women Combined......................... 8 30 Mean Changes in MR scoresooooooooooooooooone... 10 4. Selected Means by Religion..................... 11 iv LIST OF FIGURES FIGURE Page 1. Relationships of Variables Found by Modified Elementary Factor Analysis................... 16 Introduction This study was concerned with one aspect of the ways in which parents, marriage, and children influence each other, particularly in regard to the child-rearing attitudes of parents. As noted by Walters and Btinnett (1971), much has been written about the effects of parents and their marriages on the personalities of children, but little on the effects of children on their parents. One aspect of the effects of children on parents that has been investigated is the effect of number of children and child density on marital satisfaction. Child density, defined by Hurley and Palonen (1967), is the number of child- ren divided by the number of years married. Hurley and Palonen, using 40 couples in a Michigan State University (MSU) married housing unit, found that marital satisfaction had a significant negative correlation (5,: -.39, p<:.05) with child density. Marital satisfaction was measured with the combined T-scores of the Locke-Wallace scale and the Family Concept Inventory (FCI), a multiple-choice instrument described in the method section of this paper. Tinker (1972) observed a similar correlation (3.: -.35, 2<:.10) several years later in another study of 24 couples from the MSU married housing unit. Neither Hurley and Palonen nor Tinker found a significant correlation between number of children 2 and marital satisfaction, suggesting that the impact of several small children at one time is much more important than the number of children alone. The negative findings of Figley (1971) in an attempted extention of the Hurley and Palonen (1967) study to a more heterogeneous pOpulation support this conclusion. For a sample of 92 university faculty and staff members and spouses married an average of 15.9 years, Figley found a correlation of .02 between child density and the Locke-Williamson Marital Adjustment Question- naire. Investigating the impact of children on child-rearing attitudes, Hurley and Hohn (1971) compared the child-rearing attitudes of 75 former university students with their atti- tudes as eXpressed six years earlier while enrolled in an MSU undergraduate psychology course. Unlike similar atti- tudinal variables of Cverprotection and Achievement Pressure, which decreased over the interval, Manifest Rejection (MR) increased over this period, especially for those producing three or more children. With the exception of this study, the present search of the literature shows this to be an unexplored area of research. 5 Decade Review of Family Research and Action (Broderick, 1971), reviewing most of the research in the area of family behavior for the 1960's, contains no reference to the influence of children on parental child-rearing attitudes. The studies cited show a negative relationship between child-rearing experience and both marital adjustment (Hurley and Palonen, 1967) and attitudes toward children (Hurley and 3 Hohn, (1971). This suggests that marital dissatisfaction and manifest rejection of children would tend to occur together. The present study was designed to test that hypothesis. Method With data gathered recently by Hurley, the Hurley and Hohn (1971) study was replicated with a sample of 93 former university students who had been tested with the Child Behavior Inventory while taking undergraduate courses in child psychology, communication skills, and physics. They were tested again by mail after a 10-11 year interval. Current addresses were obtained from the files of the university alumni office. These g3 were used for this study. The Child Behavior Inventory, developed by Hurley from original items and items from instruments by Shoben (1949) and Mark (1953), consists of 1A9 items offered with "strongly agree, mildly disagree, neither agree nor disagree, mildly disagree, and strongly disagree” response alternatives designed to reflect parental attitudes on dimensions of MR, Overprotection, Achievement Pressure, and Overindulgence (see Appendix A, page 29). The MR scale, which was central to this study, consists of 30 items randomly placed within the Child Behavior Inventory. MR was defined by Hurley and Hohn as ...the general tendency to assume a negative and punitive stance toward children. It was repre- sented by items endorsing behaviors which minimize 4 or restrict contact with children, inhibit the child's legitimate demands for attention and con- siderate care or would impose harsh sanctions. (1971, p. 325) Test-retest reliability of the short initial version of the Child Behavior Inventory used by Hurley and Laffey (1957) was .68 for a 20 item MR over a ten-week period. For Hurley and Hohn (1971), the test-retest correlation was .37 over a six-year interval for a 36 item MR scale. Using a revised, 30 item version of the MR scale balanced for agreement (15) and disagreement (15) statements, Hurley (1965) found that the MR scores of parents of 204 third- grade children were negatively correlated (g = -.27, p<:.001) with the children's intelligence as measured by the California Test of Mental Maturity. In the same study MR was found positively correlated (r = .46) with the Punishment Index (From, Raider, Toigo, and Lefkowitz, 1963), a measure of direct parental acknowledgement of severity of punishment. The present §§ received a mailing containing infor- mation on the results of the research in which they were participating (see Appendix B, page 34) together with a multiple-choice variation of the FCI (see Appendix 0, page 37) developed by van der Veen, Huebner, Jorgens, and Neja (1964) and used in the Hurley and Palonen study (1967). This consisted of 48 items answered with five response Options similar to those of the Child Behavior Inventory. Palonen (1966) found correlations between the FCI and the Locke-Wallace Scale of marital adjustment of .72 for men, 5 .69 for women, and .73 for men and women together, and a split-half reliability of .85 for the FCI. SQ were also asked to provide information regarding date of marriage, birthdates of children, their religious denomination, and the frequency of their religious attendance. 0n the same form (see Appendix D, page 38) they were asked to state how their attitudes might have changed since college days regarding disciplinary strictness, protective supervision, freedom, affection, and achievement pressure toward child- ren, and were also asked to give reasons for such changes. Additionally they were asked at what age it was best for a person of their sex to marry, and how many children they would plan to have if newly married. These were intended as supplementary measures, on the assumption that they would reflect satisfaction or dissatisfaction with marriage and children. This material was accompanied by an explan- atory letter (see Appendix E, page 39) and a return envelope. Several weeks after the original mailing, a postcard (see Appendix F, page 40) was mailed to verify their willingness or unwillingness to participate by checking an appropriate box and dropping it in the mail. Results Sample Attributes Twenty-two males and 45 females responded, comprising 84%, 68%, and 72% of the male, female, and combined g; respectively. Of these, two females and one male did not answer the FCI because they were unmarried, and another 6 female was removed from the sample because she had remarried quite recently, leaving a total of 63 §§. Of those who did not respond, an incorrect address and persons indicating unmarried status on the return post— card account for three, and probably more of these were unknown to g, The average respondent was 31.7 years old, had been married nine years, and had 2.2} children. These and related data means are presented in Table 1. Most were Protestant and fairly regular church-goers. Two of the women were divorced and remarried, and one of the men was separated. The g3 were in a broad variety of occupations, commensurate with their educational levels as former college students. MR'Changes A product—moment correlation of -.28 (23:.05) between the FCI and MR change supports the hypothesis that increased rejection of children occurs together with marital dissat- isfaction. Most of this correlation was related to new MR, which correlated -.23 with the FCI, while the college MR had a correlation of .12 with the FCI. For women, the new MR correlated more highly (5 = -.32, p<:.05) with the FCI than did MR change. These and other correlations are listed in Table 2. Two-tailed tests of significance were used exclusively in this study. The overall shift in MR for the group was a drop of 2.63 points from the earlier mean of 50.76. Men shifted Means and Standard Deviations Table 1 Variable Total years married Actual marriage age Ideal marriage age A-I marriage age Child density Number of children Ideal # of children A-I children College MR New MR MR.change FCI Both 8.95 22.78 24.37, -1. 55 .25 2.25 2.46 -.22 50.76 48.13 -2.63 149.60 63 63 49 49 63 63 58 58 63 63 63 63 Means M33 9.38 23.24 25.56 -2.03 .23 2.14 2.45 —.45 59.67 53.90 ~5.76 147.10 21 21 17 17 21 2O 20 21 21 21 21 42 42 31 31 42 42 38 38 42 42 42 42 Std. .77 13.66 12.68 16.13 1.76 Jeane? .350 6.3 «a 6%. .3233 mm I m uncanny». .u« .0" one w .m meanedwer neesvep wa.l z .exoamom we aneowe no I z .03.; non.“ 33.23 3509 dungeon .33 “Eagles... 60. VB. 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The test—retest correlation for the MR scale was .25 (p<:.05), somewhat less than Hurley and Hohn's finding of .37, but not surprising for a time—span nearly twice as long. This sample did not confirm the findings of Hurley and Palonen (1967) and Tinker (1972) that child density is related to marital satisfaction. The correlation was .06 between child density and the FCI. However, the present data and the Hurley and Hohn (1971) finding show the same pattern of MR change differences among parents producing 0, 1, 2, or 3 or more children. MR change score means by number of childralfrom Hurley and Hohn (1971) and the §§ who received the mailing for the present study are listed in Table 3. Religion Means across religion for MR change were -2.25 for Protestant, -12.28 for Catholic, and -5.50 for those indicating no religion. The difference between Protestant and non-Protestant yielded a t of 2.14, (p<:.05). Means for college MR, new MR, MR.change, FCI, and number of children by religion are listed in Table 4. 10 Table 3 Mean Changes in MR Scores Number g£_Children Hurley and Hohn Present Data N* MR Change MR change NI 3. 11 11.2 __ 1.9 25 2 17 6.2 -3.2 36 1 22 3.0 -4.8 16 0 25 0.2 -5.2 14 *N's include males and females 11 Table 4 Selected Means by Religion FCI Number of children College MR New MR MR change Protestant Catholic None (:1 = 467 (a = 8) (gt-=8) 150.15 151.25 145.13 2.22 2.50 2.25 48.76 61.50 56.26 47.48 49.25 50.76 -1.28 ~12.25 ~5.50 12 Subjective Questionnaire The responses to the questions on how Sg had changed in respect to attitudes regarding disciplinary strictness, protective supervision, freedom, affection, and achievement pressure toward children were rated by g as increased, unchanged, or decreased in importance, and the reasons given for change were sorted into categories derived from examination of the data as follows: Own children: Other's children: Society: Self-change: Home-life: Profession: Mate: Reading: mention of coping with or attitude change toward own children. mention of other children known to the respondent or seen by him. general reference to the ills of the world and society, e.g. drugs, crime. reference to personal change or growth, more general than in specific attitudes. mention of parents' attitudes or behavior as important in own attitude change. mention of professional or work eXperience. mention of spouse as influence. mention of reading as influence. These responses were independently rated again for direc- tion of change and sorted into the above categories by an advanced graduate student in clinical psychology. Of 315 answers rated for direction of change, the independent rater and Q rated 290 the same for 92% agreement. or the total of 1008 possible category assignments (2 raters x 8 categories x 63 gg) for reason of change for both raters 13 combined, 216 categories were selected, and of these, 179, or 83% were identical. Following this proceedure, the ratings and sortings of the independent rater were checked for apparent clerical errors, and he was asked to re-rate the items with apparent clerical errors without reference to his previous work. This proceedure resulted in 98% agreement on direction of change, the 2% disagreement being limited to whether a given response was ratable or not. Respondents tended to ignore the instructions on these questions, and 34% of the items were unratable for direc- tion of change. Agreement on category sorting was in- creased to 96% by the re-rating proceedure. Of the five attitudinal change questions, only the one concerning the change in importance of disciplinary strict- ness bore a relationship to the MR change scores. Of 16 gg indicating an attitude of increased emphasis on disci- plinary strictness, 12 had increased in MR, and of 16 indicating decreased emphasis on disciplinary strictness, 12 had lower MR scores. Mean MR change for those indi- cating an increased emphasis on disciplinary strictness was +8.6 with a mean of -8.4 for those indicating a de- creased emphasis. The product-moment correlation between MR change and change in importance of disciplinary strict- ness was .40 (p<.01). The correlation between the FCI and actual-minus-ideal (A-I) marriage age was substantial for men (.41) but non-significant, while the correlation was .02 for women. 14 The correlation of .06 between MR.change and A-I number of children suggests that there is no relationship between these variables. Reaction to own children was by far the most frequently (#0 mentions) cited reason for attitude change, while the remainder ranged from six to 14 mentions, except for reading (two mentions). filamentary Factor Analysis Correlational matrices for men, women, and both were prepared for the following variables: sex; total years married; years of current marriage; age when married; ideal age for getting married; A-I age for marriage; child density; number of children; ideal number of children; A-I number of children; religious attendance on a five- point scale; increase or decrease in emphasis on disci- plinary strictness, freedom, protective supervision, affection, and achievement pressure (all rated plus, zero, or minus); presence or absence of mentioning one's own children, others' children, society, self-change, home» life, profession, mate, or readingixxexplanation of atti- tude changes; college MR scores; new MR scores; MR change scores; FCI; and time in months to respond to the questionnaire. An elementary factor analysis was performed as de- scribed by McQuitty (1961) except that significance levels were used rather than correlations, since the Q's for correlations varied widely due to missing data. This was 15 done as follows: A matrix of significant correlations was made, including those for men, women, and both, and the high correlations between obviously related varia- bles were deleted. The remaining data were translated into reciprocals of the levels of significance and sum- med for men, women, and both at each point in the matrix. McQuitty's procedure was then applied to the matrix of the sums of the reciprocals of the levels of signifi- cance. Ties were solved by summing the three correla- tions at each point in the tie, and using the point with the highest sum. Using correlations for the procedure would have resulted in the same analysis providing the fife were equal, since the highest correlations would have the highest levels of significance. In the present case, however, a nonsignificant correlation might be larger than another which is significant due to a lar- ger fl, Using reciprocals of levels of significance allows one to avoid building clusters of variables on large but nonsignificant correlations. Combining all three matrices gives more weight to the more reliable effects. The clusters formed by this procedure were further related by finding the highest correlation linking each cluster with a variable in another cluster, and Joining the clusters at these points as depicted in Figure 1. This procedure gives an overview of the strongest relationships among the variables. 16 / \ // \\ // \ \ ’P fession \| Disciplinary: strictness New F? ‘J £Z’FCI —’-—-—-——--—————\ [L’Others' I \ cnnmh M1'9“"’*1""*')"’can ren ---..___________,/ II I I I ! 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I ’\ "Q ' .1 . c . ' . -.I . I . ‘ _ . H . , ‘ s AMI _ ‘ I I ~ ‘ . . . .. . .. . “I,“ , . , _ I , _ . _ .4 . _ 4 . . A I I _ I . I . I . V ‘ I- n. I! II. ’- I . It. ‘ . x \u‘. 11.,\» ~ “ V ..g . I . I A . _ l. . A: 7" D 4.‘ 17 Content 2£ICIusters In the following description of the relationships between the variables depicted in Figure 1., all corre- lations referred to were significant at the .05 level or*higher. Three major clusters of variables were observed. Central to these clusters were marriage ages, manifest rejection, and numbers of children. The first major group is formed around the correlation (-.72 for men and women together) between A-I marriage age and ideal marriage age, which indicates that although ideal mar- riage age correlated positively with actual marriage age, the tendency to prefer an older ideal marriage age than actual marriage age was greatest for those who married latest. Thus, those who waited longest to get married thought it would be better to wait even longer, since the mean ideal marriage age was 2#.4, or 1.6 years more than actual marriage age. A general relationship was found between religious attendance, children, and ideal marriage age. Those more regularly attending church indicated a younger ideal age for marriage, although they had not married younger. The more regularly church-attending men indicated a larger ideal number of children, and a larger number than they presently had, even though their actual number of chil- dren was more than those of men less regularly attending. Men indicating a younger ideal marriage age also pre- ferred a larger ideal number of children, regardless 18 of religious attendance. Apparently those who go to church more regularly are more likely to seek to con- form to traditional concepts of marriage and family. Those with greater religious attendance also responded more quickly to the questionnaire and were less likely to mention self-change as a reason for changing atti- tudes in child-rearing. Self-changes were mentioned by those who would marry older, and by women who wanted more children and put relatively more value on protective supervision and achievement. Men who men- tioned home-life as a reason for changed attitudes also preferred an older ideal marriage age. In the group of variables build around numbers of children, the correlations between actual number of children, ideal number of children, and A-I number of children reflect the finding that the most popular (31 of 58) ideal number of children was two, whether the respondent had two, or more, or fewer than two. Having more children and thinking it better to have fewer correlates positively with mentioning one's own children as a reason for child-rearing attitude changes. For men, an indicated increase in the importance of affection correlates positively with mentioning their own children, but negatively with mentioning others' children as reasons for attitude changes. This suggests that those who have warmed up to their own children are more likely to relate their attitudes to them than to 19 others. Increased importance of protective supervision for men correlates positively with having more children, being married longer, and having scored lower on col- lege MR. Another major group is formed around MR. Those who mentioned professional experience as a source of change in child-rearing attitudes tended to have low MR scores. MR increments were associated with indicated increase in emphasis upon disciplinary strictness, while men with high college MR scores reported increased value on freedom for children. Influence of mate on child-rear- ing attitudes was mentioned by women who tended to have lower MR scores, and who had more than their ideal num- ber of children. Men mentioned society as a reason for attitude change more often than women. M§,and FCI Means Compared with Other samples The present sample seems quite representative of samples with similar ages and educational backgrounds in terms of MR and FCI scores. For couples with a mean age of 29.6 years, averaging about three years of college, and living in an apartment complex near MSU, Updyke (1968) found mean FCI scores of 145.3 for men and 154.3 for women, compared to 147.1 and 151.0 respec- tively for this sample. Mean MR scores of Updyke's sample were 52.5 for men and 47.9 for women, similar to the means of 53.9 and 44.5 for men and women respec- tively in the present sample. Palonen (1966) found 2O FCI means of 148.4 for men and 154.7 for women among 40 couples living in an MSU married housing unit. Discussion 2113 Meaning _o_i_‘_ MR Changes An important question concerns the behavioral cor- relates of MR scores. The import of the present find- ings is clarified to the extent that information is available on the relationship between the MR scale and the global behavior of parents, as well as the impact of such behavior on children. In the present data, the correlation (.40) between MR change and the ratings of subjective reports of change in emphasis on disciplinary strictness support the validity of the present MR changes. Other possible facets of rejection explored by the subjective question- naire such as lack of affection, protective supervision, and achievement pressure were not significantly related to MR change. To the extent that MR represents non-pathological strictness, the relationship between MR change scores and number of children found by Hurley and Hohn (1971), and supported by this data may reflect the need for more discipline in larger families, as well as a com- bination of the old-fashioned values favoring large families and strict discipline. Ernhart and Loevinger (1969) found a positive linkage between women's scores on Approval of Conventional Social Role and their number 21 of offspring. Evidence of an undesirable child-rearing outcome related to high parental MR scores was found by Hurley's (1965) study of parental MR and children's intelligence. The correlation (.46) between MR scores and the Punishment Index reported by Hurley (1965) indirectly suggests another possible negative outcome, inasmuch as parental scores on the Punishment Index were found by Bron, et al. (1963) to be posi- tively related to peer ratings of children's aggres- sion. Melnick and Hurley (1969) unexpectedly found higher mean MR scores (3': 66) for controls than for child-abusing mothers (3': 54) although both groups of lower-class Negro women scored substantially higher than the present sample of middle-class white women (35 = 44.5). Limited information about the parental behavior of the control §§, a small combined §_of 20, and the likelihood that the abusive mothers, who faced possible court action, intentionally biased their responses to some of the rather blatant MR items (A naughty child sometimes needs a good slap in the face, etc.) severely limit the implications of this study in regard to MR scores, although the vulnerability of MR scores to defensiveness seems clear. 22 The Central Eindigg: Linkage between MR Change ggg.thg_§g; Because of the well-known instability of change scores (Bereiter, 1963), it is not surprising that the corre- lation between the FCI and MR change was modest. It would be surprising if it were otherwise, due to the problems inherent in repeating a measure over a time span of more than a decade. Like many similar change measures, the MR change scores were highly correlated (-.65 and .57) with the first and second administrations of the MR scale, respectively. The time span of nearly a year between the administration of the MR scale and the FCI tended to further reduce their observed correlation. Therefore, the significant correlation between MR change and the FCI suggests that a relationship not only exists, but may well be stronger than our methods allow us to demonstrate. A base-free measure of change (Tucker, Damarin, and Messick, 1966) has been designed which may help alleviate measurement problems. It would be desir- able to move toward such more sophisticated techniques in future research. .222 Lasts 9.1: sails. ____11>ensit The lack of linkage between marital satisfaction and child density in this sample, and in Figley's (1971) data, in contrast to inverse correlations between these variables in the studies of Hurley and Palonen (1967) and Tinker (1972), suggests that length of marriage and other factors may importantly impinge upon child density. 23 Both the Hurley-Palonen and Tinker studies used uni- versity married housing tenants, who typically have been married about five years, have crowded living quarters, minimal privacy, poverty-level incomes, and academic pressure to deal with. Adding several young children could be expected to stress a marriage much more under such conditions than in an economically established family with normal living space and job pressures. Future research in this area should con- sider these factors. For longer-married persons, as in this study and Figley's (1971), the variable of child density is less discriminating, since those who started their families late and have several infants have the same child density as those who spaced out the same number of children. A corrected measure of child density which also considers the ages and spacing of children might be more discriminating. geripheral Findings Greater MR changes for Catholics and those not indicating a religion represent moves from more extreme earlier positions, particularly for Catholics, to more typical adult positions. This suggests that while at the stage of no longer being children and not yet being parents, the role of the child was seen with considerable dislike by these respondents, becoming more positive with age and child-rearing experience. The earlier tendency of the Catholic group to score very high on MR 24 might be speculatively explained both as looking back at childhood as a somewhat repressed period, and looking for- ward to parenthood as a burdensome duty. The most saliant generalization from the elementary fac- tor analysis is the appearance of a conservative versus contemporary orientation encompassing greater religious attendance, younger ideal marriage age, more children, and greater ideal number of children, as well as other connected variables such as not mentioning self-change, shorter time of response to the questionnaire, and emphasis on achieve- ment characterizing the conservative respondent. Future research on child-rearing attitudes might consider the effects of the conservative-contemporary orientation of their subjects. lmplications 3g; Future Research The need for more information on the validity of the MR scale suggests numerous research possibilities, such as comparing MR scores of controls with parents of juvenile delinquents and parents of children brought to mental health clinics, or correlating MR scores of parents with teacher ratings of students on various interpersonal dimensions. In any such research, the vulnerability of the MR scale to defensiveness would have to be taken into account. The increase in MR earlier in marriage (Hurley and Hohn, 1971) followed by the decrease at nine years, as found in this study, may be related to the growth of mature parent- child relationships over time and increasing age of child- ren, and perhaps a decreasing need for discipline. Here 25 again, perhaps a better index of child density, corrected for the age and spacing of children would correlate more closely with MR scores. Decreased MR may also be related to the increasing age of parents, with attendant maturity and personal security. Interpretation of the trend over years in MR as mentioned, overlooks the differences in the two versions of the MR scale used to measure this trend. However, it seems unlikely that the difference of six items alone could account for a difference in MR change score means of 6.48 (-2.63 versus 3.85) between this study and that of Hurley and Hohn (1971). MR trends over years of marriage, and the correlation between MR and the FCI, may be related to the findings of Rollins and Feldman (1970) that satisfaction with marriage tends to decrease following the birth of the first child, hitting a low in about the middle of the child-rearing period, and then rising into the retirement stage. About half of this sample falls in Stage IV as defined by Rollins and Feldman, which is the point of lowest ebb of general marital satisfaction. Most of the remainder fall in Stage III. A cross-sectional study of MR, marital satisfaction, and years married, taking into account parental age, and ages and number of children, could provide a measure of MR trends over the child-rearing period as they relate to marital satisfaction. It has already been suggested that such studies might profit by considering the conservative- 26 contemporary orientation of the §g, economic and housing conditions, and a child density measure corrected for ages of children. The number of possible variables is limited only by the need to prevent the design from becoming unwieldy, and should be restricted to variables most likely to be of major importance. It would be simpler to plot MR and other child-rearing attitudes over time if §g,could be limited to those conforming to relatively typical economic and family patterns. For the present it appears that having more children, being unsatisfied with marriage, and increasing child rejection as measured by the MR scale tend to occur together, at least in certain stages or circumstances of marriage. Why they occur together deserves further study. It seems likely that those factors of personality and interpersonal competence that contribute to better marriages could also be expected to affect the quality of parent-child relation- ships. REFERENCES 27 References Bereiter, C. Some persisting dilemmas in the measurement of change. In C. M. Harris (Ed.), Problems ip measuripg change. Madison: University of Wisconsin Press, 9 Broderick, C. B. (Ed.) A_decade p£_family research and action. National Council on Fam y Relations, 19 I. Ernhart, C. B., and Loevinger, J. Authoritarian family ideology: A measure, its correlates, and its robust- ness. Multivariate thavioral Research Monographs, 1969, NO. 9.1. Bron, L. D., Walder, L. 0., Toigo, R. & Lefkowitz, M. M. Social class, parental punishment for aggression, and ggild aggression. Child pevelopment, 1963, 4, 849- Figley, C. R. Child density and the marital relationship. Unpublished master's thesis, Pennsylvania State University, 1971. Hurley, J. R. Parental acceptance-rejection and children's intelligence. Merrill-Palmer Quarterly, 1965, 1;, 19-310 Hurley, J. R., a Hohn, R. L. Shifts in child-rearing attitudes linked with parenthood and occupation. Qevelopmental Psychology, l97l,lfi, 324-328. Hurley, J. R. a Laffey, J. J. Influence of a conventional child psychology course upon attitudes toward children. Collected Papers of the Michi an Academ of Science Mtg, an We ters, 1579 ,‘XL' 1' 157, 99-30 . ' Hurley, J. R., & Palonen, D. P. Marital satisfaction and child density among university student parents. Journal p§,Marria e gpg_ppp,Famil , 1967, 2 (3), 483- IEHT"" ._____£L. .____I. .2. Mark, J. C. The attitudes of mothers of male schizophrenics toward child behavior. Journal p§,Abnormal and Social Psychology, 1953.7£§, 185-190. McQuitty, L. I. Elementary Factor analysis. Psychological Reports, 1961, 2, 71-7 . Melnick, B., & Hurley, J. R. Distinctive personality attributes of child-abusing mothers. Journal of Consultipg and Clinical Psychology, 1969, E, 746L749. 28 Palonen, D. J. Interpersonal perceptions and marital adjustment. Unpublished master s thesis, Michigan State University, 1966. Rollins, B. C., & Feldman, H. {arital satisfaction over the family life cycle. Journal p§,Marrigge and the Family, 1970, pg, 20-27. Shoben, E. J., Jr. The assessment of parental attitudes in relation to child adjustment. Genetic Psychology Monographs, 1949, 32, 101-148. Tinker, R. H. Dominance in marital interaction. Unpub- lished doctoral dissertation, Michigan State Univer- sity, 1972. Tucker, L. R., Damarin, F., & Messick, S. A base-free measure of change. Psychometrika, 1966, 1, 457-473. Updyke, P. R. Family and role satisfaction among young married women. Unpublished master's thesis, Michigan State University, 1968. van der Veen, F., Huebner, B., Jorgens, B., a Neja, P. Relationships between the parents' concepts of the family and family adjustment. American Journal 2; Orthopsychiatpy, 1964, 35(2), 45-55. Walters, J., & Stinnett, N. Parent-child relationships: a decade review. In C. B. Broderick (Ed.) A decade ‘9; famil research and action. National Council on Fam y Relations, 1971. APPENDIX A CHILD BEHAVIOR INVENTORY , 29 cans mum names The statements about children expressed in this booklet are both agreed and disagreed with by many people. In this soon, there are no "right" or "wrong" answers. Please read and then rate each of these statements as follows: 1. Strongly agree 5. Strongly disagree 2. 141le agree 1;. Mildly disagree 3. Uncertain Remember, there are no "right" or "wrong“ answers from our viewpoint. So please do not hesitate to express your personal opinions. It will be especially helpful to us if you will give an opinion for each one of these statements even though we realise that this will not always be a very adequate expression of your views. ~ " 1.”. 'sdicate our o inicns on the accoapsnying answer form by checking spat: if you sticnglypsgree with the statement of the same number; space 2... if you mildly agree; space 3---- if you neither agree nor disagree 3 etc. I» It 16 better tor chum to play at 11.. Children should usually be allowed home than to visit at the homes of others. to have their own way. 2. Children should be totem that pmnto 15. "Talking back“ to parents is about "know best." the worst thing that a child can do. A*3o It in hard to make some children really - 16. Children should not keep secrets "feel had." from their parents. h. Children should be neat and orderly at 17. It 19 very important that young boys all times. and girls not be allowed to see each - other comletely made. 5. Children will begin walking when ready for it whether given special training or 18. Ordinarily argumnts and fights not. ' V breaking out among children are best handled by the children without adult 6. Women who like parties are often good intervention. mothers. 19. Children should not be permitted to 7. Parents should not take it upon then- play in the living room. selves to decide exactly how such a child is to eat. 13* 20. Children do not "act lazy" without some important reason. 8. Four-year-olds should know enough to keep their clothes clean. 21. Much freedom tends to make children "wild." 9. If a father punishes a child without good reason, the mother should stand up Ds22. Sneakiness in children is usually for the child's rights. the result of faulty training methods used by their patents. 10. Parents should sacrifice everything for their children. 23. A good mother regularly shelters her children from life ' s little difficulties 11. Children should generally be encour- md to choose their om playmates. D e214. If an infant dislikes a certain food, the parent should not insist that it be 12. The comer children are toilet-trained, eaten. the better. 25'. Sheeting children in front of their 13. Parents should protect their children friends 1. ‘ good W to m then be- from exposure to extremely difficult have. tasks. r 30 26. Children should be taken to and from school by parents until about age 8 just to make certain that they avoid accidents. -2- Mt. host reports which parents hear from other about a child's misconduct are exaggerated. 27. Boys should be allowed to play with pins. Very strict discipline can destroy dolls and carriages if they desire to. 26. Parents should not closely follow a policy of siding with their own child in its disputes with other children or “ult’e what might have developed into a fine ”moan-it"s b6. Children should be allowed to nurse from the breast or bottle as long as they like. 29. A mum should not shower her child D*h?. Often it is a mistake to punish the with praise at all time. as 30. Most children need some of the natu- ral meanness taken out of them. child who has Just done something very bad. hfi. Children should be permitted to keep ' secrets from their parents. 31. Parents should close their eyes to the faults of their own children. 32. Children should occasionally be al- lowed to try out new things without parental supervision. 33. Children who are continuously “kept after" rarely amount to much as adults. 3);. An older child who wets the bed should be shamed. 35. A child should not be protected from , jobs which might be very tiring or tax- ing. 36. Spanking very little children is about the only way that they can be taught not to run into the street. 37. Older children are more fun than babiaae 38. Children should be encouraged to think for themselves even though this may create more problems for their parents. 39. Physical punishment of children should be avoided. ho. Parents should make sure that their own children win at games. hl. Children will neglect their school- D*h9. It is healthy for children to some- teimes express anger toward their parents. 50. when parents are entertaining, chil~ dren should be "seen but not heard." 51. Even older children should sometimes be allowedtoplaywith focdduring family male. 52. In raising children, one's feelings are generally a better guide than are a carefully thought-out set of rules. 53. If it is avoidable, a mother should never be separated from her child. 51;. It is good for neighbors to reprimand or mildly punish children who are misbe~ having. 55. Early weaning and toilet-training are important in preparing children for life. 56. Parents should not require their chil- dren to undertake very difficult tasks. 5?. It is the duty of parents to make certain that their children play only with the ”right kind" of youngsters. 58. Jealousy among brothers and sisters is a very comcn thing. work if parents do not keep after them. D*59- It is good for children to sometimes D* 1.2. Children should not be punished for their exploratory sex plw. A"‘10. Children shouldncthe allowedto -JLL LL-..“ ‘4.”n“- - #‘_‘-‘ ”talk back” to parents. 60. For their om sake children should be pressed by parents to excel in school. q a i ,. . a .. ‘ a a a i . s . a . i . . r u r . a u v . e e . v- . v t . o . I n. e .‘ v v . n . a o .9 A. . . |. . . i . , . , . A a . o n . \ . v . . a . . s a . s a . a w . . a . . a s a o . a a . . I a a u f . . ‘ .- a a a a "l at! W." . . a . '\ I V a‘\ A. l y a v ax. ‘ . A I.x . 'ua . a . a .. a v r O , a. . u... can a - . .. ‘ u. . a la a n I a Q . v. a l a . . a a s . a . . v .I. r. c n . . a . . i . u .. e i . n - en.- av w . . .Ia . . . . ..., . . v a 1. . .‘ u I a I a l a a . Cu. . . a .c a . I A v 3* 61. When children Msbehave it is their parents who are really at fault. 62. Even the best parents sosetines feel very angry toward their children. 63. Children who do not keep up adth their classmates usually need special tutoring more than anything else. 611. Children should be allowed to scan- times make a real ness of things Just for the run or it. A #65. A wise parent will teach the child early Just who is boss. 66. Children are nest lovable when they are small and helpless. 67. It is not of such importance that a child canal in club activities, such as the Girl or Boy Scouts. . 68. The good parent never become angry, with children. 69. Children should be given a chance to try out as many things as possible on their own. A*70. Ioung children who simply refuse to obey should be whipped. 71. Children should be given such freedom. 72. The children of even a very watchful parent will have any accidents. 73. Children should not be expected to take very good care of their toys. 5*?!» Fire and strict discipline makes for a strong character in later life. 75. Some children have ways of making parents lose their temper. 13* 76. Eat children enjoy helping their parents. 77. Children should have the right to pig with whom-so-eve'r they please . 78. Children should be given the inroa- sion that their parents know "most every- thing. 31 -3- 80. Almost any child who is not plain lasy can do well in schoolwork if they really try. 2.. Parents should permit children asdirtyastheywishonce‘inavanile. get 82.0nereasonwhyitisssdtoseechil- drengrowup is thattheyneedyoumre when they are babies. 83. than children do not eat well it helps to tell than how nicely other chil- dren eat. 8h. It is unwise for parents to adadt their own Metakea to children. 85. Few parents worry about hurting their babies while handling them. 66. If children are quiet for very long, it is a good idea to check up on then. 87. A child should be encouraged to pro- test if it feels that it has been treated unfairly. 88. It is very isportmt for parents to feel that their own children are well- dressed and attractive . 89. Children should be trained early to keep their toys in order at all times. 90. Parents should watch their children closely at all times. 91. Only the foolish parent will attempt to make sure that they know their child's innermost thoughts. 92. A good parent intercedes immediately if other children start picking upon their child. 93. It is unreasonable to enact that a child will stick up for parents when the parents are in the wrong. 91;. Even when children are very slow in getting dressed, parents should not do 95. Parents should not "gin until it hurts" to their children. Air 96. A great deal of discipline is neces- 79. It takes a lot of "reminding" to get children to do things right. sary for the proper training of children. 2 97. The sooner children realise that they3 must fight their own battles, the better. 98. Most children can talk very little by the age of 12 months. 99. It would be better if school teachers were less strict. 100. The best children are those who show great affection for their parents. 101. Two-year-olds are easier to manage than are six-year-olds. 102. A child should be weaned away from the breast or bottle as soon as possible. 103. It is all right for a parent to sleep with a child because this gives the child a feeling of being loved and wanted. A* 122. A naughty child sometimes needs a 10’... Four-year-olds are too young to be expected to keep their toys in order. 105. Children should be protected from learning about sex. 106. It is foolish to push children to stand upon their own feet in life at the earliest possible age. 107. Even very good children will fight with others upon occasion. A" 121. 4,- 116. Sometimes it is best to coax chil- dren into doing things. 11?. ‘Children who always obey their par- ents do not grow up to become the more desirable kind of adults. 11* 118. Children should be spanked for temper tantrums. 119. Even the best parents make new mistakes in the handling of their chil- dren. 13* 120. It is normal and healthy for chil- dren to occasionally disobey their parents. Most children get more kindness and sympathy than is good for them. good slap in the face. DIt 123. Spanking children generally does more harm than good. 121:. By the age of 7 most children are old enough to spend part of the smear away from home in a camp. 125. Young people should choose employ- ment which they really like regardless of their parents' views. 108. Devoted parents may still have time A* 126. When parents speak, children should for an active social life. 109. Slapping children imadiately when they get into mischief is the best way to end it quickly. 110. Children should believe whatever their parents tell them. obey a 127. Parents should expect to give up their own happiness for that of their children. - 129. Good parents never feel disgusted toward their children. 111. After punishing a child. parents flat-DelBO. An intelligent child who does poorly urally want to make up for it by giving the child everything it wants. 112. Parents often worry that others may play too roughly with their little ones. 113. It is foolish to expect three-year- olds to set everything on their plates. 111;. Children should never undertake some- thing new without the consent of parents. 115. Most good parents will occasionally strike a child for misbehavior. in school work should not be shamed. 131. Parents should not prevent children from playing in common games and sports even though they think that the young- sters might get hurt. 132. Children should not annoy parents with \miaportant problems. 133. Children who are several years old should never be "babied." 11* 131;. The sooner that childreh wweaned from emotional ties with their parents, the better they will handle their own problems. 135. Children must learn to do things without alwws waiting for their parents' approval. 136. Most children need more discipline than they get. 137. Good parents should do their best to guard their children against disappoint- manta. 138. It is a mother's duty to know Just about everything that her children are thinking about. 139. Ioung people should not marry with- out the approval of their parents. 1M). No child is Just naturally bad. lhl. Most children should hm msic or other special lessons. A”11.142. Children are actually happier under strict training than they are under more lenient training. Form SA, September 1958 . -5. 11.3. Special after-school activities are of greater character-building value to the child than is ordinary neighborhood play. lhh. Children should seldom he expected to be neat and orderly. 1115. Very few children complete bowel training by the age of 15 months. A*1h6. Babies rarely cry Just "to get attention." D*1h7. Making a child feel wanted and loved is the surest way to obtain good behavior. 1148. Shaning a child before friends is likely to cause more trouble than it dOOB SOOde As 1149. Children met be continuously "kept after" if they are to get somewhere in . life later on. 150. Children should not be permitted to leave toys strewn about the house. Items of MR scale scored for agreement. Items of MR scale scored for disagreement. #61: JRH APPENDIX B RESEARCH FEEDBACK MATERIAL 34 BRIEF SUMMARY OF CHANGES (1958—1969) ON CHILD-REARING ATTITUDE VARIABLES John R. Hurley, Dept. of Psychology, Michigan State University This is a brief overview of how the respondents, as a group, generally shifted in their 1969 responses to the items of the child—rearing questionnairEfrom the responses made by these same persons as MSU undergraduates in 1958-59. Many individuals shifted in directions opposite to these general trends, although this summary will deal only with these major trends. Generally there was a clear shift toward lower scores on all four attitude dimensions This trend was sharpest on variables I (Achievement Pressure) and II (Over- protection), as the typical respondent shifted toward lessened Achievement Pressure and lowered Overprotection by about 10 points. A less dramatic but similar change occurred on the shorter (23 items versus 30 items on all other attitude scales) scale IV (Overindulgence), where the typical respondent shifted downward by 3+ points. The changes on all three of these scales were statistically significant, or of such magnitude and consistency that they are unlikely to represent chance differences. No identifiable linkages between the number of children produced by the respondents over this lO-1l year interval and shifts on scales 1, II, and IV occurred. A less consistent and less reliable downward shift also occurred on variable III (Manifest Rejection). While the typical respondent shifted about 3 points downward on this measure, so manyindividuals shifted in the opposite direction that this overall downward trend was not statistically reliable. Another aspect of shifts on Manifest Rejection was that changes on this measure were linked to number of children produced over this 10-11 year interval. Thus, the 25 respondents producing 3 or more children showed an average increase of 1.9 points, while all other groups showed average decreases. Also the 36 producers of 2 children decreased an average of 3.2 points, the 16 parents of one child decreased an average of 4.8 points, and the 14 non-parents dropped an average of 5.2 points. This atypical shift of Manifest Rejction confirmed a similar trend in preliminary studies (Hurley & Hohn, in press). With many individual exceptions, it appears that persons who produce larger numbers of children over this 10-11 year interval tend to swing toward more strict disciplinary policies than do those who have fewer children. In summary, notable changes were observed on all four variables. Respondents generally shifted toward a more permissive and relaxed stance toward child-rearing -- at least according to these questionnaire measures -- since undergraduate days. Manifest Rejection scores constitute a major exception to this trend, as respond- ents who produced three or more children, especially mothers, shifted in the opposite direction of adopting a stricter disciplinary policy. REFERENCES Hurley, J. R., & Hohn, R. L. Shifts in child—rearing attitudes linked with parent- hood and occupation. Deve10pmental Psychology, in press. Hurley, J. R., & Palonen, D. J. Marital satisfaction and child density among university student parents. Journal g£_Marriage and the Family,l967, 29, 483-484. Hurley, J. R. Parental malovelence and children's intelligence. Journal 2: Consulting Psychology, 1967, 31, 199-204. Hurley, J. R. Parental acceptance-rejection and children's intelligence, Merrill-Palmer Quarterly, 1965, 11, 19-31. 33::‘r13v T E Anhirztramnnl- Drnaanrno an ol-l-4rouAJnn1 nave-n1 nan-n A: nn‘l1 nnnnnnnnn a 35 THE CHILD-REARING ATTITUDE VARIABLES Measures of four specific facéts of child-rearing attitudes were deveIOped from the CHILD BEHAVIOR INVENTORY which you completed both as a student at MSU in 1958-59 and again in late 1969. Each item in this inventory was given with five alternative response choices: Strongly agree, Mildly agree, Uncertain, Mildly disagree, and Strongly disagree. The mix of items included in each of these four specific variables was such that respondents had to tend to agree with half of the items in each measure and to disagree with the remaining items in that measure to receive either unusually high or unusually low scores. These four variables were: I. A set of 30 items dealing with acquisition of a broad variety of social skill. Items representative of this series included: Early weaning and toilet training are important in preparing children for life; For his own sake a child should be pressed to excell in school; Parents should not take it upon themselves to decide exactly how much a child is to eat; and It ‘ would be better if school teachers were less strict. High scores on variable I tended to go with agreement with the first two of these sample items but with disagreement with the latter two items. The opposite pattern tended to hold for low scorers. The term used to characterize this series of 30 items was Achievement Pressure. II. Another set of 30 items dealt with how inclined the respondent was to view the environmental as threatening and dangerous to young children. Represent— ative items from this series were: Parents should watch their children closely at all times; It is very important that young boys and girls not be allowed to see each other completely nude; Children should be permitted to keep secrets from their parents; and Children must learn to do things without always waiting for their parents' approval. Disagreement on these last two items, but agreement with the first two tended to go with high scores on this variable. Low scores tended to be linked with disagreement with the last two items, but agreement with the first two. The term Overprotection was used to characterize this measure. III. Thirty items also constituted this variable. This series of items were concern- ed with general strictness in disciplinary orientation toward children. Items representative of this series included: When parents speak, children should obey; Most children need more discipline than they get; Often it is a mistake to punish the child who has just done something very bad; and Spanking children generally does more harm than good. High scores on this measure tend to be associated with disagreement with these last two items and agreement with the first two items. Low scores follow the contrary pattern. The term employed to characterize this series of items was Manifest Rejection. IV. Twenty-three items constituted this series. These items concerned how highly indulgent and affectionate the parent acted toward the child. Representative items were: ‘Sometimes :it is best to coax children into doing things; Parents should sacrifice everyting for their children; Four year-olds should know enough to keep their clothes clean; and A child should be protected from jobs which might be very tiring or taxing. As before, low scores tended to go with disagreement with the first two items, but agreement with the last two items. High scores tended to reflect agreement with the first two items but disagreement with the last two. The label attached to this set of items was Overindulgence. 36 MEAN+ CHANGES IN CHILD-REARING ATTITUDE VARIABLES BY RESPONDENTS' SEX & NO. OF CHILDREN CHILD-REARING ATTITUDE VARIABLES E” No. of Children _I_ I_I _I__I_I T! 19 3 or more -9.8 —9.3 3.7 -3.6 18 2 -ll.4 —lO.2 -3.5 -2.8 WOMEN: ll 1 ~13.6 --7.6 —5.2 0.4 .19 0 -9 O -13.2 —4 7 —2 4 58 -10.9 -9.9 -l.7 -2.4 6 3 or more -lO.7 -9.0 -3.7 -3.3 18 2 -9.4 -lO.4 -3.1 -6.7 MEN: 5 1 -lO.8 —lS.6 -4.0 —7.4 .3 0 -9.0 ~12.8 ~11 0 -12.8 33 «9.6' —10.9 -5.5 -5.0 25 3 or more -l0.0 -9.2 1.9 —3.5 36 2 —10.3 -l0.0 -3.2 -4.9 WOMEN & MEN l6 1 -12.7 -10.2 -4.8 -2.1 14 p 0 -9.0 ~12.8 —5.2 -3.2 91 -10.4* -lO.3* ~3.0 -3.3* *The probablility that this mean change is attributable to chance is less than 1 in 100. +The mean is the toal sum divided by the number of persons. the "general average.” Thus, it represents iIN symboizes "Number" thus, 19 former students had produced 3 or more children,etc. APPENDIX C FAMILY CONCEPT INVENTORY 37 #112 FAMILY CONCEPT INVENTORY Instructions: Indicate the degree of your agreement or dis- agreement with each of the following items as it applies to your immediate family (husband or wife and children) and encircle the letter(s) representing the appropriate response. First impressions are satisfactory, and most people are able to complete this inventory in ten minutes. It is quite impor- tant that you give a response to each item, even though it may KDCDNGUI#WNH ...a O 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. sometimes be difficult to make a decision. We usually can depend on each other. We have a number of close friends. We feel secure when we are with each other. We do many things together. Each of us wants to tell the others what to do. There are serious differences in our standards and values. We feel free to express any thoughts or feelings to each other. Our home is the center of our activities. We are an affectionate family. It is not our fault that we are having difficulties. Little problems often become big ones for us. We do not understand each other. We get along very well in the community. We often praise or compliment each other. We do not talk about sex. We get along much better with persons outside the family than with each other. We are proud of our family We do not like each other's friends. There are many conflicts in our family. We are usually calm and relaxed when we are together. We respect each other's privacy. Accomplishing what we want to do seems to be difficult for us. We tend to worry about many things. We are continually getting to know each other better. We encourage each other to develop in his or her own individual way. We have warm, close relationships with each other. Together we can overcome almost any difficulty. We really do trust and confide in each other. The family has always been very important to us. We get more than our share of illness. We are considerate of each other. We can stand up for our rights if necessary. We have very good times together. We live largely by other peOple's standards and values. Usually each of us goes his own separate way. We resent each other's outside activities. We have respect for each other's feelings and opinions even when we differ strongly. We sometimes wish we could be an entirely different family. We are sociable and really enjoy being with people. We are a disorganized family. We are not really fond of one another. We are a strong, competent family. We just cannot tell each other our real feelings. We are not satisfied with anything short of perfection. we forgive each other easily. We usually reach decisions by discussion and compromise. We can adjust well to new situations. Our decisions are not our own, but are forced on us by circumstances. I? In: mmmmmmmmmmmmmm g g a» :> > 2» MM» >>>>>>z> 'Strongly Agree aauaaaaaaauaaau: >’>->’>’>'>h>'>' SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA SA owwmmmmonommmm. lTend to Agree mmmmmmummmmw mbflbbflflflfl mummmmommmm m [2 222222222 zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz [Neither Agree 22222222222 222222222222 2 Nor Disagree gunman-ann- O-O-D-D-O-O—D-O-O-O—D-D-O-O-p-l'rend to Dosagree IO- O-Q-O-O-O-O-O-O-D-D-O- CLO-OaG-D-G-G-G-D-Oafiafin D- :33 IStrongly Disagreelg SD APPENDIX D GENERAL INFORMATION FORM 38 GENERAL INFORMATION FORM Your name: Date(s) of marriage: Birthdates of your children: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Your religious denomination: Please characterize your church attendance by checking one of the following: Regular Occasional Seldom Rare Never SINCE UNDERGRADUATE COLLEGE DAYS, HOW DO YOU THINK THAT YOU HAVE CHANGED, IF AT ALL, IN YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARD.......... l. The utility of strictness in disciplining children: What do you think has led to these changes (if any)? 2. The amount of parental protection and supervision which children need? What has led to your changes in this area? 3. The amount of freedom in such areas as verbal expression, choice of activities, and spending money that children can be allowed: What has led to your changes in this area? OVER, PLEASE 4. The amount of parental affection and time which should be given to children. What has led to your changes in this area? The importance of urging a child to excel in school and in _ physical and social development. What has led to your changes in this area? At what age do you think it is best for a person (of your sex) to marry? ~ I If you were newly married and planning your family, how many children would you want to have? If you desire more specific information about how your own scores changed over this 10 - 11 year interval on the Child Behavior Inventory scales, please check here: APPENDIX E LETTER ACCOMPANYING QUESTIONNAIRES 39 MICHIGAN STATE UNIVERSITY EAST LANSING . MICHIGAN $8825 DEPARTMENT OF PSYCHOLOGY ° OLDS HALL Dear Your response to the ISO-item Child Behavior Inventory was very much appreciated. Enclosed you will find a short summary of the principal findings. Our findings appear to be the only firm information yet available concerning how young adults shift their attitudes toward children between college days and ensueing years. This line of research has proven exceptionally fruitful, and we now feel a need to better understand the clear and interest- ing changes observed. Toward this goal, three additional information forms are enclosed with which we again seek your assistance. These include the Family Concept Inventory, the Attribute Preference Inventory, and the related General Information Form. The pre—addressed envelope may be used to return these. These instruments should require less time to complete, probably about 30 minutes, than the previous 150-item questionnaire. I want to express my gratitude for your help. Without it, and especially withoutthe candid expression of your views, research in this important but previously neglected sector of parent-child relations would be impossible for me. Sincerely, John R. Hurley Professor u a .. . . . I u u. . . . . u I \. a . . a . . . . o v . .l . s l . . .. ; . . n . . 1.. . . ... I . a I . s. . C I a r n a. u . . ... no u . C u. . I I .. . v C In . n . y n. . u I . u A . . u .u n a . . . . n r . t I . . . n I i. l. \ APPENDIX F RETURN POSTCARD 4O Dear H 6/ I70 Enclosed with the brief report of the findings of our research on how child-rearing attitudes have changed since college days was a copy of a new follow-up questionnaire. Because returns have been somewhat slow over the past month. this note is intended as a reminder. The attached return postcard has also been phrased so that you night provide me with some ”feedback" on that questionnaire. with niniaal effort. The number on your return postcard sakes it unnecessary for you to add your name. Your generous assistance with the 10 year follow-up study of last summer was most helpful. I also appreciate whatever the and attention you can give to this more recent request. Cordially. John R. Hurley. Professor of Psychology. Michigan State U. Hessage portion of double postcard m CHECK ALL ITEMS REIEVANT T0 mm mm QUESTIONNAIRE __ I recently nailed it for return. __ I intend to return it soon. __ It nay take acre tiae. but I wil return it. __ My copy was misplaced. but I would like a replaceaeut. I MAY NOT COMPIETE THE QUESTIONNAIRE BECAUSE: I found the report of prior findings unsatisfactory__. The following aspects of the questionnaire see-ed objectional: Family Concept Inventory__. General Intonation For:__. Attribute Preference Inventory__. Overall Package_. Responding to it would be too time consuliL. THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR IELP Return portion of double postcard S E R A R al. L V. .II. s R E w TE UN Ill(lllllllillllllllluullIllllllll llllillllllllllflmé 31293 03169 7216