; THE RELATION 0F PARENTAL VALUE ORIENTATSON T0 SELFv-ESTEEM. OF THE CHILD - §Wtion for the Degree of M; Ag. _ MICHEGAN STATE UNNERSITY. VINCENT JOSEPH HOFFMAN . 1973 ABSTRACT THE RELATION OF PARENTAL VALUE ORIENTATION TO SELF-ESTEEM OF THE CHILD BY Vincent Joseph Hoffman McKinney (1971) suggests that in addition to the parental discipline dimension (reward and punishment) affecting the child's acquisition of moral values, the parent's value orientation also has an effect on the child's formation of values. He describes two components, prescription and proscription, of this parental value orientation. Prescriptive value orientation stresses the "thou shalts" of parental demands on the child's behavior, what the child should do; and proscriptive value orienta- tion stresses the "thou shalt nots" relating to the child's behavior. One might compare the prescriptive orientation to the New Testament councils given in the Sermon on the Mount, while the proscriptive value orienta- tion would correspond to the Old Testament's Ten Command- ments. The prescriptive parent rewards the child for dgigg'what he should and punishes the child for not doing what he should. The proscriptive parent rewards the child Vincent Joseph Hoffman for avoiding doing what he should not do, and punishes the child for g2i2g_what should not be done Coopersmith (1967) showed that the child's self- concept is affected by the parent-child interaction, and, more specifically, that the parent as disciplining has an effect on the development of the child's self-esteem. The present study investigated the relationship of parental value orientation to the child's self-esteem. It was hypothesized that prescriptively value oriented parents would tend to have high self-esteem children, while proscriptively value oriented parents would tend to have low self-esteem children. To test the hypotheses, parents of 84 suburban-urban public school children (9-11 years old) completed a value orientation questionnaire, and their children were tested on Coopersmith's Self- Esteem Inventory. The major findings of this research were: 1) Par- ental value orientation showed no significant relationship to the child's self-esteem, either when the parents were prescriptively rewarding or punishing, or when they were proscriptively rewarding or punishing; 2) sex of the child had no bearing either on value orientation of the parent or on variation in the children's self-esteem scores; 3) the parent as rewarding had a significant relationship to self-esteem in the child, there being a negative Vincent Joseph Hoffman correlation between the parent as rewarding and the child's self-esteem. It was concluded that though the use of the present value orientation instrument did not bring out the hypothesized relationship between parental value orientation and the child's self-esteem, a variation of the value orientation questionnaire as well as the age variable of the child could possibly show conclusive results in line with the hypotheses. In addition, the research pointed to further study of the effect of par— ental reward on self-esteem in the child, as well as the direction of this effect. Approved: Date: THE RELATION OF PARENTAL VALUE ORIENTATION TO SELF-ESTEEM OF THE CHILD BY Vincent Joseph Hoffman A DISSERTATION Submitted to Michigan State University in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of MASTER OF ARTS Department of Psychology 1973 ACKNOWLEDGMENTS Dr. John McKinney Dr. Lawrence Messé Dr. Jean Gullahorn Dr. Anthony Olejnik Mary Thank you for your interest, guidance, and patience. ii TABLE OF CONTENTS Page LIST OF TABLES O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O I V INTRODUCTION 0 O O O O O 0 O I O O O O O O O O O O O 1 Parental Intervention and Moral Development of the Child . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Psychoanalytic Theory Explanation . . . . . Learning Theory Explanation . . . . . . . . Cognitive-Developmental Theory Explanation Parental Effect on the Child's Self-Concept . Parental Discipline Techniques as Promoting Moral DevelOpment, and Their Effect on Self-Esteem of the Child . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Prescriptive-Proscriptive Value Orientation . . . 16 The Present Study . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 The Relationship Between Parental Prescriptive-Proscriptive Value Orienta- tion and Self-Esteem of the Child . . . . . . 18 Hypotheses . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 o o o o o O‘LUMNN METHOD 0 C O O I O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O 2 1 Subjects . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 Procedure . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22 Instruments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 Child's Self-Esteem Measure . . . . . . . . . . 23 Parent Value Orientation Measure . . . . . . . 23 Statistical Design of the Study . . . . . . . . . 24 RESULTS 0 O C O O O O C O O O O O O O O O O O O O O O 2 6 Return Rate . . . .‘. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26 Analysis of the Data . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26 Relation of Paired Parent (Both Parents) Covariates to Child's Self-Esteem . . . . . . 27 Relation of Mother Variables Alone to the Child's Self-Esteem . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29 Sex of Child . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31 iii DISCUSSION O O I O O O O O O O O O O O The Value Orientation Measure . . . Age of Child Subjects . . . . . . . The Reward-Self-esteem Relationship Implications for Future Research . APPENDIX A. COVER LETTER TO PARENTS . . . . B. SELF-ESTEEM INVENTORY . . . . . C. VALUE ORIENTATION MEASURE . . . REFERENCES 0 O O O O O O O O O I O O 0 iv Page 38 39 41 42 Table 1. LIST OF TABLES Page Intercorrelation Matrix for Paired Parent Variables . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28 Intercorrelation Matrix for Mother Variables Alone . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30 INTRODUCTION The function of the parent-child interaction as being a direct and critical factor in the child's acquisition of moral values has been substantiated by a great deal of research, such that this factor is almost a "given” in most psychological theories which attempt to explain moral development. It would seem too that the child's formation of self-concept, more specifically of his self—esteem, is at least indirectly affected by parental methods of imparting values to the child. Perforce, because of the rapid social changes in the past 25 years and the resulting tensions within the family and on the individual in society, continued research in the areas of (l) moral development in the child, and (2) the parental role as affecting this development are issues of more than academic concern. Such research is of extreme importance not only to the mental health of the individual child but to his general development and to that of society as a whole. Parental Intervention and MoraI Development of tHe Child Psychoanalytic Theory Explanation Psychoanalytic theory has provided the main theo- retical inspiration and over-all direction for most of the research on the role of the parent in shaping and determining moral character (Freud, 1959; Hoffman, 1970). Basically psychoanalytic theory proposes that the child in experiencing environmental frustrations, especially with the parent, vents his frustrations in unacceptable behavior. The parent attempts to control such behavior and bring it in line with accepted social norms. The child reacts to the control with hostility but, for fear of punishment and/or loss of love, he represses his hostility. In order to receive the parent's love the child continues to repress his hostility. The result of such repression is the adoption by the child of the parent's rules and pro- hibitions. A generalized motive is formed in the child to emulate and adopt the inner state of the parent (inter- nalization). The child experiences guilt feelings (super- ego functioning) when he has broken the parent-imposed rules, or he feels satisfaction (ego-ideal functioning) from following parental rules. These concepts, superego and ego-ideal, are the components of conscience in modern psychoanalytic theory. Learning Theory Explanation Learninggtheory also concentrates on the parent- child interaction in explaining the acquisition of moral values (Bandura & McDonald, 1963). Learning theory asserts that certain conditions of parental punishment bring about feelings of anxiety and inhibition of deviant responses from the child. Appropriate responses are reinforced, and through habit generalization the conditional learning from the parent will be generalized by the child outside the home. This carry-over to parent-absent activities denotes internalization of parental moral standards, i.e., conscience formation (Bandura & Walters, 1963; Hill, 1960; Kohlberg, 1963). Some investigators question the validity of the internalization construct (Hartshorne & May, 1938), and even the need for it (Reis, 1966; Sanford, 1953). Cognitive-Developmental Tfieory Explanation The cognitive-developmental approach to moral development is exemplified by the work of Piaget (1932) and Kohlberg (1963). Unlike the aforementioned theories, Piaget places no great stress on the parent-child interaction dimension, but as Piaget notes: "In order to remove all traces of 'realism' [in the child], one must place one's self on the child's own level, and give him a feeling of equality by laying stress on one's own obligations and deficiencies [p. 133]." Piaget makes it clear that the parent could play a signifiCant role in the child's moral development if the parent would provide the means for interaction with the child in a less authoritarian fashion. Through this more peer-like parent-child interaction the parent might have a more salient role in moving the child from the condition of moral heteronomy toward that of moral autonomy (Hoffman, 1970). As can be interpreted from the following outline of Piaget's theory, authoritarian parental interaction with the child seems to have the effect of keeping the child in the stages of pre-moral development (Havighurst & Neugarten, 1955). It might be said that at least by default the parent affects moral development by the lack of peer interaction with the child. Consequently the child forms moral values through a process of peer relationships with his playmates. It seems appropriate for these rea- sons to include Piaget's theory here. Piaget suggests that moral development arises from a combination of maturity of cognitive faculties and an action process on the part of the child. As the child is exposed to new and different social experiences there is a development of certain cognitive capacities. The cognitively undeveloped child is hampered by egocentrism and by "realism" (confusion of subjective and objective aspects of experience). As a result of egocentrism the child perceives everyone as viewing a particular act the same way as he. "Realism" causes the child to perceive rules as rigid and unchangeable in all situations. His love, respect, and dependence regarding his parents (a heteronomous relationship) compel him to obey parental rules as absolute and fixed. As the child develops (biologically and cognitively) decentration takes place. He begins to see himself as a separate individual from others whom he later perceives as separate individuals. "Realism" yields to reciprocity. The child begins to put himself in the place of another and realizes that others may perceive an event differently from himself. His con- ception of authority broadens and heteronomy is replaced by autonomy. This cognitive change affecting moral development is facilitated by interaction with peers. The social experience thus stimulates and challenges the child to reorganize pre-existing patterns of moral thought. Change in moral orientation is the result of this reorgani- zation of cognitive structures and not something imposed from without (e.g., the parent) as proposed by psychoanalytic and social-learning theory. Parental Effect on the m Evaluative self-attitudes are significant deter- minants of several social behaviors, and there seems to be an important association between self-attitude and the person's values (Coopersmith, 1967). Coopersmith suggests that persons who regard themselves negatively will be inclined to be intropunitive and passive in adapting to environmental demands and pressures; while those who place a higher value on themselves will adopt a more active and assertive position. James (1898) made some of the first and clearest generalizations about self-esteem. He held that human aspirations and values are essential in determining whether we regard ourselves favorably, and he understood the importance of one's own values and the value placed on the extensions of self, as important to a positive self-concept. The sociologist, Mead (1934), also dealt with self-esteem, and suggested that it is largely derived from the reflected appraisal of others. Among the neo-Freudians, Horney (1945, 1970) focused on interpersonal processes and ways of warding off these self-demeaning feelings which are sources of low self-esteem. She held that a disturbance between parent and child is a common antecedent of the conditions surrounding negative self-concept. Adler (1927) cited three antecedent conditions which negatively affect the development of self-esteem: organ inferiorities and differences in size and strength; lack of acceptance, sup- port, and lack of encouragement by parents and immediate friends; and (the opposite extreme of non-support) over- indulgence and pampering of the child. g.Rosenberg (1965) made one of the first empirical studies of self-esteem and showed that while broader social forces have little impact on the development of self- esteem in children, parental attitudes and behaviors do influence self-esteem. Carlson (1963) tested pre-adolescents and cited Ausubel's satellization theory (1952) as a valid model of identification of the child with the parent as a source of value development. She concluded that when the child is able to use parental support as a basis for iden- tification, such support contributes to the development of self-esteem in the child. The above citations seem to show that from the very beginning of self-esteem formation, the child's perception of himself is determined by others' perceptions of him. His perception of personal worth is a "mirror image" of the response by others to him, whether these others be parents, teachers, or peers (Cooley, 1902; Mead, 1934; Sullivan, 1953). But because of the child's dependency on, and constant interaction with the parent, the latter is of over-riding importance in determining the child's self- esteem (Brickenridge & Vincent, 1968; Coopersmith, 1967). Coopersmith's work, The Antecedents of Self-Esteem, is the most comprehensive empirical research done to date on self-esteem.1 His subjects, fifth grade school children, were tested on a specially developed Self-Esteem Inventory which gave a subjective measure of self-esteem. The research considered the following: (1) general conditions affecting development of self-esteem; (2) how persons dif- fering in self-esteem relate with other individuals; (3) the relationship between self-esteem and various parental characteristics; (4) the characteristics of the child himself; (5) parent-child relationships along four dimensions of acceptance, permissiveness, democratic practices and independence, as affecting the child's self- esteem. Coopersmith found that mothers of children with high self—esteem were more accepting of the child, and this acceptance was expressed in daily manifestations of 1For purposes of this study self-esteem is defined as: ”. . . a personal Judgment of worthiness that is expressed in attitudes the individual holds toward himself. . . . a subjective experience which the individual conveys to others by verbal reports and other overt expressive behavior [Coopersmith, 1967, p. 5]." concern, affection, and a general close relationship between parent and child. These mothers consistently enforced rules, used appropriate punishment, as opposed to harshgtreatment or withholding of love; and the child perceived these punishments as just. Parent's treatment of the child was non-coercive and took into account the rights and opinions of the child. Independence of the child was respected but consisted of a balance between protectiveness and encouragement of autonomy for the child. In contrast, the mothers of low self-esteem children were withdrawn from the child, inattentive, neglectful, and depreciated the child. These mothers were less affectionate and accepting (and their child saw them as such), were less likely to fondle or caress their infants, set poorly defined and few limits on behavior for the child. 1 The high self-esteem child himself showed indepen- dent judgment, social independence, creativity; considered novel ideas and showed assertion and vigorous action. Such a child seemed to form friendships more easily, was not over-self-conscious and was less preoccupied with self. The low self-esteem child showed lack of self- trust, did not wish to expose himself in a group or attract attention, and feared angering others. He preferred with- drawal, was passive in a group, was very self-conscious 10 and preoccupied with his own problems, and as a result was less attentive of others, less friendly and supportive of relationships. Related to the above, Coopersmith states: . . . families of children with high self-esteem not only establish the closest and most extensive set of rules, but are also the most zealous in enforcing them. This estab- lishes the authority of the parent, defines the environ- ment, and provides standards by which the child can judge his competence and progress. Parental treatment within these limits is noncoercive and recognizes the rights and opinions of the child. His views are sought, his opinions are respected, and concessions are granted to him if dif- ferences exist. . . . the pattern for the low esteem group included in this study [shows] parents do not express their authority to their children or express it_so vaguely that it lacks clarity and force. This may reflect uncertainty about their own standards or immaturity, or a neglectful attitude toward their children. . . . they do not provide the external standards from which inner controls are farmed. . . . the lack of standards and the accompanying disrespect- ful treatment that prevail in these families cause their children to feel uncertain of whether and when they have succeeded and to feel insignificant and powerless [Cooper- smith, 1967, pp. 214-215]. ’ It is clear that parental control over the child is an important factor in promoting self-esteem. In addition, a greater degree of freedom for the child does not correlate with high self-esteem in the child. Here independence seems related to lack of parental concern or inability to cope with the demands of child raising. 11 Parental Discipline Techniques as Promoting Moral Development! and? Their Effect on_Se1f-Esteem of the Child Having suggested that the parent is directly involved in the child's development of values and that the parent is likewise important in the child's develop- ment of self-esteem, it seems that the parent by inter- vening in the child's formation of values may at the same time affect the child's self-esteem. In general, theories of moral development hold that at one stage or another of the child's moral develop- ment the parent uses discipline techniques to promote moral behavior with the hoped for result that the child will take on the values of the parent and become morally "indepen- dent," i.e., the child will come to act in a morally acceptable way in all situations he encounters. This internalization of moral values is accomplished on the parent's part through reward and punishment. As noted above, the psychoanalytic model defines conscience as an internalization of the rewarding parent (ego-ideal) and the punishing parent (superego), and learning theory employs the concepts of positive and negative reinforce- ment, i.e., reward and punishment. On the part of the parents several factors are involved in moral development, and all have an effect on 12 the child. The parent's emphasis on rewarding and positive techniques, or their opposite which emphasize punishment and negative orientation in discipline, make up the components of one factor. The negative, always— punishing parent not only does not furnish a sufficient base for internalization of values, but affects the child's self-esteem negatively. The child is sensitized to the "necessity of anticipating the responses of adult authority in order to avoid punishment, thus making his developing system of controls responsive to external rather than internal forces [Hoffman, 1970, p. 330]." Regarding self-esteem Coopersmith concluded that mothers of children with high self-esteem favored a positive approach to discipline and believed that reward is more effective than punishment (1967, p. 190). Allied with this factor of discipline emphasis of punishment and reward are the techniques parents utilize in enforcement. Induction (Hoffman, 1967) or __‘H_- W”. management (Coopersmith, 1967) techniques are those in which the parent takes time to explain toCt‘l'child at his own level the human consequence: - -s actioi:. Oh: same \ es needed tie parent 13 is seen as an appropriate model with whom to identify and recognition of the child as an individual capable of independent action is sustained. Such procedures employed by parents of children with high self-esteem facilitate the development of independent and effective behavior, and, finally, these procedures are most effective in achieving the desired goal of discipline (Coopersmith, 1967, pp. 191-192). Power assertion as a means of discipline is the second factor which could affect moral development. It includes physical punishment, deprivation of material objects or privileges, the direct use of force. #The parent controls the child by use of physical power or control over material resources. Power assertion has a highly punitive quality and physical punishment or threat of it is central. Sears (1965) and Hoffman (1970) found that power assertion did not promote identification with the parent: figower assertion, especially in the absence of compensating affection, fosters the image of the parent as an arbitrary, punitive, and unrewarding person--some- one to be avoided rather than approached and emulated [Hoffman, p. 331]." Coopersmith found that power assertion not only negatively affects self-esteem, but that parents who used this technique were less restrictive with their child, l4 and that the lack of restrictiveness is interpreted by thexchild as a lack of concern for his welfare (Cooper- smith, 1967, p. 197). A third type of parental discipline is loves withdrawal in which the "parent simply gives direct but “non-physical expression to his anger or disapproval of the child for engaging in some undesirable behavior, e.g., turning his back on him, explicitly stating a dislike for the child, and isolating or threatening to leave him [Hoffman, 1967, p. 285]." In some ways this technique is more devastating to the child's self-esteem than power assertion, since power assertion ends when the punishing act is over, while love-withdrawal may be prolonged, variable, or unpredictable. As a result the child may be embued with an unhealthy sense of guilt, an over-dependency on the parent, and an overwhelming anxiety, all of which militate against promoting self-esteem in the child (Lipsit, 1958; Doris, 1959; Bruce, 1958; Bandura et al., 1961). Coopersmith found that mothers of children with low self-esteem used love withdrawal techniques three times more often than_mothers of children with high selffesteem. Cognitive developmental theory of moral develop- ment would seem to be in line with the inductive method of discipline since induction stresses the importance of 15 cognitive developmental processes. Apparently no research has been done to discover whether present day democratic practices of parents toward children tend to foster a ”peer”-type interaction, but it would seem a logical out- come of these practices. If autonomous morality develops through peer interaction (Piaget, 1932), then an early peer-like interaction with one's parents should promote autonomous morality in the child. As noted earlier, Piaget allows for the increase of importance of the parent-child interaction as positively affecting moral growth in the child if the parent would interact more at the level of the child. Regarding the effects of punishment there appears to be no difference between parents of high and low self- esteem children as to the frequency of punishment and reward. The type of punishment and its severity, as well as consistency (Sears et al., 1957) of discipline, seem to be factors affecting self-esteem. The child's belief that parents are fair in their actions and that they do not exercise their power and strength in an unwarranted and abusive manner has important implications for the child. If parents are fair in their disciplinary techniques the child feels more personal significance, and this should con- tribute to heightened self-esteem (Radke, 1946; CoOpersmith, 1967). Afltf“ 16 A))¥- xi" ,../ — ; r——l' //”"fiu‘\"ax MW"; ““‘“”‘\\ gPrescriptiyeiProscriptivejValue Orientation 1; "Elle \ f/l Hth .4 WM As was suggested above, parents have an effect on the moral development of their child through their control of his behavior. Further, reward and punishment in enforcing controls over the child is an important factor in the child's internalizing moral values (MacRae, 1954; Johnson, 1962; Gutkin, 1973). McKinney (1971) suggested that in addition to the reinforcement dimension of reward- punishment there is also a behavioral orientation dimen- sion of right-doing and wrong-doing in parental discipline. McKinney's conceptualization of this dimension parallels a distinction made by sociologists concerning the norms which guide the behavior of individuals in any organiza- tion, namely, the "thou shalts," or standards of behavior to which all members of the organization mg§t_subscribe (prescribed norms), and the "thou shalt nots," or behaviors which are forbidden (proscribed norms) (Mott, 1965). The behavior orientation dimension proposed by McKinney com~ prises two factors, proscription and prescription. McKinney's behavioral dimension as applied to moral development in the child suggests that: (l) a parent who emphasizes proscriptive behavior tends to reward the child for the avoidance of wrong doing and punish the child for doing wrong; (2) a parent who emphasizes prescriptive behavior tends to reward the child for doing what should 17 be done, and punish the child for ngt doing what he should. The proscriptive factor has a negative valence, and.emphasizes passivity, and the prescriptive factor has a positive valence, and emphasizes activity. In pro- scription the avoidance of behavior is rewarded and its commission is punished, while in prescription the com— mission of an act is rewarded and its omission is punished. Having developed a measuring instrument which elicited information about prescriptive and proscriptive behaviors, McKinney (1971) found that there are reliable differences among individual college students, i.e., there are individuals with a prescriptive value orienta- tion and others with a proscriptive value orientation. Olejnik (1973) used a different measure in testing parents of nursery school aged children. He found clear evidence of the prescriptive-proscriptive orientation in the parents, and that parents who emphasized prescriptive values tended to have altruistic children while parents who emphasized proscriptive values tended to have less altfuistic children at school. 18 The Present Study The Relationship Between Parental Prescriptive- Proscriptive Value Orientation and Self-Esteem of the CEIId—_' Studies of the reward-punishment dimension in moral development show that parental reward and punishment relate to the child's self-esteem. The present study \ attempts to evaluate the prescriptive-proscriptive value orientation of the parent insofar as it too may relate to the child's self-esteem. V The prescriptive-proscriptive dimension implies a certain behavioral quality as present in the parent- child interaction which initiates in the parent and has possible effects on the child's behavior, e.g., altruism (Olejnik, 1973). The prescriptive parent would seem to be more positive in his behavioral expectations of the child in stressing what should be done, while the pro— scriptive parent's expectations of the child would seem more negative in stressing avoidance behavior in the child. Olejnik's study reported that prescriptive parents were more rewarding than the proscriptive parents, and this too implies a more positive atmosphere created by the parent. The generally rewarding and positive environment contributes to the growth of self-esteem in the child as was shown above. 19 The child whose parents are prescriptive perceives that he is rewarded for dging_something and punished for what he does not do. Here there is an element of activity, a tendency to action. The child of a proscriptive parent perceives that his rewards proceed from non-doing, avoid- ing doing wrong, and punishment comes from gging (the wrong thing). The rewarded child of prescriptive parents would see himself as having an effect on his environment to a much greater extent than the child of proscriptive parents who is rewarded for avoidance behavior. Such feel- ings of effectiveness or competence may play a part in the child's formation of self-esteem. Hypotheses From this background of information there seems to be enough evidence to test the following hypotheses: General Hypothesis Prescriptively value oriented parents will tend to have high self-esteem children; proscriptively value oriented parents will tend to have low self-esteem chil- dren. 20 Specific Hypotheses l. The prescriptively rewarding parent will tend to have a high self-esteem child. 2. The prescriptively punishing parent will tend to have a high self-esteem child. 3. The proscriptively rewarding parent will tend to have a low self-esteem child. 4. The proscriptively punishing parent will tend to have a low self-esteem child. The specific hypotheses derive from the unique breakdown of the independent measure, the value orienta- tion measure, as explained below in the Method section. METHOD Subjects Contact was made in person with the district school superintendent and grade school principals of an urban midwestern school district for the necessary per- mission to conduct the study. Parent school committees as well as individual teachers of the students involved were also consulted, since the self-esteem measure is a sensitive one, and school authorities are anxious that there be no ill effects to the student. All subjects in the study were kept anonymous by means of a numbered code system, the code number on the parent questionnaires matching that of the child's. Each teacher kept a list with the child's name and correspond- ing parent code number, and when the experimenter handed the appropriately numbered questionnaire to the child, the list of children's names was destroyed. .Children of both sexes in the 9-11 age group were selected as subjects (potential) as it was felt that they had developed to the point of being able to assess their self-esteem, were well along in developing some personal 21 22 values, and were relatively free of the stresses and disequilibrium which characterize adolescence. Their parents' values and control would still have a major influence over the child at this age even as the child is interacting with his expanding environment. Procedure With the cooperation of the teachers, each child carried home a letter (see Appendix A) to their parents asking each parent to participate in a study on parent- child interaction. Along with the letter were copies of the Value Orientation Measure which each parent was asked to fill out separately and return to the school, either by their child or through the mail. Also a slip to be signed was enclosed with the other material which would authorize the child to complete a questionnaire at school. The parents were advised to keep their 9-11 year old child in mind when completing the questionnaire. A total of 250 parent couples (paired parents) were contacted. At a later date, when all parents who agreed to participate had returned the materials, their children were gathered during school hours as a group in their respective schools. The children were asked by the experi- menter to aid him in helping children like themselves by completing the questionnaire. No other mention was made about the questionnaire (the Value Orientation Measure). 23 Instruments Child's Self-Esteem Measure Coopersmith's (1967) Self-Esteem Inventory was used to evaluate the self—esteem level of the child sub- jects. A sample of this measure may be seen in Appendist. The measure consists of 58 items which tap several aspects of self-esteem: general self, social self-peers, home- parents, and school academics. There is a lie scale (five items). One total score is used to measure self-esteem. The child simply checks "like me" or "unlike me" as a response to the written statements presented him. The measure is scored by giving points for each "correct answer," i.e., for each statement checked which reflects high self-esteem. Scores may vary from 0 to 100. Cooper-\ smith found that the mean for both sexes did not vary sig- nificantly (Mean: Boys, 71.5; Girls, 70). Parent Value Orientation Measure This measure (see Olejnik & McKinney, 1973) con- sists of a questionnaire with 24 behaviors obtained from parents regarding good and bad boys and girls. The parent checks off on a scale of one to five how much he (she) would reward or punish a particular behavior. The items to be checked are listed in random order with six items 24 for each of the following behaviors: (1) prescriptive punishment, (2) prescriptive reward, (3) proscriptive reward, and (4) proscriptive punishment. This division is necessary because the measure as presently made up employs discipline emphasis (reward and punishment) in bringing out the value orientation emphasis (prescription- proscription). The division attempts to control for potential confounding of the two dimensions of value orientation and discipline emphasis. Four scores are thus obtained from the measure and consist of total points on the scales for each of the four groups of behaviors. A sample of the Value Orientation Measure may be seen in Appendix C.1 Statistical Design of the Study Multiple regression (linear) analysis was used to measure the relation between the dependent measure, self- esteem of the child, to the four covariates of the independent measure, value orientation of the parents. An analysis was done on both parents together, and on mothers alone, as it was assumed that in some instances only the mother would participate. Possible sex 1For the reader's information the different behaviors are identified in the margin by a "PR" for prescriptive reward, "OR" for proscriptive reward, "PP" for prescriptive punishment, and "OP" for proscriptive punishment. 25 differences for the child subjects as affected by the value orientation were computed. RESULTS Return Rats Of the 500 questionnaires sent to the parents, in 65 cases both parents (paired parents) replied. In addition 19 individual mothers sent back completed ques- tionnaires. Thus a total of 84 mothers and 65 fathers were involved in the final stages of the study, and the corresponding 84 children of these parents were measured on self-esteem. Analysis of the Data Multiple regression analysis results. The fol- lowing results were obtained using self-esteem (SE) as the dependent variable with the following independent variables (covariates): Prescriptive-reward mother (PRM), prescriptive-punishment mother (PPM), prescriptive-reward father (PRF), prescriptive-punishment father (PPF), proscriptive-punishment mother (OPM), proscriptive-reward mother (ORM), proscriptive-reward father (ORF), proscriptive-punishment father (OPF), and sex of child (SEX). 26 27 Relation of Paired Parent (Both Parents) Covariates to C 11 s Seif-Esteem (n = 65) Table 1 shows the correlation matrix for the paired parent covariates and self-esteem. Observation of the matrix shows that prescriptive orientation of the parents, either as rewarding or punishing (PRM, PPM, PRF, PPF) showed no positive relationship to the dependent variable (SE), offering no support for the hypotheses relating to prescription of parents. Proscription of parents, both as rewarding and punishing (ORM, OPM, ORF, OPF), did show a negative relation to the child's self- esteem, but the strength of the relationship comes pri- marily from the parents as rewarding. Subsequent linear regression analysis showed this reward effect. No support was indicated for the hypotheses relating to proscription of parents. An unexpected finding revealed that parents as rewarding, regardless of value orientation (PRM, ORM, PRF, ORF), had a negative relationship to self-esteem in the child. The linear regression analysis showed this to be significant at the .022 level (P = 3.1). No significant result appeared when value orientation was controlled for parents as punishing, which gives added significance to this peculiar finding on the reward dimension. 28 mm HH.I Nmm MH.I em.l NH.I ma. mm. ma. I Ah. cm. I mm. mmo mmo SAC moanmwum> sconce omuflmm How xwuumz coaumaounoonmucH ZMO mH.I mm. mm. mm. Hm. mmm Ame H av a manna hmm mo.l HA. mm. mm. vb. we. mm. Hm. 2mm mm.l co. pm. be. me. mm. mm. om. mv. ZMm mm xmm hmO mmO 2&0 hmm mmm 2mm moanmwum> 29 Relation of Mother Variables Alone to thgighiIdTE-SEIf:—_' Esteem (n = 84) Since more mothers than fathers participated in the study, they presented a larger sample of parent- child relationship, offering an opportunity to look at a larger body of data. Table 2 shows the correlation matrix for the four "mother" variables (covariates), self-esteem, and sex of child. Observation of the matrix shows similar findings to the paired parent sample, that is, no significant relationship of the mother's value orientation to the child's self-esteem. Though proscriptivity of the mother, regardless of reward or punishment (ORM, 0PM), was significant, linear regression analysis revealed that the strength of the relationship came predominantly from the reward dimension. The "mother" sample thus offered no support for the hypotheses. Similar to the paired parent sample, the negative relationship of reward to self-esteem was significant at the .035 level (F = 3.5) for the mother as rewarding, with no relationship to the value orientation dimension (PRM, ORM). The mother as punishing, regardless of value corientation (PPM, 0PM), showed no significant relationship with the child's self-esteem. 30 Table 2 Intercorrelation Matrix for Mother Variables Alone (n = 84) Variables PRM PPM ORM OPM SEX SE PRM - PPM .49 - ORM .84 .55 - 0PM .45 .71 .47 - SEX .01 .10 .10 .01 - SE -.21 -.08 —.28 -.09 -.05 - 31 Sex of Child Boys (n = 32) and girls (n = 52) did not differ significantly on the self-esteem measure, the mean for the boys being 72.3, and that for the girls being 71.5. No sex difference appeared on the value orientation dimension. There was a significant relationship of father to daughter as regards reward (P < .023; F = 40), i.e., the father as rewarding had a negative relationship to the daughter's self-esteem (ORF, SEX). DISCUSSION Some comments should be made about why the study's hypotheses were not upheld. The experimenter learned a great deal about the value orientation dimen- sion and self-esteem while doing the study, which would lead him to believe that there is relevance in pursuing further research on the subject. The Value Orientation Measure Several parents noted on the questionnaire that they would neither reward nor punish certain behaviors, while others commented that the behaviors did not apply to their child. The forced choice format of the measure left the parent no option but to mark on the reward or punishment dimension. A "neither" option in addition to the reward and punishment choices would have lessened the number of behaviors checked on the latter two choices, but would have given more salience to those which were checked. Additional notes made by the parents, as well as phone calls made to the experimenter by parents complet- ing the measure, made it apparent that the parents might not‘have a clear idea on the meaning of their own behaviors 32 33 as affecting the child regarding reward and punishment. This in turn would affect the value orientation measure- ment. A parent can be perceived by the child as rewarding or punishing, for example, by facial movements, a nod, turning away from the child. In such cases the parent would judge his behavior as neither rewarding nor punish- ing, when in actuality the child would interpret such actions, subtle as they might be, as rewarding or punish- ing. Age of Child Subjects Following the cognitive—developmental explanation of moral value acquisition which predicates a cognitive maturation sequence and action (experience) process on the child's part, the child is still in the process at this age of leaving the heteronomous stage of relationship with the parent. Authority figures are still a major con- trolling factor in the life of the child. The child is as yet in an objectively dependent relationship to his parents, still unquestioning, by and large, of authority. This situation would seem especially apropos to the sample of the present study which consisted of children of families which experience relatively routine experiences in their life-style. Thus his interaction with the environment outside his family may not have affected the child to such 34 an extent as yet, for him to be affected enough to sense acute differences between the negative and positive con- notations of parental reactions or reactions as are seen in the value orientation measure. In brief, there may not be the cognitive (and accompanying moral) development in the child at this age which would be needed for the child to be affected by the real but subtle and fine discrimination which is posited in the prescriptive- proscriptive dimension. As a result the child's self- esteem may well not be affected by this dimension. More salient to the child at this age would be the reward- punishment dimension. The Reward-Self-esteem Relationship The significant relationship between the parent as rewarding and self-esteem of the child showed that as the child's self-esteem was lower, the parent was more rewarding. Assuming there may be a cause-effect relationship here, and though there is no hard and fast data to reinforce the explanation-~or the cause-effect assumption --it seems that the child's self-esteem might be having an effect on how much the parent rewards, i.e., as the parent perceives the child's self-evaluation, this is taken into account as to how much the parent rewards the 35 child. Bell (1968) reviewed research related to the direction of effects in studies on socialization of the child by the parent and others. He notes, for instance, studies showing how infant behavior affects the parent's reaction to the infant, or how aggressive behavior in the child can have a controlling effect on the reaction of the parent to the child's behavior. The self-esteem scores for the children can be divided into high, medium, and low groupings, as the measure was conceived by Coopersmith. The present study's sample can be broken down into high (n = 33), medium (n = 37), and low (n a 7). The background information presented on self-esteem showed that the higher the self- esteem of the child, the more concerned and interested were the parents of such children. It can be assumed that the parents of the children in the study's sample were thus concerned about their children, both because of the scores the children in general obtained on the self—esteem measure and because the parents took the time and trouble to participate in the study. School officials and parent groups with whom the experimenter met in order to initiate the study were concerned about the self-esteem of their children, and interested in what the outcome would be as regards the self-esteem measure. 36 The above comments give no hard information from which to make conclusions, but seem to at least show some cause for the following comment, namely, that these con- cerned parents are anxious about the selfvimage of their child. This concern might well be shown in their per- ceptions of their child's self-image. If such perceptions lead the parent to the conclusion that the child needs a boost in self-esteem, one very natural way to give the perceived needed boost would be to be more rewarding to the child. Those parents with children of high self- esteem reward less than those with parents of children with ——/~ low self-esteem, since they perceive the child's need for \ RH positive reinforcement (reward) is less. ..,...-' Implications for Future Research It seems a valid point that parents through their disciplinary methods do have an effect on the child's self- esteem, at least on the reward-punishment dimension. The present study as done on the limited sample of parents and the particular age group of children showed no results on the value orientation dimension. Future studies along this line of research would profit by varying the age group of the children, e.g., testing 11-12 age group children. Also the study could be designed to obtain a better cross-section of parents and children in a given sample, with other data 37 being collected from both groups in addition to the value orientation and self-esteem information. This additional information might include parent perception of the child's self-esteem, parental expectations of the child in the area of achievement, and an evaluation of parental disciplinary methods. From the children, in addition to the self-esteem measure, a teacher or counselor's evaluation of the child's home environment as affecting the child's self-image could be obtained. The relationship of the parent as rewarding to self-esteem of the child offers possibilities of research in testing whether in fact the parent's perception of the child's self-esteem does match the child's subjective self- concept; and whether such parent perceptions are affecting his attitude and behavior toward the child. APPENDICES APPENDIX A COVER LETTER TO PARENTS 38 February 29, 1972 Dear Parents, This is a request for your assistance, and at the same time we hope it will be a help to you and your children. These are days when all of us are concerned about how best to guide our children so that they may develop in a healthy and happy way. Some of the personnel in the Child Developmental section at Michigan State University feel that we have found something which is important to the parent-child relationship. We would like to check it out in a large representative population of parents and children, and fit it into other facets of the parent-child relation- ship--with the hope it will be an aid to all of us parents in rais- ing our families. For the past several weeks we have discussed this study with parent groups, principals, and teachers in the , and schools. Most everyone agrees that something good can come of this effort. All insist that the parents and teachers involved should be informed of the results of the information gathered, as a means of helping all those connected with the study. We intend to give this feedback by meetings with interested persons and through a write-up to the parents. For you parents we ask that each of you answer the enclosed questionnaire (it takes only a few minutes), and that you allow your child (the one who brings you this letter) to fill out a short ques- tionnaire at school which also takes about 10-15 minutes. You may place your completed forms in the enclosed envelope and send them back with your child where they will be placed in a sealed box which we will pick up; or mail the forms directly to us. Anonymity: We are looking for information on the parents and children, and so need to connect each parent to his particular child. But we are using a code number to identify individuals, and thus all parents and children will remain completely anonymous. Of course you are free to participate or not in the study. We ask only that if you decide to help us and fill out the questionnaire, that you also give permission for your child to fill out the child questionnaire at school . . . by returning the completed material to the school as soon as possible. Thank you for reading this. If we all do a little bit, per- haps our combined efforts will promote the growth of not only this group in the three schools involved, but also families in other places. Sincerely, Vincent J. Hoffman Child Development Psych. Michigan State University P.S. If only one parent is able to fill out the parent questionnaire it is all right, but we would like both to do it where possible. APPENDIX B SELF-ESTEEM INVENTORY 39 APPENDIX B SELF-ESTEEM INVENTORY (58 Items) Please mark each statement in the following way: If the statement describes how you usually feel, put a check (/) in the column "Like Me." If the statement does not describe how you usually feel, put a check (/) in the column "Unlike Me. Like Me Unlike Me I spend a lot of time daydreaming. I'm pretty sure of myself. I often wish I were someone else. I'm easy to like. My parents and I have a lot of fun together. I never worry about anything. . I find it very hard to talk in front of the class. \lO‘UlobLUNl-d O 8. I wish I were younger. 9. There are lots of things about myself I'd change if I could. 10. I can make up my mind without too much trouble. 11. I'm a lot of fun to be with. 12. I get upset easily at home. 13. I always do the right thing. 14. I'm proud of my school work. 15. Someone always has to tell me what to do. 16. It takes me a long time to get used to anything new. 17. I'm often worried about the things I do. 18. I'm popular with kids my own age. 19. My parents usually consider my feelings. 20. I'm never unhappy. 21. I'm doing the best work that I can. 22. I give in very easily. 23. I can usually take care of myself. lllllllll llllll ! ll llllll IIIHIIII llllll I ll llllll 24. I'm pretty happy. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. 50. 51. 52. 53. 54. 55. 56. 57. 58. 40 I would rather play with children younger than me. My parents expect too much of me. I like everyone I know. I like to be called on in class. I understand myself. It's pretty tough to be me. Things are all mixed up in my life. Kids usually follow my ideas. No one pays much attention to me at home. I never get scolded. I'm not doing as well in school as I'd like to. I can make up my mind and stick to it. I really don't like being a boy (girl). I have a low opinion of myself. I don't like to be with other people. There are many times when I'd like to leave home. I'm never shy. I often feel upset in school. I often feel ashamed of myself. I'm not as nice looking as most people. If I have something to say, I usually say it. Kids pick on me very often. My parents understand me. I always tell the truth. My teacher makes me feel I'm not good enough. I don't care what happens to me. I'm a failure. I get upset easily when I'm scolded. Most people are better liked than I am. I usually feel as if my parents are push- ing me. I always know what to say to people. I often get discouraged in school. Things usually don't bother me. I can't be depended upon. Like Me Unlike Me APPENDIX C VALUE ORIENTATION MEASURE PR OF OR PP 0P 0R 0P PR 0R PP 0R PR PR 0P 0R 0P PP PP 0P PR PR PP 41 APPENDIX C VALUE ORIENTATION MEASURE FATHER ( ) MOTHER ( ) Your age CODE # (Please check oneY We would like to know how you feel about the child behaviors listed below: Would you punish or reward them; and how much would you re- ward or punish them? After each behavior, please print the letter 2 (punish) or R (reward), and circle one of the numbers (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)--from very little to very much--the amount you feel you would either punish or reward the behavior. Please keep in mind your child (the one who brought home this questionnaire) when working on this questionnaire. EACH PARENT PLEASE FILL OUT THE QUESTIONNAIRE SEPARATELY --PLEASE DON'T COMPARE YOUR RESULTS! CHILD'S BEHAVIORS g or 5 1 2 3 4 5 very very little much (SAMPLE: Climbing a tree P (:) 2 3 4 5) PP* 1. not listening to parents when spoken to 1 2 3 4 5 2. behaving well when out shopping 1 2 3 4 S 3. fighting with friends 1 2 3 4 5 4. not bothering mother when she is busy 1 2 3 4 5 5. not sharing his (her) toys 1 2 3 4 5 6. telling lies 1 2 3 4 5 7. not running in the street 1 2 3 4 5 8. leaving toys scattered around the house 1 2 3 4 5 9. cleaning up his (her) room 1 2 3 4 5 10. not being a poor loser in games 1 2 3 4 5 11. not behaving when visiting relatives 1 2 3 4 5 12. not cheating in school 1 2 3 4 5 13. playing nicely with friends 1 2 3 4 5 l4. helping mother around the house 1 2 3 4 5 15. purposely breaking toys l 2 3 4 5 16. not getting new clothes dirty 1 2 3 4 S 17. playing with harmful objects 1 2 3 4 5 18. not doing well in school 1 2 3 4 5 19. not coming to the dinner table when called 1 2 3 4 5 20. tracking dirt into the house 1 2 3 4 5 21. doing well at a new task 1 2 3 4 5 22. sharing his (her) toys with friends 1 2 3 4 S 23. not keeping room clean 1 2 3 4 5 24. not taking toys away from friends 1 2 3 4 5 0R *See page 24 for explanation. 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