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SPRl384 MR :1 132005 NEED PATTERNS, GENDER DIFFERENCES AND MARITAL SATISFACTION BY Carl Gerald Chenkin A THESIS Submitted to Michigan State University in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of MASTER OF ARTS Department of Psychology 1981 ABSTRACT NEED PATTERNS, GENDER DIFFERENCES AND MARITAL SATISFACTION BY Carl Chenkin This study investigated (a) homogeneity and heterogeneity of couples' need patterns based upon both Maslow-defined and Murray-defined needs, and (b) gender differences in need patterns, considering both in terms of their contributions to marital satisfaction. The subjects were 17 married couples. These couples completed demographic questionnaires, Spanier's Dyadic Adjustment Scale, Aronoff's Sentence Completion Test, and Edwards's Personal Preference Sched- ule. The importance of complementarity and similarity for engendering marital satisfaction was found to be slight, as was the utility of Maslow-defined needs in predicting marital satisfaction. Wives' ASCT needs had, when correlated with their couples' DAS scores at each need level, correla- tions that were twice as large as their husbands'. These findings were consistent with prior research Carl Chenkin suggesting that spouses' contributions to marital sat- isfaction differ. Women may seek a greater proportion of their personal satisfaction from the marital rela- tionship. The importance of gender differences and the need for marital and personality measures that are factor analyzed separately for men and women are highlighted. The general lack of significant results and the need to utilize interpersonal and intrapersonal data in research into marital satisfaction also are discussed. To all whose example, friendship or teachings have contributed to me, in particular Alvin Chenkin and Beatrice Glotzer Chenkin. ii ACKNOWLEDGMENTS Unquestionably, I must first note my debt to Professor Gary E. Stollak, chairperson of my thesis committee. His friendship and guidance have assisted me in a myriad of ways for lo these many years. His humor, intelligence and sensitivity have helped me through several off-seasons. I acknowledge also my other committee members, Professors Larry Messe and Joel Aronoff. Several colleagues and friends deserve particular notice. An especially heartfelt thank you is here ten- dered to Kenny Bertram. His assistance on technical matters, his willingness to share and discuss ideas, were only a small portion of his abettal of me for significant as they were, they have been outweighed by the consistent support he has shown me. The friendship, encouragement and support of Bram Haver and Paul Jacobsen are also gratefully acknowledged. I stand as well in debt to Sara Woodhull who has taught me much that has been invaluable to me in the com- pletion of this thesis, as well as in other aspects of my professional and personal evolution. iii "Se non e vero, e ben trovato." iv TABLE OF CONTENTS LIST OF TABLES . . . . . . . . . STATEMENT OF THE PROBLEM . . . . . . METHOD . . . . . . . . . . . Subjects . . . . . . . . . Instruments . . . . . . . . . Procedures . . . . . . . . . RESULTS . . . . . . . . . . . DISCUSSION . . . . . . . . . . NOTES . . . . . . . . . . . APPENDIX A: DEMOGRAPHIC INFORMATION SHEET . . APPENDIX B: DYADIC ADJUSTMENT SCALE . . . APPENDIX C: ARONOFF SENTENCE COMPLETION TEST . APPENDIX D: EDWARDS PERSONAL PREFERENCE SCHEDULE LIST OF REFERENCES . . . . . . . . vi 14 14 15 18 20 33 50 51 53 55 59 67 TABLE COUPLES' EPPS AND ASCT SCORES; COUPLES' CORRELATED WITH COUPLES' LIST OF TABLES DAS SCORES CORRELATED WITH COUPLES' DAS SCORES SUMMED SQUARED DIFFER- ENCE SCORES ON THE EPPS AND ASCT HUSBANDS' EPPS AND ASCT SCORES; WIVES' DAS SCORES CORRELATED WITH HUSBANDS' WITH WIVES' EPPS AND ASCT SCORES COUPLES' AND ASCT HUSBANDS' AND ASCT HUSBANDS' DAS SCORES CORRELATED DAS SCORES CORRELATED WITH HUSBANDS' EPPS SCORES; COUPLES' DAS SCORES CORRELATED WITH WIVES' EPPS AND ASCT SCORES DAS SCORES CORRELATED WITH WIVES' SCORES; WIVES' DAS SCORES CORRELATED WITH EPPS AND ASCT SCORES WIVES' EPPS INTERCORRELATIONS . HUSBANDS' EPPS INTERCORRELATIONS vi EPPS 22 24 26 27 29 31 STATEMENT OF THE PROBLEM Currently, one research area of great interest for at least some psychologists and other social scien- tists is that of marital "success" or "failure": its components, progenitors, behavioral referents, and pre- dictors. To investigate this area is to be confronted at the outset with the need to make decisions of several sorts on the basis of (all too often implicit) theoretical considerations. First we must decide what after all this strange and elusive animal, "marital success," is; how to recog- nize it and what to call it. Various researchers call this pleasure in the marital relationship "marital happi- ness" (Blazer, 1963), others call it "marital satisfac-' tion" (Miller, 1976; Burr, 1970), to give just two of the ways it has been yclept. The naming of the phenomenon by researchers results in a strong pull (or vice versa) to view it in some constricted fashion. Often the bulk of the research reminds me of the story of the blind men and the elephant. One thinks the elephant is best described by the trunk, another by its leg, etc. As Burr (1970) states, " . . . the nature of the successful marital state is predefined by the criteria that are selected by the researchers to measure it." Furthermore, these preconditions are all too often not clearly set forth buttressed by a theoretical argument. Problems with many of the terms used are discussed by Lively (1969) in which he argues that they ought to be eliminated. Second, and a corollary of the above, most re- search into marital functioning has failed to be based upon a thorough theoretical framework for the individuals' perceptions as well as the dyadic interactions, and has only differentiated among happy and unhappy couples on the basis of a few variables. These studies are more classificatory than they are explicatory. Hobbs (1965) states, "if meaningless collection of facts is to be avoided, research must be formulated in terms of theoret- ically cogent approaches rather than naive practical issues." One component of the theoretical approach of most researchers is that of the needs of the individual. There has been, in fact, much interest on the part of research- ers in the role of needs in predicting level of marital satisfaction. A recurrent question in this research has centered on the issue of the patterns of needs existing between dyadic partners, in particular whether the pattern in- volves complementary needs or similar needs. Winch and Ktsanes (1954) published preliminary data and Winch (1955) followed up with his final analysis of that same data, all of which were reported as supporting the hypothesis that people choose mates who have needs in a complementary re- lationship to their own. According to Winch (1958), this complementary relationship can be of two sorts. Type I complementarity obtains when one need is gratified in both parties in a relationship though at greatly differing levels of intensity. Type II complementarity obtains when "A's behavior in acting out A's need x is gratifying to B's need y and B's behavior in acting out B's need y is gratifying to A's need x." Winch studied the Murray-defined needs levels for each member of marital dyads. The determinations of needs were made on the basis of judges' evaluations of three "sources of evidence: an interview, a case history, and responses to eight TAT cards. He predicted the direction of 344 spousal correlations and found that about two- thirds of his predictions were accurate. However, as Bowerman and Day (1956) point out, "although 82% of their (Winch et a1., 1954) significant correlations were in the hypothesized direction, only 22% of all their correlations ~were significant at the .05 level, and 34% of all their correlations were in the opposite direction to that hypo- thesized, in spite of the fact that they selected the 344 paired need correlations which they believed had the best chance of fitting their theory." Winch's research is of dubious value even without supporting or debunking the need-complementarity theory because of another problem. There is the strong likeli- hood of there being systematic sex-linked differences in the general levels of needs on at least several of the scales, which would serve to confound the marital corre- lations that he found. Consider that, in 1954, if one were to choose a number of Murrayan needs (dominance, abasement, and deference, to choose but three) and asked to predict solely upon the basis of expected differences due to gender, what the spousal correlations would be, we might very probably predict that we would have men scoring high on dominance, with their wieves scoring high on abasement. It comes as little surprise, then, that Winch in fact found strong correlations in this direction that were "in support of" his complementarity theory. This consistent gender-linked difference certainly serves to vitiate the generalizability of the results over dif- fering times and Zeitgeists, not to mention Weltanschauun- gen. Additionally, I suggest that the systematic differ- ences indicate that, dependent as they were upon available strategies for interactions, rather than upon what will be later described as "deep" needs, the results are unin- formative. There is, then, less statistical support for the complementarity theory than Winch indicates, and the logi- cal grounding of even that support is quite muddied. Bowerman and Day (1956) attempted to replicate Winch's results using EPPS scores from 60 couples com- prised of college students who either were just married or were self-described as "regular dating partners." They selected needs on the EPPS which were most clearly related to those used by Winch. They found no support for complementarity as a dominant trend in need patterns: only 19 correlations out of 225 computed were significant at the .05 level, and of these, only five were in the direction which would support the complementarity theory, the others supporting homogamy as contributing to marital satisfaction. In an attempt to reconcile the quite-different results obtained by Winch on the one hand and Bowerman and Day on the other, Schellenberg and Bee (1960) gave the EPPS to both married and unmarried couples to account for one possible source of the variation in the results of the two studies discussed above. They also corrected for systematic sex differences in the EPPS scores. Their results corroborated Bowerman and Day's results, with some slight support of the similarity (homogeneity) posi- tion, as Opposed to that of complementarity. Centers and Granville (1971) compared the predic- tive ability of Winch's complementarity theory to that of the theory of need gratification as pr0posed by Schutz. Schutz (1958) suggests that there are three areas in which needs Operate in dyads. These areas are inclusion-- "the need to establish and maintain a satisfactory relation with people with respect to interaction and association"; control--"the need to establish and main- tain a satisfactory relation with people with respect to control and power"; and affection--"the need to establish and maintain a satisfactory relation with pe0p1e with respect to love and affection." Schutz considers compatibility to be isomorphic with marital need-gratification and says that there are three dimensions which underlie this mutual need-gratifi- cation. The first underlying dimension is what Schutz calls "interchange compatibility." He hypothesizes that "desire to originate and the desire to receive the be- havioral commodity involved are independent" (Centers and Granville, 1971, p. 29). Thus, interchange compatibility exists when both members of a dyad have a similar amount of desire to interchange behaviors to gratify a need. His second dimension is "originator compatibility." Schutz predicts that for originator compatibility, dyadic members exhibit complementary desires to be the origina- tors or the receivers of need-gratifying behaviors. Third, Schutz suggests that the actual behaviors shared in a relationship would be isomorphic with regard to the other's desired behaviors. This he calls "reciprocal compatibility." Centers and Granville found no support for Winch's complementarity theory and support for only two of Schutz's dimensions of need gratification. These were interchange compatibility and reciprocal compatibility. A discussion of possible causes of this only partial sup- port for Schutz's hypotheses is presented later. What we find then in the literature on need- gratification in marriage is that there is virtually no support for the complementarity theory, little more for the obverse, namely the homogamy theory, and great con- fusion about the role of needs in determining marital satisfaction. More recently, research on marital satis- faction and needs has investigated what appears to be gender-oriented differences in patterns of needs, and different demands upon the marriage for husbands than for wives. This research is considered in the Discussion section. An approach to human needs different from that proposed by Murray is presented by Abraham Maslow. It may prove more illuminating when utilized in investiga- tions into marital satisfaction. Maslow (1954), in Motivation and Personality, offered a theory of motivation based upon a theory in- volving core needs. Briefly, Maslow posited a hierarchy of needs beginning with physiological needs (hunger, thirst, etc.); then safety needs (order, security, etc.); love and belongingness needs (affection); esteem needs (recognition, mastery, etc.); and self-actualization needs. This hierarchy would be the normal and in our culture necessary progression of needs which an individual must seek to gratify for satisfactory living. Maslow states that the more basic needs are pre- potent vis-a-vis those that follow them. The higher needs cannot dominate until the lower ones have become gratified. As they are gratified, the need for further gratification becomes diminished, until a complete gra- tification results in total (if possibly temporary) ex- tinguishing of the need. These need categories (safety, esteem, etc.) were called by Maslow meta-needs. They are types of needs, which can be expressed in a variety of ways. These types or categories of needs clustered together analogous needs, and were represented by Maslow as being the "atoms" of need theory. Some of them can be further broken down-- e.g., hunger can be seen as physiological needs for many chemicals, salts, etc.--but it is at this level of meta- need that the role of needs gratification is perhaps most clear. These are the needs that we seek to gratify. We can think of them as need-contents which can take many need-forms. The need-forms, such as those described by Murray, and subsequent interpersonal behaviors, can fur- ther be conceptualized as different individuals' strate- gies (often unconscious) developed to gratify the under- lying meta-needs. In reconsidering the earlier studies of the con— tribution of need gratification to marital satisfaction with this perspective, we understand that while they purported to be analyzing needs, they could, in fact, have been considering strategies for gratifying meta- needs. Thus, e.g., behaviors which might have been in- terpreted as expressing dominance needs might, in fact, have been designed to satisfy any of a variety of meta- needs. The implication is that similar-seeming behaviors do not necessarily mean similar things. Winch predicts that couples would show complementarity of needs. In this perspective, this prediction becomes translated as follows: a successful dyadic relationship will bring complementary strategies to bear upon the problem of need- gratification. Nowhere, however, in the studies, has anyone pinpointed what the actual needs (meta-needs) are, so it is difficult to understand how complementarity or similarity can be sensibly assessed. The low correlations found both for complementarity and for homogamy are not surprising when viewed in this light. There are many implications of this "new" approach (namely using Maslow's need clusters instead of Murray's need). One, peOple can have a variety of strategies for gratifying a need of theirs (or a need of another person). Two, behaviors can gratify different needs. Three, people by defining behaviors that can gratify a need are defining types of situations in which the need might be gratifiable. For example, if a man feels that it is necessary to pro- pose to someone with whom he wishes to have sexual rela— tions, he is probably defining marriage as a situation in 10 which he expects to gratify sexual desires (note that this example is perhaps an unfortunate choice in that sexual desires themselves can be expressions of physiological needs, esteem needs, etc.). Four, these situations need not be the same for each partner; nor is it clear that it is usual for the situations to be the same for each. That is, while one partner is gratifying esteem needs, for ex- ample, the other could well be gratifying safety needs. To expect a clear pattern of complementary or homogamous strategies for gratifying what might well be different meta-needs might therefore not be fruitful. Consider the hypotheses of Schutz using this per- spective. Schutz states that there are three areas of needs, which are similar in nature to Maslowian meta- needs in that they are clusters of needs which can find gratification through any number of strategies. To then compare Schutz's need theory to Winch's as Centers and Granville did is unelucidating. Schutz further states that there are three under- lying dimensions. Some of his statements about these dimensions are summarized below: 1. Desires to originate and to receive behaviors are independent of each other 2. Interchange compatibility is the result of similar amounts of interchange desired 3. Reciprocal compatibility is the result of behaviors being interchanged which respond to the other's 11 needs 4. Originator compatibility is the result of complementary distribution of desire to receive and de- sire to originate behaviors that will gratify needs. Considering these ideas in the light of Maslow's theory we would find that the first of these statements would be disputed by meta-need theory. Since operant meta-needs suffuse much of the individual's sensory appa- ratus and behaviors (as an example, when we are hungry, we are more likely to see or hear references to food), we would expect some correlation. Schutz's own data sup- port the Maslowian position on this statement. The fourth statement, as a corollary of the first, we would also expect not to be true. It, too, failed to gain support in the Centers and Granville study. The second statement can be translated to read that couples whose partners are operating upon similar meta-needs will be more compatible than other couples will be. Since need level is hypothesized to be corre- lated with accuracy of perception and cognitive complex- ity, if only because by passing through various stages we would expect to develop a facility with or exposure to a wider range of behavioral strategies, we would ex- pect this to be true. Someone who is very good at satis- fying another's needs is not so likely to choose to re- main with a spouse who is relatively unable to gratify him or her. 12 The third statement is to some degree a restate- ment of our definition of marital satisfaction. Thus we would expect this to be borne out. In fact, only these two of the four Schutz state- ments were supported by the Centers and Granville study. We are encouraged then to approach the role of needs in marriages using Maslow's meta-need theory. In keeping with the above, there is a basic issue that has informed this study. This is the relative im- portance of the homogeneity-heterogeneity axis, compared to the "surface need"-"deep need" continuum. Accordingly, research questions have been formed to consider several issues. One compares the utility of the Aronoff Sentence Completion Test (ASCT) or "deep needs" to that of the Edwards Personal Preference Schedule (EPPS) or "surface needs" in considering the development of marital satis- faction. Another investigates the utility of examining interdyadic responses on these measures for evidence of homogeneity or heterogeneity. A third considers the relative utility of looking at interpersonal versus interdyadic factors. Several types of couple patterns have been con- sidered in investigating the importance of needs in de- ve10ping marital satisfaction. One is the overall level of the couple for any particular need. Since the meta- need perspective is hypothesized to have more utility than the older Murrayan approach, it was expected that 13 couples' composite (summed) scores on the ASCT ought to be better predictors of marital satisfaction than the couple composite (summed) scores on the various scales of the EPPS . Another type of couple pattern considered here involved the size of the differences between the scores of dyadic partners. A positive correlation between dif- ference score and marital satisfaction would have been supportive of the heteroqeneity theory, while the obverse would have been supportive of the homogeneity theory. It was expected, that as the deep-need perspective was hypothesized to have greater utility in explicating marital adjustment, that the couples' mental advancement (summed scores) on the ASCT ought to be better predictors of marital satisfaction than the couples' difference scores (measured by their summed squared differences) on either the ASCT or the EPPS. METHOD Subjects Subjects in this study were seventeen married couples. Their participation was sought in one of two ways. Letters were distributed to all couples living in Michigan State University married student housing briefly explaining the nature of the study and outlining the investment of time being asked of volunteers. Those who were interested in hearing more about the study returned postcards that had been provided to them. The second manner in which participants were sought was through giving talks to several Lamaze childbirth classes and parent groups in New Jersey. After these talks, couples' participation was solicited. All sample couples were volunteers. Demographic data on the sample couples follow. The mean age of husbands was 40.06 years, with an minimum of 22 years and a maximum of 70. The mean age of wives was 37.65 years with the youngest being 22 years old and the oldest being 59. The average length of marriage for the couples was 162.75 months. The couple married for the shortest length of time had been married for 13 months. The marriage of greatest duration had at the 14 " .7. ' O n w. '7 .www r... 15 time lasted for thirty-seven years and ten months. The husbands' mean number of years of education was 17.35 years (undergraduate degree plus some graduate work). The wives' mean number of years of education was 15.35 years. Approximately fifty percent of the men were pro- fessionals. About one-third of the wives were secretaries and one-third were professionals. Men's own individual mean income was approximately $20,000. The wives' incomes averaged approximately $12,500. The couples had an average of 1.53 children. In general, this sample was well educated and middle-class. The husbands tended to be older, better educated, earn more and work in more prestigious occupa- tions than their wives. Instruments Three measures were utilized in this study. The first measure is the Spanier Dyadic Adjust- ment Scale (DAS) which was used as the dependent measure. The DAS was created by factor analyzing all of the then developed and accepted measures of marital satisfaction and happiness. It is a relatively short and simple scale, and has been validated fairly thoroughly. It may be taken independently by the members of a couple, enabling examination of systematic differences between sexes and the spouses, and allowing for 16 the possibility of examining the importance of marital differences in self reports of marital satisfaction. The Aronoff Sentence Completion Test is designed to elicit material that will enable scorers to place the subjects on the continuum of different need levels as was proposed by Maslow. It is proposed that these under- lying needs provide the motivation for the various strat- egies that people devise for their interactions with each other and with their environment. For this measure, inter- rater reliability levels have been ascertained. It has been measured between .68 and .89 for safety needs, between .66 and .86 for love and belongingness needs, and between .75 and .92 for esteem needs. The Edwards Personal Preference Schedule (EPPS) was used as the measure for "surface" needs, primarily because it has been the most common measure of this sort of marital need, historically. The reliability of the EPPS has been assessed ex- tensively. The split-half reliability coefficients for the fifteen personality variables range from a low of .60 to a high of .87 as measured over 1509 subjects in the college student age group. Test-retest reliability coefficients range from .74 to .88 for a group of 89 students, each of whom took the EPPS twice with a week separating the test administration (EPPS manual). The intercorrelations of the variables are generally low (with a high of -.36) . The influence of social desirability upon the EPPS 17 results has been examined by correlating the EPPS scales with both a measure of social desirability and the K scale from the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory. For the social desirability measure and the EPPS, the highest correlation was -.33 and the low was -.01. The validity of the EPPS has been investigated, with rather spotty results. Bernardin and Jessor (1957) considered the construct validity of the deference and autonomy subscales, looking at them as aspects of the dependency-independence continuum. They found that in- dependent and dependent people, labeled as a result of their scores on the autonomy and deference subscales, did show significantly different results in the predicted direction in experiments ascertaining their reliance on others' approval and help. They did not, however, differ in their display of group conformity. Gisvold (1958) related the deference and autonomy scales to a group conformity measure devised by Asch. He found that the correlation between the conformity scores and the autonomy scores was significant (at the .02 level), while the corresponding correlation for the deference scales and the conformity scores was not sig- nificant. Melikian (1958) compared McClelland's measure of achievement motivation to the achievement subscale on the EPPS, and found no relationship between the measures. Zuckerman (1958) found that peer ratings of student nurses for submissiveness, conformity, dependence and 18 rebelliousness differentiated high scorers on the combination of autonomy, deference and abasement scales from the others, as well as low scorers on the combination of deference, succorance and abasement scales from high scorers. It is suggested that part of the difficulty in validating the EPPS (note the Melikian results) stems from a fact that such psychological constructs as achieve- ment motivation may find quite varied forms of expression, while the EPPS examines only a limited range of these. As Melikian indicates, the EPPS questions on this sub- scale refer only to one type of achievement, namely the "hope for success” form. Procedures All of these measures were self-administered. Af- ter return of a postcard indicated interest in participa- tion in the study, or after choosing to participate during a Lamaze or parent group meeting, packets were admin- istered to the volunteers. The packets included the following: 1. explanation of study 2. demographic information sheet (2) husband and wife 3. consent form (2) husband and wife 4. Dyadic Adjustment Scale (2) husband and wife 5. Aronoff Sentence Completion Test (2) husband and wife l9 6. Edwards Personal Preference Schedule (2) husband and wife 7. all the appropriate answer sheets, clearly defined. The information sheet and the DAS, the ASCT and the EPPS are reproduced in Appendices A-D, respectively. The investigator remained present while members of the couple read the explanation of the study and responded to any questions. It was emphasized that dyad members were to complete the measures individually and without comparing responses. They were requested to complete the forms in the order presented in the packet. When couples had finished the forms they were returned via mail in previously stamped and addressed envelopes. RESULTS In order to test the various hypotheses, several types of comparisons were made between the capability of the ASCT and of the EPPS to predict marital satisfaction. Since,as will be seen,the magnitude of the correlations was low and generally failed to reach statistical signif- icance, a correlation of .3 (p < .12) was selected past hgg_as being of sufficient strength to warrant further consideration. For purposes of clarity, hypothesis number one is here restated: H1: Couples' composite scores on the ASCT are better predictors of marital satisfaction than are couples' composite scores on the various scales of the EPPS. To test this hypothesis, comparisons were made between correlations of couples' scores on each of the two independent measures with Spanier's Dyadic Adjustment Scale (DAS). For the purposes of these comparisons, scores on the scales of the EPPS were each summed over couples, as were the scores for the various Maslowian stages as measured by the ASCT. Spouses' scores on the DAS were similarly summed to provide a couple's measure of marital satisfaction. The relevant data can be found in 20 21 Table 1. As can be seen, couples' DAS scores were not significantly correlated with couples' scores on the ASCT or on the EPPS for any of the scales. The correlations for the various Maslow stages were uniformly low. There were several correlations among the EPPS scales that exceeded .3, specifically the couples' Order needs and Deference needs. However, they all failed to reach stat- istical significance as well. There is, then, little to support the hypothesis that a couple's score on the ASCT is a better predictor of the couple's marital satisfaction than is the couple's score on the EPPS (or that either is particularly useful). The second hypothesis was as follows: H2: Couples' composite scores on the ASCT are better predictors of marital satisfac- tion than are the summed squared difference scores of the couple for the EPPS scales. These correlations are also presented in Table 1. None of the composite scores on the ASCT reached statis- tical significance when correlated with the couples' DAS scores. Two of the summed squared difference scores on the EPPS reached statistical significance, namely Deference and Intraception (which latter was negatively correlated). Another EPPS scale, Dominance, exceeded a .3 correlation. There is thus no support for the hypothesis that total advancement of the couple on the Maslow hierarchy is a better predictor of marital satisfaction than considera- tion of the couple's heterogeneity or homogeneity. There 22 ma. mm. vv. mm. 5H.I «0.: .Hm>oH ma. v a as» an unmouuacmam sHHmoaunuumuu. “Ho “H. on. ‘no mm. mm. “no. no. ”N. “H. No. “no ”H. "a v~.u 5N; 00. OH. mo. NO. on. awe; mu... hurt—Hm. NH.I 5N... 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None of these correlations approach statistical significance and their magnitude generally was low. Hence there is little evidence that either the comple- mentary-similarity pattern of the couple, or the total progress made on the Maslowian need hierarchy, is a useful predictor of marital satisfaction. The fourth hypothesis is that: H4: Couples' summed squared difference scores on the ASCT are better predictors of marital satisfaction than are their summed squared difference scores on the EPPS. These correlations are also presented in Table 1. Since none of the ASCT scores herein presented approached statistical significance, this hypothesis is unsupported by the data. In order to consider the differences due to gender, several comparisons were made. Husbands' and wives' DAS scores were all correlated with their own ASCT and with their own EPPS scores. These data are presented in Table 2. 24 .Ho>oH mo. v m ecu um unmowmwcmfim mHHmowumHumuma av. 0H. mo. Hm. om. Ho. mu. 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To consider whether men and women contribute dif- ferently to a couple's marital satisfaction, couple's DAS scores were correlated with husbands' and with wives' ASCT and EPPS scores. These correlations are presented in Table 3. As can be seen in Table 3, only two of the EPPS ‘ scales for the husbands had correlations over .3, i. e., Order and Intraception. Four of the wives' scores on the various EPPS scales had correlations over .3: Achievement, Deference, Endurance and Intraception (this last being negatively correlated). On the ASCT, none of the husbands' scores were correlated at the .3 criterion while one of the wives' was, namely Safety needs. Husbands' and wives' DAS scores were also cor- related with their spouses' EPPS and ASCT scores. These correlations are presented in Table 4. Husbands' DAS scores are correlated at the .3 level with their wives' Achievement and Intraception scores. 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OOO.Hnu 54: zoom mama umaa azma uaoa uaza «mam zoua oaOa Ozua uuaa Baum axua uuua umoa auaa mZOHadqmmmoommEZH mmmm m mum-5H. . mnfimmom 32 .Hm>oa mo. v a up ucMOOmOcmOm maamowumwpoum moHMOcmOma OOO.H me. I mo.Iooo.H .nm. «#0. I MH.| mv. OOO.H mm. «no. ma. I «All h¢.I mu..- coo...” 200: wwdm Emma szm Omom abzm <3 SOD: 09mm 9.sz Arms.— Sdm 58mm man—m amoz :0: “Q “H an "H um “H In IH 200$ 00% Hum: 929.— poacaucooIIO manta DISCUSSION Much attention has been paid, over the years, to the roles that the needs of the members of a dyad might play in determining marital satisfaction. Generally, the research into this issue has centered on needs such as those that have been delineated by Henry Murray. Another approach to the nature of needs has been posited by Abraham Maslow, who theorized that a hierarchy of needs exists which includes physical and emotional safety needs, affiliation needs, self-esteem and self-actualization needs. This study was an attempt to compare the utility of these two disparate approaches to need theory, in terms of pre- dicting levels of marital satisfaction. Research into marital satisfaction also has been concerned with the types of patterns of needs that are predictive of marital harmony, most notably whether a complementary or a similar pattern increases dyadic happi- ness (Winch, 1954; Schellenberg, J. A. and Bee, L. 8., 1960; Murstein, 1967). A further concern was to understand the different approaches of men and of women to marriage, to consider how the genders differ in what is sought and the means used to attain their goals. The results of this study were examined in the light of these last two 33 34 concerns. Prior to engaging in a discussion of the results, a general caveat needs to be tendered. The results con- sistently failed to support any of the hypotheses. Overall, 382 correlations were considered of which only 50 (13%) were statistically significant; however, none of these were as originally hypothesized. This failure needs to be consid- ered with the following factors in mind. Foremost is the fact that the sample size was too small to provide for stat- istically significant results due to the magnitude of cor- relations under investigation. For the purposes of specula- tion about trends suggested by the data, a correlation level of .3 (p < .12) was selected g§_post facto as being of pos- sible interest. Second, the sample yielded a surprisingly high intra-dyadic marital satisfaction correlation of .85 on the Dyadic Adjustment Scale. This compared to findings of .60 in a prior study (Bertram, 1981). This vitiates the abil- ity to evaluate need differences that may have been gender de- termined, by providing for less difference than might other- wise have been expected, across dyads. With the foregoing in mind, I shall briefly speculate on the nature of some of the findings and some of their pos- sible ramifications. The comparisons between the Aronoff Sentence Completion Test and the Edwards Personal Preference Schedule are generally unilluminating. The correlations mostly are low and the number of significant correlations that were as hypothesized to occur does not equal 5% of the correlations. There is little in these data to recommend 35 either measure as being a good predictor of marital satis- faction. There are several correlations that were note- worthy, however, and which do seem to offer possible insight into what has made these marriages satisfying to the dyads involved. These correlations tend to be most interesting in the light of gender differences. There are many differences suggested by the data that exist between husbands and wives on each of the independent measures. On the EPPS there are five scales that for wives are correlated above the .3 level with their own marital satisfaction score, though only one of these (Endurance) reached Statistical significance. These five scales are Achievement, Order, Deference, Endurance, and Intraception (which last was negatively correlated). Thus, there is a suggestion in these results that the wives in this sample who were motivated to do difficult work well, to accomplish things, to defer to the leadership of others, to be organ- ized and systematic, to adhere to routine, to stick to prob- lem resolution even when it appears as if no progress is being made, and who are relatively uninterested in their own feelings and motives as well as those of others, are most likely to have reported being satisfied with their marriages. For men, only two of the EPPS scales are correlated at the .3 level with their own marital satisfac- tion. These are Order and Aggression. When considering which EPPS scales are correlated with a spouse's marital satisfaction, a similar pattern 36 unfolds. Again, wives' satisfaction is correlated at or beyond the .3 level with five of their husbands' EPPS scale scores. These are Order, Intraception, and (neg- atively correlated) Exhibitionism, Succorance and Hetero- sexuality. Husbands' marital satisfaction is correlated at the same level with but two of their wives' EPPS scores, Achievement and Intraception (negatively correlated). Again, there is a suggestion that the wives in our sample tended to be dependent for their marital satisfaction upon being deferent, well organized, persistent, determined and relatively uninterested in feelings and motivations. There is a tendency for women who characterized themselves as being in satisfactory marriages to be married to men who are orderly and systematic and relatively interested in feelings and the underlying motivations that inspire be- haviors. Their husbands also tend not to need to be the center of attention, nor to be sympathetically looked after, nor to be relatively interested in sex and sexuality or general heterosexual activities. Husbands' marital satisfaction is relatively correlated with their own Order and Aggression needs. Satisfied husbands tend to be married to wives who are motivated to persist in doing something well, and who are also relatively uninterested in feelings and motivations and understanding others. These findings are suggestive of a difference between husbands and wives. One could speculate that wives expect a greater range and variety of their personal 37 needs to be met through the marital relationship than do husbands. Husbands might be relatively satisfied, for example, simply if their wives are not preoccupied with feelings and are motivated to be persistent in accomplish- ing difficult work. Their spouses, however, tend to demand of them that they conform to preferred behaviors in more numerous ways. Further, husbands' marital satisfac- tion might be dependent upon little in their own need structure while these wives tend to fall into a more particular pattern of needs as their marital satisfaction increases. Added to the above is the additional factor that the wives' mean dyadic adjustment score is similar to and indeed marginally greater than their husbands', and their standard deviations are approximately 15% greater. Ord- inarily we would expect that if women are more particular, fi-fim... OM . A .NO.... “M u. -"-~—-‘ they would experience more difficulty in maintaining hw— _. ,OO.» Hi satisfactory“relationships, yet this was not the case. All of this suggests a greater involvement in marriages for wives than for their husbands. It is their persistence and determination to succeed that establishes the tone of the relationship. Their husbands are generally less interested in working to change or to improve the relation- ship, probably because they gain greater satisfactions for themselves outside their marriages, most likely through their work, than their wives do. The wives average out to be about as happy as their husbands but the variety is 38 greater, there are greater extremes, because, it is theorized: @Etalselatignships -..have.-.9£eatet..eelieeee t0 the general emotional satisfaction ofwives than to that ”—— ma-‘ * of their husbands, their gratifications and their dis— appointsments are both greater. This is consonant with the typical clinical pattern which finds that in the pre- ponderance of couples seeking therapy the wife initiates contact and the professional service is sought at her behest.1 These findings, that men and women respond differ- ently to marriage and have different expectations of the marital relationship, are consonant with prior research. Bernard (1972) stated, "There is now a very considerate body of well-authenticated research to show that there really are two marriages in every union and that they do not always coincide.” It is, however, less clear pre- cisely what has brought about those differences, and what impact the changes in economic and political life in the past two decades have had on these gender differences. We find, for example, that wives in our sample who had relatiyelyfihigh Achievement needs tended to rate their marriages as more satisfying. In attempting to explicate _‘_‘_-~- such a finding, the difficulty of using such essentially intrapersonally defined characteristics (Spanier and Lewis, 1980) becomes clear. Achievement needs can be met in and out of the marital relationship, in a myriad of settings and within variegated forms, yet taken by itself, Achievement needs as measured by the EPPS will 39 agglomerate all of these. It seems probable that men will tend to have many of their Achievement needs met through their role as worker or breadwinner. Women have tended not to have this option, although recently this arena is becoming more accessible to them. If, then, Achievement needs can sensibly be merged into a monolithic concept, we might expect that wives who work probably have greater Achievement needs than wives who do not and that they will report their marriages to be happier. Past research, how- ever, suggests (Nye, 1961; Grover, 1963) that women who are not working are likely to rate their marriages as happier than working women do. Some possible reasons for this discrepancy come to mind. One is that the wives worked out of necessity and not out of preference (economic demands). Two is that societal opprobrium for women who work put additional strains on the marriage, or caused guilty feelings (intrapersonal demands), or be- havioral changes by either spouse that disturbed marital harmony (interpersonal demands). The effect of women work- ing cannot be simplified, however. In a study of lower- class families, it was reported that when the wives worked, marital satisfaction increased, despite the employment arising out of economic necessity, and not by choice. Probably, then, this is a result of decreasing tensions due to financial insolvency concomitant with the increased ability to establish pleasant and enjoyable recreational activities. Here, too, however, research has indicated 40 that the picture is cloudy. Goode (1956) reported that perceived adequacy of income is important to marital adjustment, and Green (1960) extended this to demonstrate that economic failure did not detract from marital satisfaction, if economic success is not expected. The inadequacy of marital satisfaction measures that rely solely on intrapsychic, interpersonal, or demographic data is then quite highlighted. To repair then to the earlier point, in order to prOperly assess the difference between husbands' and wives' approaches to marriage and the theorized effect of a greater availability of external sources of emotional gratification to husbands, many factors must be taken into account. To consider the different impact of work upon men and women may clarify this. We find that Achievement-oriented wives tend to report greater satis- faction with their marriages than women with lower Achievement scores. And, we find in the literature that women who find extensive satisfactions in the working world experience enhanced marital adjustment (Fogarty, RapOport, and Rapoport, 1971; Orden and Bradburn, 1968; Safilios- Rothschild, 1970). There is then tentative support for the notion that as societal biases and discriminations atten- uate, as opportunities for women increase, some of the differences between men and women may dissipate. What then of the findings that suggest that wives who work experience less satisfaction with their marriages? One 41 notable issue as touched on above is the ability of the wife to choose whether to work (Orden and Bradburn, 1968). Enforced work activity tends to lead to dissatisfaction, unless the husbands' economic success was not an expected part of the relationship. Hence the match of role defin— itions is important. Bird (1979) reports that as wives' salaries increase, every thousand-dollar rise in income raises the likelihood of her marriage ending in divorce, by two percent. This finding appears to be at odds with earlier findings. We would assume that as women's salaries increase, they would be more likely to be achieving satisfaction in the workplace, probably func- tioning in more interesting jobs and with greater re- sponsibility. We will address this point later. What, too, of the findings that unemployed women rate their marriages as happier than do employed women? (Stoltz, 1960; Axelson, 1963) These latter studies were performed almost two decades ago, when mores, opportunities and expectations may have been different in many ways. One difference is that life expectations, which according to Max Weber define in large part the Stand or social class, were such that women were expected to remain in the home. Those who did not risked social and often marital displeasure. Two, the jobs that were available to women were even more limited in number, interest, responsibility and financial remuneration than is so today. It may be, in considering Erik Erikson's model for psychological development, that men and women, because of 42 different socialization, tend to progress along somewhat different lines. It may be that women tend to confront intimacy issues before identity issues as they learned early that their "job" would be to become married and raise children—-all relationship issues. Men learn early to consider the forms of their labor (an alternative and cogent construction of this is that women's identity struggles center around relationships while men's identity struggles tend to revolve around work issues).2 Specula- tion then would be that women, as yet, still typically derive less personal gratification from work than do men. They might typically have more guilt and feelings of being misplaced in their work environment--beyond the harassment and discrimination with which they are not in- frequently confronted. They may find that the work still is not integrated as being as important to them, to their own self-definitions as is so for men. An interesting question for further research would be to consider whether husbands and wives who work at equivalent occupational levels experience equivalent emotional satisfactions at work, and to consider how this affects the different approaches to marital satisfaction taken by the spouses. Our sample's couple's Dyadic Adjustment Scale scores (CDAS) are correlated at or greater than .3 with only two of the husbands' EPPS scales and with four of the wives'. These CDAS scores are, not surprisingly, correlated with husbands' Order and Intraception needs, 43 and with wives' Achievement, Deference, Endurance, and (negatively correlated) Intraception needs. Since the CDAS scores are simply the sum of the individual scores, these findings are not unexpected. While there were no significant correlations for ASCT levels and marital satisfaction, there were some patterns that may be of interest, particularly, again, when compared across genders. For both men and women there was distinct linearity for the correlations of their marital satisfaction with their own Safety, Affiliation, and Esteem needs. This linearity of correlation size occurred in opposite direc- tions for the genders. Wives' correlations decreased as Maslow's hierarchy of needs was ascended, while husbands' correlations increased. These correlations can be found in Table 2. As can be seen, women whose needs are pre- dominantly in the level of Safety needs are clearly similar to the pattern of needs found earlier on the EPPS to be correlated with wives' marital satisfaction. This is characterized in large part by desire for stability, routine and predictability. The correlations for husbands with their own DAS scores were generally smaller than their wives' scores were, and the order was different. Husbands' DAS scores were negatively correlated with their own Safety needs. Husbands, then, who had predominantly passed through the Safety need stage tended to rate their marriages as happier, though due to the small correlations involved 44 this conclusion is tenuous. Husbands' DAS scores are also correlated in descending order with their wives' Maslow (ASCT) scores. Though none of these three cor- relations is .3 or greater, the directionality is clear, that as women begin to function in ways that Maslow would characterize as increasingly mature and healthy, both they and their husbands become less satisfied with their marriages. The CDAS scores mirror these above-mentioned trends, as can be seen in Table 3. An interesting finding, quite in keeping with the results on the EPPS discussed previously, is that the couples' DAS scores are correlated much more with the wives' ASCT scores, the absolute value of the correlation for each level of ASCT need being at least double for wives that of their husbands. Again we find, then, that marital satisfaction depends more upon wives than upon husbands, further supporting our earlier speculations that marital satisfaction comprises a greater portion of wives' emotional resources than of husbands', quite possibly, as theorized, because of the greater availability to men of socially accepted satis- factions external to the marital relationship. Why, though, this result that as women get "healthier" their marriages tend to be less satisfying? It would ordinarily be expect- ed that as peOple progress along the Maslowian hierarchy they begin to be able to gratify their needs in increasingly flexible ways, thus increasing their satisfactions. In order to consider this finding, it may be helpful to 45 raise questions about the difference between marital quality and marital stability. Levinger (1965) and Spanier, Lewis and Cole (1975) posit that while the stability of a. marriage and its quality are correlated, they are by no means a unitary concept. All four combinations exist (high quality-high stability, high quality-low stability, low quality-high stability, low quality-low stability). We might, in retrospect, expect of our sample that as wives (or husbands) express, on the ASCT, predominantly Safety needs, that their marriages would be more stable. Fear of change and loss of dependency would encourage this. These women, however, rated their marriages as more satisfying, not merely more stable. Consider again the pos- sibly analOgous finding by Bird that as wives' incomes increase the likelihood of marital dissolution does as well. We cannot with confidence adjudicate whether this is due to increased marital difficulty, increased awareness of marital stress, or vitiated restraints against the dissolu- tion of marriage. It may be that wives, such as those in our sample, who score predominantly in the Safety need stage on the ASCT, having resigned themselves to continuing in the relationship, and being fearful of divorce and the concomitant changes that would thus be fostered, ignore, rationalize away, or deny displeasures and problems in the marriage to which ”healthier" women might attend with greater acuity. Future research might profitably consider some of the following questions. Are wives who are more advanced on the Maslow hierarchy more likely to become 46 divorced? Are they more likely to become divorced than less-"healthy" women who report equivalent satisfaction with their marriages? Do "healthier" women perceive the difficulties of their relationships more accurately than less-"healthy" women, judged by external criteria? In order to consider the respective predictive capacities of the similarity and complementarity theories, summed squared differences between spouses were obtained. Positive correlations of these with dyadic adjustment are suggestive of complementarity while the obverse is true for similarity. There is scanty evidence in the data to suggest that complementarity or similarity is important for well-adjusted marriages. There is one significant correlation for each, and beyond these no clear trend is evident. In support of the complementarity position is the finding for the Deference scale. Here the squared differ- ences for husbands and wives were a predictor of marital satisfaction. There was little difference due to sex in the individual results, with husbands' mean Deference score being 11.35 and wives' being 11.82. Interestingly, husbands' DAS scores were relatively uncorrelated with their wives' Deference scores, while wives' scores were correlated with their own Deference scores (r = -.39, p < .059). Neither husbands' nor wives' DAS scores were correlated with husbands' Deference scores. One inter- pretation of this, which dovetails with earlier 47 speculations is that husbands will not act much differ- ently in their marriages regardless of their wives' Deference needs. They will not respond differently nor will the gratification of their personal needs be affected, perhaps because they have sources of gratification outside their marriages. Women, then, who are less deferent will tend to be more frustrated and less gratified than will women whose higher needs for Deference inclines them toward demanding less equality in the decision-making processes with their husbands. In support of the similarity theory is the result on Intraception for which the difference score is negatively correlated with couples' DAS scores at an r==.46 level (p < .05). Here, the mean scores for husbands and wives were different by 1.6 points or three times the margin on the Deference scale. Wives' scores were larger than their husbands'. As similarity on this scale was predictive of happier rated couples, wives who score lower in Intraception needs rated their marriages as being happier. Husbands' DAS scores also increase as their wives' scores diminish. Wives' DAS scores are correlated at a level surpassing the .3 criterion (r==.39) with their husbands' scores on Intraception, however, the husbands' DAS scores were relatively uncorrelated with their own Intraception scores. DAS scores were relatively uncorrelated with the sum of a couple's Intraception scores (ra=.10). The patterns of interrelationships among EPPS scales 48 for husbands and wives differ extensively from each other, as seen in Tables 5 and 6. Here ten of the scales have no correlations in common, six have only one, and only two of them have as many as half of their intercorrelations in common across genders. To then compare husbands' scores with wives' in an attempt to look at complementarity versus similarity or to talk of the scores as representing equivalent psychological constructs, is of dubious utility. Indeed, since the scales appear to mean different things to the two genders, it may be that measures that are to be used in similar research ought to be factored separately for men and women. A similar finding to this concerning the Dyadic Adjustment Scale was presented in Bertram (1981) in which a factor analysis performed separately for men and women indicated that Spanier's scales,based as they were upon pooled data, did not adequately reflect the approach that women take to marriage. Interestingly, no major marital-adjustment scale has been factor analyzed using separated data pools for husbands and wives. In summary, then, the findings highlight the difficulties in attempting to assess marital satisfaction using limited theoretical schema (need theory, role theory, etc.) or examining limited forms of data (intra- personal, interpersonal, or demographic). The importance of examining cognitive attributions, expected role constructs, demographics, interpersonal process and intrapersonal needs, is stressed. The hypotheses failed to be supported by the 49 data and statistically significant results were few and failed to occur at chance levels. Several patterns of differences between the genders emerged, however, that are provocative and engender suggestions for future research. It is particularly thought that utilization of measures that have been constructed allowing for gender differences is imperative for continuing research into the field of marital satisfaction. NOTES 1Personal communication with Phyllis Lenard, M. S. W., Children's Psychiatric Center, Freehold, New Jersey, 1981. Personal communication with Dr. Gary Stollak, Ph. 0., Michigan State University, East Lansing, Michigan, 1981. 50 APPENDIX A DEMOGRAPHIC INFORMATION SHEET 52 mm 098 HO. .. W Lu! Your 808: foot A”: haul: a! nu. Hunted (Your. ad the”) : Ida: a! Previous tbs-runs: # Ides of cum-- A... of ammo: m of unsung Living With You: Lu: Year of School You lava Cowl-cad: Demands: You: been. (Not Including That of Your Spouse) : Per Year APPENDIX B DYADIC ADJUSTMENT SCALE 0mm: mus-mun scars “m ”‘— Hoat persons have disagreements in their relationships. Please indicate below the approximate extent of agraanant or disagreement between you and your partner for each iten a the following list. Almost . Occa- Ira- Alsoat Always Always -aionally quontly Always Always Agree Ages Disagree Disagree Disagree Disgrea 1. Handling family finances 2. Hatters of recreation I. Religious setters 4. Demonstrations of affection 5. Sex relations 6. Friends 7. Cavantiaaliyy (correct or proper behavior) 8. Philosophy of life 9. Ways of dealing with parents or in-laws 10. Aims. goals. ad things believed isportant ll. heat of ties spent together 12. Making major decisions 13. Household tasks 16. Leisure tins interests and activities 15. Career decisions More All .Hoat of often Occa- g. 51.. th‘e time than not sionally Rarely Never to. how often do you discuss or have you considered divorce. separation, or tar- Iinnting your relationship? 17. houoften doyou'oryour nets leave the home after a fight? 18. In general. how often do you think that things between you ad your partner are going uall‘l 19. Do you confide in your nets? 10. Do you ever regret that you married? 54 Hora All Most of often Occa- 21. How often do you and your sate quarrel? 22. How often do you ad your sate ”get a each other's nerves?" Ivory Almost Occa- lvagz Lay pionally Iarsly lever 23. Do you hiss your nets? 24. Do you and your mate engage in outside interests together? How ofta would you say the fella-ring events occur bauaa you ad your eats? bass tha (hos or Once or ace a twice a twice a (hes a lever month nonth week _ day lbra often 25. Have a stimlating exchange of ideas 26. Laugh together 27. Calnly discuss scathing 28. Hort together on a project These are some things about which couples sosatinas agree ad sosstinsa disagree. Indicate if either item below caused differences of opinions or were problems in your relationship in the past few weeks. (Chad: yes or no) Yes In 29. being too tired for sex. 30. lot showing love. 31. The dots on the following line rapt-seat different degrees of happiness in your relationship. The aiddla point, 'happy", represents the degree of happiness of seat relationships. Please circle the dot aich best describes the degree of happiness. all things considered. of your ralatiaship. Extra-1y 'fiirly a little iappy fiVery intranly Page“ £13m Elm Elihu»! an» Inn 32. Which of the following state-ate best describes how you feel about the future of your relationship? I want desperately for my rslatiaship to succeed. ad would go to almost any lengths to see that it does. lwat vary-sch foreyralationship tosucesad. adwilldoalllcantosaa that it does. lwatvary-Ichforayrelationshiptosuccaad. adwilldoayfairshara to see that it does. Itwouldbanics ifqy ralationshipsucosadad. but I ca'tdo-Ichnona tha I In doing now to help it succeed. ltwouldbanicaifit succeeded, butlnsfusstodoaynonsthanlasdoing now to keep the relationship going. Hy relationship ca never succeed. ad there is nothing more that 1 ca do to heap the relatiaship going. APPENDIX C ARONOFF SENTENCE COMPLETION TEST ARONOFF SENTENCE COMPLETION TEST Date: Nana: below are forty incomplete sentences. Read and con-plate each one. If the suggested word occurs in the siddle of the line, place it wherever you wish. 1. I should like to 2. lbst isportant 3. Hy appearance 4. good used 5. "hen l as not treated right. I d. if I could only 7. My head 8. The people who work for as 9. The safe driving force in sy life is 10. Other people are 55 11. 12. 13. 1‘. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 56 It I could change anything. I for sure 1est The core involved one gets Tor as. the best As a ch11d. 1 A friend I will fight when care It's fun to daydrean about valuable possession A.stranger 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 33: 3‘. 57 Hhen told to keep my place. I Dormitory living Hhen an animal is wild. If I were in charge Being People think I an I don't like what bothers me nost continually To me. people 11 l so put under pressure I so happy when 36. 37. 38. 39. 60. 5E3 broke . then 1 want Tho future The people I like best flhen I can't do sonething. l Tests like this APPENDIX D EDWARDS PERSONAL PREFERENCE SCHEDULE Edwards Personal Preference Schedule an... t. Edwards, University or Washington DIRECTIONS Thisacheduleconsistsofanundserofpaiuoffiatanentseboutthingsthatyoumayornuynot lieubouwaysinwhichyounuyormaynotfeel.ldokattheesamplebelow. Alliketotalkaboutmyselftoothers. Illiketoworktowardsomegoalthatlharesetformyself. Which of these two statements is more characteristic of what you like? If you like "talking about yourself to others" more than you like "working toward some goal that you have set for yourself." then you should choose A over B. if you like "working toward some goal that you have set for yourself" more thanyoulike "talkingaboutyourselftootherfi' thenyoushouldchooseloverA. You may like both A and B. In this case. you would havetochooscbetween the two and you should choosctheomthatyoulikebetter.lfyoudislikebothAandB.thenyoushouldchoosetheonethatyou dislikeless. Some of the pairs of statements in the schedule have to do with your likes. such as A and 8 above. Other pairs of statements have to do with how you feel. Look at the example below. A I feel depressed when l fail at something. I i feel nervous when giving a talk before a group. Which of these two statements is more characteristic of how you feel? lf ”being depressed when you fail at soaiething" is more characteristic of you than "being nervous when giving a talk before a group." thenyoushouldchooserverB.lfBismorecharacteristicofyouthanA,thenyoushouldchooseB over A. lfbothstatementsdescrtbehowyouieel.thenyoushouldchoosetheonewhichyouthinkismore characteristic. lfneitherstaternent accurately dacribeahowyoufedthenyoushouldchoosetheone which youconsidertobelessinaccurate. Yotuchoice,ineachinstance.shouldbeinternudwhatyoulikeandhowyoufeelatthepresent time. and not in terms of what you think you should like or how you think you should feel. This is not a test. There are no right or wrong answers. Your choices should be a description of your own per- sonal likes and feelings. Make a choice for every pair of statements; do not skip any. The pairs of statements on the following pages are similar to the examples given above. Read each pair of statements and pick out the one statement that better describes what you like or how you feel. Make no marks in the booklet. On the separate answer sheet are numbers corresponding to the numbers ofthepairsofstatements.Checktobesureyouarenurkingforthesameitemnunberastheitem you are reading in the booklet. If your answer sheet is printed if your answer sheet is printed is BLACK ink: ‘m BLUE ink: For each numbered item draw a circle around For each numbered item fill in the space therrBtoindicatethestatementyw endcerrBssshownintheDirections have chosen. on the answer sheet. Do not turn this page until the examiner tells you to start. 59 14 Ilihtobrlpreyfriendswheatheyarelntrouble. lliketodemyeerybestiswhatererlundertake. lliketohndentwbatgreatsnenbsve abom various inwhichlaminttis lweuldliketaaccamplishsemethingelgseatsignifir canes. 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