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DATE DUE DATE DUE DATE DUE Waits-0.1 SOCIAL SUPPORT OF MARRIED PERSONS IN THE UNITED STATES AND ITALY BY Lin, Yu-hsi A THESIS Submitted to Michigan State University in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of MASTER OF ARTS Department of Sociology and Urban Affairs Program 1996 ABSTRACT SOCIAL SUPPORT OF MARRIED PERSONS IN THE UNITED STATES AND ITALY B! Lin, tu-hsi The data used in this study is 088 data collected in 1986 and 1987. This study examines the roles of kin and friends in married persons' social network and social-support choices in the United States and Italy. It also uses logistic regression to examine the impact of education on the choices. Social support choices refer to whom married persons turn to when they have problems with their spouses, feel depressed or need advice on making important changes in life. IResults show that Americans generally associate with best friends more often than with kin, and Italians associate with kin more often than with friends. In addition to education, other factors also impact married persons' choices of helpers, such as gender, social class, and culture. Copyright by Lin , Yu-hsi 1996 ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS Writing a quantitative research paper is a great challenge to me. I would like to express my gratitude to Dr. Stan Kaplowitz, Dr. John Schweitzer, and Dr. Gold. Dr. Kaplowitz, my advisor, gave me detailed instruction in statistics and writing. I thank Dr. Schweitzer for his instruction in statistics and his encouragement. My thankfulness also goes to Dr. Gold, who suggested that I make a cross-cultural comparison for my thesis. He advised me on writing styles, literature review and how to enrich the discussion section. iv TABLE OF CONTENTS Page LIST OF TABLES Vi INTRODUCTION 1 REVIEW OF THE LITERATURE 4 Support from Kin and friends 4 Gender Roles and Mental Health of Married 8 Persons Social Network 8 Social Support of Married 11 Persons METHODS 20 Data 20 Subjects 21 Sampling 21 Summary of Hypotheses 22 RESULTS 24 DISCUSSION 46 LIMITATIONS 56 CONCLUSION 57 APPENDIX 59 LIST OF REFERENCES 61 Table Table Table Table Table Table Table Table Table Table LL9T son > daughter > relatives > parents > siblings Wilcoxon Matched-Pairs signed-Ranks Test for the Ranking in Table 1.1 v25 how often visit sons with V42 how oft. visit best friend Mean Rank Cases 112.93 100 - Ranks (V42 LT V25) 118.35 131 + Ranks (V42 GT V25) 42 .Ties (V42 EQ V25) Z = -2.0707 1-Tailed P = .0192 V21 how often visit daughter with V42 how oft. visit best friend Mean Rank Cases 104.56 83 - Ranks (V42 LT V21) 110.16 132 + Ranks (V42 GT V21) 54 Ties (V42 so V21) Z = -3.2100 1-Tailed P = .0006 27. However, the frequencies in Table 1.2 shows that married people contact daughters most frequently, followed by contacting mother (at least several times a week), sons and best friends (at least once a week)(see table 1.2). They contact best friends more frequently than father] relatives and sisters. Brothers are least contacted. The Wilcoxon test shows that the p values are significant when comparing best friends with daughter, mother, father and sister. This means that married persons contact mother and daughter significantly more often than best friends and contact best friends significantly more often than father, relatives, and siblings. Hypothesis 1a is supported for visits but not for other contacts. Table 1.2 (USA Male e Female) Frequency of other contact with best friend, parents, siblings, children, and relatives best mother father sister brother daughter son relatives friend ' -----------------------------------------------------------. e 3. 23.7 28.1 29.6 18.6 18.3 28.2 29.1 23.1 4. 20.8 21.5 21.6 26.4 24.8 12.7 17.0 25.3 5. 9.2 4.0 9.2 20.3 24.5 5.7 10.4 13.5 6. 11.1 6.1 14.0 15.6 21.8 4.9 7.4 10.8 100 2 100 t 100 t 100 % ‘100 t 100 % 100 z 100 % MEAN 3.23 2.91 3.45 3.87 4.24 2.63 3.10 3.45 Note: 1=daily, 2=several times a week, 3=once a week, 4=once a month, 5=several times a year, 6=less often N= 773 506 379 591 597 245 230 758 Ranking of frequencies from high to low: daughter > mother > son > best friend > father & relatives > siblings 28 Table 1.2 (cont'd) Wilcoxon Matched-Pairs signed-Hanks Test for the Ranking in Table 1.2 V23 other contact w daughter with V44 other contact with best friends Z = -4.0775 1-Tailed P = .0000 V7 other contact with mother with V44 other contact with best friends 2 = -4.7837 1-Tailed P = .0000 V27 other contact with son with V44 other contact with best friends 2 = -.2847 1-Tailed P = .3879 V11 other contact with father with V44 other contact with best friends 2 = -2.9874 1-Tailed P = .0014 V15 other contact with sister with V44 other contact with best friends = .0000 z = -6.7335 1-Tailed P Hypothesis 1b states that married persons in Italy contact or visit kin more often than friends. The frequencies are coded the same way as those for Americans. The results are presented in Table 1.3 and 1.4. Table 1.3 shows that married people in Italy visit sons and daughters most frequently (parents and children either live in the same household or parents visit children daily), followed by visiting mother (at least once a week), relatives and father. They visit best friends (at least once a week) only more often than siblings (at least once a month). The _29 Wilcoxon test shows that the p values are significant when sons, daughters, mother and relatives are compared with best friends in terms of their frequencies of being visited. This means at least four kin groups are more frequently visited than best friends. TABLE 1.3 (Italy Males 8 Females) Frequency (valid percent) of visiting best friend, parents, siblings, children and relatives best mother father sister brother daughter son relatives friend 1 .4 10.3 7.6 .8 .9 60.7 64.6 6.2 2. 25.1 25.4 25.9 15.0 17.2 16.7 12.9 26.8 3. 23.1 22.9 21.9 15.0 13.5 9.3 9.2 20.4 4. 24.4 18.5 20.7 16.9 16.8 7.4 5.8 21.7 5. 15.8 11.1 10.8 23.9 20.5 1.6 2.5 15.0 6. 6.7 5.7 4.8 14.4 14.3 .8 3.3 6.5 7. 4.4 6.2 8.4 14.0 16.8 3.5 1.7 3.4 100 % 100 % 100 3 100 % 100 % 100 % 100 % 100 % MEAN 3.67 3.36 3.49 4.46 4.49 1.88 1.85 3.45 Note: =same household, 2=daily, 3=several times a week, 4=once a week, 5=once a month, 6=several times a year, 7=less often _ N= 549 389 251 473 453 257 240 613 Ranking of frequencies from high to low: children > mother > relatives > best friend > siblings Wilcoxon Matched-Pairs signed-Ranks Test for the ranking in Table 1.3 V25 how often visit sons with V42 how often visit best friends 2 8 -9.0441 1-Tailed P = .0000 V21 how often visit daughter with V42 how often visit best friends 2 8 -9.7001 1-Tailed P .0000 30 Table 1.3 (cont'd) V5 how often visit mother with V42 how often visit best friends Z = -3.3152 1-Tailed P = .00045 V35 how often visit relatives with V42 how often visit best friends Z = -3.3264 1-Tailed P = .00045 V9 how often visit father with V42 how often visit best friends Z = -1.0314 1-Tailed P 8.1512 Similarly, married persons in Italy contact daughters, sons and mothers most frequently (at least several times a week), followed by best friends/relatives (the same frequency) and siblings (see table 1.4). The Wilcoxon test shows that the p values are'significant when the frequencies of daughter, mother, father, sister and brother are compared with best friends in terms of how often they are contacted. This means that married persons in Italy contact only daughter and mother significantly more often than best friends. In short, married people in italy visit most of the kin more often than best friends but only contact some of the kin more often than best friends. Hypothesis 1b is significantly supported for visits, but not for contacts. 31 TABLE 1.4 (Italy Males 5 Females) Frequency of contact with best friends, parents, siblings, children and other relatives best mother father sister brother daughter son relatives friend 100 8 100 8 100 8 100 8 100 8 100 8 100 8 100 8 MEAN 3.02 2.77 3.28 3.46. 3.87: 2.39 2.88 3.02 Note: 1=daily, 2=several times a week,.3=once a week, 4=once a month, 5=several times a year, 6=less often N8 547 346 231 463 446 100 85 570 Ranking of frequencies from high to low: daughter > mother > son> best friends & relatives > father > siblings Wilcoxon Matched-Pairs signed-Ranks Test for the Ranking in Table 1.4 V23 other contact with daughter with V44 other contact with best friends Z = -3.8887 1-Tailed P = .00005 V7 other contact with mother with V44 other contact with best friends Z = -1.7325 1-Tailed P = .0416 V27 other contact with son with V44 other contact with best friends 2 = -.2251 _ l-Tailed P = .4109 V11 other contact with father with V44 other contact with best friends Z = -1.8085 1-Talled P = .0352 V15 other contact with sister with V44 other contact with best friends Z = -3.5549 1-Tailed P = .0002 32 Table 1.4 (cont'd) V19 other contact with brother with V44 other contact with best friends Z = -6.9405 l-Tailed P = .0000 Tables 1.1 to 1.4'also show some other interesting results: a higher percentage of Italian respondents live, with parents, children and relatives. Less than two percent of American respondents live with parents, while 7.6 to 10.3 percent of Italians do so. Less than 24 percent of American respondents live with children, while over 60 percent of Italians do so. 1.8 percent of American respondents living with relatives, while 6.2 percent of Italians live with relatives. The percentages for living with siblings are very similar in these two countries -- both less than one percent. Hypothesis 2 examines the relationship between education and a married person’s first choice of spouse as a helper when s/he is faced with depression and needs advice, and it examines the effect of educational level on a respondent’s first choice of friends or kin when s/he is faced with family problems. The percentages of their choices of various helpers are presented in Table 2.2 and Table 2.3. Logistic regression is used to test hypotheses 2a, 2b and 2d. The results of the logistic regressions are presented in Table 2.1. For each hypothesis, four groups of 33 respondents (American males and females and italian males and females) are chosen. First, to test hypothesis 2a and 2b, the values of the dependent variables v57 (help-seeking choices when feeling depressed) and v59 (help-seeking choices for advice) are recoded into spouse = 1 and nonspouse (options other than spouse) - 0. Second, to test Hypothesis 2d, the values of the dependent variable v55 (help-seeking choices when faced with family problems) are recoded into 1 = friend (closest friend and other friend), 0 = nonspouse kin (mother, father, daughter, son, brother and sister) and other options are treated as missing values. Third, education is the independent variable for testing hypotheses 2a, 2b and 2d, and education is mean corrected. A variable which indicates years in school, is used as the independent variable in the regressions. Hypothesis 2a states that a married person would turn to his or her spouse first when s/he feels depressed, no matter how much school education s/he has. Table 2.2 and 2.3 show that 74.9 percent of American males and 52 percent of American females turned to their spouses first, while the percentages of Italian respondents are 61.8 for males and 29.4 for females. These percentages are larger than those of other options (though 29.4 percent is not very high) and prove that respondents from all four groups are more likely to turn to their spouses first than anyone else. Table 2.1 shows that education has a barely significant effect (p 2.0431) on American females' choices of spouse as first 34 helpers. However, there is not a significant relationship between education and the choices of spouse for the other three groups. The negative signs.in Table 2.1 may be just sampling errors. Thus, hypothesis 2a is supported. Table 2 . 1 ”w Unstandardized logistic regression coefficients for the effect of education on choices of helpers W Ecumenism Adria B B B Males Females Males Females Males Females USA .093* .1729** -.004 .0795* .1142** .0952* Italy .2191*** .1740* . -.0948 .0938 .0098 .1718** (*= p < .05 **= p<.01 ***- p<.001) Note: For family problem, v55 is recoded as 1= friend (closest friend 8 other friends) as nonspouse kin. For depression and advice, v57 and v59 are recoded as 1= spouse, 0= nonspouse. ’ 35 Table 2.2 (0.8. males and females) Choice of helpers (indicated by valid percent) on three occasions family problem depression advice male female male female male female no one 6.0 2.4 1.9 ' 1.7 2.7 1.9 spouse 12.5 9.1 25.2 -§2LQ 1111 15;; mother 11.4 14.4 1.6 5.9 .5 5.0 father 3.3 2.4 .5 4.0 1.2 daughter 4.4 ' 8.4 1.1 5.2 1.1 2.6 son 4.6 3.3 .8 1.4 2.2 2.6 sister 4.6 8.4 2.4 4.5 .5 2.4 brother 5.2 1.4 1.9 .5 1.3 .2 other relatives 4.1 4.3 1.1 1.4 1.1 1.2 closest friend 18.5 23.2 8.1 20.8 4.3 3.8 other friend 1.4 .7 .5 . .9 .3 .2 neighbor .5 .' .2 .5 .7 someone you .5 .5 1.1 .7 1.1 .2 work with church, clergy 16.1 16.5 3.0 3.1 1.3 2.1 family doctor 1.1 1.0 1.2 psychologist] 5.4 3.6 .5- .2 .8 .5 psychiatrist ' solicitor,lawyer .3 .2 other .3 .2 .5 .8 N= 367 443 383 443 383 443 TABLE 2.3 (Italy Male 5 Female) Choice of helpers (indicated by valid percent) on three occasions family problem depression advice male female male female male female no one 19.8 12.7 5.9 7.1 8.6 8.6 Spouse 7-1 3-0 5115 2211 1111 £112 mother 5.3 16.0 1.8 6.8 .6 7.1 father 2.1 .9 .6 1.2 2.1 daughter 5.9 13.9 1.2 9.5 .6 5.0 son 8.0 5.3 1.8 2.4 2.7 3.0 sister 6.5 14.2 ' 2.4 8.6 .9 1.5 brother 6.2 3.0 .9 1.8 2.1 other relatives 8.0 7.4 1.5 3.6 1.2 2.1 closest friend 24.0 16.9 16.9 25.2 6.2 4.7 other friend 1.2 1.8 1.2 1.5 .3 neighbor .3 .9 3.3 .3 someone you .3 .3 2.1 .3 1.2 .3 work with 36 church, clergy 2.4 2.7 .3 .6 .6 family doctor .6‘ .3 1.5 .9 .3 psychologist, 2.4 1.5 .6 psychiatrist solicitor, lawyer .6 .6 other .3 .3 .9 .3 N- 338 338 338 338 338 338 Hypothesis 2b states that more educated married persons would more likely turn to their spouse first when they need advice on making an important change in life. Table 2.2 and table 2.3 show that 77.7 percent of American males and 75.1 percent of American females turn to their spouses first, while the percentages of Italian respondents are 73.1 for males and 61.2 for females. These percentages are much higher than those of other options and prove that respondents in four groups are more likely to seek advice from their spouses first than from anyone else. Table 2.1 shows that there is a significant relationship between education and seeking help from spouse first for all but one group (Italian males). The positive coefficients indicate that the more educated a married person is, the more likely s/he would turn to his or her spouse for advice. This hypothesis is supported. - According to Hypothesis 2d, the less educated a married person is, the more likely s/he would turn to kin for help with family prOblems; the more educated a married person is, the more likely s/he would turn to friends. The unstandardized regression coefficients (B) in Table 2.1 37 range from .093 to .2191. The positive coefficients indicate that the more educated a married person is, the more likely s/he would turn to friends first. In addition, there is a significant relationship between education and his or her choice of friends as the first helper for all groups. The relationship is highly significant (p < .001) for Italian males. Hypothesis 2d is supported. Hypothesis 2c tests if the likelihood for men to turn to their wives is greater than that for women to turn to their husbands for help with depression and advice. In Table 2.2 and Table 2.3,.the frequencies of v57 (help seeking choices when feeling depressed) and v59 (help- seeking choices for advice) are used to know the percentages of married persons' first choices of helpers in these two situations. By comparing the percentages of men’s and women's choices in both countries, we shall know if the percentages for choosing spouses first are higher for men than for women. To prove that the results are not sampling errors, the p values of Pearson's chi-square are examined. To conduct the chi-square test, the values of v57 (help- seeking choices when feeling depressed) and v59 (help- seeking choices for advice) are recoded as 0= nonspouse and 1- spouse. Because there is some gap between American and Italian respondents' educational statuses (about 24 8 of Americans and 12 8 of Italians have college education), two U.S. subsamples and two Italian subsamples are used to test if 38 education accounts for'the difference between Americans and Italians. The U.S. and Italian subsamples consist of those who have university education and those who do not have university education. The same procedures for testing hypothesis 2c are applied to the subsamples. The results in Table 2.2 and 2.3 indicate that the percentages of American and Italian women who turn to their spouses when they are depressed are 52.9 and 29.4 separately, while the percentages are 75.1 and 61.2 when they need advice. However, the percentages of American and Italian men who turn to their spouses when they are depressed are 74.9 and 61.8 separately, while the percentages are 77.7 and 73.1 when they need advice. The percentages for men are larger than those for women in two situations, and their difference is more obvious for Italian respondents. In Table 2.4 we see that there is a significant difference in the likelihood of American men's and women's turning to their spouses for help with depression (p=.000), but not for advice (p=.385). In addition, the percent difference for depression (22.9 8) is larger than that for advice (2.6 8). . However, for both depression and advice, Italian men and women differ significantly in their likelihood of turning to their spouses for help. The P Value is .000 for depression and .001 for advice. Like American respondents, the percent difference for depression (32.4 8) is larger 39 than that for advice (11.9 8). Tlhl. 2.4 Comparison of males' and females' tendency to seek help from spouse/nonspouse in the 0.8. 6 Italy for depression 5 advice USA Respondents Depression Advice column 8 Male Female Male Female Nonspouse 25.1% 48% 22.38 24.98 Spouse 24.28 528 11113 12111 M - F 22.9 8 2.6 8 N 371 423 372 421 Sig ,990 ilfié Italian Respondents Depression Advice column 8 Male Female Male Female Nonspouse 38.2% 70.6% 26.9% 38.88 Spouse 61.83 22.48. 11111 91121 M - F 32.4 8 11.98 N 338 337 338 338 Sig 1999 1921 NOTE: M - F refers to the percent difference between males and females The results for testing the subsamples are presented in Table 2.5. In Table 2.5 we see that among American respondents with university education, there is no significant difference between males and females in the likelihood of their turning to their spouses for help with depression (p= .077) and advice (p= .318). Among Italian respondents with university education, there is also no 40 significant difference between males and females in the likelihood of their turning to their spouses for help with depression (p= .183) and advice (p= .752). Because the ch-square test does not measure strength of association between two groups, it is necessary to compare the percent difference among well-educated and less educated respondents. The reason for comparing percent difference is that it is an unbiased estimate of the strength of association in the population. From Table 2.5 two conclusions can be made: (1) In both countries, the percent difference among well-educated persons is usually smaller than that among less educated ones. For example, the percent difference for depression is 11.5 8 among American well-educated people, while it is 25.8 8 among less-educated people. In the Italian sample, the percent difference for depression is 15.5 8 among well-educated persons, while it is 33.1 8 among less-educated ones. (2) Well-educated Americans and Italians have fairly similar patterns of help seeking for depression and advice. With regard to advice seeking, well- educated Americans show a percent difference of 5.5 8 while well-educated Italians show a percent difference of 3.3 8. Thus the two percent difference scores differ by only 2.2 8. By contrast, less educated people from the two countries differ from each other to a great extent. For advice seeking, less-educated Americans show a percent difference of .07 8, while less-educated Italians show a difference of 41 12.1 5. Thus the two percent difference scores differ by 11.9 percent. A Hypothesis 2c, which states that men would more likely turn to their spouse for depression and advice than women, is significantly supported for only American and Italian respondents without college/university education. Part of this is a result of the fact that the sample sizes for less- educated respondents are larger than those for well-educated ones in both countries, thus making it easier to get statistically significantly results. Table 2.5 Percent Difference a P value of Pearson's chi-square test for American and Italian subsamples USA Respondents with college education Depression. amuse Male Female Male Female spouse 73.8 8 61.9 8 858 79.5 M - F 11.5 8 5.5 8 N 107 84 107 83 Pearson sig .007 sig .318 Italian Respondents with college education Mien Adxige Male Female Male Female spouse 62.2 8 46.7 8 73.3 8 70.8 M - F 15.5 8 3.3 8 N 45 3O 45 3O Pearson sig .183 sig .752 42 Table 2.5 (cont’d) USA Respondents without college education Depression dvc Male Female Male Female spouse 75.4 8 49.6 8 74.7 8 74 8 M - F 25.8 8 0.7 8 N 264 339 265 338 Pearson sig .0000 sig .833 Italian Respondents without university education ess 89119.9 Male Female Male Female spouse 61.8 8 27.7 8 73 8 60.4 8 M - F 34.1 8 12.6 8 N 293 307 293 308 Pearson sig .000 sig .001 Note: M - F refers to the percent difference between men and women in seeking help from their spouses. Regarding the choices of helpers for family problems in hypothesis 2d, Tables 2.2 and Table 2.3 also present many interesting findings. For both U.S. and Italian males and females, the percentage of turning to closest friends when they have family problems is higher than that of any other helper:18.5 percent of U.S. males and 23.2 percent of U.S. females; 24 percent of Italian males and 16.9 percent of Italian females. For U.S. respondents, the likelihood of turning to church clergy for family problems is the second highest (16.1 percent for males and 16.5 percent for females). These percentages are much higher than those for Italian respondents (2.4 8 for males and 2.7 8 for females). 43 U.S respondents also more likely turn to psychologists (5.4 8 for males and 3.6 8 for females) than Italian respondents (2.4 8 for males and 1.58 for females). For Americans and Italians, the percentages of turning to psychologists and clergy for family problems are much higher than the percentages when they turn to psychologists and clergy for depression and advice. Yet, Italians are more likely to turn to no one (19.8 8 for males and 12.7 8 for females) than Americans (6.0 8 for males and 2.48 for females). In addition, American and Italian respondents are similar in the pattern of seeking help for depression and advice: They predominantly depend on spouses, kin and closest friends and minimally depend on neighbors, co- workers, family doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists, and lawyers. Yet, more American respondents turn to church clergy for help with depression and advice than Italian respondents (about three percent for Americans and less than one percent for Italians). Hypothesis 3 predicts a greater tendency for a married person who does not turn to his/her spouse first to turn to female kin than male kin for help in three situations. The binomial test is used to test Hypothesis 3. The values of v55 (help-seeking choices when faced with family problems) are recoded into male kin (father, son and brother) = 1, female kin (mother, daughter and sister)- 2, and other options - missing. This test examines the proportions of male and female kin from whom four groups of 44 respondents (American males and females as well as Italian males and females) seek help. Table 3 presents the effect of the gender of the confidant on the help seeking of respondents from both countries in three situation. Both American and Italian women are more likely to choose female kin rather than male kin to help with family problems and depression (p <.001). In terms of advice seeking from female kin, the p value is smaller than .01 for American women and smaller than .05 for Italian women. So, we can reject the null hypothesis that females from both countries equally turn to male and female kin. Married men in the U.S. are more likely to turn to female kin than to male kin for help with family problems (p <.05) but are more likely to turn to male kin for advice (p <.01). However, the likelihood that they will seek help from females rather than males does not significantly differ from 50 8 (i.e. pa .2812). As for married men in Italy, they turn to male kin for advice more often than female kin (p2 .031). When they are depressed or faced with family problems, the proportion of females sought does not differ significantly from 50 8 (pa :1237 and pa .7091 separately). This hypothesis is always supported for women and sometimes supported for men. 45 rants. 3 Proportions of male and female kin from when both 0.8. 8 Italian respondents seek help for family problems, depression and advice A-W 1. Female Respondents’ Helpers WW Miss Helpers 8 female total 8 female total 89 8 '74 8 female total 71 8 59 2-tailed P B. Male Respondents’ H elpers .0000 .0018 Helpers 8 female total 8 female total 8 female total 60.9 8 123 61 8 31 22 8 36 l2-tailed p .0191 .2812 .0015 B-Italueenondente 1. Female Respondents’ Helpers Wigs 2921199191: 85111129 Helpers 8 female total 8 female total 8 female total 82.7 8 180 89.4 8 94 65.7 8 70 l2-tailed p .0000 .0000 .0121 I 2. Male Respondents’ Helpers Helpers 8 female total 8 female total 8 female total 52.1 8 115 66.6 8 27 26.9 8 26 .7091 .1237 .0310 l2-tailed p No e: e igures under WISE; female helpers. are e sum 6? male and P levels test the null hypothesis that the proportion of chosen females is 50 8 DISCUSSION The findings primarily support hypothesis 1a -- married persons in the U.S. do visit friends more often than all the kin. Among the kin, they visit children most frequently, visit relatives slightly more often than parents, and visit siblings the least often. However, the findings do not support hypothesis 1a that Americans contact best friends more often than kin because they contact daughters and mothers more often than best friends. Obviously, friends play an important role in the social network of married persons. They may visit or contact their kin out of obligation. Yet, since they do not have obligations for friends, they may visit or contact friends for seeking or offering help or just for socializing purpose. They regard closest friends as "in-group” members, and the reason they see friends more often than parents may be that many of them do not live with or close to parents. In this sample, siblings are least visited or contacted among the kin, which may also be the consequence of geographic mobility, but sibling ties may reemerge in one’s old age (Cumming & Schneider 1961). The findings also primarily support hypothesis 1b -- married persons in Italy visit kin more often than best friends. Italian respondents visit best friends less frequently than children, parents and relatives. However, 46 47 the findings do not show that they contact all kin more often than best friends. They only contact children and mother more often than best friends. The percentage of them living with children is three times as large as that of their American counterparts and for those living with parents the percentage is five times as large. Young people in Italy usually stay in the parental home until marriage and often after marriage (Moors 1990). In addition, from Tables 1.1 to 1.4 we see that American respondents visit or contact their kin less frequently than Italian respondents. Though siblings are least visited, Italians visit siblings more than once a month. In the U.S. sample, siblings are visited once a month or less often. All these imply that Italians have a closer relationship with kin than Americans. However, U.S and Italian subjects visit or contact friends almost as frequently -- at least once a week. Bott (1971) attributes the following factors to married persons’ relationship with kin: economic ties with kin, residence and physical accessibility of kin, type of genealogical relationship, the connectedness of the kinship network, the presence and preference of "connecting relatives," idiosyncratic combinations of conscious and unconscious needs and attitudes. People tend to have closer relationship with relatives or kin living nearby than with those living far away. Residence and physical accessibility is impacted by geographic and social mobility, and dwelling habits. Geographic and social mobility are in turn 48 influenced by One’s socioeconomic status, economic structures of a society and culture. On the average, respondents in the U.S. have more years of education than Italian respondents, and the U.S. is more industrialized than Italy. More education makes social mobility easier, and educational as well as economic opportunities in a highly industrialized country make geographic mobility very frequent. Additionally, since American culture emphasizes independence and self-reliance, contact with relatives outside the nuclear family is not taken for granted, and even parent-child relationship is a matter of individual negotiation once the children have left home (Bellah et al 1986). Despite the prevalence of individualism, Americans are forever forming different types of associations -- commercial, industrial, religious, moral, and so on (Bellah et al. 1986). Individuals are expected to join groups of his choice. "Getting involved" is the American notion of the relationship between self and society. This also explains why Americans associate with friends more than kin. In contrast, Italy is not as mobile as the United States. Many Southern Italians live on agriculture, and education has not been emphasized until the late sixties (Ozer 1971). The respondents in this sample have an average of 8 years of schooling. Uneven development in the south and the north, rigid class stratification, and too many dialects in the country (Mangano 1971) make geographic and 49 social mobility not as easy as they are in the U.S. Most Italians (except those living in large Northern cities) also like to live together in the large blocks of flats rather than live alone in an enclosed house of one’s own (Bryant 1971). Additionally, Italy is much smaller than America; geographic proximity also contributes to closer kin ties. However, some scholars think that among the factors contributing to close kin relationships, the most important one is their high value placed on family. Take Southern Italians for an example, they show great concern for the ‘hwn—eaw. r" well-being of his immediate family, but he shows "almost pathological distrust toward persons outside of the small circle of the family of procreation" (Tamosi 1971). Though urbanization has weakened kin ties, the power of Italian family is still much stronger than that of American family. Given the power of Italian family alone, it is logical to conclude that Italian respondents associate with friends less than with kin. The findings support hypotheses 2a and 2b that when a married person feels depressed or needs advice on an important change in life, s/he would most likely turn to his or her spouse for help, no matter at what educational level s/he is. These findings suggest that one’s spouse plays an important role in providing emotional and informational support. That the percentages of male and female married persons’ choosing the spouse first when they are depressed are larger than other options in both countries confirms 50 Ensel’s finding that spousal help lowers the level of depression more than help from any other tie. However, the percentage of female respondents who turn to their husbands first is much lower in Italy than in America. This proves that Italian women still suffered from gender inequality in marital relationships when the data was collected in 1987. This also proves Cutrona and Suhr’s finding that help- seeking from one’s spouse for emotional support is impacted by marital satisfaction. Hypothesis 2c states that a married man would more likely turn to his spouse than his spouse would turn to him when he feels depressed or needs advice on an important change in life. This is primarily supported among American and Italian respondents without college/university education. The findings for this hypothesis also indicate that both American and Italian males without college or university education rely on their spouses much more than their spouses rely on them. This suggests that the tendency for male and female respondents to seek help from their spouses is influenced more by educational status than by culture. In both countries, education does not substantially impact either a male or a female subject’s choice of spouse as the first helper with depression. However, education was found to have a positive impact on married persons’ choices in terms of informational support. This makes sense because higher educational status is positively correlated with more 51 equal marital relationship, the more educated a married person is, the more likely s/he would turn to his or her spouse for advice. The educational level of American respondents is higher than that of Italian respondents. So, the percentage of turning to their spouses first is higher in America than in Italy. Since gender inequality between an Italian couple is very common, it is understandable that only 29.4 percent of all Italian female respondents turn to their husbands first when depressed because their husbands are dominant and unexpressive.. Why is there a much higher percentage of them turning to their husbands first (61.2 percent) when they need advice? The logical explanation is that the Italian husband is the head of the household and has more decision power than the wife. Therefore, wives have to ask their husbands’ opinions first before making important decisions. As for seeking help for family problems, education also has a significant effect on both American and Italian respondents’ choices of kin or friends as first helpers. The findings support hypothesis 2d that a less educated married person is more likely to turn to kin first for help with family problems but a more educated married person would turn to friends first. iThis can be explained by noting that the lower class have fewer resources (such as time, money and energy) to associate with friends than middle and upper class. Some researchers argue that the middle and upper class retain more solid ties with kin than 52 the lower class even after urbanization (Pearlin 1971) because the former have more resources to help their kin. However, our data indicates that the lower class are more likely to depend on kin for family problems rather than the other way around. In terms of the choices of helpers in three situations, we found that spouses, friends and church clergy constitute a large portion of American respondent’s helping network, but Italians depend on church clergy only minimally even when faced with family problems. The church clergy in the U.S. plays an important role in solving family problems: U.S. respondents turn to church clergy first seven times more than Italians. Though church clergy is not included in the hypotheses, the role of church in both countries is worth discussion. According to the samples, the number of U.S. respondents attending church once a week is larger than that of Italians. Putnam (1995) holds that America continues to be an extraordinarily "churched" society though church attendance has decreased. Religious affiliation is the most common associational membership among Americans (p. 69). Religion provides Americans a conception of how one should live (Bellah 1986), and church clergy help them out of difficulties, such as offering marriage counselling for those with family problems. In Italy, nine out of ten Italians call themselves Catholics and nearly 100 percent of these self-identified Catholics are baptized (The Economist 53 1996). However, many people have bitter feeling against the Roman Church and are disgusted at church clergy. They believe that the church derives its wealth and power from the ignorance and superstition of the poor and that a large group of clergy are in the church simply as an honorable profession but have little religion (Mangano 1971). In Italy, attending church has more of social custom than of religious significance; the majority of men of all classes never attend church except for weddings or funerals; ”churchgoing is left to the women and children" (ibid p. 71, 74, 75). As for other options of helpers for family problems, psychologists serve better in the function of solving family problems than in other functions. American respondents turn to psychologists first twice as often as Italians when feeling depressed. We are not sure if Americans trust psychologists better than Italians. However, whether seeking help from psychologists or not depends on one’s educational and income status. Since American respondents have higher socioeconomic status than Italian respondents, this may explain why the former are more likely to turn to psychologists. The comparisons as well as the finding that Italian respondents turn to nobody three to five times more likely than their American counterparts lead us to speculate that Italians are reluctant to disclose their family problems to people other than kin and friends. Generally speaking, men in both countries are less likely to seek help 54 than women in three situations mentioned above, and more Italian respondents do not seek help than American respondents. . Previous findings indicate that the gender of respondents impacts their choices of helpers: men primarily depend on their spouses and women depend on more varied sources of support. The findings for hypothesis 3 show that there is also gender preference in terms of the helpers they seek. ' The findings support part of hypothesis 3 that both American and Italian women would more likely seek help from female rather than male kin first in three situations, if they do not turn to their spouses for help. The difference between the percentage of female and male helpers whom they turn to for depression is the largest; the difference is the second largest when they seek help for family problems and the smallest for seeking advice. This implies that females turn to female kin for help with depression more than for family problems and advice. However, the findings do not support the rest of hypothesis 3 that American and Italian men would more likely turn to female kin rather than male kin first in three situations, if they do not seek help from their spouses. Findings show that married men in both countries would most likely seek help from female kin than from male kin for depression, followed by family problems. This suggests that female kin are more expressive and help more with emotional 55 problems. Both American and Italian men turn to male kin more often than to female kin for advice probably because they believe that males are more capable of offering the advice they need than females. LIMITATIONS Because this paper deals with emotional and informational support only, we can not see the effect of gender on the choices of helpers in other aspects of support. For example, whom will married men and women turn to more often when needing household help and financial help or when feeling ill? In addition, education is the only predictor used in the logistic regression. The effects of age, income, employment status, and other variables on the choices of helpers are not examined, because gender and cultural difference have already been covered in the study. Since the paper compares two countries, using many predictors will make the paper too complicated to read. The reason race is not used as a predictor is that it does not exist in the data. As for the questions in the survey, they have some shortcomings. If respondents had been asked why they choose a certain helper first, and how they are helped, it would help researchers explain the findings better. 56 CONCLUSION Culture, social class, geographic mobility, and social mobility impact married persons' kin and friend ties, while their gender, educational levels, the extent of gender equality in their marital relationships, and their attitudes towards or attachment to the church have much impact on married persons' choices of helpers when they need support for family problems, depression and advice. Based on previous findings and discussion, the following conclusions are reached: (1) Italian respondents associate with kin more often than American respondents, while the latter associate with friends more often than the former. (2) In both countries, kin, spouse and friends are the most important sources of support for a married person. Spouse support is especially important when s/he needs help with depression and advice, no matter s/he is from individualist or family-oriented culture. Friends help most when s/he is faced with family problems. (3) Women in both countries are more likely to turn to female kin than men. (4) Americans are more likely to seek help from church clergy and psychologists than Italians. (5) Women rely on a wider variety of sources of support than their husbands. Hen rely on their spouses to a large extent and more likely turn to nobody than women in three situations. In particular, men are more likely to get help with depression 57 58 from their spouses than women are. The last finding is consistent with Hobfall's (1986) and other researchers' findings. This suggests that marriage is more conducive to the mental heath of men than that of women. Increasing gender equality in a marital relationship is a prerequisite of improving the mental health of married women. APPENDIX APPENDIX variables a Survey Questions V55 -- help in family problem Suppose you were very upset about a problem with your husband, wife, or partner, and haven't been able to sort it out with them. Who would you turn to first for help? 1. no one 2. husband/wife/partner 3. mother 4. father 5. son- 6. sister 7. brother 8. other relatives, including in-laws 9. closest friend 10. other friend 11. neighbor 12. someone you work with 13 church, clergy or priest 14. family doctor 15. psychologist, psychiatrist, 16. other marriage guidance or other professional counselor V57 -- help in depression Suppose you felt just a bit down or depressed, and you wanted to talk about it. Who would you turn to first for help? 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