CHILD- REARING ATTITUDESV AND ‘PERCEPTIONS 0F CHILDREN’S BEHAVIOR ACROSS TWO GENERATIONS IN FAMILIES Dissertation for the Degree of Ph. D. MICHBGAN STATE UNIVERSITY ROBERT JAY GREEN 1975 ......mu.. .4ng Mutt-u ’g This rs to certify that the thesis entitled Child—Reari g Attit es and Perceptions of Children s Behavior Across en— tio 3 Families presented by Robert J ay Green has been accepted towards fulfillment of the requirements for (I Major professor . _ ~.& so“, ”0mm mc. L'BRARY BINDE ’§ Am ABSTRACT CHILD—REARING ATTITUDES AND PERCEPTIONS OF CHILDREN'S BEHAVIOR ACROSS TWO GENERATIONS IN FAMILIES BY Robert Jay Green The objectives of this study were: (a) to explore the relation- ship between adults' child-rearing practices and their styles of perceiving the behavior of children, and (b) to examine the continuity of child-rearing attitudes and perceptions of children's behavior in two generations within families. More than a thousand undergraudate subjects were recruited through newspaper advertisements to participate in research for pay. In groups of 20-30, these subjects were shown a videotape of a male or female child in play with an adult. The child (an actor) demon— strated on the tape approximately equal numbers of behaviors that had differentiated clinic-referred (”disturbed") from non-clinic referred ("normal") children in previous research on parental perceptions. After viewing the videotape, undergraduate subjects rated the child's behavior on the "Children's Behavior Checklist-—Form A" (CBC-A). Each CBC-A protocol was scored for perceptual style by substracting the number of "negative" (i.e., "disturbed") child behaviors checked from the number of ”positive" (i.e., "norma1") behaviors checked. Three groups of undergraduates were selected for further study on the basis of their perceptual style scores: "Positive Robert Jay Green Behavior Perceivers" (30 females and 33 males with the highest perceptual style scores); "Negative Behavior Perceivers" (34 females and 33 males with the lowest scores); and ”Balanced Behavior Per- ceivers" (32 females and 34 males with scores closest to zero). Each of these selected subjects was administered a 104-item "Child-Rearing Concerns and Practices Questionanire" (CRCP) developed by the investi- gator for the present study. Mothers and fathers of 156 of these undergraduate subjects were contacted by mail and asked to complete CRCP Questionnaires and the Children's Behavior Checklist-~Form Q (identical to CBC-A except that the parents rated their own undergraduate child retrospectively). Parents were paid $10.00 per couple for their participation. Usable responses were received from 105 mother-father pairs (72%) distributed quite evenly across the three perceptual style conditions. Only parents for whom addresses were available and who were living together in one household were contacted. Analyses of variance were performed on the data using CRCP and CBC dependent variables, some of which were derived from several principal axis factor analyses. Independent variables included under- graduate's perceptual style (positive, balanced, or negative), sex of undergraduate (male, female), and family role (mother, father, or undergraduate child). Results were equivocal with regard to perceptual style. In the few instances where significant differences were obtained, comparisons showed that in hypothetical parent-child conflict situations: (1) negative behavior perceivers were more likely than balanced or positive behavior perceivers to endorse "criticizing" and Robert Jay Green "shaming" techniques of parental discipline; and (2) positive behavior perceivers were more likely than balanced or negative behavior perceivers to "do nothing," i.e., to withdraw from the situation and comply with the child's wishes. These findings were in line with the hypothesis that adults who show positive or negative biases (distor- tions) in their perception of child behavior also employ more "ineffective” child-rearing practices as compared to adults who are accurate (balanced) perceivers. Sex differences found in child-rearing attitudes indicated that: (1) males were more likely than females to endorse authoritarian- punitive practices; (2) females were more likely than males to show "concern with prosocial child behavior," to "express pride" in their child's behavior, and to "demand appropriate self-control"; and (3) females were more likely than males to use indirect forms of punishment (i.e., "non-verbal rejection" as opposed to verbal criticism). These findings were consistent with previous research showing that fathers used more "ineffective" authoritarian methods in child-rearing than did mothers (who were more "loving" and "permissive"). With regard to family role, children (undergraduates) expressed attitudes that were similar to their parents' attitudes in the majority of comparisons, although they differed from at least one of their parents on several child-rearing dimensions. In all instances of parent—child differences, the children advocated practices in the more "desirable" direction (i.e., greater use of reasoning, fewer threats, less use of criticism, and less use of non—verbal rejection). These results supported previous findings of Robert Jay Green a cultural trend toward more democratic-permissive child-rearing practices over the last several decades in the United States. Moreover, children may select from a variety of intrafamilial and extrafamilial sources the child-rearing attitudes which have been most helpful and least disturbing in their own experience. Child- rearing attitudes would seem to be influenced by factors in the individual's earlier development as well as current family and cultural values. Methodological considerations in the interpretation of results and some directions for future research were explored. CHILD-REARING ATTITUDES AND PERCEPTIONS OF CHILDREN'S BEHAVIOR ACROSS TWO GENERATIONS IN FAMILIES By Robert Jay Green A DISSERTATION Submitted to Michigan State University in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree of DOCTOR OF PHILOSOPHY Department of Psychology 1975 In Memory of My Teacher BILL L. KELL, A Master Psychotherapist ii ACKNOWLEDGMENTS I am very grateful to Dr. Lawrence A. Messé and Dr. Gary E. Stollak for their constant availability, good advice, and encouragement throughout this project. Whatever I know about research, I have learned from these creative, energetic, and scholarly teachers. They have my deepest respect and affection. Thanks also go to Dr. J. Gordon Williams and Dr. Elizabeth Seagull for their support and participation on the committee. Their trust in my ability was the very best help possible. I want to acknowledge the voluntary aid of several under- graduate students who scored the data: Fred Simons, Michael Bloom, Neal Barnett, Letha Moore, and Dave Myers. Project secretaries Jane Rice and Beth Talmadge generously gave assistance in data collection. Mr. Bill Brown, my consultant at the Computer Institute for the Social Sciences, was most patient and helpful in the process of data analysis. I would also like to take this Opportunity to thank some of the other faculty from whom I have learned so much during my five years of graduate study: Dr. Lucy Rau Ferguson, Dr. Cyril Worby, Dr. William J. Mueller, Dr. Arthur Seagull, Dr. Martha Karson, Dr. Mary Leichty, and Ms. Marsha Worby. iii Lastly, I wish to acknowledge the significant contribution made by my family. My wife, Loretta, has been unbelievably helpful and understanding in every aspect of my work and life over the past four years. I will be forever grateful to parents and grandparents for encouraging me to value and continue my education. iv TABLE OF CONTENTS LIST OF TABLES . INTRODUCTION. Parents' Perceptions of Children Theoretical Constructs. . Parental Behavior and Child Functioning . . Intergenerational Child- -Rearing Attitudes in Families METHOD. Introduction . Measurement of the Independent Variable (Perceptual Style). Measurement of the Dependent Variables Final Subject Pool . Experimental Design and Statistical Analysis RESULTS CRCP Factor Analysis . Analyses of Variance--Family Data . . Analyses of Variance-~Undergraduate Data. The Effects of Perceptual Style. Sex of Undergraduate Effects. The Effects of Family Role DISCUSSION Dimensions of Child-Rearing Concerns and Practices Biases in Adults‘ Perceptions of Children Sex Differences in Child- -Rearing Attitudes . . Intergenerational Continuities and Discontinuities in Child- -Rearing Attitudes. . Methodological Considerations in the Interpreation of Findings. Implications of the Study. SUMMARY AND CONCLUSIONS . Page vii 11 15 21 21 21 24 27 28 30 30 32 39 43 50 52 57 57 63 68 7O 75 79 81 BIBLIOGRAPHY . APPENDICES Appendix A. Children's Behavior Checklist--Form A. B. The Child-Rearing Concerns and Practices Questionnaire . C. Letter to Parents and Instructions. D. The Children's Behavior Checklist--Form Q E. Analysis of Variance Summary Tables--CRCP Factors I through IX . F. Analysis of Variance Summary Tables--Parents' CBC. G. Analysis of Variance Summary Tables-~CRCP Undergraduate Factors 111 and VIII. H. Analysis of Variance Summary Tables—-CRCP New Undergraduate Variables 1 and 2 . vi Page 85 89 94 106 109 113 118 120 121 Table 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. LIST OF TABLES Checklist Items Differentiating Clinic from Non-Clinic Children . Mean Bias Scores and Cell Frequencies . Distribution of Whole Family Data Used in Analyses. Summary of Factor Loadings--CRCP Part I Summary of Factor Loadings--CRCP Part II Summary of Significant Results Reflecting Comparisons Not Qualified by Higher-Order Interactions for ANOVAS on Family Data . . . . . . . . . . . . Summary of Undergraduate Factors III and VIII New Undergraduate Variables Summary of Significant Results Reflecting Comparisons Not Qualified by Higher—Order Interactions for ANOVAS on Undergraduate Data Summary of Perceptual Style Results. Summary of Sex of Undergraduate Results Summary of Family Role Results Dependent Variables and Their Presumed Consequences for the Deve10pment of Children's Psychosocial Well-Being Dependent Variables and Their Continuity Across Generations . vii Page 24 28 31 33 39 41 44 45 46 51 S3 64 73 INTRODUCTION Parents' Perceptions of Children Although the study of person-perception has generated a large research literature, past reviews show that most of these studies have focused on impression-formation and factors which affect perceptual accuracy (Hastorf, Schneider, and Polefka, 1970). Few investigations have been concerned with behavioral consequences of perceptual differences, parents' perceptions of their children, or the influence of parental perceptions on child-rearing behavior and child functioning. The minimal research on these latter issues has revealed: (1) Parental perceptions ("delineations") of adolescents are important determinants of the youth's self-image, interpersonal functioning, and ability to separate from the family (Shapiro, 1967; Stierlin, Levi, and Savard, 1971); (2) Parents of low-adjustment children show significantly less inter-parent agreement in their perceptions of the family as compared to parents of high-adjustment children (Van Der Veen, Huebner, Jorgens, and Neja, 1964); and (3) Parents of clinic- referred children tend to perceive their children as aggressive, authority-defiant, and physically uncoordinated while parents of non-clinic children tend to perceive their children as competent, able to maintain self—control, and having the interpersonal skills essential for deve10ping satisfying relationships (Ferguson, Partyka, and Lester, 1974). The research by Ferguson, gt_§l:, provided the impetus for the current investigation. In their study of the parents of 81 children who were referred to a University Psychological Clinic and 96 non- referred children (normal controls), they assessed parental perceptions by having both parents independently complete a 154-item checklist on the behavior of their child ("The Children's Behavior Checklist"—- Ferguson, Mackenzie, and Does). Chi-square tests were performed on each of the 154 items of the checklist. Thirty-four items yielded significant values in the non-clinic direction ("positive" behaviors) while 32 items yielded significant values in the clinic direction ("negative" behaviors)1 [see Table 1]. Of these items, a number had high loadings on the dimensions of Competence, Impulsivity, and Moodiness emerging from factor analysis. Thus Ferguson, gt_al, showed that clinic-referred children were perceived by their parents as having and emitting more socially undesirable and negative characteristics and behavior, and less positive behavior, when compared to non-clinic children. One could speculate that although the child's behavior may have been the primary determinant of parental perceptions, it is also possible that the parents in their study had differences in their perceptual "sets." This possibility and its ramifications are explored in the next section. 1The terms "positive" and "negative" are used throughout this paper to denote behaviors which are characteristically perceived by parents of non—clinic vs. clinic children respectively in Ferguson, et a1.'s study. They are not intended to imply any value judgment by {he—Eurrent investigator. Table 1. Checklist Items Differentiating Clinic From Non-Clinic Children. Significant Behavior Checklist Items Characteristic of Non—Clinic Children ("Positive" Behaviors) Is concerned about feelings of others Handles small objects skillfully Can be depended on to do what he (she) is supposed to do without reminders Activity is focused on a particular purpose, seems to accomplish what he (she) sets out to do Can accept new ideas without getting upset Shows pride in accomplishment Does what other adults ask him (her) to do Moves gracefully--is well coordinated Plays to win Others seem to want to be with him (her) Makes friends quickly and easily Self—confident Polite and cooperative with others Prefers competitive games Energetic Shows pleasure and involvement in most things he (she) does-- enthusiastic Competes with other children Pitches in when things are to be done Learns quickly from others Likes to play with girls instead of boys Seems confortable in new situations Able to stand up for himself (herself) Careful in explanations-~precise Shows appreciation when others help or do things for him (her) Quick and clever Is tidy and neat, perhaps even a bit fussy about it Is curious about things Retains composure even when those around him (her) are acting in a boisterous way Asks sensible questions in new situations Feelings are apparent in facial expression Easily embarrassed Starts things off when with others Talks all the time Prefers playing with older or bigger children even when children of own age are around Table 1. Continued. Significant Behavior Checklist Items Characteristic of Clinic Children ("Negative" Behaviors) Gets irritated or angry easily Plays with toys in a rough way Doesn't pay attention to what grownup says to him (her) Acts in ways that make others not like him (her) Quickly loses interest in an activity Plays mostly with younger or smaller children--even when children of own age are around Often has to be reminded of what he (she) can and cannot do Seems out of touch with what is going on around him (her)--off in his (her) own world When told to do something he (she) doesn't want to do, he (she) becomes very angry Doesn't seem to care about how he (she) looks--often looks sleppy Blows up very easily when bothered by someone Seems sad and unhappy Tends to go too far unless frequently reminded of rules Threatens to hit or hurt others Has uncontrollable outbursts of temper Will lie to get out of a tight spot Fidgety and restless Often breaks the rules in games with others Gets other children stirred up to mischief Has a characteristic mannerism or nervous habit Bullies younger children Play is aimless, doesn't seem to make or accomplish anything Seems selfish, always wants own way Acts as if everyone were against him (her) Is left out and ignored by others Prefers following others to taking the initiative Can't wait--must have things immediately Looks awkward when he (she) moves around Appears stiff in walking or moving about Has trouble finding the right words to say what he (she) means Will fight in a rough way where others could really get hurt Adapted from Ferguson, 2: a1}, 1974. Theoretical Constructs In addition to previous research on parental perceptions, a number of theoretical assumptions provided a framework and impetus for the present investigation. These constructs pertained to the form and origin of parenting behaviors and their influence on the development of psychosocial "competence" or "dysfunction" in children. Basic notions were: (a) parents may have different and enduring styles of perceiving the behavior of children; (b) these perceputal style differ- ences may be associated with specific patterns of parental behavior; and (c) these different patterns in parental behavior over time may influence the direction of a child's psychosocial development. Perceptual styles can be viewed as internal response dispositions involving attention and/or inattention to various child behaviors. As an illustration, let us assume that a given parent, for whatever reasons, has a perceptual orientation or "bias" toward perceiving the kinds of aggressive and authority-defiant behavior that all_children emit at various times. Let us further assume that this perceptual bias involves selective attention to these aggressive and authority-defiant (i.e., "negative”) child behaviors and a concomitant inattention to prosocial and competent (i.e., "positive") child behaviors. It would seem likely that this parent would respond in some way to the negative behaviors perceived. However, by virtue of his or her inattention to the positive behaviors, a response to these behaviors would be unlikely. Non-responsiveness to positive child behaviors would tend to decrease the frequency of such behaviors (experimental extinction). Furthermore, it is possible that any overt response to the negative behaviors perceived (when coupled with non-responsiveness to positive behaviors) would constitute social reinforcement, tending to increase the frequency of negative child behaviors relative to positive ones. This can be conceptualized as a "deviation—amplifying” process, or a "self-fulfilling" prophecy. The negative behavior perceptual bias may lead to an increase in negative child behavior which, in turn, would "feed into” or reinforce the perceptual bias, and so on. As this process continues, the parent will likely use more and more desperate and punitive attempts to control the child's undesirable behavior. While such attempts may be temporarily effective in ”suppressing" the negative behavior, they are not likely to reduce its overall frequency unless "competing" positive behaviors are simultaneously reinforced. The child's behavior will be reinforced by any_form of parental response if it becomes the only form of parental attention available. We can inquire further as to the genesis of this process in terms of the parent's initial perceptual bias toward negative child behavior. According to psychoanalytic theory, the mechanism of projection involves first repression of forbidden impulses, followed by projection of these same impulses onto an external object. In the case of a negative behavior perceptual bias, we could assume that the parent is conflicted about his or her own hostile or rebellious impulses and "projects" these onto the child. Increased parental vigilance on such "negative behavior" in the child would further serve to keep the parent unaware of his or her own forbidden impulses, while simultaneously acting them out against the child through punishment. The parent then can rationalize his or her punitive behavior as a necessary response in order to manage the "uncontrollable" child. To maintain the image of the child as being "bad" and uncon- trollable, the parent must deny the presence of positive behavior in the child's repertoire and selectively ignore such behavior. If we look further into the parent's internal conflicts around "negative" impules, it becomes entirely conceivable that he or she also is the product of a family in which one or both parents was a negative behavior perceiver. Since the child in such a family may be constantly made aware of and harshly punished for aggressive and authority-defiant impulses, the child grows into adulthood with severe conflicts around impulse control. Via the mechanisms elaborated above, these con- flicted impulses can be managed through projection onto the adult's children. In this manner, negative perceptual behavior bias, conflicts over impulse control, and authoritarian-punitive methods of child- rearing may be transmitted from one generation to the next. For this reasons, a goal of the present investigation was to determine whether various perceptual styles in adult offspring would be associated with specific patterns of child-rearing in the offsprings' family of origin. Let us now turn our attention to another form of perceptual style--positive behavior perceiving. On face value, it would seem that a bias toward perceiving prosocial and competent (i.e., "positive") behaviors in children would be associated with positive psychosocial development in children. Ostensibly the positive behavior perceiving parent would selectively attend to and reinforce desirable behaviors in the child's repertoire while simultaneously ignoring and extinguishing undesirable, "negative" child behaviors (i.e., aggression, authority defiance, etc.). However, we must keep in mind that any form of perceptual bias would involve a distortion of reality and could lead to the encouragement of maladaptive behaviors. The hypothesized failure of a positive behavior perceivers to attend and respond to the sort of negative behavior that all_children emit at various times, suggests that this sort of person also may have internal conflicts over the expression and control of "negative" impulses. In this case, the parent's impulses may have been so "threatening" in his or her family of origin that the only way to manage such impulses was total or near total denial of their existence. By ignoring the presence of obvious aggressive and/or rebellious behavior and feelings in the child, the parent would communicate that such events were "too dangerous" to be recognized for what they were. Such parental behavior may constitute an implicit parental rejection of important aspects of the child's experience and action. Ultimately, it may involve an inability to set apprOpriate limits on the child's "negative" behaviors. The consequences in terms of the child's development may be more varied in families where one or both parents are positive behavior perceivers. For example, the child's negative behavior may be denied on an overt, verbal level, but it may be encouraged on a covert level by over-permissiveness. The child may be permitted to engage in destructive behavior while the parent maintains that it is actually positive behavior (i.e., "creativity," or "nonconformist individuality," or "self-expression"). On the other hand, the child of a positive behavior perceiver may become inhibited or constricted, particularly if the perceptual bias involves a parental rigidity in terms of unrealistic expectations for perfection or "morality." In this sense, selective attention to positive behavior may involve severe punishment when the child does not show near-perfect performance in school. Thus while "bad" behavior is ignored, excessive demands may be placed on the child to do "better than good." On another level, excessive parental demands for perfection, or positive views of the child which are unrealistic, suggest that the parents themselves may have low self-esteem. In identifying their child as "all good," they do not have to face their child's short— comings which may represent, via identification, their own "deficits," feelings of inadequacy, or failures. The child may be heavily burdened with parental needs for vicarious success. In the extreme, the positive behavior perceiving parent has a relationship with an "image" of the child, but not with the child as a real person. It should be apparent that either mode of biased behavior perception ultimately may involve more than a differential rate of attending to various kinds of child behavior. Biased perception of behavior can include implicit but powerful forms of denial, mystifi- cation, and neglect. The two modes of biased perceiving can be viewed as "two sides of the same coin." Both may be related to internal parental conflicts over ”negative" impulses, low self-esteem, and they suggest an inability to cope with the reality of a "flesh and blood” child who exhibits a wide variety of socially "desirable" and "un- desirable" behaviors. 10 It should also be stressed that biased behavior perceivers are likely to pass their child rearing-practices down from one generation to the next. Not only may such biases be associated with parental child-rearing practices that influence the development of intrapsychic conflicts in the offspring, but children seem likely to model and adopt directly some of their own parents' methods of child-rearing. Lastly, we will turn our attention to a third perceptual style-— balanced behavior perception. A parent who is unbiased in perceptual orientation would be free to perceive "whatever is there to be seen" (rather than imposing on, or selecting from, reality what he or she needs, or needs not, to see). Furthermore, the first step in an effective response to child behavior is an awareness of what behavior and feelings exist in the child at the time. The perceptual "flexibility" of the balanced behavior perceiver suggests that such persons may be able to show greater flexibility in their child-rearing practices. Thus, depending on the context and the particular child behavior being exhibited, the balanced behavior perceiver could choose from a variety of potentially appropriate responses the one that best fits the reality of the moment. Furthermore, the balanced behavior perceiver could shift "perceptual set" more easily, decreasing the possiblity of escalating reciprocally, a negative parent-child interaction sequence. The balanced behavior perceiver could empathize, for example, with the "negative" attention-getting behavior of a child by perceiving the "positive" need for parental attention implicit in the behavior. The accurate perceiver of child behavior may thus be more able to infer from overt actions the intentions or feelings underlying the behavior. 11 Perhaps balanced perceivers are also better able to "read" non-verbal behavior, and more "cognitively complex" in their ability to non- defensively deal with interpersonal stimuli. To return to our initial assumptions, this investigation was an exploratory effort to examine possible associations between adult's perceptual styles and their child-rearing attitudes. 0n the basis of the theory reviewed here, we expected that negative behavior perceivers and their parents would show more authoritarian-punitive attitudes toward child-rearing. Specific hypotheses regarding positive behavior perceivers and their parents' child—rearing attitudes were more difficult to make, but both groups of biased behavior perceivers (positive and negative) were expected to endorse more "ineffective" and less "effective" child-rearing. Lastly, balanced behavior per— ceivers and their parents were expected to show more use of "effective" and less use of "ineffective" child-rearing practices. We turn, inthe next section, to a review of research on parental behavior and the psychosocial development of children in order to shed some light on what may constitute "effective" child-rearing concerns and attitudes. Parental Behavior and Child Functioning. There now exists a voluninous research literature on child— rearing attitudes, parental behavior, and the development of socio- emotional behavior in children (Mussen, 1970). Most pertinent to the current investigation are the studies by Coopersmith (1967), Baumrind (1967, 1973), Hoffman (1963, 1970), and Becker (1964). Coopersmith (1967) studied junior high school children with various levels of self-esteem as determined by subjective and 12 behavioral indices. Differences in level of self-esteem were associated with differences in child-rearing practices of mothers as determined through interviews with them. In general, results showed the following maternal behavior correlates of self—esteem in children: (I) nearly total acceptance of the child by his mother; (2) clearly delineated and enforced limits; and (3) latitude and respect for the child's needs and wishes within the defined limits: In effect we can conclude that parents of children with high self- esteem are concerned with and attentive toward their children, that they structure the world of their children along lines they believe to be appropriate and that they permit relatively great freedom within the structure they have established. (p. 236) Baumrind (1967) studied the child-rearing practices of parents whose pre-scbool children were rated by observers in nursery schools as either: Pattern I--self—reliant, self-controlled, explorative, and content; Pattern II-—discontent, withdrawn, and distrustful; or Pattern III--1acking in self-control, lacking in self-reliance, and having a tendency to retreat from novel experiences. Data were obtained on parents' behavior through structured interviews, naturalistic observations of parent-child interaction, and observations of structured parent-child interaction. Parents of Pattern I children were found to be "firm, loving, demanding, and understanding." Parents of Pattern 11 children were found to be "firm, punitive, and unaffectionate." Mothers of Pattern III children "lacked control and were moderately loving" while fathers of these children were "ambivalent and lax" (p. 83). In a comprehensive review of three such research studies, Baumrind (1973) concluded: 13 The main thrust of the results of these three studies, is that, in the preschool years, authoritative control, by comparison with authoritarian control or permissive noncontrol, is associated with social responsibility (achievement orientation, friendliness toward peers, and cooperativeness toward adults) and independence (social dominance, nonconforming behavior, and purposiveness) whereas authoritarian control is net associated with social responsibility and permissive noncontrol is 293 associated with independence. (pp. 30-31) In this context, the term authoritarian control denotes a pattern of parental restrictiveness and arbitrary rule. The term authoritative control denotes a pattern in which the child's independence and indivi- duality are encouraged within appropriate limits. Hoffman (1963) studied the child-rearing behavior of parents whose children were judged to be considerate of others. Results showed that, in the context of a non-power-oriented relationship, parents who had highly considerate children were: (I) warm; (2) clear about the consequences of their children's behavior toward others; and (3) explanatory while administering discipline or punishment. In a more comprehensive review of his research on moral development, Hoffman (1970) pinpoints three types of parental discipline: (a) Power Assertion ("includes physical punishment, deprivation of material objects or privileges, the direct applications of force, or the threat of any of these"); (b) Love Withdrawal ("techniques in which the parent simply gives direct but non-physical expression to his anger or disapproval of the child for engaging in some undesirable behavior"); and (c) Induction ("includes techniques in which the parent gives explanations or reasons for requiring the child to change his behavior") [pp. 285-86]. Hoffman concludes: The frequent use of power assertion by the mother is associated with weak moral development to a highly consistent degree. Induction discipline and affection, on the other hand, are 14 associated with advanced moral development, although these relationships are not quite as strong and consistent across the various age levels as the negative ones for power assertion. . . . In contrast to induction, love withdrawal related infre- quently to the moral indices and the few significant findings obtained do not fit any apparent pattern. (p. 292) Becker (1964) conducted a comprehensive review of research on the consequences of different kinds of parental discipline. He summarized the findings of many studies in terms of two orthogonal dimensions of parental behavior: warmth vs. hostility, and restrictive- ness vs. permissiveness. Becker concluded: The counter—aggression generating properties of hostility are apparent in the child of both permissive-hostile and restrictive- hostile parents. In the former the aggression is expressed directly with little control. In the latter, the aggression is expressed in certain safe areas (with peers) but is more likely to be inhibited and turned against the self, or be revealed in manifestations of internal conflicts The findings for the warm-permissive condition are consistent with the recommendations of child-rearing specialists concerned with maximizing socially out-going characteristics and indivi- duality. The child with warm—permissive parents is socialized mainly through love, good models, reasons, and a trial and error learning of how his actions . . . have an impact on others. (p. 198) It should be noted that Becker seemed to be using the term "permissive" here to denote what other researchers have termed "democratic" or "authoritative" (as opposed to authoritarian or laissez-faire) parental control. Assuming that our previous hypotheses about the child-rearing behaviors of parents having balanced vs. positive vs. negative behavior perceptual biases was correct, we expected that: (1) "balanced behavior perceivers" would express child-rearing attitudes and practices associated with more socially responsible and independent behavior in children (e.g., praise of behavior, demonstrations of love, empathy, 15 appropriate limit-setting with reasons given); and (2) "Negative behavior perceivers" and "positive behavior perceivers" would express child-rearing attitudes and practices associated with less socially responsible and independent behavior in children (e.g., criticism, power assertion, love—withdrawal, non-responsiveness, or excessive permissiveness). Intergenerational Child—Rearing Attitudes in Families Only a few reports of empirical research on intergenerational child-rearing attitudes have appeared in the literature (Cohler, Grunebaum, Weiss, and Moran, 1971; Kell and Aldous, 1960; Staples and Smith, 1954). However, a great deal of clinical speculation exists surrounding the transmission of interaction patterns across generations in families (e.g., Boszormenyi—Nagy and Spark, 1973; Bowen, 1960; Laing, 1971). Clinical observation and testing suggest that members of "disturbed" families acquire fairly rigid patterns of interaction and psychological difficulties in their families of origin which are carried over into their families of procreation (Fisher and Mendell, 1956). Theoretically, family members' internalized expectations and behavioral patterns are re—enacted in their family of procreation and elicit reciprocal responses in the new milieu, recreating patterns from the family of origin. In this context, Laing (1971) speaks of the internalization of the "family" as a concept and the "transference of group modes": The family as a system is internalized. Relations and operations between elements and sets of elements are internalized, not elements in isolation. . . . Parents are internalized as close or apart, together or separate, near or distant, loving, fighting, etc., each other and self. (p. 4) 16 When such an internal template of space-time relations-in- sequence is externalized, it appears to function both as a schema governing ways external events are hoped, feared, seen to happen, and, by inducing action and reaction, as self-fulfilling fantasy and prophecy. (p. 11) Staples and Smith (1954) researched the child-rearing attitudes of 87 grandmother—mother pairs who lived in the same urban community. Data on child-rearing attitudes and practices were collected by means of a questionnaire and personal interview. Grandmothers proved to be more strict, authoritarian, and punitive than mothers in all areas of child care studied (i.e., home standards, verbal standards, expression of hostility, feeding, toilet training, sexual behavior, sex-role conformity, and crying). When the grandmothers lived in their own homes, both grandmother and mother were more permissive than when they lived in the same hosuehold. Also, the child-rearing attitudes of maternal grandmothers and their daughters were significantly correlated when they lived apart. However, no significant relationship between child-rearing attitudes across generations was obtained when maternal grandmother and daughter lived together or when scores for paternal grandmothers and mothers were compared. The degree of permissiveness for both generations showed a positive relationship to number of years of education. Kell and Aldous (1960) studied trends in child care within families over three generations through exploratory interviews with 27 female and 23 male college students and their mothers (N = 50 mother-child pairs). The interviews covered three areas of child- rearing practices: rules for behavior, discipline, and affection-giving. The college students reported on their own child-rearing attitudes and on their mothers' child-rearing practices. Mothers reported on their l7 own mothers' child-rearing practices (i.e., the child-rearing practices of the students' grandmothers). In terms of intergenerational discontinuity vs. continuity of child-rearing practices within families, results indicated that mothers and female students had child-rearing values differing from their own mothers' more frequently than did male students. In the area of discipline for the grandmother-mother comparisons and the area of rules of behavior for the mother-female student comparisons, the data supported the theory that children adopt their own mothers' child- rearing values. For the male students, the continuity hypothesis was upheld by the data in the areas of rules of behavior and discipline. Overall, the data from neither mothers nor students supported the inter- generational discontinuity theory for within-family comparisons. How- ever, there was a consistent trend for these mothers and female students who did differ significantly from their own mothers' child-rearing practices to do so in the direction of greater permissiveness. Cohler, Grunebaum, Weiss, and Moran (1971) studied the child care attitudes of 90 mother-grandmother pairs, in each of which the mother had a child below the age of five. All subject were administered the Maternal Attitude Scale which yields scores based on five orthogonal rotated factors: (a) apprOpriate vs. inappropriate control of child's aggression; (b) encouragement vs. discouragement of reciprocity; (c) appropriate vs. inappropriate closensss with the child; (d) acceptance vs; denial of emotional complexity in child care; and (e) feelings of competence vs. lack of competence in per- ceiving and meeting the child's needs. Comparisons between mother- grandmother pairs yielded significant positive relationships for three 18 of the five factors: Appropriate Control, Encouragment of Reciprocity, and Competence in Meeting the Child's Needs. However, grandmothers showed significantly less adaptive attitudes than mothers regarding the factors of Appropriate Control, Encouragement of Reciprocity, and Appropriate Closeness. 0n the other hand, grandmothers showed significantly more adaptive attitudes than mothers on Competence in Meeting the Child's Needs. The researchers also found significant intragenerational differences between the child care practices of these mothers who volunteered with their own mothers as compared to a matched control group of mothers: The attitudes of these mothers who volunteer suggest that they are a rather compliant, dependent, and conventional group of women who have particular difficulty in separating from their own mothers and in achieving autonomy from them. While these women express less concern than their peers about their ability to control their children's anger, they also feel less able than their peers to take independent action and they express more conventional and stereotyped attitudes regarding child care. (p. 11) Other intragenerational differences were found in comparisons between mothers and grandmothers living in separate households versus those living together in one household. These findings indicate that a woman's current relationship with her own mother has an impact on her child-rearing practices. Taken together, the results of the three studies by Staples and Smith (1954), Kell and Aldous (1960) and Cohler, 93.31: (1971) suggest that adults' child-rearing attitudes are related to but different from their own mothers' child-rearing attitudes. Further- more, important intervening variables emerging from these studies include: (1) the adults' current rleationships with their mothers (as 19 exemplified in the separate vs. shared residence variable); (2) the adults' sex; (3) prevailing cultural values in child-rearing which have been changing toward greater permissiveness over the last several decades; (4) years of education; (5) whether subjects are currently parents; (5) current age of subject's children; and (6) whether the generations volunteer together or separately to participate in the research. It should be noted that none of these studies (nor the present investigation) can claim to have examined changes in child-rearing attitudes over time from one generation to the next, nor do they assess the impact of earlier family experience on adults' current child- rearing attitudes or practices. Rather, the research viewed in this section reports only current similarities and differences in child- rearing practices among members in two generations of families. Only longitudinal research in this area could establish a causal link between adults' child-rearing practices and the child-rearing practices of their offspring (Bell, 1958; Burton, 1972; Cohler, 1972). In addition, recent research shows that reported child-rearing attitudes change significantly in retrospect. For example, Yarrow, Campbell, and Burton (1970) asked mothers to recall their child-rearing practices, relationships with their children, and certain personality characteristics of their children, with the length of time involved in recall varying from three to 30 years. The results showed significant systematic shifts in the retrospective reports over all categories regardless of length of time involved in recall. In some cases, changes in reported child-rearing practices were in the direction of more "adaptive" attitudes, while in other cases attitudes changed in 20 the "less adaptive" direction. Therefore, the results from studies such as those reviewed above and the present investigation, can only be interpreted as "current attitudes being strongly influenced by current value systems as they interact with the respondents' previously learned values regarding child rearing" (Burton, 1972, p. 62). The present investigation examined additional areas of inter- generational child-rearing attitudes. Most notably, data on fathers' child-rearing attitudes were included in addition to data on the child- rearing attitudes of college students and mothers. Also examined were the relationships between child-rearing attitudes and perceptions of children within and between the two generations of the families. On the basis of theory and research reviewed in this section, it was expected that, in general, significant positive relationships in comparisons among family members' would emerge in terms of child- rearing concerns, practices and perceptions of children. It was also expected that comparisons between parents as a group and college students as a group would yield significantly greater "authoritative- ness" or "democratic permissiveness" on the part of college students (i.e., greater use of induction, demonstrations of love, empathy, and less use of power assertion, love—withdrawal, and criticism). METHOD Introduction The present investigation was an addition to and extension of a research project being conducted by Messé and Stollak in the Department of Psychology at Michigan State University (NIMH Grant #24250). It shared with their project a common independent variable (undergraduate's perceptual style). However, the dependent variables were unique to the present study: (1) Undergraduate's child-rearing concerns; (2) Under- graduate's prospective child—rearing practices; (3) Parent's perceptions of his/her undergraduate child; (4) Child-rearing concerns of the undergraduate's parents; and (5) Child-rearing practices of the under- graduate's parents. Measurement of the Independent Variable (Perceptual Style) 1. Standard Perceptual Stimuli.--In the fall of 1974, two 20- minute videotapes were developed for use as Standard Perceptual Stimuli in this research. One videotape was of a male, the other of a female, child interacting with an adult in a playroom setting. A script was deveIOped for these interactions based on the results of Ferguson, gt_al,'s study. The children (paid actors) demonstrated on the videotape approximately equal numbers of "negative" and "postive" behaviors. "Negative" and "positive" behaviors were defined by the 21 22 child behavior descriptions which significantly differentiated parents of clinic from non-clinic children in Ferguson, gt_al:'s research. Negative behaviors were those reported more frequently by parents of clinic children while positive behaviors were those reported more frequently by parents of non-clinic children. Two male and two female children who seemed well-suited were selected to make the tapes. These four children were taught the script, rehearsed, and then videotaped in interactionuith a graduate student. When each child had produced a satisfactory videotape, the four tapes were reviewed by the researchers and the "best" tape of a male and of a female child were selected for use as the Standard Perceptual Stimuli (SP8). 2. Undergraduate Subject Recruitment and Selection.—-During Winter term, 1975, an advertisement was placed in the Michigan State Univer- sity student newspaper soliciting undergraduates who were interested in coming to a "pre-employment" screening interview for $1.00. The advertisement stated that persons who were selected after screening would receive $S/hour for further participation in research. More than 1,100 undergraduates responded and were shown the 20-minute SPS in groups of 20-30. The research was introduced as a study of their reactions to a practice session between a graduate student in training and a volunteer child. The subjects were asked to pay close attention to the adult's behavior because they would be asked to assess her effectiveness afterwards. The latter instruction was given to focus the undergraduate's attention away form the child so that increased vigilence on the child's behavior would not mask potential perceptual biases. 23 For control purposes, half of the female and half of the male undergraduates were shown the videotape of the female child. The rest of the undergraduate subjects viewed the videotape of the male child. Thus any interactive effects on perceptual style between sex of child and sex of undergraduate could be determined. After viewing the SPS, subjects were asked to complete a number of questionnaires. Responses to one of these questionnaires were used in the present study: The Children's Behavior Checklist (CBC) Form A (see Appendix A). The undergraduates' responses to the Children's Behavior Checklist Form A were used to obtain indices of the indepencent variable--undergraduate's perceptual style. The CBC Form A was a modification of Ferguson, et_al,'s Children's Behavior Checklist, revised to include only those items relevant to the positive and negative child behaviors shown on the videotape. Usable CB§_protocols were obtained from 1,068 undergraduate subjects. Perceptual bias scores on this instrument ranged from -23 to +21, with an overall mean of -4.77 (perceptual bias = number of "positive" behaviors seen minus the number of "negative" behaviors seen). Using scores on the CBC, subjects were selected along the following criteria: (a) to be selected as a "negative behavior perceiver," a subject had to check at least 20 behaviors (that he or she saw the child emit on the videotape) and receive a perceptual bias score of at least ~14; (b) to be selected as a "balanced behavior perceiver," a subject had to check at least 20 behaviors and receive a perceptual bias score that ranged from -1 to +1; (c) to be selected as a "positive behavior perceiver," a subject had to check at least 20 behaviors and receive a perceptual bias score of at least +5. These 24 criteria were used so that the selection of groups seemed valid and so that a minimum of 15 males and 15 females of each perceputal bias type who had viewed either a male or female child would be available for further study. One-hundred ninety-six (196) potential undergraduate subjects were selected by these criteria. Mean bias scores and cell frequencies for each condition are presented in Table 2. Table 2. Mean Bias Scores and Cell Frequencies. Positive Bias Balanced Perception Negative Bias Sex of Sex of Subject Child Viewed Mean N Mean N Mean N F F +6.80 (15)_ -0.24 (17) -l6.20 (18) F M +7.02 (15) -0.07 (15) -16.38 (16) M F +9.52 (18) +0.07 (18) -18.19 (16) M M +9.07 (15) -0.81 (16) -l6.30 (l7) Measurement of the Dependent Variables l. Undergraduate's Child-Rearing Concerns.--After selection, 149 of the 196 positive, balanced, and negative behavior perceiving under- graduates were administered the Child Rearing Concerns and Practices Questionnaire (CRCP) along with completing other tasks not related to the present investigation. The other potential subjects could either not be contacted or scheduled. The CRCP Questionnaire was developed by the present investigator for this study (see Appendix B). Part 1 of the CRCP asked the subject to indicate on a scale from ”very little” to "a great deal" how much he/she would be concerned about or emphasize various aspects of the child's behavior. The 24 25 items were adapted from the Children's Behavior Checklist (Ferguson, e£_§l;) and the Parent's Value Orientation Questionnaire (Olejnik and McKinney, 1973). These items measure to what degree a parent or prospective parent would focus his/her attention and be concerned with various negative and positive behaviors of young children. The positive behavior items of the CRCP Part I were conceptually designed to tap the dimensions of competency-mastery or prosocial- considerateness. The negative behavior items were geared to the dimensions of aggression-hostility or authority-defiance. Scores on the CRCP Part I thus revealed the relative salience for a parent of various positive and negative behaviors typical of children. 2. Undergraduate's Child-Rearing Practices.--Part II of the CRCP Questionnaire was administered to the 149 undergraduates along with Part I (see Appendix B). It presented the subject with descriptions of four typical parent-child interaction situations, each involving one of the four dimensions of children's behavior: competence-mastery, prosocial-considerateness, aggression-hostility, and authority- defiance. Twenty responses were listed after each situation, and the subject was asked to indicate on a scale from "Never" to "Usually" how often he/she would respond in each of the 20 ways in such a situation (or similar situations). The 20 responses on situation A and the 20 responses on situation C were conceptually designed to measure four kinds of parental behavior: power assertion, love-withdrawal, induction, or non-response. The 20 responses on situation B and the 20 responses on situation D were designed to measure five kinds of parental behavior: 26 reward, demonstrate love, empathize—explain, take for granted, or improve-criticize. Hence Part II of the CRCP assessed the ways in which a parent or prospective parent might respond to a child who was showing various kinds of positive or negative behavior. 3. Parent's Perceptions of Undergraduate Child.-—A letter was mailed to the parents (couples) of 156 potential undergraduate subjects requesting their participation in research for pay ($10.00/ couple). The parents of the remaining 40 potential undergraduate subject were not contacted because they were either separated, divorced, deceased, or because their addresses were not available (see Appendix C for a cepy of the letter). Along with the cover letter, cepies of the Children's Behavior Checklist Form Q and the CRCP Questionnaire were enclosed. Each parent (mother and father) was asked to complete independently the two instruments and return them in an enclosed stamped envelope. The Children's Behavior Checklist Form Q was almost identical to Form A except that some of the directions had been modified and the items slightly reworded (see Appendix D). Form Q asked the parent to complete the items in terms of how he/she perceived the undergraduate who participated in the study. Hence Form Q attempted to measure the child behavior perceptions retrospectively of the parents who raised the positive, balanced, and negative behavior perceiving undergraduates. 4. Child-Rearing Concerns of the Undergraduate's Parents.--As described previously, Part I of the CRCP questionnaire assessed an adult's emphasis on various positive and negative child behaviors, in 27 four areas: competence-mastery, prosocial-considerateness, aggression- hostility, and authority-defiance. 5. Child-Rearing Practices of the Undergraduate's Parents.--As described previously, Part II of the CRCP Questionnaire assessed the ways in which a parent might respond to a child who was showing various types of positive or negative behavior. More specifically, it measured nine kinds of parental behavior (Reward, Demonstrate Love, Empathize-Explain, Take for Granted, Improve-Criticize, Power Assertion, Love Withdrawal, Induction, and Non-Response) in the four parent-child interaction situations presented: Competency-Mastery, Prosocial-Considerateness, Aggression—Hostility, and Authority- Definance. Final Subject Pool Responses were received from 113 parental couples (72%). This participation rate made it highly likely that the final parent subject pool was representative of the population sampled. In nine cases the protocols received were unusable because of incomplete responses (7 cases) or because it was readily apparent from examining the pattern of responses and the subject's handwriting that one person had completed both sets of questionnaires (2 cases). The data potentially usable for statistical analyses of dependent measures included: 147 under— graduates' CRCP protocols; 105 mothers' CRCP protocols; 105 fathers' CRCP protocols; 104 mothers' CBC protocols, and 105 fathers' CBC protocols. Data apprOpriate for within-family comparison included: CRCP protocols for all family members in 91 families; and CBC protocols for both parents in 104 families. The frequencies of whole 28 family data within perceptual bias and undergraduate sex cells of the design are presented in Table 3. Table 3. Distribution of Whole Family Data Used in Analyses. Group % Returns N(CRCP) N(CBC) Positive Males 70 15 families 19 couples Positive Females 66 13 families 16 couples Balanced Males 68 16 families 17 couples Balanced Females 71 17 families 20 couples Negative Males 63 15 families 15 couples Negative Females 61 15 families 17 couples Totals 91 families 104 couples Experimental Design and Statistical Analyses The study used factorial designs. For CRCP family data (N=91 families), the dimensions of the design were 3(undergraduate's perceptual style) X 2(sex of undergraduate) X 3(family role). Dependent variables from the CRCP were generated through a principal axis factor analysis using all available data (N=357 subjects). R? was used as the estimate of communality, and factors were rotated to a varimax solution. A separate analysis of variance was performed on each of nine composite scores derived from the results of the factor analysis. For parents' perceptions of the undergraduate (CBC parents' data, N=104 couples), the dimensions of the design were: 3(under- graduate's perceptual style) X 2(sex of undergraduate X 2(family role). 29 Separate analyses of variance were performed for each of the four composite scores on parents' CBC protocols. For CRCP undergraduate data (N=l47 undergraduates), the dimensions of the design were 3(undergraduate's perceptual style) X 2(sex of undergraduate). Separate analyses of variance were performed on the nine dependent variables emerging from the factor analysis of all data. Eight additional analyses of variance were conducted on eight dependent variables emerging from another factor analysis based on only undergraduate data. Also, two analyses of variance were undertaken on new variables not originally suggested by factor analysis. Tests of simple effects were conducted when results from analysis of variance yielded meaningful interactions. The Newman-Keuls method was used to make multiple comparisons among means when appropriate. RESULTS CRCP Factor Analysis Principal axis factor analyses using R? as the estimate of communality and varimax rotation were conducted for CRCP Part I (concerns) and CRCP Part II (practices) separately. All available data were used (147 undergraduate protocols, 105 mothers' protocols, and 105 fathers' protocols; total N=357 subjects). Factors that were produced by varimax rotation were further refined using the following criteria: (1) an item had to load at least .45 on a factor; (2) an item could not have a loading of greater than .30 on any other factor, or there had to be a difference of at least .20 between an item's loading on its two highest factors; and (3) a factor has to be defined by at least three items. Two factors meeting the above criteria emerged from the factor analysis of CRCP Part I (child-rearing concerns). Together, they accounted for 78.3 percent of the variance. Factor I was composed of five items and was labelled "Concern With Child's Prosocial-Competent Behavior." Factor 11 was composed of four items and was labelled "Concern With Child's Aggression—Hostility." Items defining each factor, rotated factor loadings, and percentage of variance accounted for by each factor are presented in Table 4. 3O 31 Table 4. Summary of Factor Loadings-—CRCP Part I. (Based on an N of 357 subjects) Factor I (52.8% of variance) ”Concern With Child's Prosocial-Competent Behavior" Item Loading 6. Shows concern about the feelings of others .67271 8 Shows self-confidence .66660 10. Makes friends easily .57221 14. Is polite and c00perative with others .53057 18. Pitches in when things need to be done .57748 Factor II (25.5% of variance) "Concern With Child's Aggression—Hostility" Item Loading 3. Gets irritated or angry easily .58973 7. Fights with friends or with brothers and sisters .55581 19. Blows up easily when bothered by someone .54010 23. Threatens to hit or hurt others .49331 32 Seven factors meeting the criteria emerged from the factor analysis of CRCP Part II (child-rearing practices). Together, they accounted for 77 percent of the variance. These factors were labelled as follows: Factor III—-"Criticize-Threaten” (Power Assertion); Factor IV--"Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior"; Factor V-- "Point Out Intrinsic Reward of Desirable Behavior"; Factor VI--"Non- Verbal Rejection" (Love—Withdrawal); Factor VII—-"Express Pride and Happiness Over Child's Behavior;" Factor IX--"Demand Self-Control.” Items definined each of these factors, rotated factor loadings, and percentage of variance accounted for by each factor are presented in Table 5. Additional factor analyses then were performed separately for mothers' data, fathers' data, all undergraduates' data, undergraduate females' data, and undergraduate males' data. Inspection of results from these separate analyses indicated that subgroups' factors were highly similar to those of the group as a whole, and the minimal differences that did occur were probably the result of sampling error arising from smaller subgroup frequencies. The original factor analysis thus yielded a useful reduction of the data in terms of nine response dimensions that conceptually (as well as statistically) seemed meaningful. Analyses of Variance--Family Data A total of thirteen analyses of variance were performed on the family data (N=91 families). Dependent variables for nine of these analyses were composite scores based on the nine CRCP factors reported above. Dependent variables for the other four analyses were composite scores from parents' CBC protocols. 33 Table 5. Summary of Factor Loadings--CRCP Part II. 26. 28. 37. 40. 43. 44. 67. 76. 79. 80. (Based on an N of 357 subjects) Factor III (27.7% of variance) "Criticize--Threaten" (Power Assertion) Item Situation Loading Tell him he ought to be ashamed of himself A .71630 Tell him he's being selfish A .60700 Tell him I'm disappointed in him A .56969 Tell him I would like him to be more considerate of my wishes A .49214 Tell him he is just being stubborn and that he better stOp it right now A .64125 Tell him he'll be sorry if he doesn't do it right away A .54128 Tell him I don't like children who don't show respect for their parents C .53433 Tell him he is acting like a little baby and that he better stop it right now C .57816 Tell him he'll be sorry if he doesn't be quiet C .58267 Tell him he ought to be ashamed of himself for talking like that C .68242 45. Factor IV (18.5% of variance) "Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior" Item Situation Loading Give him some extra spending money or something else he wants B .66634 34 Table 5. Continued. Item Situation Loading 49. Promise him something he wants B .69831 55. Buy him something he wants B .75955 61. Tell him he'll be rewarded for doing so well B .57592 64. Make arrangements for him to do something he has wanted to do for a long time B .57155 85. Let him do something special he wants to do D .51669 90. Reward him for doing the good deed D .68530 97. Give him some extra spending money or something else he wants D .84038 101. Promise him something he wants D .72745 104. Buy him something he was wanted for a long time D .81435 Factor V (9.5% of variance) ”Point Out Intrinsic Reward of Desirable Behavior" Item Situation Loading 58. Explain to him that doing well will help him feel good about himself and get what he wants in life B .61836 59. Tell him I know how proud and happy he must be because he did so well B .51272 63. Tell him that a job well done is rewarding for its own sake B .57343 87. Explain to him that doing good will make him feel good about himself in life D .78451 35 Table 5. Continued. V...—..» -fl-.--o --—o".- ——- --. .—. —. - 93. 94. 99. 100. H Item Situation Loading Say it is good when you treat others as you would like to be treated D .57189 Explain how it makes him happy to do kind and helpful things D .76411 Explain that being considerate to others makes a person feel worthwhile D .82002 Tell him that doing something kind is very rewarding just in itself D .78601 33. 35. 38. 41. 73. 82. Factor VI (6.6% of variance) "Non-Verbal Rejection" (Love-Withdrawal) Item Situation Loading Go and do it myself, but show him I'm hurt and disappointed in him A .50623 Give him an angry look and walk away A .68638 Do it myself and show him I don't like it by not talking to him for awhile A .60540 Do nothing A .45141 Give him an angry look and walk away C .73251 Give him an angry look and ignore him for awhile C .67089 36 Table 5. Continued. Factor VII (6.4% of variance) "Induction Discipline” (Reasoning) lEee_ Situation Loading 27. Explain that if he would do it now, then I would have a chance to do some other things I need to do A .48159 29. Give reasons why the thing has to be done right away A .67692 34. Tell him I'm sorry he'll miss the program and explain why the thing has to be done now A .63041 39. Tell him we each have to help each other out and I need for him to do the thing right away A .59579 Factor VIII (5.4% of variance) "Express Pride and Happiness Over Child's Behavior" Item Situation Loading 52. Show him how proud I am B .63263 53. Tell him to keep up the good work B .55657 54. Tell him that what he did makes me haPPY B .64901 96. Tell him I am proud of the way he acted D .55739 37 Table 5. Continued. 66. 69. 72. Factor IX (2.8% of variance) "Demand Self-Control" Item Situation Loading Tell him I don't like it when he talks back angrily and that he can discuss it more calmly C .64439 Explain that even though he's angry, I would prefer that he express his feelings in a regular tone of voice C .59243 Tell him that what he said hurts my feelings and that he can express his anger without saying nasty things to me C .52977 38 The nine CRCP dependent variables were computed by summing scores over the items defining each factor. For example, a subject's composite score on CRCP Factor I-—"Concern With Prosocial-Competent Behavior"--was equal to the sum of his or her scores on items 6, 8, 10, 14, and 18. In this way, nine CRCP composite scores were computed for each subject. These nine CRCP dependent variables were examined for possible relations with the independent variables through nine separate 3(undergraudate's perceptual style--positive, balanced or negative) X 2(sex of undergraduate--male, female) X 3(family role-- child, mother, or father) analyses of variance. Summary tables for these analyses are presented in Appendix E. Four dependent variables from parents' CBC protocols were subjected to four separate 3(undergraduate's perceptual style) X 2(sex of undergraduate) X 2(fami1y role--mother, father) analyses of variance. The CBC dependent variables were: (2) "Positive Items that Apply"--sum of positive items checked in CBC column #1; (b) "Positive Items that Are Characteristic”—-sum of positive items checked in CBC column #2; (c) "Negative Items that Apply"--sum of negative items checked in CBC column #1; and (d) "Negative Items that are Characteristic"--sum of negative items checked in CBC column #2. Summary tables for these analyses of variance can be found in Appendix F. A summary of all significant results (p < .05) for these analyses of variance on family data is presented in Table 6. A number of significant §_ratios were obtained for family role main effects in the analyses of CRCP dependent variables (Factors III, VI, VII, VIII, and IX). These results indicated that children, mothers, and fathers differed significantly from one another in certain child-rearing 39 Table 6.--Summary of Significant Results Reflecting Comparisons Not Qualified by Higher-Order Interactions for ANOVAS on Family Data (N=91 Families). -.._..-7 ---_..-7 - --.- - _._.~__—_.—_—.. .— Dependent Variable Source F_ p Factor I Sex of Undergraduate X Family Role 6.08 .005 Factor III Family Role 9.01 .001 Factor VI Family Role 8.01 .001 Factor VII Family Role 12.13 .001 Factor VIII Family Role 3.70 .025 Factor IX Family Role 10.23 .001 CBC Negative Column #2 Sex of Undergraduate X Family Role 6.25 .025 practices. Two results revealed a significant sex of undergraduate X family role interaction effect (Factor I and CBC variable "Negative Items that Are Characteristic"). A more detailed presentation of these results from family data is organized according to independent vari- ables later in this chapter. Analyses of Variance--Undergraduate Data Since the preceding analyses of variance on family data included only those undergraduate subjects for whom parents' data was also available (N=91), additional analyses were conducted using all available undergraduates' CRCP protocols (N=l47). This larger under- graduate data pool included 46 positive perceivers, 50 balanced per- ceivers, and 51 negative perceivers. 40 Using the same CRCP dependent variables as were used in the analysis of family data, nine separate 3(undergraduate's perceptual style) X 2(sex of undergraduate) analyses of variance were performed on the undergraduate area. These analyses yielded no significant results. A second set of analyses of variance was performed on the undergraduate data, this time using as dependent variables eight composite scores based on the factor analysis of only the 147 under— graduate CRCP protocols. As noted previous, there seemed to be only minimal differences between the results of the factor analysis on all data (N=357) and the results of the factor analysis on only the under- graduates' protocols. However, this set of eight analyses of variance produced significant main effects for sex on Undergraduate Factor III-- "Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior" and Undergraduate Factor VIII--"Take Desirable Behavior for Granted." Items composing these factors and their rotated factor loadings are presented in Table 7. The corresponding analyses of variance summary tables can be found in Appendix G. A third set of analyses of variance was performed on the undergraduate data. This set followed from a careful examination of the differences between F ratios obtained through the two sets of analyses of variance on undergraduate data described above. It appeared that certain items on similar factors were contributing to lower significance of effects on four of the dependent variables in the second set of analyses. Four new composite variables were created, deleting those items which potentially were masking significant effects. Separate analyses of variance were conducted for these new variables. 41 Table 7. Summary of Undergraduate Factors 111 and VIII. (Based on an N of 147 undergraudate subjects) Undergraduate Factor III (16.1% of variance) "Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior" Item Situation Loading 45. Give him some extra spending money or some— thing else he wants B .72325 49. Promise him something he wants B .76509 55. Buy him something he wants B .86558 64. Make arrangements for him to do something he has wanted to do for a long time B .63923 90. Reward him for doing the good deed D .63829 97. Give him some extra spending money or something else he wants D .80311 101. Promise him something he wants D .66415 104. Buy him something he has wanted for a long time D .79250 Undergeaduate Factor VIII (2.8% of variance) "Take Desirable Behavior for Granted" Item_ Situation Loading 60. Show him that these things are just expected and that they are no big deal B .60714 91. Ask why he isn't always so cooperative and considerate D .58621 42 Table 7. Continued. Item Situation Loading_ 95. Show him that these things are just expected and are no big deal D .74785 98. Point out some other good things he ought to be doing but hasn't been doing D .66634 43 Two of these tests yielded significant main effects for perceptual style. Items composing these two new variables are presented in Table 8. The corresponding analyses of variance summary tables can be found in Appendix H. A summary of all significant results (p < .05) for analyses of variance on undergraduate data is presented in Table 9. Two of these results indicated male vs. female differences in child-rearing practices (Undergraduate Factor III and Undergraduate Factor VIII). The other two significant results revealed differences between positive, balanced, and negative behavior perceiving undergraduates' child-rearing practices (Undergraduate New Variable 1 "Shaming— Criticizing” and Undergraduate New Variable 2 "Do Nothing"). A more detailed presentation of these results from undergraduate data is organized according to independent variables later in this chapter. The Effects of Perceptual Style l. Undergraduate Data.--A significant main effect was obtained for perceptual style on New Undergraduate Variable l-—"Shaming—Criticizing” (F=3.867, p < .025). The Newman-Keuls procedure for comparisons among means revealed that negative behavior perceivers scored significantly higher on this dimension than balanced or positive behavior perceivers (p < .05). Balanced and positive perceivers did not differ signifi- cantly from one another on this variable. Cell means for the three groups of undergraduates are presented in Table 10 These results show that negative behavior perceivers are significantly more likely than positive or balanced behavior 44 Table 8. New Undergraduate Variables. New Undepgraduate Variable l "Shaming-Criticizing" Item Situation 26. Tell him he ought to be ashamed of himself A 28. Tell him he is being selfish A 37. Tell him I'm disappointed in him A 40. Tell him I would like him to be more considerate of my wishes A 67. Tell him I don't like children who don't show respect for their parents C 76. Tell him he is acting like a little baby and that he better step it right now C 79. Tell him he'll be sorry if he doesn't be quiet C 80. Tell him he ought to be ashamed of himself for talking like that C New Undergraduate Variable 2 Item Situation 41. Do nothing A 45 Table 9. Summary of Significant Results Reflecting Comparisons Not Qualified by Higher-Order Interactions for ANOVAS on Under- graduate Data (N=147 undergraduates). Dependent Variable Source 5_ p_ Undergraduate Factor 111 Sex of Undergraduate 4.203 .05 Undergraduate Factor VIII Sex of Undergraduate 8.158 .005 New Undergraduate Variable "Shaming-Criticizing" Perceptual Style 3.867 .025 New Undergraduate Variable "Do Nothing" Perceptual Style 3.863 .025 perceivers to use "Shaming-Criticizing” techniques of discipline with their children. Another significant main effect was obtained for perceptual style on New Undergraduate Variable 2--"Do Nothing" (F=3.863, p < .025). The Newman-Keuls method revealed that positive behavior perceivers scored significantly higher on this dimension than did balanced or negative behavior perceivers (p < .05). Balanced and negative behavior perceivers did not differ significantly from one another on this variable. Cell means for the three groups of undergraduates are presented in Table 10. These results show that when faced with a conflict situation in which the child refuses to meet an important parental request, positive behavior perceivers are more likely than balanced or negative behavior perceivers to withdraw and comply with the child's wishes (i.e., Do nothing). 2. Family Data.--No significant main effects or interaction effects involving perceptual style were obtained in the analyses of 46 .Amv cues no mHummez mo wedged» Ame Hom.oH o>fipmmez mo whenpoz Ame oom.m~ Amwcfiumm .mucesmav mefimz eeucmfimm Amy mv. o>apamoa ”my so.as m>flummez nflufim0d mo myocumm Ame nfiufimom mo mpozpoz Ame nflummez flm:om economeou-flmfloom noun spa: caeucou: nfluamom seagumfiuouemumnu eh< push mEewH e>Hufimom umu nfiumwez «:mcflzuoz on: Aflufimom -mcflNHUAHARU: mewoum can: oanmflum> uceecemeo .muasmem eaxum Hmsumeouem mo kneessm .oH ofinmh 47 variance on the family data. Because differences among family members of positive, balanced, and negative perceivers were expected on the basis of theory, the decision was made to investigate further (through analyses of simple effects) the interaction effects involving per- ceptual style when the overall F_had p_less than .20. This extremely liberal statistical approach was suggested by Winer (1971): "The specific comparisons which are built into the design or suggested by the theoretical basis for the experiment can and should be made individually, regardless of the outcome of the corresponding over-all F_test" (p. 384). Because of the large number of dependent variables, a cut-off point of p < .20 was used. The results regarding perceptual style for family data presented below are intended only to spggest possible trends and directions for future research. Results are described for simple effects analyses that yielded significant F_ratios (p < .05). Signi- ficant results from the analyses of simple effects were explored further utilizing the Newman-Keuls procedure. The perceptual style X sex of undergraduate interaction obtained for CBC dependent variable "Positive Items that are Charac- teristic" was non-significant (F=l.97, p < .02). However, further exploration via simple effects analysis (looking at the three con- ditions of perceptual style within males and females separately) yielded a significant E_for males (F=3.099, p < .05). The Newman—Keuls procedure then was used to make comparisons among the means of parents' ratings of their positive, balanced or negative behavior perceiving undergraduates. These comparisons revealed a significant difference between parents' ratings of positive and balanced behavior 48 perceiving males, with the latter being rated significantly higher than the former (p < .05). Negative behavior perceiving males were not rated significantly differently from the other two groups. Cell means for the three groups of parents' ratings are presented in Table 10. The perceptual style X family role interaction obtained for CRCP Factor I-—"Concern With Prosocial-Competent Behavior"--was non- significant (F=l.66, p < .20). However, further exploration via simple effects analysis (looking at the three conditions of perceptual style within each family role separately) yielded a significant §_for mothers (F=3.474, p < .05). The Newman-Keuls method revealed that mothers of balanced behavior perceivers were significantly less concerned with prosocial-competent behavior than were mothers of negative behavior perceivers (p < .05). There was not a significant difference on this dimension between mothers of positive behavior perceivers and the other two groups. Cell means for the three groups of mothers are presented in Table 10. The perceptual style X family role interaction obtained for CRCP Factor IV—-"Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior" approached significance (F=2.30, p < .10). Further exploration via analysis of simple effects (looking at the three conditions of per- ceptual style within each family role separately) yielded a significant §_for mothers (F=3.0836, p < .05). The Newman-Keuls procedure did not reveal significant differences among mothers of positive, balanced, or negative behavior perceiving undergraduates. However, the differences between mothers of balanced behavior perceivers and the other two groups closely approached significance, with the mothers of balanced behavior perceivers scoring higher. Cell means for the three groups 49 mothers' scores on Factor IV were mothers of negative = 10.967; mothers of positive = 11.536; and mothers of balanced = 15.121. The perceptual style X family role interaction obtained for CRCP Factor IX--"Demand Self-Control" was non-significant (F=l.92, p < .20). However, further exploration via simple effects analysis (looking at the three conditions of perceptual style within each family role separately) yielded a significant F_for fathers (F=4.581, p < .05). The Newman-Keuls test revealed that fathers of balanced behavior per- ceivers scored significantly lower on Factor IX than fathers of positive and fathers of negative behavior perceivers (p < .05). Fathers of positive and fathers of negative behavior perceivers did not differ from each other significantly. Cell means for the three groups of fathers' scores on Factor IX are presented in Table 10. 3. Summary of Results for Perceptual Style.-—On the basis of undergraduate CRCP data (N=l47 undergraduates), negative behavior perceivers were found to use ”Shaming-Criticizing" responses in parent-child conflict situations significantly more often than did balanced and positive behavior perceivers. Positive behavior per- ceivers were found to comply with the child's wishes (i.e., Do Nothing) in such situations significantly more often than did balanced and negative behavior perceivers. On the basis of family CRCP data (N=91 families), differences that occurred among parents of positive, balanced, and negative behavior perceivers must be viewed with caution since they were associated with nonsignificant overall E_ratios. These differences, if substantiated by future research, would suggest: (a) Parents of 50 balanced behavior perceiving males view their children as showing more positive behavior characteristically than do parents of positive behavior perceiving males; (b) Mothers of negative behavior perceivers show more "Concern with Child's Prosocial-Competent Behavior" than do mothers of balanced behavior perceivers; (c) Mothers of balanced behavior perceivers "Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior" more often than do mothers of positive and negative behavior per- ceivers; and (d) Fathers of balanced behavior perceivers are less likely than fathers of positive and negative behavior perceivers to "Demand Self-Control" when the child is expressing anger toward the parent. A summary of means reflecting significant (p < .05) Newman- Keuls comparisons for perceptual style that were not qualified by higher-order interactions is presented in Table 10. Sex of Undergraduate Effects l. Undergraduate Data.--Significant main effects for sex were obtained on Undergraduate Factor III--"Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior" (F=4.203, p < .05). Inspection of means on this dimensions revealed that male undergraduates scored significantly higher than female undergraduates. Cell means are presented in Table 11. Significant main effects for sex also were obtained on Under- graduate Factor VIII--"Take Desirable Behavior for Granted” (F=8.158, p < .005). Inspection of means for this dimensions showed that male undergraduates scored significantly higher than female undergraduates. Cell means are presented in Table 11. 51 Table 11. Summary of Sex of Undergraduate Results. Dependent Variable Mean Scores "Extrinsic Reward"* Females Males 10.02 (A) 11.89 (B) "Take Desirable Behavior Females Males for Granted”* 1.57 (A) 2.52 (B) "C”C Negative Items That Females Males Are Characteristic”* (Mothers' Ratings) (Mothers' Ratings) 1.094 (A) 2.529 (B) "Concern With Prosocial- Fathers of Males Fathers of Females Competent Behavior"* 12.913 (A) 15.289 (B) *Mean (A) differs significantly (p < .05) from mean (B). 2. Family Data.--The sex of undergraduate X family role inter- action for CRCP Factor I--"Concern With Child's Prosocial-Competent Behavior" was significant (F=6.08, p < .005). Further exploration via analyses of simple effects (looking at the sex of undergraduate variable within each family role) yielded a significant E_for fathers (F=l3.84ll, p < .001). Fathers of females scored significantly higher on this dimension than fathers of males. Cell means are presented in Table 11. The sex of undergraduate X family role interaction obtained for CBC variable ”Negative Items that Are Characteristic” was signifi- cant (F=6.25, p < .025). Further exploration through analysis of simple effects (looking at the sex of undergraduate variable within 52 each family role) yielded a significant F_for mothers (F=8.301, p < .005). Mothers of males rated their child significantly higher on this dimension than mothers of females. Cell means are presented in Table 11. 3. Sex of Undergraduate Effects-~Summary.--On the basis of under— graduate CRCP data (N=l47 undergraduates), males were more likely than females to "Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior," and males were also more likely than females to "Take the Child's Desirable Behavior for Granted." For family data (N=91 families), fathers of females showed more "Concern With Prosocial-Competent Behavior" than did fathers of males. Also, male undergraduates were rated by their mothers as showing more negative behaviors characteristically than female undergraduates. Cell means reflecting significant (p < .05) Newman-Keuls comparisons for sex of undergraduate effects that were not qualified by higher order interactions are summarized in Table 11. The Effects of Family Role 1. Family Role Main Effects.--A significant main effect for family role was revealed for CRCP Factor III--"Criticize-Threaten (Power Assertion)" (F=9.01, p < .001). The Newman-Keuls procedure showed that fathers scored significantly higher (p < .01) on this dimension than did mothers or children. Mothers and children did not differ significantly from each other in their use of this technique. Cell means for the three family roles on Factor III are presented in Table 12. 53 .eoeaoca ago gone Ame. V dc saucmoflmucwam pmmmHe Ham new new .nmv .Amnem uceuemEouifimfleomopa m.efiflnu :HH3 anoecouz ass:~0hu:ou iMHmm flCMEOQ: ..:oeaea massage: fiwcflcommemv .:o:usdaumuo couuosecsz fismzaee:ua2-m>osc *:fiOMHUOhOm HNDH®>ICOZ: Acoflpaemm< uozomv s::eumeugh ouwofiufinu: moaouw awe: oflnmfinm> ucmvceaea .mufismem oHom xfiflswm mo xnmeeam .NH magma 54 A significant main effect for family role also was obtained for Factor VI-—"Non-Verba1 Rejection (Love Withdrawal)" (F=8.01, p < .001). The Neman-Keuls test revealed that mothers scored significantly higher on this dimension than did fathers and children (p < .01). Fathers and children did not differ significantly from each other. Cell means for the three family roles on Factor VI are presented in Table 12. The family role main effect for Factor VII--"Induction Discipline (Reasoning)" was significant (F=12.13, p < .001). The Newman—Keuls method showed that children were significantly higher on this dimensions than were mothers and fathers (p < .01). Fathers and mothers did not differ significantly from one another in their use of "Induction Discipline." Cell means for the three family roles on Factor VII are presented in Table 12. The family role main effect for Factor VIII-~"Express Pride and Happiness Over Child's Behavior" was significant (F=3.70, p < .025). The Newman-Keuls procedure showed that mothers scored signifi- cantly higher on this factor than fathers (p < .05). Children did not differ significantly from either of their parents. Cell means for the three family roles on Factor VIII are presented in Table 12. A significant main effect for family role was obtained for Factor IX--"Demand Self-Control" (F=10.23, p < .001). The Newman-Keuls procedure revealed that mothers scored significantly higher on this dimension than did fathers (p < .05); children scored significantly higher than their mothers (p < .05); and children scored significantly higher than fathers (p <.01). Cell means for the three family roles on Factor IX are presented in Table 12. 55 2. Family Role X Sex of Undergraduate Interactions.--The family role X sex of undergraduate interaction obtained for CRCP Factor I-- "Concern With Child's Prosocial-Competent Behavior" was significant (F=6.08, p < .005). Further exploration via simple effects analysis (looking at family role within each sex of undergraduate condition) yielded a significant F_for males (F=9.7986, p < .001). The Newman— Keuls test revealed that fathers of males scored significantly lower on Factor I than mothers of males and male children (p < .01). Mothers of males did not differ significantly from their children on this dimension. Cell means for male children, their mothers, and their fathers are presented in Table 12. The family role X sex of undergraduate interaction for CBC variable "Negative Items That Are Characteristic" also was significant (F=6.25, p < .025). Further exploration via simple effect analysis (looking at family role within each sex of undergraduate condition) yielded a nonsignificant F for males (F=2.810, p < .10). Inspection of the means showed that mothers of males, as compared to fathers of males, rated their children as showing somewhat more negative behavior characteristically. The mean for mothers of males was 2.529, while for fathers of males the mean was 1.686. 3. Summary of Family Role Results.--The results for family role revealed: (a) Fathers were significantly more likely to use criticism and threats in parent-child conflict situations as compared to mothers or children; (b) Mothers were significantly more likely to use non- verbal rejection in parent-child conflict situations as compared to fathers or children; (c) Children were significantly more likely to 56 use non-verbal rejection in parent-child conflict situations as compared to fathers or children; (c) Children were significantly more likely to use induction discipline (reasoning) in parent-child conflict situations as compared to mothers or fathers; (d) Mothers were significantly more likely to express their own feelings of pride in response to the child's desirable behavior as compared to fathers; (e) Children were significantly more likely than mothers and fathers to demand that the child control his anger toward the parent in a conflict situation, and mothers were significantly more likely than fathers to demand self— control; and (f) Fathers of males were significantly less concerned with the child's prosocial-competent behavior than were mothers of males or male children. Cell means and significant (p < .05) Newman- Keuls comparisons for family role effects that were not qualified by higher-order interactions are summarized in Table 12. DISCUSSION Dimensions of Child-Rearing Concerns and Practices A central question in the interpretation of results is the meaning of CRCP dependent variables emerging from factor analysis. The CRCP dependent variables will be discussed below in terms of their presumed potential for influencing the social and emotional well—being of children. Factor I--"Concern With Child's Prosocial-Competent Behavior" would seem to bear a positive relationship to the child's development of socially responsible behavior. In line with our previous hypothesis, a lack of concern with prosocial-competent behavior implies that such behavior would be unnoticed and ignored by the parent and consequently extinguished from the child's repertoire. 0n the other hand, a high degree of such concern implies perceptual sensitivity to the value of prosocial and competent actions and permits the parent to respond supportively to them. Theoretically, the child whose parent shows a high degree of concern with prosocial-competent behavior would be more likely to value and demonstrate kindness, helpfulness, self-confidence, and cooperation. In turn, each of these traits would seem to lead to interpersonal success with peers, teachers, and within the family. On the other hand, it is also conceivable that an extremely high score on concern with prosocial-competent behavior indicates moral rigidity or excessive demands for obedience. 57 58 Support for the hypothesis that parental conCern with positive behavior is associated with the development of such behavior in children can be found in a study by Olejnik and McKinney (1973). Parental prescriptive value-orientation to child-rearing (emphasis on doing or avoiding doing geee) compared to parental prescriptive orientation (emphasis on doing or avoiding doing pee) was related to generosity in four year-old children. Children of "prescriptive” parents tended to be givers while children of "prescriptive" parents tended to be non- givers. This research is also relevant to Factor II--"Concern with Child's Aggression-Hostility." High-scorers on Factor I would appear to be sililar to "prescriptive" parents, while high—scorers on Factor 11 would appear to be similar to "prescriptive" parents. However, parental concern with the child's aggression-hostility (Factor II) is more complex. Clearly, a parent who was unconcerned with his child's aggressiveness of the sort described on the CRCP would be viewed as lax, insensitive to needed limit-setting, and possibly as giving tacit approval for the child's acting-out (Baumrind, 1973; Becker, 1964; Johnson, 1959). At the other extreme, high-scorers may be so intent on finding asocial behavior that their "over-concern" acts as a self-fulfilling prophecy, i.e., leading then to attend to negative behavior excessively and thereby rewarding or encouraging it (Johnson, 1959). In this sense, concern with the child's aggression-hostility would seem to bear a curvilinear relationship to the development of socially responsible behavior in children (moderate levels being the most facilitative when coupled with effective limit-setting). Some of the dependent variables emerging from factor analysis of CRCP Part II bear meaningful similarities to parental behavior 59 dimensions utilized in previous research on personality development (Baumrind, 1967, 1973; Becker, 1964; Hoffman, 1963, 1970; Reif and Stollak, 1972). In accordance with Reif and Stollak's review, some of the factors from CRCP Part II can be divided into those presumed to facilitate the child's well-being ("effective" parental behaviors) and those presumed to be non-facilitative of his well-being and potentially contributing to social and emotional disturbance ("in- effective" parental behaviors). Effective child-rearing practices would include: (1) behaviors associated with understanding the child, e.g., Reflection of verbal content, Reflection of Feelings, Reflection of motor behavior, and Interpretation; (2) behaviors associated with the expression of positive feelings toward the child, e.g., Praise of behavior, Affection, and Warmth; (3) behaviors associated with appropriate control and participation, e.g., Setting limits with explanations, Orienting, Clarifying compliance, Giving help, and Reciprocal participation in fantasy behavior; and (4) behaviors associated with the [Adult's] expression of himself as an individual, e.g., Statements of own emotion and global Genuineness. (Reif and Stollak, 1972, p. 19) On the other hand, ineffective parental practices appear to involved: "(1) behaviors associated with non-acceptance of the child, e.g., Criticism, Asking questions, Praise person on the basis of behavior, and global Rejection-hostility; and (2) behaviors associated with over or under control of the child, e.g., Direction, Setting limits without explanation, Initiating fantasy behavior, Non-attention, and Un- clarified compliance" (Reif and Stollak, 1972, p. 19). As is readily apparent, some of the CRCP dependent variables can be presumed on the basis of previous research to be effective. Factor V-—"Point Out Intrinsic Reward of Desirable Behavior" contains a Reflection of feelings component and an other-oriented induction component, both of which seem facilitative of the child's developing 6O self-awareness, internal locus of control, and sensitivity to others (Axline, 1947; Hoffman, 1963, 1970). Items in Factor VIl—-"Induction Discipline" involve setting appropriate limits, statements of own feelings, and reasoning. Such practices have consistently been found to relate positively to the child's development of self-control, self- confidence, prosocial behavior, autonomy, and advanced morality (Baumrind, 1973; Becker, 1954; Hoffman, 1970; and Coopersmith, 1967). Similarly, Factor IX——"Demand Self-Control" contains items which involve statements of own feelings, appropriate limit-setting, and other-oriented induction. However, it also contains an inhibitory component, demanding that the child suppress his verbal expression of anger, and perhaps a guild-inducing component (e.g., item #72--"Tell him that what he said hurts my feelings and that he can express his anger without saying nasty things to me"). The effectiveness of Factor IX responses is therefore somewhat unclear, although the items seem generally to be in the direction of facilitating the child's appro- priate self-control (see Baumrind, 1967). Factor VIII--"Express Pride and Happiness Over the Child's Desirable Behavior" has a praise of behavior component and a statement of own feelings component, both of which are presumed to be effective. However, the items in Factor VIII suggest that the child should do "good" for the parent's sake, possibly to boost the parent's self- esteem, and seem to shift "ownership" of the child's desirable behavior to the parent. For these reasons, the overall effectiveness of Factor VIII child-rearing practices is unclear, but again the items appear to be in the facilitative direction. 61 Factor IV and Undergraduate Factor 111 have both been labelled "Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior." All items in these factors consist of positive reinforcement for prosocial-competent behavior, and on face value, such practices would seem to increase their frequency. However, contingent reward may suggest to the child that kindness, helpfulness, and achievement have value only insofar as they bring external financial benefits and special privileges unrelated to the behavior itself. The intrinsic value or ethical principle involved in the behavior is ignored. The parent's response does not seem to encourage the child's awareness of his or her own competence motivation nor does it explicitly encourage the child to develop internalized moral principles, internal locus of evaluation, and sensitivity to the needs of others. Moreover, it seems to this author that the emphasis on external reward and the nature of some of the rewards (e.g., gifts and money) would inhibit the development of advanced morality, e.g., Kohlberg's Stage 6 (Kohlberg, 1963). Instead, techniques of external reward would seem to promote an instrumental or role-confirming approach to prosocial behavior (stages 2 and 3). At best, Factor IV and Undergraduate Factor III can be considered neutral with regard to their impact on the child's positive socio- emotional development. The remainder of the factors clearly appear to be ineffective. Factor III-~"Criticize-Threaten (Power Assertion)" involves a parental hostility component as well as setting limits without explanation. These practices have consistently been associated with the child's weak moral deveIOpment and counter-aggression (Becker, 1964; Hoffman, 1970). The same may be said for New Undergraduate Variable I-- 62 "Criticizing-Shaming," and Undergraduate Factor VIII-—"Take Desirable Behavior for Granted.” The latter seems to have a high criticism component. Factor VI--"Non—Verbal Rejection (Love-Withdrawal)" contains a parental hostility component. Such rejection has been found to bear little relation to moral development, but it seems to be associated with the development of conduct disorders, lower self—esteem, and withdrawn-inhibited behavior (Becker, 1964). Lastingly, New Undergraduate Variable 2--"Do Nothing" implies that the adult is overly permissive, ambivalent, or lax with the child, and has difficulty setting consistent and appropriate limits. In Baumrind's studies (1967, 1973), parents' permissive non-control was associated with the child's lack of self-control, lack of self- reliance, and tendency to retreat from novel experiences. In summary, high scores on the following CRCP dimensions are presumed to be the most facilitative of the children's social and emotional well—being: Factor I--"Concern With Child's Prosocial- Competent Behavior"; Factor V--"Point Out Intrinsic Reward of Desirable Behavior"; and Factor VII-~"Induction Discipline." On the other hand, high scores on the CRCP dimensions listed below are presumed to be ineffective or to contribute to the development of weaker morality and possibly behavior dysfunctions in children: Factor III--"Criticize- Threaten (Power Assertion)"; New Undergraduate Variable l--"Criticizing- Shaming"; Undergraduate Factor VIII--"Take Desirable Behavior for Granted"; Factor VI--"Non-Verbal Rejection"; and New Undergraduate Variable 2--"Comply with Child's Wishes." Factor I[--"Concern With Child's Aggression-Hostility" would seem to bear a curvilinear 63 relationship to positive child development, with moderate scores being Optional. The consequences of parental dimensions "Demand Self- Control" (Factor IX) and ”Express Pride” (Factor VIII) are ambiguous but seem to be in the facilitative direction. The effects of Factor IV and Undergraduate Factor III--"Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior"are also ambiguous but seem to be in the non-facilitative direction from the point of view of moral development. A summary table is presented below (Table 13). It must be stressed that the actual (as opposed to the theoretical) consequences of the parental dimensions derived from factor analysis of the CRCP have not been determined. Only a longitudinal or cross-sectional design investigating the association of CRCP responses with child behavior would yield a more definitive specification of their meaning and influence. Biases in Adults' Perceptions of Children The small number of significant findings regarding perceptual style suggests either that (a) this variable's relation to child- rearing practices is less potent than predicted, or (b) methodological weaknesses in the measurement of dependent variables masked potential effects of perceptual style (see section on Methodology below). Furthermore, some of the trends regarding parental attitudes associated with undergraduates' perceptual biases seem to contradict what was expected on the basis of theory. The finding that negative behavior perceiving undergraduates were more likely than balanced or positive perceivers to use "Criticizing-Shaming" disciplinary techniques is clearly in the 64 Table 13. Dependent Variables and Their Presumed Consequences for the Development of Children's Psychosocial Well-Being. Dependent Variable Score Effectiveness Factor I: "Concern with Child's Prosocial High E* Competent Behavior" Factor V: "Point Out Intrinsic Reward High E of Desirable Behavior" Factor VII: "Induction Discipline" High E Factor 11: "Concern with Child's Moderate E Aggression—Hostility" Factor IX: "Demand Self-Control" High (E)** Factor VIII: "Express Pride" High (E) Factor III: "Criticize-Threaten High I*** (Power Assertion)” Factor VI: "Non-Verbal Rejection High I (Love-Withdrawal)" New Undergraduate Variable: High I "Criticizing-Shaming" New Undergraduate Variable 2: High 1 "Do Nothing" Undergraduate Factor VIII: High I "Take Desirable Behavior for Granted" Factor IV: "Give Extrinsic Reward High (I) for Desirable Behavior" Undergraduate Factor III: "Give High (1) Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior" *E=Effective. **Parentheses denote greater ambiguity about child's development. ***I=Ineffective. effects on 65 predicted direction. It suggests that negative behavior perceivers are more authoritarian and punitive. In this sense, they seem somewhat similar to Baumrind's (1967) pattern 11 parents whose children were discontent, withdrawn, and distrustful. Of course, only longitudinal research could substantiate this hypothesized similarity. The finding that positive perceivers, as compared to balanced and negative perceivers, were more likely to do nothing in response to the child's refusal to meet a parental demand indicates that positive perceivers are less able or more ambivalent about exerting parental authority. Parental inability to set limits or exert authority within a democratic framework has been associated with the child's lack of self-control, lack of self-reliance, and tendency to retreat from novel experiences (Baumrind, 1967; Becker, 1964). The tenor of these two results is that adults who are most realistic and accurate in their perceptions of children (i.e., balanced perceivers) are also less likely to endorse child-rearing practices that may promote behavior disorder in children. At one extreme, adults with negative behavior perceptual biases seem more rejecting and authoritarian. 0n the other end of the perceptual continuum, positive behavior perceivers are more likely to do nothing in a parent-child conflict situation, i.e., they seem less able to use parental influence effectively. In general, the findings of this study did not yield strong support for the notion that perceptual styles of undergraduates are related to their parents' child-rearing attitudes or perceptions. Some trends (associated with non-significant F_ratios) were found in the data, but these findings must be interpreted skeptically pending 66 further investigation. One of these trends indicated that balanced males were viewed more positively by their parents than were positive males. This finding implies one of several things: (a) balanced behavior perceiving male undergraduates demonstrated more positive behaviors in middle childhood than did positive males; (b) the parents of balanced behavior perceiving males selectively perceived more positive behavior when their offspring were young children; or (c) parents of balanced behavior perceiving males responded more "defen- sively" to the CBC, making items in a socially desirable direction. If one assumes that (a) and/or (b) above are the case, then the finding suggests that children who are viewed more positively by their parents are also most likely to be accurate perceivers as adults. Assuming further that positive parental perceptions tend to increase offsprings' self-esteem, there would be less "need" for balanced behavior perceivers to form perceptual biases or distortions.2 However, the tentative nature of this trend in the data and the openness of the CBC to social desirability responses makes further clarification difficult at this time. A second trend in the data showed that mothers of negative behavior perceivers scored higher than mothers of balanced behavior perceivers on Factor I--"Concern With Prosocial-Competent Behavior." This result runs counter to expectations in that negative behavior perceivers were predicted to yield lower scores on positive concern. Again, the fact that the trend was associated with a non-significant 2See particularly the comments by Wynne (1971) on the "trading of dissociation"; and the comments by Boszormenyi-Nagy and Spark (1973) on "parentification." 67 §_value makes interpretation difficult. Alternative explanations would be that (a) Factor I items are also open to social desirability and hence parents of negative behavior perceivers are simply more likely to present a defensively flattering picture of themselves, or (b) high scores on Factor I indicate excessive parental demands, moralism, and rigidity rather than an effective prescriptive approach to socialization. A third trend also seemed to run counter to expectations. Fathers of balanced perceivers were significantly lower on Factor IX-- "Demand Self-Control," which was discussed above as appearing to be an effective response. 0n face value, the finding implies that the parents of the most accurate perceivers (balanced) are last likely to use reasoning and limit-setting in response to their child's anger. However, Factor IX also contains a "suppression of anger" component, and it may have been this subdimension which accounted for the finding. In other words, fathers of negative and positive behavior perceivers may be more likely to demand suppression of hostility than are fathers of balanced behavior perceivers. Again, it is difficult to confidently interpret this result when the meaning of factors is uncertain and when the result itself is not associated with a significant 5 value. In summary, it seems fair to conclude that the results regarding perceptual style are somewhat equivocal. The few significant results that were obtained indicate that positive and negative behavior per- ceiving undergraduates are more likely than balanced behavior per- ceivers to advocate child-rearing practices associated in previous research with poorer personal and social development in children. 68 Sex Differences in Child-Rearing_Attitudes Intragenerational comparisons regarding sex of subject yielded rather consistent findings. Contrasting fathers with mothers and male undergraduates with female undergraduates, male subjects in both generations scored significantly higher on "ineffective" factors (i.e., "Criticize-Threaten," "Extrinsic Reward," and "Take Desirable Behavior for Granted"). The one exception to this pattern involved "Non-verbal Rejection (Love-Withdrawal)," a dimension on which mothers scored higher than fathers. On the other hand, mothers scored higher than fathers on the presumed "effective" factors "Express Pride," "Demand Self-Control," and "Concern with Prosocial Competent Behavior." In general, these findings are in line with previous research showing fathers to be stricter, more punitive, less nurturant, and less accepting (Becker, 1964; Jackson, 1956; Teyber, 1975). Considering the evidence attesting to the effects of fathers' marital and parental behavior on the positive or disturbed emotional development of children, the findings of the present study gain further importance (Barry, 1969; Lidz, 1973; Robins, 1966). It is also interesting to note that fathers and undergraduate males seem more direct in their use of punishment and in their expression of anger (e.g., criticism, shaming, demand compliance) while mothers are more likely than fathers to utilize a more passive~ manipulative form of punishment (i.e., non-verbal rejection). This finding, as well as the others regarding sex, are in line with role stereotypes of males as being more punitive, harsher, authoritarian and women as being more nurturant and less overtly assertive or aggressive. The fact that there were more significant stereotypical 69 differences between mothers and fathers than between male and female undergraduates is perhaps a testimony to changing cultural values concerning sex-role-appropriate behavior. Nevertheless, the data still indicate some continuing stereotypical differences in the younger genration. Additional findings involving sex-role were: (a) fathers of males scored lower than fathers of females on "Concern with Prosocial- Competence"; (b) fathers of males scored lower than mothers of males on "Concern with Prosocial—Competent Behavior"; and (c) males were rated as showing more negative characteristics than females (mothers' CBC ratings). Findings (a) and (b) above are consistent with results of a study by Aberle and Naegle (1952) of middle class fathers' attitudes toward their children. In their research, areas of paternal concern differed as a function of child's sex. For boys, fathers were pleased with demonstrations of initiative, responsibility, standing up for oneself, school achievement, athletic ability, and emotional stability. Fathers' satisfaction with girls focused more on daughter's being "sweet," "nice," pretty, affectionate, and well-liked. In the present investigation, Factor I seemed to have items more similar to characteristics that fathers preferred for girls rather than boys. However, the lower scores on Factor I for fathers of boys as compared to fathers of girls cannot be explained on this basis unless we assume that fathers responded to the CRCP with reference to the sex of their child who participated in the study. While these instructions were not specified for the CRCP, parents did rate their "index" child on the CBC. It thus seems likely that instructions 7O generalized and that the response set assumption may be accurate, although no empirical evidence currently exists to support this view. Finding (c) above is consistent with studies on child-guidance clinic populations and sex—role research that boys tend to Show more aggressive behavior than girls (Ferguson, 23.31:, 1974; Mischel, 1970). However, why mothers rate boys higher on negative characteristics than girls while fathers' ratings do not reflect this difference remains an open question. Perhaps this difference in the perceptions of mothers and fathers is related to the latters' greater tolerance for aggressivity or to fathers' greater identification with sons (whom they therefore need to see as showing fewer negative characteristics). In summary, sex differences in child-rearing attitudes generally supported previous research showing that: (1) males are more likely than females to endorse authoritarian practices associated with less competent psychosocial development in children; (2) females are more likely than males to advocate practices associated with positive psychosocial development; (3) females are more likely than males to use indirect (non-verbal) versus direct (verbal criticism) methods of expressing hostility toward their children; and (4) male children are described by their mothers as showing more negative characteristics while their fathers are less concerned with prosocial-considerate behavior. Intergenerational Continuities and Discontinuities in Child-Rearing Attitudes The findings regarding parent—child comparisons on child- rearing practices show both similarities and differences across generations. In some instances, undergraduates' child-rearing 71 attitudes are similar to the attitudes of both of their parents. In other instances, undergraduates scored differently from both parents. Still at other times, undergraduates' attitudes were similar to one parent's but different from the other parent's attitudes. Undergraduates did not differ from either parent on the following child-rearing dimensions: "Concern With Child's Aggression-A Hostility"; "Give Extrinsic Reward for Desirable Behavior"; "Point Out Intrinsic Reward of Desirable Behavior"; and "Express Pride and Happiness Over Desirable Behavior." In addition, female undergraduates did not differ from either parent on the dimension, "Concern With Prosocial-Competent Behavior." These findings supported the "con- tinuity" hypothesis that parents and their children are alike in child- rearing attitudes. Previous researchers did not examine these dimensions of child-rearing in two generations, and the results here highlight the issue of the selection of child-rearing practices for study. In other comparisons, undergraduates differed significantly from both of their parents on two child-rearing dimensions: "Induction Discipline” and "Demand Self-Control." It is noteworthy that these two dimensions both contain a high "use of reasoning in discipline" component which is associated with children's self-control, social responsibility, and advanced moral development (Baumrind, 1973; Becker, 1964; and Hoffman, 1970). Undergraduates scored higher on these factors than either their mothers or fathers. These findings do not support the intergenerational continuity hypothesis. In another set of parent-child comparisons, undergraduates scored similarly to one parent but not to the other parent. On the 72 dimension ”Criticize-Threaten (Power Assertion)" undergraduates were similar in child-rearing attitudes to their mothers, but dissimilar with regard to fathers. Since power assertion has been associated with behavior disorder, poorer moral development and less social responsi- bility in children, undergraduates' scores were less in the "in- effective" direction than their fathers' (Baumrind, 1973; Hoffman, 1970). On the dimension "Non-Verbal Rejection (Love Withdrawal)," undergraduates' scores were similar to fathers' but not to mothers'. Again, "Non-Verbal Rejection (Love-Withdrawal)" is considered an "ineffective" response, and undergraduates' scores were lower than their mothers'. Male undergraduates' scores were similar to their mothers' (but not their fathers') socres on Factor I—-"Concern With Prosocial-Competent Behavior." Factor I is considered an "effective" factor in promoting positive emotional development in children, and undergraduates responded higher on this dimension than did their fathers. These findings lend partial support to both the continuity and the discontinuity hypotheses. All parent—child comparisons on child-rearing attitudes are summarized in Table 14 with regard to the continuity-discontinuity hypotheses. Out of the 20 parent-child comparisons, 13 supported the continuity hypothesis while only 7 supported the discontinuity hypothesis. It is also noteworthy that for every comparison in which the discontinuity hypothesis was upheld, undergraduates scored in the more facilitative and effective child-rearing direction than their mothers and/or fathers. The intergenerational findings were consistent with the hypotheses that, in general, similarities would obtain between parents and undergraduates and that differences would reflect 73 Table 14. Dependent Variables and Their Continuity Across Generations. Dependent Variable Mother-Child Father-Child Factor I: "Concern With C (for females) C (for females) Prosocial-Competent Behavior" D (for males) D (for males) Factor 11: "Concern With Child's D C Aggression-Hostility" Factor III: "criticize- Threaten (Power-Assertion)” C D Factor IV: "Extrinsic Reward" C C Factor V: "Point Out Intrinsic . Reward" C C Factor VI: "Non-Verbal Rejection (Love-Withdrawal)" ' D C Factor VII: "Induction Discipline" D D Factor VIII: "Express Pride" C C Factor IX: "Demand Self-Control" D D *C=continuous; D=discontinuous. 74 greater "permissiveness" (e.g., greater use of induction; less use of criticism, power assertion and love-withdrawal) of college students. Nevertheless, these undergraduates were not yet parents. Perhaps the actual tasks of child-rearing will influence their attitudes in such a way as to make them more and/or less similar to their parents' attitudes on various dimensions. It would be interesting to re-study the attitudes of these undergraduate subjects after they had begun raising children of their own. Follow-up study of their actual behavior with their own children and of their children's behavior patterns would also help us to understand the relation between prospective child-rearing attitudes and their consequences for later parenting and child development. The findings regarding intergenerational child-rearing attitudes supported previous research showing that adults' child-rearing practices are similar on some dimensions to their parents' and dissimilar on other dimensions (Cohler, 95.21:, 1971; Kell and Aldous, 1960; and Staples and Smith, 1954). The results also support previous research by Bronfenbrenner (1958, 1961) showing an increase in love-oriented inductive socialization techniques and a decline in the use of punishing-threatening techniques among American parents from 1930 to 1955. No support was found for the hypotheses that an undergraduate's perceptual style (positive, balanced, or negative) is reflected similarly in his or her parents' perceptions of the undergraduate (CBC responses). This study did not directly examine the impact of under- graduates' earlier family experience on current child-rearing attitudes. Therefore, conclusions with regard to causality cannot be 75 made on the basis of the data. However, the results showing current similarities and differences between generations suggest that longitudinal research should examine the processes by which child- rearing attitudes are selected or influenced by each parent as well as by extrafamilial sources. The data in this study indicate that children may be adopting attitudes from a range of sources which have been most helpful in their own past and current experience, while rejecting those practices that have been most ineffective or destructive. Methodological Considerations in the Interpretation of Findinge_ Clearly, the present study was only exploratory in nature. Its major methodological weaknesses were: (a) its reliance on retrospective self-report data in measuring perceptions of the under- graduates' parents and (b) its reliance on self-report data in the measurement of child-rearing practices. Among others, Radke-Yarrow (1963) has raised serious criticism about the validity of the question- naire and interview as information sources on parental behaviors. Social desirability, poor memory, and the influence of current life factors may reduce the accuracy of parental reports of actual parental behavior. While a few studies have found parents to be fairly accurate reporters of their parental behavior, the questionnaire method would seem to sacrifice in validity what it makes up for in convenience (Smith, 1951; Ferguson and Rowland, 1969). On the other hand, it is enormously difficult, time-consuming, and expensive to obtain records of lp_plye_adult behavior with children, and it is sometimes virtually impossible to do so (as in the present investi- gation where data were required about the behavior of undergraduates' parents who were geographically scattered across the United States). 76 It is more apprOpriate to say that child-rearing questionnaires measure parental attitudes towards child-rearing rather than actual behavior or practices. The question remains: to what degree do parental attitudes and perceptions predict actual parental behavior? In a subsequent study, this question will be examined with regard to the predictive ability of undergraduates' responses on the CRCP Questionnaire to the behavior of these same undergraduates with children. Messé and Stollak have obtained videotapes of the positive, balanced, and negative behavior perceiving undergraduates interacting with children. They will be undertaking a detailed coding of this videotaped behavior, so that ultimately the validity question with regard to the CRCP will be answered. Nevertheless, the CRCP Questionnaire--Part II would seem to have some redeeming qualities as a self-report measure of parental behavior that are lacking in other such questionnaires (e.g., the Child-Rearing Practices Report—-Block, 1972). A particular criticism leveled against such questionnaires is that they fail to take into account powerful situational or child-behavior variables in the measurement of parental-behaviors. Thus there are items on Block's Child-Rearing Practices Report such as "I often feel angry with my child"; "I let my child make many decisions for himself"; "I expect a great deal from my child"; "I am easy going and relaxed with my child"; "I talk it over and reason with my child when he misbehaves"; and so on. These items would seem to be too vague and lacking in detailed description of the child's situational behavior. For example, it seems less useful to know that a parent "expects a great deal" from his child, than to know what the parent 77 expects with regard to school performance ye_tasks at home !e_relations with peers. When a parent endorses the statement "I often feel angry with my child," it is not clear how the parent manages the feeling (suppression, acting—out) or whether the anger is in response to situations of sibling aggression !e_stuttering pe_authority defiance, pe_all three, and so on. Part II of the CRCP Questionnaire attempts to control for some of this potential variance in response sets by describing four fairly specific parent-child interaction situations and by asking the parent to respond in frequency terms to descriptions of parental behavior rather than in terms of internal—affective or cognitive states. This greater specificity should have increased validity since previous questionnaire research indicates that parental behavior varies greatly in response to child behavior (Green, 1973; Teyber, 1975). However, only further study of CRCP and CBC questionnaires will yield more definitive answers on their relation to actual parental behavior. An additional constraint on the interpretation of results involved the meaning of the CRCP dependent variables emerging from factor analysis. Thus not only would it be valuable to know whether the child-rearing dimensions reflect actual parental behavior, but it would be useful to know whether certain scores or patterns of scores on the CRCP predict to specific characteristics of the child. In the absence of such information, the interpretations of results were based on theory and on factors' similarity to dimensions utilized in previous research. The nature of deriving dependent variables for the CRCP (i.e., factor analysis) provided a useful reduction of the data in 78 terms of relevant, overall child-rearing dimensions. The 104 items on the CRCP were factor analyzed because there was not e_priori basis for choosing which items and/or subgroups of items to investigate. It would have been extremely impractical to conduct analyses of variance on each of the 104 items separately. However, the reduction of data also made it likely that some items were omitted from analyses that would have yielded significant results. Item #4l--"Do Nothing" which was added to the analyses on an eLpesteriori basis is a case in point. Analyses of variance on all items separately probably would have increased the number of significant results. Despite the loss of potentially relevant data, the factor analytic method at least gave some assurance that the major dimensions of the CRCP were accounted for in the subsequent analyses of variance. Other elements of the experimental design and the sample limited both the conclusions that could be drawn from the findings as well as the generalizability of results. As has been mentioned previously, longitudinal, cross-sectional, or best of all, a convergent or cross-sequential design is needed to answer the central question of how experiences in subjects' families of origin influence their later parental behavior with their own children (Bell, 1953; Burton, 1972; Schaie and Strother, 1968). Obviously, a sample of middle-class single college students and their parents is not fully representative of the American population. Results therefore cannot confidently be generalized to other groups (e.g., socio-economic classes, races, ethnic groups) or situations (e.g., not in college, married, with children). 79 A less homogeneous sample may also have yielded more or less continuity in child—rearing attitudes across generations. For example, clinical studies lead one to suspect that there may be more inter- generational continuity of child-rearing practices in the families of disturbed persons than in "normal" families (Fisher and Mendell, 1956; Borszormenyi-Nagy and Spark, 1973). Theoretically, the greater transactional rigidity and isolation of disturbed families would increase intergenerational continuities in parental behavior. In view of the methodological pitfalls in the study, it is best to view it as exploratory, only a beginning. The results and conclu- sions herein must be seen in tentative terms, subject to verification through future research incorporating the suggestions above. Implications of the Stuey The results reported here, if substantiated ey future research, carry a number of implications for child-rearing and child mental health. The suggestive associations of perceptual style with parental behavior affecting the psychosocial development of children, argue for "perceptual re-education" programs for negative and positive behavior perceivers. Perceptual style is an easily measured variable and could be incorporated in programs to detect parental "deficits” even before the child is born. The results reported tentatively suggest that both negative and positive behavior perceivers need to acquire attitudes and techniques of discipline emphasizing use of reasoning and acceptance of the child along with appropriate limit-setting. The results regarding sex of subject indicate that increasing attention must be paid to the role of the father in child—rearing. 80 The father has been neglected from the standpoints of research on child development as well as parent education. Parent education programs for fathers would seem to be needed. It is the present author's opinion that father-education programs are more likely than mixed-group programs to attract male participation. Lastly, the overall intergenerational continuity of child-rearing attitudes reported here gives hope that it someday may be possible to predict maldevelopment in children in advance of their birth. Cer- tainly such predictions are a very long way off. However, longitudinal research (based on observational measures of parent-child interaction across two generations) on "disturbed" versus "normal" samples is needed. Such research is likely to yield substantial information bearing on the "prediction of mental health" question as well as the "prediction of parental behavior" question. Both kinds of data are needed for the ultimate creation of early detection and prevention programs on a large scale. SUMMARY AND CONCLUSIONS The objectives of this study were: (a) to explore the relation- ship between adults' child-rearing practices and their styles of perceiving the behavior of children, and (b) to examine the continuity of child—rearing attitudes and perceptions of children's behavior in two generations within families. More than a thousand undergradaute subjects were recruited through newspaper advertisements to participate in research for pay. In groups of 20-30, these subjects were shown a videotape of a male or female child in play with an adult. The child (an actor) demon- strated on the tape approximately equal numbers of behaviors that had differentiated clinic-referred ("disturbed") from non-clinic referred ("normal") children in previous research on parental perceptions. After viewing the videotape, undergraduate subjects rated the child's behavior on the "Children's Behavior Checklist--Form A" (CBC-A). Each CBC-A protocol was scored for perceptual style by substracting the number of "negative" (i.e., "disturbed") child behaviors checked from the number of "positive" (i.e., "normal") behaviors checked. Three groups of undergraduates were selected for further study on the basis of their perceptual style scores: "Positive Behavior Perceivers" (30 females and 33 males with the highest perceptual style scores); "Negative Behavior Perceivers" (34 females 81 82 and 33 males with the lowest scores); and "Balanced Behavior Per- ceivers" (32 females and 34 males with scores closest to zero). Each of these selected subjects was administered a 104-item "Child-Rearing Concerns and Practices Questionnaire" (CRCP) developed by the investi- gator for the present study. Mothers and fathers of 156 of these undergraduate subjects were contacted by mail and asked to complete CRCP Questionnaires and the Children's Behavior Checklist--Form Q (identical to CBC—A except that the parents rated their own undergraduate child retrospectively). Parents were paid $10.00 per couple for their participation. Usable responses were received from 105 mother-father pairs (72%) distributed quite evenly across the three perceptual style conditions. Only parents for whom addresses were available and who were living together in one household were contacted. Analyses of variance were performed on the data using CRCP and CBC dependent variables, some of which were derived from several principal axis factor analyses. Independent variables included under- graduate's perceptual style (positive, balanced, or negative), sex of undergraduate (male, female), and family role (mother, father, or undergraduate child). Results were equivocal with regard to perceptual sEyle. In the few instances where significant differences were obtained, comparisons showed that in hypothetical parent-child conflict situations: (1) negative behavior perceivers were more likely than balanced or positive beahvior perceivers to endorse "criticizing" and "shaming" techniques of parental discipline; and (2) positive behavior perceivers were more likely than balanced or negative behavior 83 perceivers to "do nothing," i.e., to withdrawn from the situation and comply with the child's wishes. These findings were in line with the hypothesis that adults who show positive or negative biases (distor- tions) in their perception of child behavior also employ more "ineffective” child-rearing practices as compared to adults who are accurate (balanced) perceivers. Sex differences found in child-rearing attitudes indicated that: (1) males were more likely than females to endorse authoritarian- punitive practices; (2) females were more likely than males to show "concern with prosocial child behavior," to "express pride" in their child's behavior, and to "demand appropriate self-control"; and (3) females were more likely than males to use indirect forms of punishment (i.e., "non-verbal rejection" as opposed to verbal criticism). These findings were consistent with previous research showing that fathers used more "ineffective" authoritarian methods in child-rearing than did mothers (who were more "loving" and "permissive”). With regard to family role, children (undergraduates) expressed attitudes that were similar to their parents' attitudes in the majority of comparisons, although they differed from at least one of their parents on several child-rearing dimensions. 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If so, mark an "X" in column one; if not put a zero in the first column. Then, go on to the second item and decide whether or not this behavior applies to to child's behavior, marking it the same way. Do this for all 64 items, putting an "X" in the first column of each item which you feel is applicable to his playroom behavior and a "0" for each item you feel is not applicable to the behavior you observed. Once you have completed this task, go back to the first item, and this time decide if the behavior described applies to the way that you think that the child acts in general--that is, not just his behavior in the playroom, which you saw, but behavior which you think occurs in other situations such as at home, at school, on the playground, with friends, etc., as well. If you do not think so, put a zero in the second column. On the other hand, if you think this item applies to his behavior in general, put an "X" in the second column (whether or not you put one in the first column). Again, go through all 64 items deciding for each whether or not each item applies to his behavior in general. Column 1 Column 2 Applies to Applies behavior in to his playroom behavior which I saw inpgeneral Item 1. Is happy when he does a "good job." *A=Positive Behavior B=Negative Behavior 89 90 Item Column 1 Applies to behavior in playroom which I saw 991292.; Applies to his behavior in general 10. ll. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. . Gets carried away by his feelings. Is tidy and neat, perhaps even a little bit fussy about it. . Can't wait--wants to have thing immediately. Is concerned about the feelings of adults. . Gets irritated or angry easily. . Feelings are apparent in his facial expression. . Plays with toys in a rough way. . Handles small objects skillfully. Doesn't pay attention to what others say. Activity is focused on a particular purpose, seems to accomplish what he sets out to do. Looks awkward when he moves around. Accepts new ideas without getting upset. Acts in ways that makes adults not like him. Shows pride in accomplishment. Appears stiff in walking or moving about. Seemed comfortable in the situation that you observed. Has trouble finding the right words to say what he means. Wants very much to be approved of. 91 Column 1 Column 2 Applies to Applies Item behavior in to his playroom behavior which I saw in general 20. Seems to do things just to get adults angry at him. B 21. Moves gracefully-~well coordinated. A 22. Has a characteristic mannerism or nervous habit. B 23. Plays to win. A 24. Quickly loses interest in an activity. B 25. Does what persons ask him to. A 26. Never gets excited about anything, even when you expected him to be pleased with something. 27. Makes friends quickly and easily. A 28. Seems sad and unhappy. B 29. Self-confident. A 30. Tends to go too far unless reminded of rules. B 31. Talks all the time. A 32. Often has to be reminded of what he can and can't do. B 33. Affectionate--enjoys being physically close to adults. 34. Threatens to hit or hurt others. B 35. Is able to stand up for himself. A 36. Seems out of touch with what is going on around him--off in his own world. B 37. Is polite and cooperative. 38. Has uncontrollable outbursts of temper. B 39. Is easily embarrassed. A 92 Item Column 1 Applies to behavior in playroom which I saw Column 2 Applies to his behavior in general 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. SO. 51. 52. 53. 54. 55. 56. 57. $8. Often breaks the rules in games. Is careful in explanation--precise. When told to do something he doesn't want to do, he becomes angry. Is curious about things Plays aimlessly, doesn't seem to make or accomplish anything. Prefers competitive games. Seems selfish, always wants his own way. Showed appreciation when others helped or did things for him. Seldom laughs or smiles. Energetic. Doesn't seem to care about how he looks--often looks sloppy. Asks sensible questions. Blows up very easily when bothered. Shows pleasure and involvement in most things he does. Fidgety and restless. Is competitive. Acts as if adults are against him. Pitches in when things have to be done. Often seems angry for no particular reason, expresses it in many different ways. 93 Column 1 Column 2 Applies to Applies Item behavior in to his playroom behavior which I saw in general 59. Quick and clever. A 60. Aggressive and overpowering. 61. Learns quickly. A 62. Bossy. 63. Likes to do things well. 64. Tires easily in activities APPENDIX B THE CHILD-REARING CONCERNS AND PRACTICES QUESTIONNAIRE APPENDIX B THE CHILD-REARING CONCERNS AND PRACTICES QUESTIONNAIRE Since we don't know for sure what are the best ways to raise children, we are studying more about what parents and prospective parents do (or might do) in different situations involving children. In answering all of the questions, try to imagine that you are the parent of the 4 to 10 year-old child whose behavior is described in the item. We are interested in what you would actually feel or do in the situations described, not what you think a person should ideally feel or do. While different people give different reSponses to these questions, {here are no "right" or "wrong" ansers. Every person has his or her own individual way of responding to children. We want to learn what your way is or would be in these situations. Your responses will be kept strictly confidential. No one but the researchers will ever see your answers. Read the directions carefully and do not skip any items. Your name: Your address: Your Age: Your Sex: Today's date: Please list the names, ages and sex of your children in the space below. Please put a checkmark in front of the name of the child who took part in our study. Your last grade completed in school: Your occupation: *For all CRCP items, the scale was transformed in the process of key punching by the IBM Scanner at the MSU Scoring Office. The scale was altered to range from 0 to 4, instead of l to 5 as it appears on this questionnaire. All calculations and means for CRCP data reported are based on the 0 to 4 scale. 94 95 Marital status: Single Married Divorced Separated Widowed Remarried Part I Directions: Below is a list of items describing many aspects of children's feelings and behaviors. Of course, not all of these items apply to a particular child, but quite a few of them apply to most children. We are interested in how much parents and prospective parents focus their attention on various behaviors that children engage in. We want to know how much you would emphasize, place importance on, be concerned about, care about, focus on, or give your attention to each behavior described. We want to know how much it would matter to you if your child acted in certain ways. It makes no difference here whether you would encourage or dis- courage the behavior in question. We only want to know how much it would matter to you if your child engaged in the behavior, regardless of how you might show it. For example, while all parents may agree that a child should wear a hat in winter, some parents might focus their attention on this behavior more than other parents would. Read each item carefully and indicate the extent to which the behavior described would matter to you in raising your own child. Imagine you are the parent of a 4 to 10 year-old child who is engaging in the described behavior. Then use the following scale to indicate how much the behavior would matter to you--how muchyyou would focus your attention on it: = It would matter very little. = It would matter somewhat. It would matter to a moderate degree. = It would matter qpite a bit. = It would matter a great deal. mvwai—t II Read each item carefully, then darken the number that best indicates the extent to which you would focus your attention on the behavior in question--the extent to which it would matter to you. Do not skip any items. Use the purple answer sheet. How much would it matter to you if your child: l. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. ll. 18. 19. Ignores what adults tell him/her to do? . Shares toys? . Gets irritated or angry easily? . Shows pride in an accomplishment? . Tells lies? . Shows concern about the feelings of others? . Fights with friends or with brothers and sisters? . Shows self-confidence? . Has to be reminded of what he/she may or may not do? Makes friends easily? Plays with toys in a rough way? Does well at a new task? Becomes angry when told to do something he/she doesn't want to do? Is polite and cooperative with others? Does things just to get others angry? Plays to win? Goes too far unless fre- quently reminded of rules? Pitches in when things need to be done? Blows up easily when bothered by someone? 96 very moderate quite a great little/somewhat/ extent /a bit/ deal 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 S 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 I 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 S 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 l 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 How much would it matter to you 20. 21. 22. 23. Accomplished what he/she sets out to do? Cheats in school? Helps around the house? Threatens to hit or hurt others? 97 very moderate quite a great little/somewhat/ extent /a bit/ deal 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 98 Part 11 Directions: Four parent-child situations are described on the following pages. Below each description, there is a list of things that some parents (who were interviewed in the past) do in such situations. Read each description carefully, then check how often you honestly believe you would do each of the things on the list of parental responses. Use the following scale to indicate how often you feel you would do each thing (or something like it) if you were the parent of a 4 to 10 year-old child at such times: 1. Never 2. Rarely 3. Sometimes 4. Frequently 5. Usually Imagine you are the child's parent at such times as those described. Then darken the appropriate number for how often you would do each thing on the list in these kinds of situations. Read the items carefully and please do not skip any items. Continue to use the purple answer sheet. *NOTE: The world "he" is to be read as "he or she." 99 SITUATION A Sometimes it's hard for parents to get children to do things for them. For example, imagine you have something that you want very much for your child to do right away. You walk to the room he's in and tell him what you want him to do, and ask him to do it right away. He says he's busy watching a television program and can't do the thing you want him to do now. Here is a list of things that some parents have done at times like that. Circle how often yep_wou1d do each one or something like it in such situations. l = Never 2 = Rarely 3 = Sometimes 4 = Frequently 5 = Usually Some- Never times Usually 25. Hit or Spank him. 1 2 3 4 S 26. Tell him he ought to be ashamed of himself. 1 2 3 4 S 27. Explain that if he would do it now, then I would have a chance to do some other things I need to do. 1 2 3 4 5 28. Tell him he's being selfish. l 2 3 4 5 29. Give reasons why the thing has to be done right away. 1 2 3 4 5 30. Tell his father (mother) and let him (her) handle it. 1 2 3 4 5 31. Go over and turn off the television. 1 2 3 4 5 32. Tell him he can finish the program as long as he does what I want as soon as it's over. 1 2 3 4 5 33. Go and do it myself, but show him that I'm hurt and disappointed in him. 1 2 3 4 S 34. Tell him I'm sorry he'll miss the program and explain why the thing must be done now. 1 2 3 4 5 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 100 Situation A (Continued) Give him an angry look and walk away. Tell him that if he doesn't do it now, he won't be able to have something he likes or do some- thing he likes to do. Tell him I'm disappointed in him. Do it myself and show him I don't like it by not talking to him for awhile. Tell him that we each have to help each other out and that I need for him to do the thing right away. Tell him I would like him to be more considerable of my wishes. Do nothing. Tell him to do it now anyway. Tell him he is just being stubborn Never 1 and that he better stop it right now. 1 Tell him he'll be sorry if he doesn't do it right away. Situation B Some- times Usually 5 There are times when every child shows self-confidence and performs well at a new task in school. do when this happens. or something like it in such situations. Never Rarely Sometimes Frequently MhMNI—I ll Usually Here is a list of things some parents Please check how often you would do each thing 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. 50. 51. 52. 53. 54. 55. 56. 57. 58. 59. 60. 61. 62. 101 Situation B (continued) Give him some extra spending money or something else he wants. Explain how good he must feel after trying hard and succeeding. Kiss him or bug him. Show him that he could still do even better. Promise him something he wants. Explain that he feels good because he's working up to his potential. Do nothing. Show him how proud I am. Tell him to keep up the good work. Tell him that what he did makes me happy. Buy him something he wants. Tell him how much it means to us for him to do well. Remind him that he shouldn't get conceited or brag about his accomplishments. Explain to him that doing well will help him feel good about himself and get what he wants in life. Tell him I know how proud and happy he must be because he did so well. Show him that these things are just expected from him and that they are no big deal. Tell him he'll be rewarded for doing so well. Tell him what a talented person he is. Never 1 Some- times 3 Usually S 102 Situation B (continued) Some- Never times Usually 63. Tell him that a job well done is rewarding for its own sake. I 2 3 4 5 64. Make arrangements for him to do something he has wanted to do for a long tim. l 2 3 4 5 Situation C Every child when he can't have his own way will sometimes get angry at his parents and talk back. Here is a list of things some parents do when a child angrily talks back. Please circle how often you would do each thing or something like it in such situations. 1 = Never 2 = Rarely 3 = Sometimes 4 = Frequently 5 = Usually Some- Never times Usually 65. Hit or spank him. 1 2 3 4 5 66. Tell him I don't like it when he talks back angrily and that he can discuss it more calmly. l 2 3 4 5 67. Tell him I don't like children who don't show respect for their parents. 1 2 3 4 5 68. Tell him I'll hit or spank him if he ever talks like that again. 1 2 3 4 5 69. Explain that even though he's angry, I would prefer that he express his feelings in a regular tone of voice. 1 2 3 4 5 70. Tell him I don't want to talk to him or have anything to do with him unless he says he's sorry. 1 2 3 4 5 71. Not let him have something he likes or do something he likes to do. 1 2 3 4 5 72. 73. 74. 75. 76. 77. 78. 79. 80. 81. 82. 83. 84. 103 Situation C (continued) Tell him that what he said hurts my feelings and that he can express his anger without saying nasty things to me. Give him an angry look and walk away. Tell his father (mother) and let him (her) handle it. Do nothing. Tell him he is acting like a little baby and that he better stop it right now. Tell him I'm angry at him for what he said and explain why he can't have his way. Send him to his room until he's ready to talk about it. Tell him he'll be sorry if he doesn't be quiet. Tell him he ought to be ashamed of himself for talking like that. Give him reasons why he can't have his way. Give him an angry look and ignore him for awhile. Tell him I won't talk to him or have anything to do with him if that's the way he's going to act. Tell him I know he's angry and explain why he can't have his way. Situation Never D Some- times Usually There are times when every child shows a great deal of concern for the feelings of others, being kind or helpful and cooperative when it is needed. Here is a list of things some parents do when this happens. Please circle how often you would do each thing or something like it in such situations. 85. 86. 87. 88. 89. 90. 91. 92. 93. 94. 95. 96. 97. 98. 104 Situation D (continued) 1 = Never 2 = Rarely 3 = Sometimes 4 = Frequently 5 = Usually Let him do something special he wants to do. Not make anything of it even though I might feel good inside. Explain to him that doing good will make him feel good about himself in life. Tell him that I love kind and considerate peeple like him. Tell him what a helpful and good person he is. Reward him for doing the good deed. Ask why he isn't always so cooperative and considerate. Tell him that what he did makes me happy- Say it is good when you treat others as you would like to be treated. Explain how it makes him happy to do kind and helpful things. Show him that these things are just expected and are no big deal. Tell him I am very proud of the way he acted. Give him some extra spending money or something else he wants. Point out some other good things he ought to do but hasn't been doing. Some- times Usually 5 105 Situation D (continued) Some- Never times Usually 99. Explain that being considerate to others makes a person feel worthwhile. 1 2 3 4 5 100. Tell him that doing something kind is very rewarding just in itself. 1 2 3 4 5 101. Promise him something he wants. 1 2 3 4 5 102. Tell him that "nice guys finish last." 1 2 3 4 5 103. Kiss him or bug him. 1 2 3 4 5 104. Buy him something he has wanted for a long time. 1 2 3 4 5 Before returning the questionnaire, please check to be sure that each item has been completed. Thanks for your participation. APPENDIX C LETTER TO PARENTS AND INSTRUCTIONS APPENDIX C LETTER TO PARENTS AND INSTRUCTIONS June 26, 1975 Dear Parents: During Winter term, your son or daughter indicated an interest in participating in a research pfoject at Michigan State Uni- versity. Although only some of the college students interviewed were chosen to participate during Spring term, your participation in this research would be most helpful. In this study, we are exploring the various things that college students and parents would do in raising a young child. We hOpe you will find some satisfaction in knowing that, by completing the enclosed questionnaires, you will be making a significant contribution to our knowledge of children. Only the parents of 150 students who indicated an interest in partici- pating are now being asked to help us. Therefore, it is very important that we obtain the help of eachyparent to whom we are writing, We also believe that participants in research should be paid a reasonable amount for their efforts. The enclosed questionnaries take about 1/2 hour to complete. You will receive $10.00 per couple when the enclosed question- naires are filled out and returned in the stamped envelope provided. In order to be reimbursed, both parents must fill out and return the enclosed materials. Please be sure to read the Instructions sheet before starting. There are four questionnaires enclosed, two for each parent to complete independently. All four questionnaires and two answer sheets should be returned. Your responses will remain strictly confidential. You will be given the opportunity to receive a summary of the objectives and results of the entire project when it is completed. 106 107 We would greatly appreciate receiving your completed questionnaires no later than July 17 if possible. Thanks so much for your help. Sincerely, Robert J. Green, M.A. Doctoral Candidate Lawrence A. Messé, Ph.D. Professor of Psychology Gary E. Stollak, Ph.D. Associate Professor of Psychology 108 INSTRUCTIONS Each parent should take one CRCP Questionnaire, one Children's Behavior Checklist Form Q, and one purple answer sheet. Make sure that the code number matches for all three of each individual's materials. The code number is printed at the top of the page and will serve for identification purposes. The only place you should print your name is on the first page of the CRCP Questionnaire. This page will be removed and kept in a separate file before we study your responses, so that confidentiality can be strictly maintained. ' Fill out the CRCP Questionnaire first. Make sure that you have printed your name and background information on the first page. Responses to the items on the CRCP Questionnaire only are to be made with a no. 2 pencil on the purple answer sheet. Please do not skip any items. In responding to the items on the Children's Behavior Checklist Form 9, try to recall how your son or daughter (who is named in the opening letter) acted when he or she was about 8 years old. Remember as best you can what your child's characteristics and actions were when the child was about age 8. Responses to the Children's Behavior Checklist Form Q should be made directly on the pages of the Questionnaire. -- When all four questionnaires have been completed by you and your spouse, place them and the purple answer sheet in the stamped envelope and mail the packet to us as soon as possible (before July 17). You will receive your $10.00 reimbursement in the mail. If you would like to know the objectives and results of this research when they are available, please so indicate on the bottom of page one of the CRCP Questionnaire. APPENDIX D THE CHILDREN'S BEHAVIOR CHECKLIST--FORM Q APPENDIX D THE CHILDREN'S BEHAVIOR CHECKLIST--FORM Q Name of child: Age: Date: Name of person filling out checklist: Relationship to child who participated in study (mother, father): There is a list of items describing many aspects of children's behavior--things that children do or ways they have been described by others. Not all of the items will apply to the particular child you are describing, but quite a few of them will. First, go through the list and put a checkmark (/) in the first column by each item which applies to this child. If you feel that the item does not apply to the child, put a zero (0) in the first column. After you have gone through the list, please go back through those items you have checked and put another checkmark (/) in the second column opposite those that are now most characteristic of this child, that describe how he (she) is most of the time. Does this Is it char- apply at all? acteristic? 1. Is happy when he/she does a "good job." 2. Gets carried away by his/her feelings. 3. Is tidy and neat, perhaps even a little bit fussy about it. 4. Can't wait--wants to have things immediately. 5. Is concerned about the feelings of adults. ' 6. Gets irritated or angry easily. 7. Feelings are apparent in his/her facial expression. 109 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 110 . Plays with toys in a rough way. . Handles small objects skillfully. Doesn't pay attention to what others say. Activity is focused on a particular purpose, seems to accomplish what he/ she sets out to do. Looks awkward when he/she moves around. Accepts new ideas without getting upset. Acts in ways that makes adults not like him/her. Shows pride in accomplishment. Appears stiff in walking or moving about. Seems comfortable in new situations. Has trouble finding the right words to say what he/she means. Wants very much to be approved of. Seems to do things just to get adults angry at him/her. Moves gracefully--well coordinated. Has a characteristic mannerism or nervous habit. Plays to win. Quickly loses interest in an activity. Does what persons ask him/her to do. Never gets excited about anything, even when you expected him/her to be pleased with something. Makes friends quickly and easily. Seems sad and unhappy. Does apply at this all? Is it char- acteristic? 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. 111 Self-confident. Tends to go too far unless reminded of rules. Talks all the time. Often has to be reminded of what he/she can and can't do. Affectionte--enjoys being physically close to adults. Threatens to hit or hurt others. Is able to stand up for himself/herself. Seems out of touch with what is going on around him/her--off in his/her own world. Is polite and cooperate. Has uncontrollable outburst of temper. Is easily embarrassed. Often breaks the rules in games. Is careful in explanation--precise. When told to do something he/she doesn't want to do, he/she becomes angry. Is curious about things. Plays aimlessly, doesn't seem to make or accomplish anything. Prefers competitive games. Seems selfish, always wants his/her own way. Showed appreciation when others helped or did things for him/her. Seldom laughs or smiles. Energetic. Does this apply at all? Is it char- acteristic? 50. 51. 52. 53. 54. 55. 56. 57. 58. 59. 60. 61. 62. 63. 64. 112 Doesn't seem to care about how he/she looks--often looks sloppy. Asks sensible questions. Blows up very easily when bothered. Shows pleasure and involvement in most things he/she does. Fidgety and restless. Is competitive. Acts as if adults are against him/her. Pitches in when things have to be done. Often seems angry for no particular reasons, expresses it in many different ways. Quick and clever. Aggressive and overpowering. Learns quickly. Bossy. Likes to do things well. Tires easily in activities. Does this apply at all? Is it char- acteristic? APPENDIX E ANALYSIS OF VARIANCE SUMMARY TABLES-- CRCP FACTORS I THROUGH IX ANOVA FACTOR I-- Concern with Prosocial-Competent Behavior Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 58.65 2 29.33 2.37 .100 Sex Undergrad (B) 40.19 1 40.19 3.25 .100 A X B 9.85 2 4.93 .40 n.s. Error b 1049.54 85 12.35 Within Families Family Role (C) 87.25 2 43.63 5.64 .005 A X C 51.23 4 12.81 1.66 .200 B X C 94.11 2 47.06 6.08 .005 A X B X C 33.61 4 8.40 1.09 n.s. Error w 1316.01 170 7.74 ANOVA FACTOR II-- Concern with Aggression-Hostility Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 13.18 2 6.59 .69 n.s Sex Undergrad (B) .01 l .01 .001 n.s A X B 7.64 2 3.82 .40 n.s Error b 812.39 85 9.56 Within Families Family Role (C) 24.27 2 12.14 2.03 n.s. A X C 39.38 4 9.84 1.64 n.s. B X C 2.83 2 1.42 .24 n.s. A X B X C 11.67 4 2.92 .49 n.s. Error w 1017.93 170 5.99 113 114 Criticize-Threaten (Power Assertion) ANOVA FACTOR III-- Source SS df MS F P Between Families Perc. Style (A) 61.59 2 30.80 .347 n.s Sex Undergrad (B) 79.78 1 79.78 .898 n.s A X B 8.91 2 4.45 .050 n.s Error b 7551.50 85 88.84 Within Families Family Role (C) 817.02 2 408.51 9.01 .001 A X C 260.48 4 65.12 1.44 n.s B X C 84.87 2 42.44 .94 n.s A X B X C 123.47 2 30.87 .68 n.s Error w 7708.89 170 45.35 ANOVA FACTOR IV-- Extrinsic Reward Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 173.97 2 86.99 1.10 n.s Sex Undergrad (B) 51.07 1 51.07 .65 n.s A I B 198.29 2 99.15 1.25 n.s Error b 6732.63 85 79.21 Within Families Family Role (C) 140.82 2 70.41 1.83 .200 A X C 354.15 4 88.54 2.30 .100 B X C 39.82 2 19.91 .52 n.s. A X B X C 23.23 4 5.81 .15 n.s. Error w 6552.54 170 38.54 115 ANOVA FACTOR V-- Intrinsic Reward Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 159.61 2 79.81 1.48 n.s Sex Undergrad (B) .29 1 .29 .005 n.s A X B 18.31 2 9.15 .17 n.s Error b 4581.63 85 53.90 Within Families Family Role (C) 194.17 2 97.08 2.57 .100 A X C 45.76 4 11.44 .30 n.s B X C 11.35 2 5.68 .15 n.s A X B X C 164.84 4 41.21 1.09 n.s Error w 6423.02 170 37.78 ANOVA FACTOR VI-- Non-Verbal Rejection (Love-Withdrawal) Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 13.67 2 6.84 .39 n.s. Sex Undergrad (B) 30.33 1 30.33 1.71 .200 A X B 12.44 2 6.22 .35 n.s. Error b 1508.78 85 17.75 Within Families Family Role (C) 197.27 2 98.63 8.01 .001 A X C 10.70 4 2.67 .22 n.s B X C 4.74 2 2.37 .19 n.s A X B X C 46.74 4 11.68 .95 n.s Error w 2093.25 170 12.31 116 ANOVA FACTOR VII-- Induction Discipline (Reasoning) Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 10.88 2 5.44 .40 n.s Sex Undergrad (B) 10.70 1 10.70 .78 n.s A X B 13.54 2 6.77 .49 n.s Error b 1168.68 85 13.75 Within Families Family Role (C) 191.13 2 95.57 12.13 .001 A X C 41.07 4 10.27 1.30 n.s. B X C 21.35 2 10.68 1.36 n.s. A X B X C 53.54 4 13.38 1.70 .200 Error w 1339.39 170 7.88 ANOVA FACTOR VIII-- Express Pride Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 4.39 2 2.20 .35 n.s. Sex Undergrad (B) ..96 1 .96 .15 n.s. A X B 27.49 2 13.74 2.16 .200 Error 540.93 85 6.36 Within Families Family Role (C) 50.64 2 25.32 3.70 .025 A X C 18.13 * 4 4.53 .66 n.s. B X C 3.40 2 1.70 .25 n.s. A X B X C 46.28 4 11.57 1.69 .200 Error w 1165.03 170 6.85 117 ANOVA FACTOR IX-- Demand Self-Control Source 88 df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 21.58 2 10.79 1.37 n.s Sex Undergrad (B) 3.76 1 3.76 .48 n.s A X B 12.96 2 6.48 .82 n.s Error b 671.16 85 7.90 Within Families Family Role (C) 153.46 2 76.73 10.23 .001 A X C 57.69 4 14.42 1.92 .200 B X C 5.90 2 2.95 .39 n.s. A X B X C 30.73 4 7.68 1.02 n.s. Error w 1274.47 170 7.50 APPENDIX F ANALYSIS OF VARIANCE SUMMARY TABLES-- PARENTS' CBC 119 I .i I! '9 ANOVA: COLUMN #1 NEGATIVE ITEMS THAT APPLY Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) .21 2 .11 .006 n.s. Sex Undergrad (B) 21.35 1 21.35 1.160 n.s A X B 12.50 2 6.25 .340 n.s Error b 1811.45 98 18.48 Within Families Family Role (C) .17 1 .17 .020 n.s A X C 3.52 2 1.76 .200 n.s B X C 1.86 1 1.86 .210 n.s A X B X C 2.37 2 1.19 .140 n.s Error w 866.03 98 8.84 ANOVA: COLUMN #2 NEGATIVE ITEMS THAT ARE CHARACTERISTIC Source SS df MS F p Between Families Perc. Style (A) 4.33 2 2.17 .23 n.s. Sex Undergrad (B) 29.01 1 29.01 - 3.13 .100 A X B 23.15 2 11.58 1.25 n.s. Error b 909.61 98 9.28 Within Families Family Role (C) 1.39 1 1.39 .38 n.s. A X C .92 2 .46 .13 n.s. B X C 22.64 1 22.64 6.25 .025 A X B X C 12.85 2. 6.43 1.78 .200 Error w 354.23 98 3.62 APPENDIX G ANALYSIS OF VARIANCE SUMMARY TABLES-— CRCP UNDERGRADUATE FACTORS III AND VIII ANOVA UNDERGRADUATE FACTOR III-- Extrinsic Reward Source SS df MS F p Perceptual Style (A) 1.480 2 .899 .024 n.s. Sex of Undergrad (B) 129.899 1 129.899 4.203 .05 A X B .464 2 .232 .008 n.s Error 4358.166 141 30.909 ANOVA UNDERGRADUATE FACTOR VIII-- Take Desirable Behavior for Granted Source SS df MS F p Perceptual Style (A) 8.445 2 4.223 1.035 n.s. Sex of Undergrad (B) 33.275 1 33.275 8.158 .005 A X B 4.785 2 2.393 .587 n.s. Error 575.151 141 4.079 120 APPENDIX H ANALYSIS OF VARIANCE SUMMARY TABLES-- CRCP NEW UNDERGRADUATE VARIALES 1 AND 2 ANOVA NEW UNDERGRADUATE VARIABLE 1-- Shaming-Criticizing Source SS df MS F p Perc. Style (A) 205.921 2 102.961 3.867 .025 Sex of Undergrad (B) 53.454 1 53.454 2.008 .20 A X B 15.284 2 7.642 .287 n.s. Error 3753.998 141 26.624 ANOVA NEW UNDERGRADUATE VARIABLE 2-- Do Nothing Source 58 df MS F p Perc. Style (A) 2.667 2 1.334 3.863 .025 Sex of Undergrad (B) .516 1 .516 1.495 n.s. A X B .786 2 .393 1.138 n.s. Error 48.681 141. .345 121 IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII IIIIIIIIIIIIII IIll IIJIIII IIII I IIIIjIIIII IIIIIIIIIIIIIII IIIIIII 31