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The means once again were the reverse of the predicted direction. For the non-medical spouse of the medical student, the trend continued, although statistical significance was not reached in the comparison by sex (a; = -0.69, 6 = -3.28). Given these values from one-way analyses, it was not surprising that (on a two-way analysis of variance of couples, with dual-medical couples excluded) medical persons were significantly (p_< .004) overbenefited and females were significantly (p_< .004) underbenefited, as shown in Table 6. Hypothesis 3.--In an analysis of variance comparing the pooled groups of dual-medical couples and non-dual couples, across sex, no statistically significant difference was found. However, in a two-way ANOVA comparing medical persons who have non-medical spouses, the non-medical spouses, and dual-medical persons, the main effects for medical status and for sex were significant. These means were in the direction predicted, as medical spouses were overbenefited compared to the non-medical spouses. For females, dual-medical spouses had a mean between the other two groups. For the male group of dual-medical persons, the dual- medical spouses included four MD's, who were the only medical persons who were not in training. As a post hoc test, data were analyzed both with and without the scores from these MD's. With 63 TABLE 6.--Traupmann-Utne-Hatfield (1978) Scale Scores: Medical Students and House Staff and Their Non-Medical Spouses. Medical Spouses Non-Medical Spouses Sex _ _ X 5.0. N X 5.0. N Female 0.15 9.79 39 ~4.7l 10.80 52 Male 3.22 8.02 51 0.13 7.22 39 Main effect for sex significant, p_< .004. Main effect for medical status significant, p_< .004. 64 the MD's included, dual-medical spouses had a mean score below that for the non-medical male spouses. Removing four male MD's, however, shifted the mean for dual-medical males from -1.04 to 0.14, almost identical to the 0.13 mean for male non-medical spouses. In the one-way ANOVAs suggested by this hypothesis, female medical students and house staff who are dual-medical spouses were not significantly different from female students/staff who were married to non-medical spouses. Among the male persons in medicine (MD's included), the dual-medical husbands felt significantly under- benefited compared to the male medical persons married to non- medical spouses, as predicted. Among the male persons in medicine with the MD's removed (so that the comparison was between two student/house staff groups), the difference approached significance (p_< .06) and once again the mean was greater for non-dual males. In summarizing the findings for Hypotheses l, 2, and 3, the prediction that, in comparison to each other, medical spouses would feel overbenefited and non-medical spouses would feel underbenefited was strongly confirmed. In regard to sex differences, however, it was the medical males married to non-medical women who felt the most overbenefited, and their spouses who felt the most underbenefited. As shown in Table 7, it was this contrast that accounted for the main effects of sex and medical status. In dual-medical couples both partners felt somewhat underbenefited, although the difference between partners was slight. A post hoc analysis of variance of discrepancy scores on the Taylor Role Questionnaire was performed to further probe these 65 TABLE 7.--Traupmann-Utne-Hatfield (1978) Scale Scores Comparing Medical Persons, Non—Medical Persons, and Dual-Medical Couples. Medical Persons Dual-Medical Non-Medical Sex (Non-Dual) Couples Spouses )1 5.0. N 2 5.0. N )1 5.0. N Female 0.15 9.88 39 -0.48 6.72 25 -4.71 10.80 52 MD's In -l.O4 8.48 25 Male 3.22 8.02 51 0.13 7.22 39 MD's Out 0.14 8.40 21 Main effect for sex significant, p < .02. Main effect for medical status significant, p < .01. 66 results. Statistically significant differences in perceived role conflict were found. Role conflict was operationally defined as the discrepancy between perceived performance minus perceived expectations on the TRQ. For the TRQ Subrole II, Emotional/Sexual/ Supportive Partner, the difference was significant (p_ < .04). Women married to medical spouses had a mean score of -4.35. Dual- medical women had a mean score of -5.24 and medical women with non-medical spouses had a mean score of -7.10. For Subrole I, Homemaker, and for Subrole 111, Social Partner, the means fell in the same direction, although the probability levels differed as given in Table 8. Interpretation of these values, however, is weakened by the poor reliability of these difference scores. For the spouses of these women, there were significant differences only on the Homemaker Subrole, where men in medicine married to non-medical women saw themselves as significantly "ahead." See Table 9. Apparently the women in medicine did perceive role conflict as defined in this study, but rather than feeling uncomfortable and overbenefited, they took it in stride. Of course, role conflict as defined here was based on the tradi- tional wife role. Hypothesis 4.--A Pearson §_was calculated on the entire sample, correlating the score on the Spanier Dyadic Adjustment Scale and the absolute value of the score on the TUH, such that greater amounts of inequity (either overbenefit or underbenefit) 67 .mocoppo> mo mmmaHoco Hozumco HH<« No. v.m HN.N- om.~- mH.H- cacpcaa Hapuom "HHH . . . . pmcpgoa m>pppoooom co v.m OH m- cu m- mm on \Hoaxmm\HocoHpoEm ”HH Hooo. v.m em..- mm.o- mo.N Laxaeaeo: "H ©MMZ mNNZ Nmflz Hm>mp mmmzoom Hoopomzucoz cmsoz :mEoz prppaanoca gppz case: Haopomz Haopoaz-pa=o Haopooz-=oz mpocnsm mm>HmmEmsp mcpopgommo mocpz mucospomcmov mpoom poHHmcou mHom ”mmHoEmu HH< Lop *.Hmcoppopomoxm mmpoom mgpoccoppmmoo mHom LoHaop--.m mpm<~ 68 .mucopgo> mo mmmxHoco Hozumco« 2. L. 8.? was 2.0 85.5. 3.88 "H: . . n . u . . mepcom m>ppgooosm Bo. v m 3.0- 85 m: 232.88: ”H mmuz mmnz Hmuz Hm>mp :mz cm: mmmooom Hoopom21coz apHHpoooopm Hoopomz-coz Hoopom21Ho=o cppz cm: Hoopomz mHocoom mm>p3 epoch mcpoppommo *.Hm:oppopomoxm macHz mocoeLoHLmov mpoom poHchoo mHom "mmHoz HH< Lop mmcoom mppoccoppmmoo mHom conoh--.m mpm<~ 69 were correlated with the marital satisfaction score. A correlation was found of -0.30 (p_< .0001). This result confirmed the theoretical premise that either perceived overbenefit or perceived underbenefit is not a comfortable position in a marital dyad. It also supported the construct vali- dity of the Traupmann-Utne-Hatfield (1978) Scale. Hypotheses Interrelating Role Conflict, Equity, and Androgyny Hypothesis 5.--For the sample of female medical persons and their spouses, a Pearson r_was calculated to determine the possible correlation between the discrepancy scores of the Subroles of the TRQ and the absolute value of the score on the TUH equity/inequity measure. Two significant correlations were found, for Subrole II, Emotional/Sexua1/Supportive Partner, at -O.19 (p_ < .02) and for Subrole III, Social Partner at -O.17 (p < .03). The correlation for Subrole III, Social Partner, however, has relatively little meaning as the reliability level of this discrepancy score was so poor (see Measures section). The correlation for Subrole 11 suggested that, as predicted, when the discrepancy score increased its numerical value (implying the woman was coming closer to or surpassing expectations), perceived inequity diminished. For Subrole I, Homemaker, there was a correlation of -O.14 (p_< .07). The correla- tion was not computed for Subrole IV, Child Care, because of its greatly reduced sample size (16 couples with children). These findings tended to support the construct validity of the TRQ. For this group of individuals it would be logical to have 70 less investment in a wife's performance of the task-oriented behaviors in Subrole I, Homemaker, than in her performance of the emotionally oriented aspects of Subrole 11. However, the predictive power of the discrepancy score on Subrole I was weakened due to the fairly high correlation between part (A) and part (C), and the resulting reliability estimate of 0.34 for that discrepancy score. Therefore, the lack of correlation may be due in part to this low reliability. Persons who are women in medicine or their spouses would also be more likely to find Subrole II, Emotional/Sexual/ Supportive Partner, more important than Subrole I, and apparently this was the case. Because this correlation accounted for less than 4% of the shared variance of the measures, this point should not be overemphasized. Hypothesis 6.--In a comparison of the means and standard deviations on the Bem Sex-Role Inventory (BSRI), the 64 female medical persons had a mean masculinity score of 4.78, with a standard deviation of 0.48. For the femininity score, their mean score was 5.02, with a standard deviation of 0.38. For 279 Stanford University undergraduate women in Bem's (1974) sample, the mean masculinity score was 4.57, with a standard deviation of 0.69, and the mean femininity score was 5.01, with a standard deviation of 0.52. For the 52 non-medical women in this study, their mean masculinity score was 4.37, with a standard deviation of 0.76, and 71 their mean femininity score was 5.21, with a standard deviation of 0.51. Student's tftests were performed and the statistical significance evaluated, taking into account the differences in variance between the samples. Medical women's mean masculinity and femininity scores significantly (p_< .02) exceeded those of both the undergraduate women and the non-medical women in the study. Therefore, the hypothesis was confirmed. The small BSRI standard deviations among the medical women seem noteworthy, and sharply decreased the likelihood that the Bem scores could have predictive power. Hypothesis 7.--A multiple regression equation was calculated four times, with the dependent variable being each of the four Subrole scores for part (A) of each of the TRQ questions, and the independent variables being (1) BSRI masculinity score; (2) BSRI femininity score; and (3) the product of those two scores. None of the resulting beta weights attained significance, so Bem scores were not significant predictors and in this sample increasing androgyny did not significantly predict the level of expectations of feminine spouse behavior for the female medical persons. Hypothesis 8.--For all women in medicine, a multiple regression equation was again calculated, with each of the four Subrole scores of the TRQ for part (C) as the dependent variable and the BSRI scores as the independent variables. As had been 72 hypothesized, the Bem scores did not significantly predict level of performance. Hypotheses Concerning Level of Androgyny of Spouses Hypothesis 9.--Four multiple regression equations were performed using as dependent variables each of the four Subrole scores for part (A) of the TRQ. The sample examined included the female medical persons and their spouses, and beta weights were determined to see if the BSRI scores were significant predictors in the case of husbands, wives, or both. The only significant predictors were status as husband or wife. The androgyny measure continued to have no predictive power. To examine the reason for the husband/wife difference, a post hoc ANOVA was performed, examing the (A) scores on the four Subroles with comparisons by sex. For all four Subroles the women expected significantly more of themselves than did their husbands. This did not contradict anything previously hypothesized. It supported the assumption that women in medicine continue to be influenced by the traditional expectations for women. Further post hoc analyses would be desirable, however, to see if this finding is true only among women in medicine, or if it is true for women in general. See Table 10 for a complete presentation of data for these one-way analyses. Hypotheses 10 and ll.--Since Hypothesis 7 was not confirmed, it was improbable that Hypothesis 11 would be confirmed. 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Hmmm co aeoom Appapcpeaa . . . . ApmcowHOEmv HH mpognzm Ho v.m mm NH Hm Hm oak co mpoom mocoomgompo mHooHLo> Hm>mp pcmocmomo op pzmpmz opmm prppaaaoaa a coppaHacLoo oaNpoLaocapm mHaaHLa> pcaocaamocH apaspm Hopppo211mHooppo> pcmocmomo .HmHoom pcmspmono< opooxo cmpcoom :o mgoomv coppoommppom ”Hoopm mpzp :H mmpnopgo> Low Lmzom m>ppopumgm m>ppopmmuu.NH upmmp 1 1 xm poHHoooogo mmmooom mmHozou HHo=o1con m Haopo821=oz Haopo821Ha=o mcomcma Hoopomz .mmHozou Hoopomz1Hooo oco .mcompmm Hoopomz1coz .mcompmo Hoopomz mcpgooEou mmpoom mHoom pomEpmoho< opoo>a11.mH mpm<~ 86 variance despite its statistical significance. A number of other explanations are possible. This could be an area in which responses are biased by the knowledge that it is more socially acceptable and desirable to describe one's marriage as happy. The Spanier scale assesses marital satisfaction quite overtly, and was so character- ized in the initial telephone contact with potential subjects. It is also possible that underbenefited spouses, despite the instruc- tions of this study, justified their present inequity to themselves with a rationale that it would be balanced out by future rewards, and therefore the marriage on the whole leaves them content. Finally, a number of authors have pointed out that while married women report symptoms and problems, such as feelings of depression, being unhappy most of the time, sometimes feeling like they are about to go to pieces, and being bothered by pains and ailments, to a greater extent than do unmarried women, they also report that they are happy more often than do unmarried women (Bernard, 1972a, 19726; Donelson, 1977). How is this apparent paradox possible? One explanation is that these women are on the whole happy and fulfilled in spite of their problems, or in the instance of this study, despite their perceived inequity. They have been taught to value the nurturant role of wife, and possibly the role of the support partner in the two-person career, and to find that satisfying. Alternatively, perhaps these women are confusing “happiness" with adjustment to the expectations held by themselves and the society. Having married, which they understood to be the only appropriate thing for a woman, they are trying to 87 adjust to marriage and please their husbands. They may interpret their conformity to societal expectations as a signal of assurance of happiness and health (Bernard, 1972a, 1972b; Donelson, 1977). For the non-medical wives this could be very much the case, because to "marry a doctor" is in many ways the ultimate success in con- forming to the expectations of this society. It might be para- phrased: "I must be happy. I'm married, aren't I, and my husband's going to be a doctor." If this is true, the literature on the physician marriage suggests that such a basis for satisfaction may not be very reliable. In contrast to the medical/non-medical couple, for dual- medical couples their equity/inequity scores are much closer to equity and they are less likely to experience distress. However, since both partners perceive a small amount of underbenefit, these dual-medical couples apparently suffer from a sense of "not enough to go around." Each spouse, especially the males, seems to think that the other one really should be doing a little more. This does not seem surprising in the light of the complex life-style required by dual-career marriages. It should be noted that throughout this study there is a distinct possibility of response bias, since the researcher presented her interests very openly in the initial telephone contact with subjects and also in all the introductory information. This included a direct statement that her prime interests were in women, in this case women in medicine and non-medical wives, and in dual-career marriages. Some of the professed contentment of women 88 in medicine and their spouses, as displayed on the Traupmann- Utne-Hatfield (1978) Scale, might be attributed to an effort to "look good." However, such an effort would likely have also extended to the males in medicine and to their wives. Hypotheses Interrelating Role Conflict, Equity, and Androgyny The attempt to predict scores on the Taylor Role Question- naire from the androgyny scores of the Bem Sex-Role Inventory encountered two methodological problems. In the first place the very low internal consistency values of the TRQ expectation scores for Subrole III, Social Partner, were such that predicting them would have been unlikely even if the theoretical premise were entirely correct. Furthermore, the low reliability level for Subrole I discrepancy scores and the zero reliability level for Subrole III and Subrole IV discrepancy scores suggest again that predicting them would have been unlikely even with accurate theory. The second methodological problem was that the range of the Bem scores was so limited for the female medical persons that it would have been difficult to predict any other score from these minor differences. Given these methodological problems, it was difficult to evaluate whether the theoretical construct is totally at fault or not. In post hoc analyses, numerous regression equations were constructed to see if the Bem scores would significantly predict expectation, performance, or discrepancy scores for either the sample of non-medical women, or the sample of all women in the 89 study. Of course at least the scores for Subrole II, Emotional/ Sexual/Supportive Partner, should have been reliable enough to be predicted. A number of the TRQ scores were predicted at statis- tically significant levels by Bem scores, but these varied greatly depending on the sample being examined. Also in several cases there was a more or less spurious significance, since the "significant" independent variable had very little simple correlation with the dependent variable. While it appears from Hypothesis 14 that at least the femininity score may have some predictive power for marital adjustment, androgyny does not appear to have a strong effect on role expectations or performance. I There are at least two possible theoretical explanations for this lack of predictive power. Kaplan (1979) pointed out that while Bem (1975, 1976) implied that situationally appropriate behavior, flexibility, effectiveness, and integration are being measured by finding a balance between masculinity and femininity, this is a possible but not a necessary outcome. To put it another way, one can have high levels of both masculine and feminine attributes and apply them in inappropriate, counterproductive, and poorly integrated ways. Kaplan and her therapy practicum students gave the BSRI to their incoming clients and found that, for these women, androgyny represented what they termed a dualistic stage. Here the masculine and feminine attributes remained polarized and each trait was independent of the other. The individual in such a situation can choose to apply (appropriately or inappropriately) either masculine or feminine attributes in any given situation. 9O Kaplan looked forward to a further development which she termed a Hybgig_stage in which ". . . anger is tempered by love, rather than love being incompatible with anger; (and) dependency is tempered by assertiveness, rather than assertiveness being threatened by the recognition of one's dependency needs" (pp. 226-227). In short, increasing androgyny may predict an individual who is flexible enough to alter her expectations for herself in the feminine spouse role, but this is not necessarily going to be the case. Second, as Orlofsky (Note 2) stated ". . . sex roles may not be a unitary phenomenon (comprising closely related person- ality traits, interests, attitudes and role behaviors) as tradi- tional conceptions and even some current conceptions seem to presume . . ." (p. 11). Spence (Note 3) pointed out that many sex-role behaviors are only weakly related to masculine and feminine personality traits. For example, behaviors with strong social norms such as sex-typing of career choice, sexual prefer- ence, and even attitudes toward the roles of men and women tend to be closely related to gender but weakly related to within-sex differences in masculine and feminine personality traits (Spence, Note 3). By these accounts it is far from theoretically certain that increased androgyny would indeed predict a decrease in expecta- tions for the feminine spouse role. From this study it also appears that the significantly more "traditionally feminine" woman in medicine who is very uncomfortable deviating from a traditional role probably does not exist. It is 91 certainly possible that the rigors of pre-medical training have eliminated such persons long before medical school. Hypotheses Concerning Level of Androgyny of Spouses The hypothesis that increasing androgyny in husbands would predict decreasing expectations for feminine spouse role behavior was rejected. A very recent study by Orlofsky (Note>2) on psycho- logical androgyny and male-female attraction in fact suggested that even persons who are androgynous continue to describe as their ideal partner someone who is sex-typed. In his study, masculine- typed males described as ideal partners women closer to the androgynous range than did androgynous males. Androgynous men described as ideal partners women who were feminine, rather than androgynous. If the more androgynous male finds the more feminine female attractive, it seems possible, but by no means certain, that he would also find an increase rather than a decrease in feminine spouse role behavior desirable. This is, of course, only one possible reason for the rejec- tion of the hypothesis. It is also possible, as noted above, that these expectations are simply not strongly tied to an individual's level of psychological androgyny. An Attempt to Estimate Predictive Power The regression equation of Hypothesis 16 suggested that in the present sample demographic factors such as number of children or years married were not predictive of marital satisfaction level. 92 Instead three of the variables examined in this study had predictive significance at p_< .01 and at least modest correlations with the dependent variable, marital satisfaction score. These three variables were the BSRI femininity score (:_= .39), the discrepancy score or role conflict score on the TRQ for Emotional/Sexual/ Supportive Partner (§_= .31), and the absolute value of the score on the Traupmann-Utne-Hatfield (1978) Scale ([_= -.26). As the femininity score had shown such inconsistent predictive power in regression equations involving all the women in the sample, further post hoc analysis will be required to explain its influence. It is possible that an increasing femininity score among men is predictive of increasing marital satisfaction for them. It could be argued that this would suggest a more emotionally sensitive and adept man, who might be a better partner and part of a happier marriage. The correlation between the role conflict score for Emotional/Sexual/Supportive Partner and marital satisfaction sug- gests that this portion of the wife role may have been seen as important by the entire sample. The influence of the inequity score has already been discussed, but it is interesting to note once again that it has predictive power for the marital happiness score. The finding that non-medical wives experience inequity and yet report them- selves as happy remains unexplained. Perhaps further post hoc analysis will reveal stronger influences from the BSRI femininity 93 score or the role conflict score which outweigh the influence of the equity/inequity score. Conclusions The results of this study suggest that while the medical marriage may never be easy, the view that it holds more dif- ficulties for the woman in medicine than the man is probably incorrect. It seems that the focus of future research should probably center upon the male in medicine and his non-medical wife, as they are experiencing inequity at its greatest level. However, this will require careful exploration, as the women in this study reported themselves as equally happy in their marriages, while among the men the dual-medical husband was least happy, the medical husband with a non-medical wife reported himself next happiest, and the non-medical husband with a medical wife reported himself happiest. This study originally postulated that persons who experi- ence a considerable amount of inequity will anticipate a "balancing" time for restoration of equity later in the marriage. This was to be examined in this study because such restoration of equity, if it is expected in terms of increasing time and attention from the medical spouse, is unlikely. The disappointment of such an expectation could be a serious strain upon a medical marriage. In the absence of analysis of the open-ended questions, this hypothesis remains untested. After these data are examined there should be considerably more information which could help 94 persons in the medical marriage examine realistically their future plans. While this study attempted to pinpoint factors in relation- ships and personality variables that would influence the way couples dealt with medical education, it did not approach the more clinical area of how to actively assist couples in this coping process. There are evidently two ways to go about this: assist the couples to change their less successful behaviors, or alter the way medical education is presently structured. One of the subjects in the study commented that he and his wife managed their life style by being part of a group of dual-career couples who met socially, exchanged child care, and generally provided a supportive network. Such successful support systems deserve research attention. From the other viewpoint, another subject remarked pointedly, "Why doesn't someone change the system to reduce the stress, instead of studying ways to cope with it?" Why not, indeed? At present the system of medical education shows little sign of altering, and in fact has little impetus to do so while there are many applicants for few places, both in medical school and the more desirable residencies. There seems to be relatively little consideration of the idea that time to be a spouse or parent might make one a better physician, or a doctor who lived longer and suffered less from the ills that plague the profession (Stuff, Note 4). Until persons within the profession and medical educators are more open to that viewpoint, future research in this 95 area will, of necessity, focus upon factors which influence stress and the ways to cope with it. NOTES 96 NOTES 1Bem, s. L., & Watson, c. Scoring packet: Bem Sex-Role Inventory. Unpublished manuscript, April 1976. Available from Department of Psychology. Uris Hall, Cornell University, Ithaca, New York 14863. 2Orlofsky, J. Esychological androgypy and male-female attraction. Paper presented at the meeting of the American Psychological Association, New York, September, 1979. 3Spence, J. T. Traits, roles, and the concept of androngy. Paper presented at the conference on Perspectives in the Psychology of Women, Michigan State University, East Lansing, May, 1977. 4Stuff, P. Myths reggrding practice patterns, productivity, and careers: Research review. 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She felt she was probably interested in becoming a psychotherapist in either case, so she sought out persons to tell her about both. She was concerned about combining a career and a family life for herself. At her local college counseling center she spoke to a psychiatrist, who told her he "did not know a single woman psychiatrist who was happily married." He also stated he was glad he personally had married a teacher and not a dumb nurse (like his classmates), because now his son was smart enough to get into medical school. When the young woman pointed out that apparently his wife and child existed in his view only for his benefit, he was surprised. The young woman did not go to medical school. In the broadest sense, this study is dedicated to all persons, past, present and future, who are changing the world so that it will be harder to see it as he did. 110 APPENDIX B GENERAL INSTRUCTION SHEET 111 APPENDIX B GENERAL INSTRUCTION SHEET MEDICAL EDUCATION AND MARRIAGE STUDY General Instructions: Please first read the enclosed Introduction and Consent Form. Then sign your name to both copies of the form, and retain one for yourself, and return one copy to the study. Your partner will do the same. Fill out the rest of the questionnaire at your leisure. It is recommended that you fill out the questionnaire in the order given, and that you complete a section at a sitting. You may notice that similar information is asked in several different ways--please bear with that. Do not "labor over" completing the questionnaire--the entire process should take roughly an hour. When you have finished the questionnaire, just put in into the enclosed envelope and mail it back. Please do not discuss the contents of the questionnaire with your spouse until you have both finished it. Thank you very much for participating in the study. If I have not received the form back from you in roughly ten days, I will be contacting you by telephone. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to call me, Meredith Taylor, 233-8882. 112 APPENDIX C INTRODUCTION AND CONSENT FORM 113 APPENDIX C MEDICAL EDUCATION AND MARRIAGE INTRODUCTION AND CONSENT FORM The purpose of this study is to utilize certain personality theories and theories about relationships to look at the impact of medical education on the marriages of medical students, medical house staff, and their spouses. Medical students and house staff were selected as a group to be studied partly because theirs is a particularly demanding and time consuming profession, both as a student and as a practitioner. It is hoped that this study will increase understanding of the kinds of stress medical education places on marriage, and will enable couples to tolerate the stress more comfortably. Meredith Taylor and Dorothea Torstenson are the principal investigators for this study. There are several aspects of this study, and the portion with Meredith Taylor as principal investigator will give some special emphasis to the activities of the female spouse, and to the female medical students or house staff and their spouses. This is because female medical students/ house staff are usually part of a dual-career marriage (both spouses involved in a career). Although of course many male students/house staff are also part of a dual-career marriage, women within marriage and dual-career relationships are two of Ms. Taylor's areas of special interest. For the study you and your spouse will be asked to complete a questionnaire, described below. You will have roughly a week's time to complete it. As it states on the forms themselves, just fill them out at your leisure. It is recommended that you finish a section at one sitting, and you are asked to finish them in the order given. Please don't discuss the questions or your answers with your spouse until both partners have finished the study. This is to avoid influencing each other's answers. In addition, please don't discuss the study with your friends or colleagues, since they may also be taking part. The study will be completed by roughly June 1, 1979, so you could discuss it freely after that time. Roughly a week after you have received the packet in the mail, you will be contacted by Meredith Taylor or Dorothea Torstenson by telephone. She will check on whether you have finished the questionnaire and have had a chance yet to mail it back. As soon as the forms are received from both partners, a check for $10.00 per couple will be mailed to you, as a way of thanking you for your participation. The funds will be supplied by the investigators and Michigan State University. 114 115 In the questionnaire you will be asked (1) some general information about yourself (age, education, etc.), (2) to describe yourself, (3) to describe what the wife of the couple is expected to do under ideal circumstances, and what she can actually do right now, (4) to describe your marriage in more general terms, looking especially at "give and take," (5) to evaluate how satisfied you are with your marriage right now, (6) to comment on some open-ended questions about the effect of medical education on your marriage, and (7) to estimate some of the stress you have experienced, and your adjustment to it. This may seem to be a large number of areas, but completing the questionnaire should take no more than an hour or so. We are very hopeful that this study will help other persons in medicine and couples to adapt to medical school and practice, and to foster satisfying and rewarding marital relationships. We must in fairness state that this is not intended as a counseling or workshop situation, and your particular relationship may not benefit directly from the study. It is quite possible, however, that you will find the time and thought invested useful to your relationship. After the forms are completed, the data from the study will be pooled and analyzed. For the analysis of data, your answers will be identified by code, not by name. This same data may be used again in the light of different theories, and we would like your permission to use your data in the future. For this study and for any future analysis of data, your responses will be confidential and reported only in summaries. For the present study it is pos- sible that we may wish to contact you for a follow-up interview. We would like your permission to do this. Your participation in any further interviewing is, of course, always up to you. After the study is completed, we would be happy to send you a copy of the results and/or explain in detail the theories behind the study. We are available to discuss any issues that come up during the study, if you so desire. You are free to withdraw from the study at any time. Please sign the authorization below. Authorization: I, , have read the above and decide (name of subject) to participate in the research project above. My signature also indicates that I have received a copy of this consent form. Signature Date 233-8882 or 263-6100 Signature of Principal Investigator Telephone Please sign and retain the second copy of this form. Just tear it out of the staple. APPENDIX D DEMOGRAPHIC GENERAL INFORMATION SHEET 116 APPENDIX D DEMOGRAPHIC GENERAL INFORMATION SHEET GENERAL INFORMATION (PLEASE PRINT) 1. 2. 3. 10. 11. 12. Your name Your date of birth Today's date Your sex Number of years you have been married Do you have any children? If yes, what are their ages and sexes (If insufficient room, please use the back.) Is this your first marriage? If not, please give the length of your previous marriage(s), when they ended, and whether they ended through anullment, divorce, or death. (If insufficient room, please use the back?) In the family in which you grew up, what was your father's occupation? Your mother's? Did your parents separate, either through death or divorce? If so, how old were you? Where were you in the birth order in your family? (i.e. middle child with older sister and younger brother, etc.) Your occupation Spouse's occupation If you were/are a medical student at UW, were/are you an ISP student? 117 118 13. What level of education have you completed? 14. What level of education has your spouse completed? If any item provides insufficient space, please use the back. APPENDIX E BEM SEX-ROLE INVENTORY 119 APPENDIX E BEM SEX-ROLE INVENTORY SECTION A On the following page, you will be shown a large number of personality characteristics. We would like you to use those characteristics in order to describe yourself. That is, we would like you to indicate, on a scale from 1 to 7, how true of you these various characteristics are. Please do not leave any characteristic unmarked. Example: sly Mark a 1 if it is NEVER OR ALMOST NEVER TRUE that you are sly. Mark a 2 if it is USUALLY NOT TRUE that you are sly. Mark a 3 if it is SOMETIMES BUT INFREQUENTLY TRUE that you are sly. Mark a 4 if it is OCCASIONALLY TRUE that you are sly. Mark a 5 if it is OFTEN TRUE that you are sly. Mark a 6 if it is USUALLY TRUE that you are sly. Mark a 7 if it is ALWAYS OR ALMOST ALWAYS TRUE that you are sly. Thus, if you feel it is sometimes but infrequently true that you are "sly," never or almost never true that you arefimalicibus," always or almost always true that you are "irresponsible," and often true that you are "carefree," then you would rate these characteristics as follows: Sly 3 Irresponsible 7 Malicious 1 Carefree 5 120 121 l 2 3 4 5 6 7 l l 4 l l l I I T I T l T 1 NEVER OR USUALLY SOMETIMES BUT OCCASIONALLY OFTEN USUALLY ALWAYS 0R ALHOST INFREQUENTLY TRUE TRUE TRUE ALMOST NEVER TRUE TRUE ALWAYS TRUE Self reliant Reliable Warm Yielding Analytical Solemn Helpful Sympathetic Willing to take a stand Defends own Jealous beliefs Tender Has leadership Cheerful abilities Friendly Moody Sensitive to the Aggressive needs of others Independent Gullible Truthful Shy Inefficient Willing to take risks Conscientious Acts as a leader Understanding Athletic Childlike Secretive Affectionate Adaptable Makes decisions Theatrical easily Individualistic Assertive Compassionate Does not use harsh language Flatterable Sincere Unsystematic Happy Self-sufficient Competitive Strong personality Eager to soothe hurt feelings Loves children Loyal Conceited Tactful Unpredictable , Dominant Ambitious Forceful Soft-spoken Gentle Feminine Likable Conventional Masculine APPENDIX F TAYLOR ROLE QUESTIONNAIRE 122 APPENDIX F - TAYLOR ROLE QUESTIONNAIRE VERSION FOR FEMALE MEDICAL STUDENTS OR HOUSE STAFF SECTION B In this section we will be asking about the activities and expecta- tions for the wife in the couple. On the whole this section asks only about things often traditionally expected of wives. At the end of the section there will be a space for comments. If you feel that important areas were not covered in the section as it stands, please make note of the things that were omitted in the "Comments" portion. This section also omits any mention of expectations and activities for the husband. Clearly there is a full set of these for husbands as well, but in this study we chose to focus on the wife, and hope future research will focus on the husband in equal depth. Every individual has certain ideal expectations of the way he or she will behave as a spouse. In this section we would like you to describe how you would like to be as a spouse, and what at the present time you are able to do. While it is likely that no spouse ever meets their ideal, we would like you to describe in part (a) of each question your ideal for yourself. In part (b) of each question, we would like you to estimate how much the activity described matters to you, and in part (c) we would like you to describe how you are right 333, For each question, simply circle the number that is the best answer. 1. (a) I expect to do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? Not Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 223m 123 2. 124 (a) I expect to do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) I expect to do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? 1 Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 At All (a) I expect to do the clothing maintenance (mending, dry cleaning, etc.). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the clothing maintenance. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? 1 Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 At All 5. 125 (a) I expect to do the grocery shopping. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the grocery shopping. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 figtAI] (a) I expect to do the other shopping (not grocery). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the other shopping. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 22tA11 (a) I expect to show affection towards my hsuband. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 ¥ggortant (c) Presently I do show affection toward my husband. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 ‘ thA11 8. 10. 126 (a) I expect to respond to affectionate overtures from my husband. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do respond to affectionate overtures from my husband. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) I expect to respond to sexual overtures from my husband. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do respond to sexual overtures from my husband. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? 1 Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 At All (a) I expect to take the initiative in sexual activity. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 Important (c) Presently I do take the initiative in sexual activity. Not Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All 11. 12. 13. 127 (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 22‘“, (a) I expect to spend time alone with my husband at home-- talking or doing things together. Often 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 Important (c) Presently I do spend time alone with my husband at home-- talking or doing things together. Often 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 22“”, (a) I expect to go out socially with my husband--such as to a movie or dinner. Often 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do go out socially with my husband--such as to a movie or dinner. Often 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 NgtAll (a) I expect to go out socially with my husband and mix with other couples, or friends generally. Often 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never 14. 15. 128 (b) How much does this matter to you? Not Crucial 7 5 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do go out socially with my husband and mix with other couples, or friends generally. Often 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 NitA11 (a) I expect to listen to what is troublesome in my husband's life, and to share his joys too. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 ¥g§ortant (c) Presently I do listen to what is troublesome in my husband's life, and share his joys too. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) I expect to be supportive and encouraging of my husband. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 Important (c) Presently I am supportive and encouraging of my husband. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All 16. 17. 129 (a) I expect to help maintain the contacts with our extended family (parents and in-laws, brothers and sisters, etc.). As Much as Possible 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do help maintain the contacts with our extended family. As Much as Possible 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Complete1y 7 6 5 4 3 2 ‘ 22t411 (a) I expect to express appreciation for the things my husband does for me. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do express appreciation for the things he does for me. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 figtAl] The following questions are only for couples with children. 18. (a) I expect to provide the child care for our child(ren). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 N°t Important 19. 20. 21. 130 (c) Presently I do provide the child care for our child(ren). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) I expect to be responsible for the care given to our child(ren), though I may not give it personally. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I am responsible for the care given to our child(ren), though I may not give it personally. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) If our child(ren) is/are ill, I expect to take care of it. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently, if our child(ren) is/are ill, I take care of it. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) I expect to be the disciplinarian for our child(ren). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never 131 (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I am the disciplinarian for our child(ren). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All Comments: (Please use back if needed.) VERSION FOR HUSBANDS 0F FEMALE MEDICAL STUDENTS OR HOUSE STAFF SECTION B In this section we will be asking about the activities and expecta- tions for the wife in the couple. On the whole this section asks about things often traditionally expected of wives. At the end of the section there will be a space for comments. If you feel that important areas were not covered in the section as it stands, please make note of the things that were omitted in the "Comments" section. This section also omits any mention of expectations and activities for the husband. Clearly there is‘a full set of those for husbands as well, but in this study we chose to focus on the wife, and hope future research will focus on the husband in equal depth. Every individual has certain ideal expectations of the way his or her spouse will behave. In this section we would like you to describe how you would like your spouse to be, and what at the present time she is able to do. While it is likely that no spouse ever performs at the ideal level, we would like you in part (a) of each question to describe your ideal spouse. In part (b) of each question, we would like you to estimate how much the activity described matters to you, and in part (c) we would like you to describe how your spouse is right 33!, For each question, simply circle the number that is the best answer. 1. (a) I expect my wife to do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 Important (c) Presently she does the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Kit“, 132 2. 133 (a) I expect my wife to do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently she does the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? (a) I expect my wife to do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently she does the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) I expect my wife to do the clothing maintenance (mending, dry cleaning, etc.). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 Important (c) Presently she does the clothing maintenance. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by being a medical student or intern/resident? 1 Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 At All VERSION FOR MALE MEDICAL STUDENTS OR HOUSE STAFF (WIVES EMPLOYED OUTSIDE THE HOME) SECTION B In this section we will be asking about the activities and expectations for the wife in the couple. On the whole this section asks about things often traditionally expected of wives. At the end of the section there will be a space for comments. If you feel that important areas were not covered in the section as it stands, please make note of the things that were omitted in the "Comments" section. This section also omits any mention of expectations and activities for the husband. Clearly there is a full set of these for husbands as well, but in this study we chose to focus on the wife, and hope future research will focus on the husband in equal depth. Every individual has certain ideal expectations of the way his or her spouse will behave. In this section we would like you to describe how you would like your spouse to be, and what at the present time she is able to do. While it is likely that no spouse ever performs at the ideal level, we would like you in part (a) of each question to describe your ideal spouse. In part (b) of each question, we would like you to estimate how much the activity described matters to you, and in part (c) we would like you to describe how your spouse is right 333, For each question, simply circle the number that is the best answer. 1. (a) I expect my wife to do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently she does the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by her occupation? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 ‘ NgtAn 134 2. 135 (a) I expect my wife to do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 Important (c) Presently she does the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by her occupation? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) I expect my wife to do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you. Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 #ggortant (c) Presently she does the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by her occupation? Complete1y 7 6 5 4 3 2 I 22tA11 (a) I expect my wife to do the clothing maintenance (mending, dry cleaning, etc.). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (c) Presently she does the clothing maintenance. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by her occupation? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All VERSION FOR WIVES OF MALE MEDICAL STUDENTS OR HOUSE STAFF (WIVES EMPLOYED OUTSIDE THE HOME) SECTION B In this section we will be asking about the activities and expecta- tions for the wife in the couple. On the whole this section asks only about things often traditionally expected of wives. At the end of the section there will be a space for comments. If you feel that important areas were not covered in the section as it stands, please make note of the things that were omitted in the "Comments" portion. This section also omits any mention of expectations and activities for the husband. Clearly there is a full set of these for husbands as well, but in this study we chose to focus on the wife, and hope future research will focus on the husband in equal depth. Every individual has certain ideal expectations of the way he or she will behave as a spouse. In this section we would like you to describe how you would like to be as a spouse, and what at the present time you are able to do. While it is likely that no spouse ever meets their ideal, we would like you to describe in part (a) of each question your ideal for yourself. In part (b) of each question, we would like you to estimate how much the activity described matters to you, and in part (c) we would like you to describe how you are right 333, For each question, simply circle the number that is the best answer. 1. (a) I expect to do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by your occupation? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 223A” 136 2. 137 (a) I expect to do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by your occupation? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 223A], (a) I expect to do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 ¥g§ortant (c) Presently I do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by your occupation? Com letel 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 N°t p 3 At All (a) I expect to do the clothing maintenance (mending, dry cleaning, etc.). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (c) Presently I do the clothing maintenance. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by your occupation? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 NgtAll VERSION FOR MALE MEDICAL STUDENTS OR HOUSE STAFF (HOMEMAKER WIVES) SECTION B In this section we will be asking about the activities and expecta- tions for the wife in the couple. 0n the whole this section asks about things often traditionally expected of wives. At the end of the section there will be a space for comments. If you feel that important areas were not covered in the section as it stands, please make note of the things that were omitted in the "Comments" section. This section also omits any mention of expectations and activities for the husband. Clearly there is a full set of these for husbands as well, but in this study we chose to focus on the wife, and hope future research will focus on the husband in equal depth. Every individual has certain ideal expectations of the way his or her spouse will behave. In this section we would like you to describe how you would like your spouse to be, and what at the present time she is able to do. While it is likely that no spouse ever performs at the ideal level, we would like you in part (a) of each question to describe your ideal spouse. In part (b) of each question, we would like you to estimate how much the activity described matters to you, and in part (c) we would like you to describe how your spouse is right 333_ For each question, simply circle the number that is the best answer. 1. (a) I expect my wife to do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently she does the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by your being a medical student or intern/resident? 1 Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 At All 138 2. 139 (a) I expect my wife to do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently she does the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by your being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All (a) I expect my wife to do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 ¥ggortant (c) Presently she does the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by your being a medical studentor intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 figtA], (a) I expect my wife to do the clothing maintenance (mending, dry cleaning, etc.). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently she does the clothing maintenance. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is her behavior (in this area) influenced by your being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 22tA11 VERSION FOR WIVES OF MALE MEDICAL STUDENTS OR HOUSE STAFF (HOMEMAKER WIVES) SECTION B In this section we will be asking about the activities and expecta- tions for the wife in the couple. On the whole this section asks only about things often traditionally expected of wives. At the end of the section there will be a space for comments. If you feel that important areas were not covered in the section as it stands, please make note of the things that were omitted in the "Comments" portion. This section also omits any mention of expectations and activities for the husband. Clearly there is a full set of these for husbands as well, but in this study we chose to focus on the wife, and hope future research will focus on the husband in equal depth. Every individual has certain ideal expectations of the way he or she will behave as a spouse. In this section we would like you to describe how you would like to be as a spouse, and what at the pre- sent time you are able to do. While it is likely that no spouse ever meets their ideal, we would like you to describe in part (a) of each question your ideal for yourself. In part (b) of each question, we would like you to estimate how much the activity described matters to you, and in part (c) we would like you to describe how you are right now. For each question, simply circle the number that is the best answer. 1. (a) I expect to do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the cooking. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by your husband being a medical student or intern/resident? Not Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 At All 140 2. 141 (a) I expect to do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1al 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the household cleaning. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by your husband being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 33'6“] (a) I expect to do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? Crucial 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Qggortant (c) Presently I do the laundry. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by your husband being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 figtA1] (a) I expect to do the clothing maintenance (mending, dry cleaning, etc.). Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (b) How much does this matter to you? . Not Cruc1a1 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Important (c) Presently I do the clothing maintenance. Always 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 Never (d) To what extent is your behavior (in this area) influenced by your husband being a medical student or intern/resident? Completely 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 figtAll APPENDIX G TRAUPMANN-UTNE-HATFIELD (1978) SCALE 142 APPENDIX G TRAUPMANN-UTNE-HATFIELD (1978) SCALE SECTION C Introduction: In this section we are interested in the give-and-take that goes on in marriage. We'd like to ask you some questions about the kinds of things you put into your marriage, and the kinds of things you get out of it. Clearly, we know that most people don't ordinarily keep careful track of exactly what they're giving and getting from their marriages. They certainly don't pull their relationship apart and think about the various aspects of their marriage, one by one. But in order for us to get some idea of what goes on in marital rela- tionships, we have to ask you and the others in the study to spell 333 some of the give-and-take that naturally occurs. We will look at some of the critical areas in any marriage. When you glance over the list, the underlined headings will give you a sense of the ground we will cover. First we'd like to ask about your and your partner's personal characteristics--like your looks and intelligence (Items 1 - 4). Then we cover your emotional assets and liabilities (Items 5 - 15). Finally, we cover daily sorts of concerns that come up in a long-term relationship (Items 16 - 25) for a total of 25 areas. For each of the 25 areas, you will be asked to make two ratings. The first is . Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. 143 144 The second rating for each area will be How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Circle the number that is the best answer. AREAS INVOLVED IN THE MARITAL GIVE AND TAKE PERSONAL CONCERNS Social Grace 1. Social Grace: Some people are sociable, friendly, relaxed in social settings. Others are not. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Intellect 2. Intelligence: Some people are intelligent and informed. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? 145 -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Appearance 3. Physical Attractiveness: Some people are physically attractive. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Concern for Physical Appearance and Health: Some people take care of their physical appearance and conditioning, through attention to such things as their clothing, cleanliness, exercise, and good eating habits. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? 146 -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8 Extremely important 4 Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6 2 5 l Fairly important Very unimportant Slightly important Extremely unimportant EMOTIONAL CONCERNS Liking and Loving 5. Liking: Some people like their partners and show it. Others do not. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Love: Some people feel and express love for their partners. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? 147 -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Understanding and Concern 7. Understanding and Concern: Some people know their partner's personal concerns and emotional needs and respond to them. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Acoeptance 8. Accepting and Encouraging Role Flexibility: Some people let their partners try out different roles occasionally, for example, letting their partner be a "baby" sometimes, a "mother£' a colleague or a friend, an aggressive as well as a passive lover, and so on. 148 Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up“? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Appreciation 9. Expression of Appreciation: Some people openly show apprecia- tion for their partner's contributions to the relationship-- they don't take their partner for granted. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Ehysical Affection 10. Showing Affection: Some people are openly affectionate-- touching, hugging, kissing. s_e_a 11. 12. 149 Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5 Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Sexual Pleasure: Some people participate in the sexual aspect of a relationship; working to make it mutually satisfying and fulfilling. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Sexual Fidelity: Some people live up to (are "faithful" to) their agreements about extra-marital relations. 150 Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Security/Freedom 13. Commitment: Some people commit themselves to their partners and to the future of their relationship together. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant 14. 151 Respecting Partner's Need to be Free and Independent Person: Some people allow their partners to develop as an individual in the way that they choose: for example, they allow their partners freedom to go to school or not; to work at the kind of job or career they like; to pursue outside interests; to do things by themselves or with their friends; to simply be alone sometimes. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Plans and Goals for the Future 15. Plans and Goals for the Future: Some people plan for and dream about their future together. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. 152 How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5 Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant DAY-TO-DAY CONCERNS Day-to-Day Maintenance 16. Day-to-Day Maintenance: Some people contribute time and effort to household responsibilities such as grocery shopping, making dinner, cleaning and car maintenance. Others do not. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4 Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2 Very unimportant 5 Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Finances 17. Finances: Some people contribute income to the couple's "joint account." Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? 153 -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant Sociability 18. 19. Easy—to-Live-With: Some people are easy to live with on a day-to-day basis: that is, they have a sense of humor, aren't too moody, don't get drunk too often, and so on. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Companionship: Some people are good companions, who suggest interesting activities for both of them to do together, as well as going along with their partner's ideas about what they might do for fun. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? 20. 21. 154 -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Conversation: Some people tell partners about their day's events and what's on their minds . . . and are also interested in hearing about their partner's concerns and daily activities. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Fitting In: Some people are compatible with their partner's friends and relatives; they like the friends and relatives, and the friends and relatives like them. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? 155 My partner is getting a much better deal. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. We are both getting an equal deal. I am getting a slightly better deal. I am getting a somewhat better deal. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. 7. 6. 5. Extremely important 4. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant Fairly important 2. Slightly important 1 Slightly unimportant Very unimportant Extremely unimportant Decision-Making 22. Decision-Making: Some pe0ple take their fair share of the responsibility for making and carrying out decisions that affect both partners. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. -2. -1. 0. +1. +2. +3. My partner is getting a much better deal. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. We are both getting an equal deal. I am getting a slightly better deal. I am getting a somewhat better deal. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. 7. 6. 5. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant Very important 3. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant Slightly important 1 Fairly unimportant Extremely unimportant Remembering Special Occasions 23. Remembering Special Occasions: Some people are thoughtful about sentimental things, such as remembering birthdays, your anniversary, and other special occasions. 156 Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important Fairly unimportant 6. 5 3. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant Slightly important 1 Extremely unimportant OPPORTUNITIES GAINED AND LOST Opportunities Gained 24. Chance to be Married: Marriage gives many people the oppor- tunity to partake of the many life experiences that depend upon being married; for example, the chance to become a parent and even a grandparent, the chance to be included in "married couple" social events, and finally, having someone to count on in old age. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. 157 How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant Opportunities Foregone 25. Opportunities Foregone: Marriage necessarily requires people to give up certain opportunities, in order to be in this relationship. The opportunities could have been other pos- sible mates, a career, travel, etc. Considering what you put into your marriage in this area, compared to what you get out of it, and what your partner puts in compared to what (s)he gets out of it, how does your marriage "stack up"? -3. My partner is getting a much better deal. -2. My partner is getting a somewhat better deal. -1. My partner is getting a slightly better deal. 0. We are both getting an equal deal. +1. I am getting a slightly better deal. +2. I am getting a somewhat better deal. +3. I am getting a much better deal. How important is this area to you? 8. Extremely important 4. Slightly unimportant 7. Very important 3. Fairly unimportant 6. Fairly important 2. Very unimportant 5. Slightly important 1. Extremely unimportant APPENDIX H SPANIER (1976) DYADIC ADJUSTMENT SCALE 158 APPENDIX H SPANIER (1976) DYADIC ADJUSTMENT SCALE SECTION 0 Most persons have disagreements in their relationships. Please indicate below the approximate extent of agreement or disagreement between you and your partner for each item on the following list. Almost Occa- Fre- Almost Always Always sionally quently Always Always Agree Agree Disagree Disagree Disagree Disagree 1. Handling family finances 2. Matters of recreation 3. Religious matters 4. Demonstra- tions of affection 5. Friends 6. Sex relations 7. Convention- ality (correct or proper behavior) 8. Philosophy of life 9. Ways of dealing with parents or in-laws 159 160 Almost Occa- Fre- Almost Always Always sionally quently Always Always ,Agree Agree [Msagree Disagree Disagree Disagree . Aims, goals and things believed important . Amount of time spent together . Making major decisions . Household tasks . Leisure time interests and activities . Career decisions More All Most Often the of the Than Occas- 1133_ Time Not sional1y Rarely Never . How often do you discuss or have you considered divorce, separation or terminating your rela- tionship? . How often do you or your mate leave the house after a fight? 161 More All Most Often the of the Than Occa- Time Time Not sionally, Rarely Never . In general, how often do you think that things between you and your partner are going well? . Do you confide in your mate? . Do you ever regret that you married? . How often do you and your partner quarrel? . How often do you and your partner "get on each other's nevers"? Almost Every Every Occa- Day Day sional1y, Rarely Never . Do you kiss your mate? Most Some Very None All of of of Few of of Them Them Them Them Them . Do you and your mate engage in outside interests together? 162 How often would you say the following events occur between you and your mate? Less Than Once or Once or Once a Twice a Twice a Once a More Never Month Month Week Day Often 25. Have a stimulating exchange of ideas 26. Laugh together 27. Calmly discuss something 28. Work together on a project These are some things about which couples sometimes agree and sometimes disagree. Indicate if either item below caused dif- ferences of opinions or were problems in your relationship during the past few weeks. (Check yes or no) Yes No 29. Being too tired for sex. 30. Not showing love. 31. The dots on the following line represent different degrees of happiness in your relationship. The middle point, "happy," represents the degree of happiness of most relationships. Please circle the dot which best describes the degree of happiness, all things considered, of your relationship. 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 Extremely Fairly A Little Happy Very Extremely Perfect Unhappy Unhappy Unhappy Happy Happy 163 32. Which of the following statements best describe how you feel about the future of your relationship? Place a check beside your answer. I want desperately for my relationship to succeed, and would go to almost any length to see that it does. I want very much for my relationship to succeed, and will do all I can to see that it does. I want very much for my relationship to succeed, and will do my share to see that it does. It would be nice if my relationship succeeded, but I can't do much more than I am doing now to help it succeed. It would be nice if it succeeded, but I refuse to do any more than I am doing now to keep the relationship going. My relationship can never succeed, and there is no more that I can do to keep the relationship going. APPENDIX I OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONNAIRE 164 APPENDIX I OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONNAIRE SECTION E This is a section of open-ended questions, for you to provide some additional answers that represent your experience in your own words. Please make them as long or as short as you wish, and use the back or additional paper if you prefer. We want to be certain we understand these answers, so PLEASE PRINI, TYPE, OR MAKE A GREAT EFFORT TO WRITE CLEARLY 1. What do you feel the impact of medical school or your status as intern/resident has been on your marriage? 00 you feel medical school/residency has been an added stress factor on your marriage? Every major life change requires readjustments in the way you live. In the medical school/residency context, most people have to give up something which they "miss most." What do you think you miss most? If your answer to #3 above was more related to your life as an individual than to your life as half of a couple, what do you think you miss most that relates to your marriage? 165 166 5. For Question 5, partners who are in medical school/residency, or M05 should answer part (a) and partners who are not should answer part (b). (a) What does your spouse do as an occupation? Does it make your situation (working in medicine) any easier, or harder? (b) What is your occupation? Do you think your position makes things any easier, or harder for your spouse? Does your spouse's occupation make things easier, or harder for you in your job? 6. Briefly describe what would be a typical day for you. 167 How much time do you and your spouse spend together in an average week? What kind of time is it--"close" (talking together might be an example), or a little more separate (both reading in the same room might be an example)? 00 you anticipate any changes in your marriage after you (your spouse) finishes his/her residency? What kind of changes? (If you both are medical students/house staff, you might want to mention changes that would occur as first one of you and then the other finished.) If you felt that in this situation (being a medical student or intern/resident, or the spouse of one) you had to give things up, do you foresee any ways in which it will be "made up" to you? APPENDIX J STRESS ADJUSTMENT SCALE 168 APPENDIX J STRESS ADJUSTMENT SCALE Please rate each of the following items by circling the reSponse that best describes your W . ~17 3:. Q Q5) N7 :35? we 8 lb a: Sic: m a: 41 p.03 a ‘0 5 gm “‘0 1. Household responsibilities ST SS ‘NS 2. Housing situation ST SS NS U) F) U) U) 2 U) 3. Money U) H U) U) 2 U) 4. Personal autonomy/independence 5. Your occupation or work (includes student, homemaker) U) H; U) U) 2 U) 6. Quality of communication with partner U) H U) U) 2 U) 7. Amount of time spent with partner U) H U) U) 2 U) 8. Sexual relations U) 0') U) U) 2 U) 9. Relationships with friends U) H U) U) 2 U) 10. Relationships with relatives (outside of immed. family) 11. Relationships with your children (if applicable) ST SS NS ‘fiafiafiéfifiaaiaiwkr s 5 Please rate each of the following items on the basis of its importance to your life satisfaction. 6. 61 s. 64 §§§§§§§ hv A1 in” ~q 1. Household responsibilities VI IN 51 NI 2. Housing situation VI IM SI NI 3. Money VI IM SI NI 4. Personal autonomy/independence VI IM SI NI 5. ‘Your occupation or work (includes student,homemaker) VI IM SI NI 6. Quality of communication with partner VI IM SI NI 7. Amount of time spent with partner VI 1M SI NI 8. Sexual relations VI IM SI NI 9. Relationships with friends VI IN SI NI 10. Relationships with relatives (outside of immed.fami1y) VI IM 51 NI 11. Relationships with your children (if applicable) VI 1M 51 NI 169 170 If you were married prior to medical school, please complete the rest of this survey. Please rate each of the following items on the basis of the agigfigmgfl; that was required when one or both of you entered medical school. A; ~: 0 SQ 2 . , *0 «re . 5‘6” s'é’ S'é' § ’32 VS. “'3 ans ”a *6 § 1. Household responsibilities MC’ sc LC NC 2. Housing situation MC SC LC NC 3. Money MC SC LC NC u. Personal autonomy/independence MC SC LC NC 5. Your occupation or work (includes student, homemaker) MC SC LC NC 6. Duality of communication with partner MC SC LC NC 7 Amount of time spent with partner MC SC LC NC 8. Sexual relations MC SC LC NC 9. Relationships with friends MC SC LC NC 10. Relationships with relatives (outside immed.family) MC SC LC NC 11. Relationships with your children (if applicable) NC SC LC NC Please rate each of the following items on the basis of how successfully you think you have.masjgrgg_1hg_gh§pggg indicated above. 5? 53:? c: f§ i? Ika3 a; ‘% a; as st .5: as 0:0 .‘C‘ ~32 £13,4-. S.» ‘73 N 3:3 < ~ 5 E 3‘ 1. Household responsibilities MG MA T0 WO 2. Housing situation MG MA TO WO 3. Money MG MA T0 NO u. Personal autonomy/independence ~ MG MA T0 W0 3. Your occupation or work (includes student, homemaker) MG MA TO WO 6. Quality of communication with partner MG MA T0 N0 7. Amount of time spent with partner MG MA T0 WO 8. Sexual relations MG MA TO WO 9. Relationships with friends MG MA TO WO 10. Relationships with relatives (outside immed. family) MG MA T0 NO 11. Relationships with your children (if applicable) MG MA T0 WO APPENDIX K FIRST LETTER TO SUBJECTS 171 APPENDIX K FIRST LETTER TO SUBJECTS 32l Island Dr., Apt. 6 Madison, WI 53705 Jun , l979 Dear First of all I would like to thank you again for your cooperation and help with the Medical Education and Marriage Study. You are very busy people and I have been impressed and gratified by your willingness to make the time to take part. Enclosed you will find your check. For the sake of simplicity I have made it payable to only one partner but it and my thanks are certainly intended for both. My present plan is to send all of you by mail a brief summary of my hypotheses about the study and the results of the analysis of my data. I will be sending that as soon as the analysis is completed and I hope that will be sometime in July or perhaps August. If you are planning to move before that time and haven't given me your new address, you might want to contact me so I will send the results to your new home. Otherwise, I will assume letters will be forwarded. Some of you may want more information than is provided in the summary of results, and I will encourage you at that time to contact me by mail or phone and ask for more details. If you are very curious now (between about June I and the time data is analyzed) about my hypotheses and ways I developed the study, please feel free to write or call now. We can talk on the phone or set up a time to meet. Thanks again. Sincerely, Meredith F. Taylor 172 APPENDIX L SECOND LETTER TO SUBJECTS I73 APPENDIX L SECOND LETTER TO SUBJECTS 343 Island Dr., Apt. 3 Madison, WI 53705 Dear First of all, I would like to thank you once again for your participation. You may feel you have already been thanked enough, but you will realize what a remarkable group you comprise when I tell you that out of nearly 120 couples who agreed to do the study, only three failed to complete it. I received almost universal interest and sympathy (for the plight of the researcher and graduate student) and I am very grateful. The official title of the study is "Equity Theory, Androgyny, and Role Conflict in the Marriages of Medical Students and of Medical House Staff." In essence, I combined a theory about relationships, a portion of personality theory and rather funda— mental ideas about sex-role socialization to create my hypotheses. I will first outline the hypotheses very generally, and then fill in some details. At its simplest, I hypothesized that medical education would be a hard time for any married couple; that it would be harder for women in medicine and their spouses than for men in medicine and their spouses, and that it would be hardest of all for the women and their spouses if they were attempting to maintain a traditional model for marriage. For hypotheses about how the couples might feel about their relationship, I drew from equity theory. Equity theory was developed by Elaine Hatfield and G. William Walster here at the University of Wisconsin. It theorizes that in any relationship, if one gives as much as one gets, one experiences equity and feels content. However, if one either gives pr_gets more, one will feel discontent and seek to restore equity, in one way or another. I hypothesized that medical persons were likely to experience over- benefit (getting more than giving) and all non-medical persons were likely to experience underbenefit (giving more than getting) under the pressure of medical education. I attempted to measure this (and all other questions about equity) with the Traupmann-Utne- Hatfield (1978) Scale, which was the section on which you indicated "who gets a better deal." This hypothesis was quite strongly 174 175 confirmed; medical persons do feel overbenefited and their spouses feel underbenefited. I had further related hypotheses. I predicted women medical persons would feel they "got too much" even more than male medical persons. I also predicted their spouses would feel they "got even less" than the female spouses of men in medicine. I predicted this on the basis of sex-role theory. My idea was that while at this point the society seems to be moving away from the traditional model of marriage, that is still how most of us were raised and it may still be a strong influence. By a traditional model of marriage, I mean several overlapping concepts: the wife takes care of the home and children while the husband works; also the wife is the emotional and socially adept partner while the husband makes decisions and acts as a leader, etc. In any case, I predicted that since women in medicine might have difficulty fulfilling the "at home" roles, they might feel that they were not giving enough in the relationship. Hence the prediction developed that they would feel more over- benefited. Males in medicine might not be able to offer a great deal in the "husband" role at home either, but I hypothesized that since it was traditional for the husband to be the "breadwinner" and work hard outside the home, that this would be less troublesome to both spouses. This hypothesis was rejected. There were no significant differences on equity between male/female medical persons or between male/female spouses. However, when I pooled all persons into a division by sex as well as medical/non-medical, it became clear that women felt significantly underbenefited compared to men. Most of this was because males in medicine felt so overbenefited and their non-medical spouses felt so underbenefited. This was contrary to my prediction. I had also hypothesized that "dual-medical couples" (both partners either physicians or in medical training) would experience less inequity than other couples. 0n the whole this was confirmed, although it was not clear that dual-medical couples were signif- icantly different from couples with the wife in medicine and the husband not in medicine. In dual-medical couples both partners feel slightly under- benefited, the men more than the women. I interpreted this as a feeling of "not quite enough to go around," which certainly seems reasonable considering the hectic life of a dual-medical couple. Most of my other hypotheses focused upon the women in medicine and their spouses. I feel apologetic about omitting the men and their spouses, but my grounding in sex-role theories made me feel much more clear about what to attempt to predict among the women and their spouses. I hypothesized that medical women might ppt_feel they were overbenefited for one of two reasons. First they T76 (and/or the spouse) might have altered their level of expectations about what they should be doing to be "the kind of wife I feel good about being/being with," or simply have had those expectations at a very down to earth level in the first place. So in that case, achieving the expected goal for "wife-like“ behavior might be reasonable and do-able in addition to keeping up with medical education. Second, I hypothesized that some women (and their spouses) might have very high expectations for themselves and brin it_pff. That would mean (to take a somewhat far-fetched example managing to still serve a four course dinner promptly at 7:00 each night, no matter what. So, I tried to measure how people saw their expectations of themselves (or spouse) and also how they saw the "performance" level. I theorized that a high difference score between expectation and performance would be attributed to the woman being in medicine, and that a high difference score would predict more feelings of inequity. A statistically significant correlation between discrepancy scores and amount of inequity was found, although it was not a very powerful one. I also felt that discrepancy and inequity should correlate with the measure of marital happiness. Therefore, you completed both the instrument describing expectations for yourself (or spouse) and the level of performance for yourself or spouse, and the marital satisfaction measure. These measures did correlate significantly as anticipated, but again it was not a very powerful correlation. Finally, I used an aspect of personality theory to attempt to predict which persons, among female students/house staff and their spouses, would have the easiest time re-adjusting their expectations for what the wife "should be doing," or who would have least need to readjust. Personality theory has developed the concept of psychological androgyny, which proposes that attributes identified as stereotypically masculine or feminine are not polar opposites, but are independent of each other. The theory and some follow-up research suggests that individuals high on both are flexible and adaptable. Accordingly, I hypothesized that an increase in androgyny would predict a decline in expectations for self or spouse, and also a decline in the discrepancy score (difference between expectations and performance). This hypothesis was rejected. Although the women in medicine are quite androgynous, the androgyny :cogesdhad no power to predict expectations held either by wives or us an 5. Any explanation of results which disconfirm hypotheses is always a little suspect, since one untested theory is as good as the next. For my hypotheses concerning equity/inequity, I would hazard a number of guesses. The first is that the level of investment in a T77 quite egalitarian marriage is high in Madison and within this medical school. It is possible that I highlighted this awareness by presenting my study as one which focused on women. In any case, apparently the male medical person is aware that his wife may be playing "second fiddle," and he is concerned about it. The wives seem equally aware. As a secondary factory within this idea, I would hypothesize that more women spouses are supporting the family in "marking time" jobs than are the male spouses of female medical persons. In this way, female spouses might feel underbenefit now, though the scale may "balance" over time. One other point is worth mentioning. When I examined the scores on the marital satisfaction measure, all subgroups of women came out with scores which were essentially the same. In other words, although the non-medical wives felt quite underbenefited, they did not report themselves as less happy. Among the men, differences were statistically significant but fairly small. The men who described themselves as happiest were non-medical men married to medical wives. The next happiest were the medical men married to non-medical wives. The least happy were the men in dual-medical marriages. Obviously the relationship between perceiving inequity and seeing one's self as happy is not as simple and straightforward as one might assume. The open-ended questionnaire is a potential source of direct information from you on how you see who has experienced overbenefit and underbenefit. It was also intended to draw from you comments on how the balance of equity might be restored over time if it is out of balance now. I use this tentative language because analysis of such data requires using unbiased raters who are blind to the hypotheses of the study. I did not have access to such persons at the moment and was forced to postpone that analysis. However, there is a good chance I will be able to finish in the near future. This study became quite complicated. At its close I had sixteen hypotheses and tested fifteen of them. For this reason this summary is a fast overview of the results. I hope you will contact me if you are interested in hearing more details about it. As a closing note, I would like to share with you both my sense of satisfaction and my sense of frustration with this project. I have had feelings during the year of this study that I was taking a very complex phenomenon and fitting it into a number of rather rigid theories that, in truth, only explain a small portion of what is happening in the lives of real people. In some ways, I see that as the fundamental dilemma of social science research, especially for dissertations, as something small enough to handle becomes removed from reality. If I could do this study with indefinite time and funds, I would begin with unstructured interviews and ask all of 178 you what you see as making marriage plus medicine stressful, how you coped with it, what worked the best, and what you would like to see changed. . My only consolation for myself is that I at least made a beginning in an area I see as interesting and important. I would also present to you very openly one of my biases: that medicine, as it now exists, does not allow people enough time to be human. Specifically, it does not acknowledge that a person who has time to be an affectionate spouse and parent might be a better doctor because of it. This is not, of course, a phenomenon limited to medicine by any means. At the moment, the society as a whole rewards "achievement" more than "nurturance." If this is to shift in any way within medicine, it is very likely that only the persons within the field can do it. If my research either now or in the future can provide you with any leverage to do the job, I will be most happy to supply it. I would like, once again, to invite you to contact me if you would like any further information about the study. If you are interested in the specific research I used, I will be happy to give you the citations. My thanks, one last time, and my good wishes. Sincerely, Meredith F. Taylor