unnowmo p-I Irv—v-rl“ F'Ir—I'I" '- vwn'l I Hill-ll . JL \_., ‘ , ‘ ,' " . ”” "1M7? ‘ ' - ' . 3 ', /- ~v DETROIT, DEC. 28, 1889.. THE HOUSEHOLD-"Supplement. TR UL Y POLITE. ‘ Naughty boys," said Johnny’s mother, “ oft are rude to one another, But I hope that you’ll remember careless man- ners are not right; And whenever and whatever your surroundings, will endeavor To be scrupulously, cheerfully and ceaselessly polite.” “ That I will,” said Johnny sweetly, and he kept his word completely,” And said “ Please,” and “ Beg your pardon,” in a way that‘s seldom heard, And “ Allow me,” and “Excuse me"—oh, it really would confuse me To enumerate his phrases as they constantly occurred. As a youth and as a man he still adhered unto the plan ' He had so earnestly adopted as his gentle rule of life. And was often deferent'al when it wasn’t quite essential, As for instance to his servants, and his children and his wife. When his business up and bursted, and his creditors were worsted, With civility he told them he reg'etted such an end; And at his wife’s demising, with a courtesy sur- prising, He responded “ Dead, I thank you i” to the ques- tion of a friend. ’What I write is but a sample [of the daily bright example ~ Which he set to show how life by proper man- ners may be greased. Would that we might see another one so mind- ful of his brother; But, alas! he isn’t born, and John, alack! is long deceased. ‘ _———«.———— FRIENDSHIP. An ancient proverb says: “It is a mis- fortune of greatness to have no friends,” and yet have you not often heard it re- marked that ?‘ Great individuals seem to be the only persons who possess friends?” .In my opinion there is considerable truth in both assertions. The friendships of great men are, generally. speaking, stronger and more deserving of the name of friendship than the intimacies formed by those who are inferior to them either in position or intel- lect. It is Certainly the property of exalted minds to' attract but few friends, and you will invariably find where an individual’s friends are few in number, they are for this reason strong and lasting. It would be a decidedly interesting subject to investigate the causes which have in d uenced individuals in tli‘e choice of their friends. Chief among - all causes I would place sympathy, a desire for‘whlch has led so very,»very many to fidelity and devotion have sufficed to in- fluence many intimacies. Indeed some individuals are so great in their own eyes and so fond of taking the lead that they form intimacies rapidly with those who are willing to submit themselves entirely to their guidance, and this intimacy very fre- quently passes for friendship. I think ac- cidental circumstances lead to the forma- tion of friendships to a greater extent than a deliberate choice of the individual. Either one of the parties, it may be, has been the means of doing some service or kindness to the other, thus linking them firmly in the bonds of gratitude; or possibly some person whom the other party would not originally hive chosen f)! a friend may nevertheless poss 388 such qualities as would, under certain circumstances, enable him to For instance, a practical nutter of fact person very often likes one who is some- thing of a visionary; and a person of sub- jective mind will sometimes seek the society of one the turn of whose mind is objective. Confidence is one of the prime objects for which friendship is sought, and it is es- sential to the perfection of a friendship. It will generally be found that where there is no desire for csnfidence there will be com- paratively little craving for friendship; and certainly the reserve which prevents a man from opening his mind to at least one con- fidant will also prevent him from forming friendships in the proper sense of the word. For mare companionship canmt, strictly speaking, be termed friendship. There are two classes of resemd persons, those who render him just the kind of service, or at- ford just the kind of comfort of which he stands most in need, thus bringing them together in close friendship. Experience shows us that the characters which seem most to attract one another in the way of friendship are not such as a superficial observer would suppose to pos- sess any charm for one another, because, perhaps, they have apparently very little in common. This I think is owing to the fact that in friendship, as well as in love, individuals are very often attracted by at- tributes the opposite of their own, thus securing qualities in which they are them- selves dehcient, but this is only natural, as one of the purposes for which friendship Was given to us is to supply deficiencies, both moral and intellectual, in our own character. One of the great uses of friend- ship is to furnish us with a second self, and we naturally do not care to find in that second self a mere refisction or photograph of ourselves. Of course the difference must not be so wide as to destroy mutual sympathy; there should be enough resem- blance to produce congeniality of mind. Now, supposing that this latter condition is fulfilled, it will often be found that the one point in which two persons present a strik- ing contrast is- just the point of attraction which cements friendship between them. And yet strange to say, concerning these very points of diflerence there may exist on both sides a slighttdegree of contempt for the sentiments, habits, tastes, or opinions of the other party which is not only felt but expressed. This contempt, as I say, must necessarily be. slight, in fact there may be all the time. underneath the surface, a secret feeling of respect or admiration for those very peculiarities which are made the sub- cling closely together in friendship. Simple jhct of banter between the two friends, open their mindsand hearts to a certain ex- tent to every one alike, but beyond that particular point they :1) n): penetrate. Such iu’lividails hm in genuine friends. Those of the other class are very silent and reserved towards the greater portion of the world, but to the feiv to w'nm they do open their minis they com the u entirely. Persons of this ch tracker mrka very few friendships. but those whic‘i they do make are firm and abiding. Another p llllli on which individuals differ mrterially is concerning the particular kind of persons to Wham they can open their minds. There are some men who can do this much more readily to one of their own sex than to a woman; while with others the reverse is the case. Those who are the most sympathetic may not always be the safest confi .lants; and on the other hand, we can- not alway: rely on the sympathy of those friends who are in other respects to be most relied on. In short friendship is subject to all the impirfections, both positive and negative, which attach themselves to every- thing else. 0 : some future occasion (Beatrix and Lilla Lee kindly permitting) I may have something to say on the causes which lead to the dissolution of friendships. ' . Dn-raor'r. OUTIS. ____....__.__. In during the past year you have been pleased, benefited or instructed by the MICHIGAN FARMER and its little annex, the HOUSEHOLD, we invite yon to renew your subscription for the coming year, and to also say a good wsrd for us to your neighbor or friend, and send on their dollar With your own for 1890. W: do not know where you can find more good reading for less money—less than two cents a week. And the FARMER makes a cheap but very acceptable Ne iv Year’s gift to an absent rel- ative or friend. ' c,‘ . ( . ,4 .u. t .1 I it E i. is .. . ,J ..,, eon-raj 1.. ~11 ,, Jammy «inw'fi'tflt'wr: Vera-.. ._..;.,.*‘,,,,_‘ VM‘» "‘1' , dryers“ f ' 9 THE HOUSEHOLD. TRAINING THE CHILDREN. I sometimes see the word “dude” ap- plied indiscriminately to the young men of the city; and clerks called “counter- jompers.” I have no idea how that last name originated; I never saw a clerk j imp over a counter. And these persons will make excuses for the farmer’s boy because he is not polite. And there is that discus- , sion of who are gentlemen. The dude may be a gentleman, but a gentleman is not necessarily a dude. The word “dude” is of recent origin, I could not find it in my Webster’s Unabridged; but he (1 .fines a gentleman as “ A. man of good family; one who is well born; one of gentle, refined manners; a well bred man.” It says nothing of clothes, yet a gentleman wears his clothes easily, whether new or thread- bare; no matter how closely oscupied by his work his manners are not forgotten. It takes no more time for him to be polite than for some others to be boors. If country people were a little better acquainted with city people and their ways, it would be an advantage to them in more ways than one. I have been letting my mind run up and down “Main street,” in our little city; and I find the largest per cent of clerks were country boys, raised on the farm, and many of the merchants hive been farmers as boys or men. I will show you a specimen or two of our country boys and these are not exceptions, we have many such. In our large new Methodist church there are quite a number of ush rs; one is a “counter-1n nper,” a C iristian young gentle- man; one is a farmer boy, or young man, who works with his father on the farm in summer, and attends the college here in winter. If you walk into the church on Sunday morning, and both came forward to escort you to a seat (which of cousse two would not do), you could not tell from their manners or their clothes or the way they walked, which was the clerk or which was the farmer; both look and appear per- fect gentlemen. One day last spring I was visiting a friend (farmer); after tea, the son, a young man, brought outa very beautiful microscope costing $40, and entertained us a long time, showing us mounted specimens, his ‘own work. There are plenty of educated, gentlemanly young farmers in this section. It never ap- pears to take any ex‘ra time to practice their good manners. I expect they were learners, when they learned to talk, and when they learned their letters, in fact all the way up. Now why cannot all country boys learn good manners? Whose fault is it? I am very much afraid we should not have to go away from farm homes to find the cause. I wonder if any of my readers ever saw the mother and sisters laugh at the boy or lad when he attempted to prac- tice the manners of a gentleman! But few can endure ridicule. How many mothers in the country ever taught their little sons to lift their hats to ladies, or to take ofl their hats when they entered a room where ladies are, and saw that she was obeyed? And so with many other of the distinguishing characteristics of a gentleman! If children were thus taught, the city snobs—not gentlemen- would not have occasion to make fun of, and call their boys “ mossback,” "hay- seed.” “gawkey,” and “ greeny,” and other opprobrious names, quite as well merited as some of the scurrilous names country people apply to city people. Why is it so many country boys leave the farm and go to town to clerk, or do any- thing they can get to do? Is it not in many cases for the advantage of refined sur- roundings? This is a question which re- quires a goodly amount of consideration. ALBION. M. E. H. .——...___ TEE BREEDING OF THE HUMAN FAMILY. 0 .e of the conundrums of this life is, that the seemingly sensible people of this en- lightened age are so particular about the breed of their horses, cattle, sheep and swine; and are so indifisrent about the breed of their own offspring. If they wish to raise a colt they know what breed they want, whether a heavy draft horse, alight weight roads‘er, or a medium betw.’en the two. They are very particular that the animals chosen from which to raise the colts shall not be ring- boned or spavined, or have any other serious blemish: because the colt will be sure to inherit a weakness in that same place. But these same persons will choose weak, diseased individuals for the other parent for their own children, and also allow their sons and daughters to marry into families whose members have cancers, pulmonary consumption, heart disease, granulated sore eyes, or insanity; or where there are weak- minded members through inheritance, not by sickness; and will marry persons af- flicted with goitre. Is it any wonder one can scarcely find a perfectly healthy man, woman or child? Is it any wonder that such a vast army of doctors live, thrive and often get wealthy at the expense of the masses, beside the colossal fortunes made by the thousands who are constantly employed concocting, bottling and shipping to all parts of the country, to every city, town and hamlet, their wonderful “cure-ails,” which are guaranteed to cure every ill that flesh is heir to? How much more is a thoroughbred animal worth than a native? Every one knows the value is several times greater. All our most practical people are breeding toward the best, to make their animals more per- fect physically, and I think it is conceded that the best bred are the most intelligent. Newis it not high time that intelligent people began to think about improving the breed of their own families, the physical as well as the mental? One has only to look around him with discerning eyes to see the need of improvement. How many—I’ll not say perfect forms. but good forms are to be seen in a crowd of a thousand persons? There is no animal, however native, that can show such a percentage of deformity or ill-formity as we see all about us in mankind. And are not minds also equally ill-balanced? What causes so much insanity, murder, robbery, intemperance, or any of the im moralities which fill our prisons, reforma- tories and asylums? Isn’t it because of humanity’s ill-balanced minds? This is not a new idea, though but little considered in the present age. It was one the theories of Plato, one of the ancient Greek philosoghers, who taught that mar- riages should be regulated by the State, be- tween persons of such characteristics as, blended, would be best for the succeeding generation. Though I do not endorse» Plato's method, Ithink there might be a great improvement upon the methods of today, where if a man has wealth, no- matter about his age or the number of his blemishes or infirmities, he can find plenty of young, pretty, healthy ladies who will take him for better or for worse, to love and cherish, and all the rest of it. We (103. great deal of bragging of our “American indepeudancef’ if we are not the slaves of a king, we are slaves of a :nsaner thing—money. POLLY. —.~———— MANNERLY BOYS. I think Nettie must be laboring under a. delusion. I did not say anything in my letter to indicate that farmer boys are not gentlemen. On the contrary, some of the most polite gentlemen of my acquaintance are farmers, but they are rare. And some of the worst rowdies I know of are farmers’ boys, and they are not rare, at least in this neighborhood. Let me tell of a boy of thirteen or fourteen years (i. farmer’s son too) who is a gentleman. lie always seats his mother and sisters in church, and helps- them or any other lady he chances to see and be near out of the carriage, and many- other little acts of courtesy, yet he is not considered a “ dude” or is he liked less for ' being polite. I also have a cousin who was brought up on the farm but whose mother was a city girl, and he is one of the most polished gentlemen Ilknow. Such instances are not common. It is generally conceded that city boys are more polite than country boys. I cannot see any reason why they should be. It does not take long to be courteous,jso they need not complain of the timejspent, and after they have practised being polite awhile it be- comes natural and easy :for them and they are liked and respected a great deal more by my lady acquaintances andIthink by nearly every one. I do not think Nettie would have a very high opinion of the boy behind the counter if he'was not polite and ready to show the goods he is hired to sell: andl think he would not stay there long, because the em— ployer would not want a silent, moody, ungentiemanly clerk :who keeps away cus- tomers. I am not an admirer’of “dudes.” I de- test them as heartly as Nettie does, but I am an admirer of true, polite, gantlemanly, courteous boys and men. JESSIE. —_—...__. THE last addition to the HOUSEHOLD- Album is a fine picture of “Mercy,” of Metamira, now a resident of this city, for which she will please accept sincere thanks. We wish others of our contributors would remember us in a similar fashion. mm. a... 6‘ THE HOUSEHOLD. 3: A PHOTOGRAPH CASE. I am not a housekeeper as yet, although I think I enjoy reading the HOUSEHOLD as well as any of the housekeepers do (13 we have had it in our family for some time). The fancy-work department interests me most, as Iam'a lover of fancy-work, and I think it is just as nice in our country homes as in any. A pretty photograph case or cibinet holder is made of one-fourth of a yard of plush, the same of satin, (which can be got for fifty cents per yard that is nice for fancy work), three-fourths yard of ribbon and one and one-half yards of tinsel rope cord (out if not easily gotten is pretty without) Get plush and satin of corresponding colors. as red plush and old gold SMi'l, old gold push and blue or red Satin, blue plush and pink or cream satin. Double tissue paper, basis it on the back of satin, and stitch on the machine with silk the color of the plush in Squares or diam )lldS. Put the right sides of the plush and satin together and sew both sides and one end, turn and blind stitch the other end. PM this end two-thirds of the way up over the satin, and sew the sides, satin for the lining forming a pocket, which is long enough for either cabinet pictures or panels. S w the cord all around. Let-the other end fall over the front. Turn back one corner and fasten with the bow of ribbon. If one wishes to hang up, sew rib- bons on each end and tie at the top. I like Mill Minuie’s patterns very much; hope she will send some more. LAINGSBURG. FLOSSE. ___...._—— INSESTS ON HOUSE PLANTS. A sure indication of the presence of red spider among plants is the webs attached to the under side of thelesves, often so fine as to not be noticed at first. But take a pencil, pass it in and out among the leaves and branches, after placing the plant in strong light, and they are quickly detected, while the destructive spinner is not visible with- out the aid of a glass; with one the sight is surprising and immense numbers usually seen on failing. faded plants. Every leaf in this condition should be burned, and also every "nearly killed” plant, every pot scrubbed, and the shelf and easing near, for this is the only way to destroy them. Milder treatment only retards their work until the atmosphere is again in a dry and favorable state for their purpose. Their presence indicates an atmosphere too dry for the health of humanity, and only per- sistent and vigorous treatment will answer in dealing with this most destructive and tough little foe. Florists use a trifle of sulphur in fumiga- tion, but it is unsafe for the inexperienced ones as it will destroy foliage and plants as well. I use wood soot principally for roses, in- doors and out, as it acts as an unequalled fertilizer. As to using the condensed smoke, or soot of hard cos], I rather doubt its efli :iency as the fumes are certainly un- healthful, but if others have tried it success- fully let us hear of it, please. When house plants are potted in clean pots in autumn in suitable sell and given air and water'- the water in the air more especially—there will be no call for stimulants as long as they keep in thrifty, growing condition. It is not well to anticipate failure until it threatens, and usually a removal of a part of the soil or a spraying or two will set them right. . Many plant growers are too lavish in watering the roots and neglect the foliage. When this is the case the soil becomes sour and white worms breed in the pots and prey upon the roots, especially of the suc- culent kinds, and soon enfeeble and finally destroy the plants. When the gr en fly or thrips is trouble- some fumigating with tobaccr as prescribed hyBe-a‘rix is available unless the remedy is too disagreeable to use. Tobacco 1:. obnox- ious to some persons. I wish i: might be to all. Then pyrethrum powder used as for files. or tobacco stems or black snuff azeeped will do as well to spray with until entirely free. A few healthy plants with fresh clean foliage are far more satisfactory to the grower than acrowded collection piled to- gether without room or air according to their needs, or the attention requisite for health; and this condition favors the attacks ofinsect enemies. Plenty of room is one of the essentials in plant growing. I will repeat my request to correspondents to name the county (G inesee) in my ad- dress, as my letters otherwise are apt to be delayed by going to Trenton. FENTON. MRS. .‘.I. A FULLER. -—r-—-—.O.———— LONESOME. I have always “stood up” for Northern Michigan, and have praised pioneer life in a new country about all it would stand. If I had the ulterior idea of beguiling somebody into purchasing our farm, so that we could go back to civilizrtion and a city, 1 viii never tell. But many of our HOUSEHOLD are not appreciating the blessings they have, and need to see the contrast; I wondered a little at Brunefille on “ Talkative Women ” a few months ago. 1 only wish that talka- tive woman would visit me. And how can Jannette by at. loss for something to talk about? I have nine years of reserved con- versation on hand and nobody to besto av it on. 1 did out-talk an insurance man the other day, and I made a young book agent so welcome he was frightened out. But web at I want is to have my dearest frienrkwho lives five miles away, live next door to me on a city lot, with a hole in the back fence. L‘fe would then take on a brighter color to us both. Not but that I have neighbors, but the farms are all large and it makes the houses far apart. The first settlers seemed to think that a section was about the amount of land one man could clear and work to advantage. E. L. Nye, don’t complain of the noise of the city. If I could only have again the scent of the mingled coal smoke and gas of a city, thoug'i perhaps the electric light has displaced gas by this time! I never saw an electric light. I will let that sentence culimate my faultfinding with the circum- stances wherein Providence has placed me, and I am just a little ashamed of it when I know I have a pleasant, comfortable home, and many of the dearest blessings of life. But my spirits depend on the weather, audf= the sun has not shone for many melancholy days, and nobody has “ been visitin’” here. Let me recommend to Ortis the new patent button that is highly popular in the; lumber camps. It is like a stout safety- pin with a button soldered on it. You just - pin it on and there you are, with no sign! over your “outraged helplessness.” Why should mm be so helpless? How' little there is that an old man past active life can do! When his eyes fail to.) much to read, tobacco is the only resource left hisn, while his wife cm still fill up the busy hours with sewing. knitting and mending. Work, something to do, is the best possible prevention of morbid, dismal condition, like “lousssmeness,” for instance. I am . going to make a rag carpet. Proxnnu. III‘LDAII PERKIXS. ___..._____ EVENING ENTERTAINMEN I‘S. Ashort time ago I read in the HOUSE‘ IIOLI) Bluebelle’s letterreiuestiug some one to suggest an interesting eutertaiummt for these long winter evenings. We live in the country, and as thingi were quite dull a feW' of the neighbors have combined together and hold what we Call our W. L L. E; (White Like Literary E itertainmcnt). It is not exactly a literary enter‘ainment, but yet it is half in a name. The interested ones meet once a week at the different houses and each comes prepared with apart: to perform of. some kind. S the one favors us with a song, while another prefers an in- strumental piece, a third a select reading. and a fourth a recitation, etc. I do not see any harm that can come from these pastimes, but- believe them to be a benefit to the people and the community. All take part incur work, the older ones as . well as the young. I Wish Biuebelle sue: 33 in wh i-‘ever Sbe’ uniertakes, and if she should try my sug-r gestion will she please let us know how she succeeds. NETTIE. Whirl: LAKE ~M‘.——. A PRETTY FANCY BAG. Make a bag of yellow satin eleven inches“- long and eight inches wide. Gather it two inches from the top, and run drawstrings of narrow yellow ribbon through the gathers. . S:t up on wooden or rubber knitting needles as many stitches as will reach across the width of the bag (twenty or twenty-two) using “ kismet” which you can buy for ten" cents a ball. Knit in plain stitch until you have a piece large enough to cover seven inches on each side of the y allow silk bag. This should take just two balls of kismet, but as your knitting may be tighter or per- haps looser, i: is better to give the length in inches. Bind off your stitches; fold the piece together and sew up the sides. Put the bag inside and sew them both together. The kismet part is like open work, and the yellow silk shows through. But you need. not use yellow silk; any color that looks well with the kismet will answer, and as- nat comes in a great many varieties you.» have quite a choice. This would be nice for- little fingers that are busy at Christmas gifts for their loved ones. Fonss’r Lanes. MILL MINNIE... ’ “may < 4,. , .r<.4 aw; ‘i‘. a? smothers: nil-1.1:“ r. -. u a ,. .-~ w 4; THE! HOUSEHOLD. A PAINTING LESSON. For the benefit of E. C., of Port Huron, who wishes that some one would write about: presents which those who do not paint can ”make, I will give my list of paints and :some :gord rules to follow so I think she 'will-ha-ve little trouble in teaching herself to arse them. For all kinds of decorative work grey greens are the best. U~e bone thrown and Schonfeldt’s zirc yellow; for lighter parts add more zinc yellow and white. For dark green use burnt sienna and permanent blue. The light zinnobar green, of which there are two shades, can housed without mixing with other colors for difie rent‘shades. For purple flo sets, as pansies, use permanent blue and rose mad- ader; add white for pale lavender, and bone thrown for the shadows. For wild roses use more madder, china white and a trifle of mine yellow; for shadows use raw umber. lFor white flowers use white, a trifle zinc yel— iowiand bone brown; for the shadows use thone brown. A good background for flow- are is made by using bone brown, white, yellow ochre, a tr he of permanent blue. My list of colors includes china white, Windsor and Minton’s yellow ochre, per- manent blue, burnt sienna, raw sienna, raw umber, bone brown, crimson lake and vermiliion, rose madder, and Schonfeldt’s zinc yellow, which is much less expensive than lemon yellow and eiractly the same shade. All of the above mentioned paints are eight cents, with the exception of rose cmadder and vermillion, which are both twenty-five cents. One sable brush No. 8, and bristle brush one-fourth inch wide will {be all that is required to begin with. Use a little unboilid linseed oil to thin the paint it necessary. 9. F. 0. Arm Anson. __.._....___ WISCONSIN D AIRYING. "1 wonder if any one has missed Bess! Probably not, but I have missed the HOUSE- HOLD not having seen its familiar face for three weeks. Am writing this warm rainy day from the fine dairying state of Wiscon- sin, and as I am now staying at a da1ry farm I will tell the HOUSEHOLD readers something about butter-making' 1n Jr fierson v‘Count-y. .lFirst, on this farm is kept a herd of “ thirty cows, grade Holsteins and J :rseys. "The butter-making is managed by the pro- prietor. in a room built for the purpose. The cream is raised by the Cooley system of setting in cans. The churning is done by horse power in a barrel churn; the butter is thoroughly wasned in cold water after the buttermilk is drawn oil, then left in the water a short time, the water drawn ofi', then salted in the churn, one and a fourth ounces to the pound, gently turned a few times, then placed on the worker and .pressed and turned until sure the salt pene- trates every part. The butter is then packed in small wooden pails, lined with perch-3 vmeut paper, that hold eight pounds. After being filled more than full the surplus 1s re- moved ty drawing a small cord across the top, then a piece of paper cov. rs the top, the cover is placed on and it is ready for the Chicago market, 'where it brings at present 28 cents per pound. An accurate account is kept of the number of pounds of milkdaily, also the number of pounds of butter made and sold, receipts, etc. The average price for the year is 24 cents. Here is where they use the. silo, well filled with ensilage, out fine so they carry it tothe cows in a basket, which is a new thing to me. The water for the stock is warmed by a heater placed in the tank, so that the cows are never chilled by drinking ice cold water. A regular system is carried on both in feeding and milking: the milking is done at a set time, and in regular rota- tion; one dairyman insists the milker, if he sings while m‘lking, shall always sing the same tune to the same cow, and not sing Old Hundred to the Yankee Doodle cow. I omitted to say that it is evident the farmers in this State do not believe that milk and butter spring from the horns, as it. is quite the style to have the cows de- horned. There are men who are experts at the business, and who travel around from place to place dehorning for ten cents per head. They claim the cattle are much more quiet and docile when deprived of their weapons of war, flocking together like a drove of sheep. Bass. “.99...-" CHAT. PERI-[ADS ii the lady whose ch1ld is troubled with sleeplessness were to take him outin the fresh air for about fifteen minutes before his usual time for taking a nap, it might help him; at least that is the way I do with my baby, and it usually acts like a charm. IVY GIBBS. BIG BEAVER. HERE is a bit of economy I hit upon the other day. My little boy had adark blue, double, knit cap, just a plain round one without a front piece. After the first winter’s wear it looked faded so I turned it inside out. He wore it one winter in that way. This winter I ripped the crown, in the place where it was sewed together, and turned the whole thing wrong side out, sewed it up again, made a new ball for the top out of yarn to match, and you would not know it was not a new cap. FLINT. ELLA R. WOOD. I T00 am a reader of the HOU$EHOLD, and wish to join with Nettie in defending the boys. We have farmer boys elf here, and some of them lift their hats to ladies. I am a farmer’s daughter, and proud of the name. 1don’t wish to say that our boys can put on as much style as city boys with their derby hats and gold headed canes, but when we stop and think of the old saying “A‘l is not gold that glitters;” we think our boys with their appletree sauce and the cap-52 that mother made are just as good as the city dudes. My little brother wants to know how a fellow is going to stop in cold weather, untie his ear-larpe‘s and lift his old cap to a lady. Some ladies would not speak to a little boy. but I believe it is right to speak to the young as well as the old. I hope Bea trix will not form a poor opinion of me, for 1 know 1 have been benefitted by some of her advice, and would sooner give ten cents to see her than to go into any side show. N. E. B. KENDALL. HOUSEHOLD HINTS. ' Pnasrnn of Paris will stop a leak of 31-1 most any kind. It will mend tin-ware—so will putty-ebroken lamps, holes in plaster, and comes handy in many ways. No matter how large the spot of oil, any carpet or woolen stufi can be cleaned by ap- plying buckwheat fl )ur plentifully, and care- fully brushing it into a dustpan alter a short time, and putting on fresh until the oil has all disappeared. THE Battle Creek Sanitarium recently graduated five members. Baking powder and soda are never used at the Sanitarium, and the delicate shortcakes, layer cakes, etc, exhibited as samples of the skill of the graduates, were raised by yeast. THE Nun of Kenmare, who lectured in this city recently, says: “I believe if. workingmen were properly fed at home they would not go to saioons and drink. It more money were spent in teaching girls how to make good homes there would be less liquor drinking.” There is a very great deal of. truth in this statement. It comes near being the temperance question in a nutshell. LAMP wicks can be made of canton flau- nel. When cutting out garments save all the strips that have a selvcdge for that pur- pose. A strip that is wide enough to fit the burner when doubled into two or three thicknesses, with the raw edge inside, is just right; then sew up the ether edges over and over, flannel side in, with the nap down. Biste and try them before sewing, and if too large trim elf a paring. 11‘ is better to butter the cake-tin and then dredge it thickiy with flour, than to line the pan with paper. Fine granulated sugar is better for cake-making than pul- verized sugar, which is too largely adulterat- ed with corn and potato starch. Make a note of one item: Poor butter will not make good cake. The best cakemakers say they get more uniform results with cream of tartar and baking-powder than with baking- powder. ' ABOUT VINEGAB.-—A correspondent of the Country Gentleman, who seems to have studied the peculiarities of cider vine- gar, which by the way, is the only kind fit to use, says if we add nothing to cider vinegar and take nothing from it, it will die. Fresh cider will spoil vinegar it much is put in at a time. Draw a pailful of cider, let it stand in the air twenty-four hours, or until it becomes dead, then add it to the vinegar. When the vinegar “dies” the “mother” becomes worthless also. This correspondent says, “I took the dead ‘mother,’ washed it clean, dipped it in molasses, put it back in the cask with a gallon of good vinegar, filled it up a little at ‘ a time with good cider, deadened, and in a short time we had good vinegar. Do not put the ‘mother’ into a large quantity of cider at once. Cider that has lost its life and is dull, flat and tasteless, will not make vinegar unless new cider or molasses is' mixed with 1t.” avatarflf‘iih. ,. . ., ». W .