,1 , I / 6 731/. 7 W x», , , Xe, \ {a ' 4 DE'I'ROI'I‘, SEPTEMBER 28, 1886. THE HOUSEHOLD-"Supplement. FINDING FA UL T. In speaking of a person's faults, Pray don‘ t forget your own; Remember those with homes of glass Should seldom throw a stone. If we have nothing else to do Than talk of those who sin. ’Tis better we commence at home And from that point begin. We have no right to judge a man Until he's fairly tried; Should we not like his company, We know the world is wide. Some may have faults, and who has not? The old as well as young; Perhaps we may, for all we know, Have fifty to their one. I‘ll tell you of a better plan, And find it works full well. To find ‘your own defects to cure, Ere others‘ faults you tell; And though I sometimes hope to be No worse than some I know, My own shortcomings bid me let The faults of others go. Now let us all, when we begin To slander friend or foe, Think of the harm one word may do To those we little know: Remember curses. chicken-like, Sometimes to roost come home; Don‘t speak of others‘ faults until You have none of your own. -——¢OO-——— PLEASURE EXERTIONS. The long. warm, sunny days of summer are again past and with them the “excur- sion days” have fled. It has been my good fortune to pass a goodly number of the sultry days on the water, and I have found pleasure and profit in this enjoyment. The cool breeze brought invigorating solace to mind and body; the relaxation from the daily round of household cares and duties, brought rest and refreshment to the wearied nerves, brain and muscles. I ever find in- tense enjoyment in watching the individual in the multitude; so much of character is shown in the unconscious act, the unguarded word, and artless expression of emotion, :as the party bent on enjoyment is met by untoward or pleasurable experiences. There is a party who have schemed and long time to bring about this cherished plan. He has consented, grudgingly, at last, and feels rather morose yet. How deferential all are to his majesty, how they watch his countenance and hasten to fulfill or anticipate his wishes. Each one is eager to help him, be it to an easy chair, the best place, or press upon him the best pickings of the lunch basket. How grimly ' he accepts all the little services, and with whata grand air of condescension he un- bends at last and permits himself to be amused, but to all it is a “pleasure exer- tion.” Here a mother, anxious to give her little flock a holiday, sits in the midst of the happy, boisterous crew, trying to answer the questions of all at once, warn- ing, directing, restraining, reproving, as seems necessary to the several sexes and sizes; clutching the excited baby, diving after the reckless two-year-old, calling back the older ones, ah, me, I fear she will find it a “pleasure exertion.” That old couple would have had a pleasant time if they had been content to have taken an hour or two on the river, but others were going, they must go too. They rose much earlier than their wont, hurried beyond their strength to get ready to reach the boat or cars, the jaunt is , long and wearisome, and long before they reach home they find they have been delud— ed into taking a “ pleasure exertion.” The somewhere, so took this occasion to have a good time. They started off happily enough, but a crowd is a bad place for “ spoons." They were for a time oblivious meaning nod and smile that followed their movements, and the young lady drew her- self up in a very dignified manner, the young man looked very conscious and actually commenced to whistle in his em- barrassment. then collapsed utterly, beat a hasty retreat, but soon returned with some candy, and they moved off to another place, and were prudence and propriety ever after: but surely it was for them only a “pleasru'e exertion.” The good pastor of a church and sabbath school. seconded by his helpers, with their minds filled with glowing desire to give pleasure to their charges, initiate the movement for an excrn‘sion; and with a vast amount of suggesting, planning and urging. finally find fruition. A day is set; they work early and late, selling tickets, talking up the prOSpects, dilating on the advantages, urging the necessities, providing for contingences and obtaining ‘the necessary accompaniments. The day coaxed, perhaps flattered the father a* arrives, and they work like beavers, super- vising, looking after details, providing re- freshments. suggesting amusements, and if it be ever so successful an affair, they must find it a “pleasure exertion.” , and weight of this appendage must think them immense. “We are going on an ex— cursion” says one, “now what shall we young fellow and his best girl must go‘ to all surroundings, but they awoke to the ' The feature of all these excursions is the i lunch basket. Any one who would measure ‘ the appetites of the excursionists by the size ‘ take for lunch?” The outcome generally is wonderful. Sandwiches, pie, cake, several kinds of pickles, cheese, fruit, jellies, drinks galore, dishes, napkins and table cloth are packed, pressed and crushed into baskets, boxes and bundles; wraps, um- brellas, and fans are added, often books and papers, until the weight to be carried is so formidable that the unlucky masculine who must perforce manage them utters imprecations deep if not loud, on “the absurdity of carrying provisions enough for a garrison for a day’s picnic.” Although the ride develops appetite, it is not always appetizing morsels that are rescued from the crush, and the baskets are often so overloaded at best. that even after lunch, they are not perceptibly lighter. Then the growl comes in again, about the abominable foolishness of women tiring themselves to death baking enough for threshers to carry to a picnic, to bring home again or throw away. If it falls to the lot of feminines to carry the baskets, they generally make the best of it, and bear their martyrdom with out- ward resignation, but inwardly protest that “next time they won‘t be such fools, no matter what Mrs. Grundy says.” Miss Toady may break her back carrying a whole provision store if she likes. they will con- tent themselves with a box they can throw away when lunch is eaten: but, alas for feminine nature. next time the old venture is repeated, and they again enjoy a “ pleasure exertion.’ ’ There seems to be a mania on this sub- ject. Any one who will notice the enor- mous baskets carried by small parties, and witness the annoyance and anxiety con- sequent on guarding them, must come to the conclusion that “it is too many oats for the shilling,” and adds very much to the penalties of a “pleasure exertion.” Many have fathomed the deep sea of enjoyment, dress for the occasion (too fine clothes often cause the “exertion,”) take only sufficient and plain lunch. don burden themselves with the cares of life, remember that other people have rights, that they must be seen of others, and with good will and courteous demeanor, with a desire to please and a determination to be pleased, they exact a good time even from untoward circumstances and rarely find a “pleasure exertion." INuLEsmE. A. L. L. FRESH cider can be kept by the following method: Boil the cider fifteen minutes and skim off whatever comes to the top. Bottle and cork while hot. It is not necessary to sea1_it,_and itwill keep as long as wanted. .~;~¢:—~.—:L~.